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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ItzChinnex(m): 8:14am On Jul 08, 2018

Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

Lmao. .

I remember one boy like that, he used both his school fee and Hostel rent in playing 9ja bet and boom!!! 120k is gone. He started walking around my area, begging random people to stay with at least for a day. He told his parents that he was robbed and of course, he parent knowing him to well never believed him.

He started squatting with a friend of mine and later, he was asked to come home by his parent because they couldn't afford to send another money. That was how he lose his admission he spent 3 year in finding .

I remember walking my friend to a Bet9ja shop, and I was tempted to play. After they ate my 300naira, and i remembered what happened to that boy, bros, I used the speed of light to evacuate that shop.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by CowbellY: 8:16am On Jul 08, 2018

Hardlife:
i deserve all the insults on earth i know but i want to quit. I need help. I need recovery processes. I am tired and frustrated. The deed has already been done. I want to get my life back.

My Brother, I am no stranger to all you've posted above.

Please send me a PM. I'm glad you've told your parents and they accepted you back.

Have a good Sunday. Would look forward to hearing from you.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 08, 2018

Mans life ehn, dealing with addictions.
If no be kush
Na alcohol
Or refnol,
Or codeine,
Nicotine sef
Some na just Gambling!
Soapy nko? Everyone isssa Saint
Some na pussy... Nd dick na Dis one kill pass..
Some na just ashi... Dem don forget how to toast woman.
Some na crack.... ** DAT one na killer***
Some are even addicted to being good ... Dey get bleeped up everyday.

Some even have all.. In their hands...

Welcome to Life and Struggles

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by aragonchuks(m): 8:19am On Jul 08, 2018

My bet9ja dog race experience was even worse , i started gambling with virtual bet i won the first day then I continued betting even more until I switched to dog race ...everything was cool until i won the jackpot then my life and school life changed , I started having depression, suicidal thoughts..my family stayed away from me .. i sold my roomates properties and even took some out on loan ...
Bet9ja is demonic and you need to stop it ... the truth is that those agents you are betting at their shops are happy to see you loose all your money .. My guy even if you win #2mil today you will still go back tomorrow to win more , stay away from them and you will realise that all tgoae money you think you need that you can still recoup them by working or doing something else to make money ..
Just take that decision right now to quit it and maybe try going a day without playing it then one week and perhaps a month until it is a thing of the past ...
If i wuitted yes you can also and moreover pray more and do the hardwork eveeything will change with time ...

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by YhungPablo(m): 8:19am On Jul 08, 2018

[color=#000000] [YOU'RE STILL A LEARNER! QUOTE ME IF YOU WANT TO HEAR MY STORY /color]

Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by twosquare(m): 8:21am On Jul 08, 2018

Read 1 Timothy 6 :9-10. Perhaps you will learn.

Hardlife:
Please try and read to the end.
I am a young guy early twenties. I
have been playing virtual since 2014.
I was never this useless and
unpurposeful.
My life changed when i entered university.
It all started in 2014 when i walked
into a nairabet close to my school and
saw people playing virtual. I decided
to play, as i remember i won that
period. I never knew the day i started was the
day i gave the devil the key to my life. In 2014, i spent my school fees on
virtual, lost everything. Sold my
phones, my feeding money and
everything. All went to virtual. So i was not able to continue my
education, though i remained in
school not letting my parents know till
this year. Dear reader, from 2014 to date have
been the worst years of my life. I stole
to play virtual, sold my properties, my
clothes, shoes. I became an addict. Even not being a
formal student, i still collected money from my parents, school fees
and allowance. Everything ends up in
virtual house. I could not even buy good clothes.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by KingOfAmebo(m): 8:21am On Jul 08, 2018

Hardlife:
Please try and read to the end.
I am a young guy early twenties. I
have been playing virtual since 2014.
I was never this useless and
unpurposeful.
My life changed when i entered university.
It all started in 2014 when i walked
into a nairabet close to my school and
saw people playing virtual. I decided
to play, as i remember i won that
period. I never knew the day i started was the
day i gave the devil the key to my life. In 2014, i spent my school fees on
virtual, lost everything. Sold my
phones, my feeding money and
everything. All went to virtual. So i was not able to continue my
education, though i remained in
school not letting my parents know till
this year. Dear reader, from 2014 to date have
been the worst years of my life. I stole
to play virtual, sold my properties, my
clothes, shoes. I became an addict. Even not being a
formal student, i still collected money from my parents, school fees
and allowance. Everything ends up in
virtual house. I could not even buy good clothes.

The title of your post says bet9ja but your story says nairabet...two different betting companies, at least be specific on which one got you into trouble. Stop confusing the confusion.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by stagger: 8:21am On Jul 08, 2018

Anyone without an income has no business betting. Betting itself requires skill and research.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Ategberoson(m): 8:22am On Jul 08, 2018

put all these your stories into writing perhaps you will sensitize others young dudes that had lost their caution to the bet

and you coming here to ask how you can recover your lost properties, when did nairaland turn to rehabilitation center. for you to realized you're addicted shows you're free from the addiction

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by webmoney1: 8:22am On Jul 08, 2018

Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

You are a cowar.d

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Bellgal: 8:23am On Jul 08, 2018

dingbang:
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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by sammirano: 8:23am On Jul 08, 2018

This guy dey crase oo, from virtual to mastubation. ! Sho fe pa ara e ni.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 08, 2018

I can relate but you can stop it.

Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by holuphisayor(m): 8:23am On Jul 08, 2018

what help do you need?

since you still have money to bet. you ain't ruined yet grin

come back when you are ruined. grin

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by tobinazzy: 8:23am On Jul 08, 2018

gamble responsibly ,they wont hear

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by b0rn2fuck(m): 8:24am On Jul 08, 2018

I try to control my self, it's waves my own life

Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:25am On Jul 08, 2018

Hardlife:
please were you addicted to virtual before. How did you overcome it. I cant stay a minute without thinking about my life and money i have lost. Right now, my heartbeat is above normal. I am so frustrated. Please help me.

Things will get better, this is just a phase.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kullozone(m): 8:25am On Jul 08, 2018

I don't know why I find this very funny grin

A few months in rehab would be okay or just pay one agbero to follow you around whenever you're going out, so he can beat you near death anytime you try walking into a bet9ja shop.

Your story made me laugh hard

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by TeeFriz: 8:25am On Jul 08, 2018

Tolax17:
It's alarming how many young men are wasting their dear life, resources and time on gambling. You want to earn what you didn't work for. You're a fraud.
Thousands of young men play bets, how many have become millionaires- red flag
I can never pity someone like you. What you planted, you're ripping!

You need rehab

He said you should help him not condemn him. He is remorseful already, you don't need to say all this

Advice him or shut up. You also have an addiction either good or bad!

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by jksxxxx: 8:25am On Jul 08, 2018

Dear I was like you virtual is worse than MMM when I tell people they would feel it's a lie ..see the only way you can get rid of the habit is this
1. Learn not to hold cash at hand .
2.Get your self occupied ..because you tend to visit the betshop when you have thing doing
3. tell yourself that you are a changed man and by being change you need to know that the winnings are not for you .so ignore those that are winning because the gambling system on a long wrong you loss 80 percent of what you won
4. It take 31 days for something to become and habit .so take your alarm and calender and write a reminder every 7am and 7pm reminding you on your promise to stop betting .
5. It is not too late to tell your parents because with Thier prayers you can over come ..me I lost over 900k to virtual from 2017 to 2018 now for 4 months I can say I have not visited or login Thier system .
6. Make sure you destroy your ATM card and never leave money more than 1k in your hand ..with the above include prayers and God would see u through

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by omojesu202(m): 8:25am On Jul 08, 2018

remember when they told us in Sunday school class that gambling is bad. they were talking from experience actually.
tell, I can't make it from gambling.
it's that easy, ...
think about those people wearing bathroom sleepers to go n play pool, sure draw every weekend. most of them you will know them for 5 Years but the story is the same. some more than that.
forex ooo, betting.... You cannot be rich there. I myself have lost over 300k to betting this year alone but I still send money to my parents, n lot of people.
don't use money you cannot afford to loose

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:26am On Jul 08, 2018

Wow

Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by sonsomegrigbo: 8:26am On Jul 08, 2018

Igbo people and gambling...

Shiorrrrrr Tufiakwa

Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Skmoda360(m): 8:26am On Jul 08, 2018

Op you be bolo.....mumu ni eh..too much of everything is a disease....I used to play it and I quit when its time for me to quit so its like you are so into it that devil use you as a tool to destroy yourself and besides you are still standing and not dead so go back and finish what you started. shocked

Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by great664(m): 8:26am On Jul 08, 2018

Idleness and Addiction are the key.

The fastest way to stop is to get Addicted to something else.

The story may no be true because you can't be addicted to gambling and still have time chasing Ladies....

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:27am On Jul 08, 2018

insect eyes grin

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Larryslim(m): 8:27am On Jul 08, 2018

I don't know what people gain from gambling!..
Yoruba says"Eni to ba wo soso,lo ma ri soso"
That's what you're looking for and that's what you've seen!..

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adegeye38(m): 8:27am On Jul 08, 2018

Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

Firstly, realise that Virtual is simply computer programming, you can never ever really win, it was programmed, dat way, pple just play to lose money, i was involved in Virtual once, but virtual nd normal bettings, lost close to 700,000

How did i get out?

God, he simply got me out, i had a purpose, am a producer, and i needed quick money to fund a project and live large too, but God now made me realise my folly of not trusting him enough to give me what i want, and chasing shadows, gambling is devilish, its a spirit and it torments

But thank God, am free now, God singlehandedly Got me out of it and i was delivered

But i also made a self conscious decision to stop and give my life and everything i am to God and its been wonderful since den

Give your life to christ, pray to find a purpose and slef consciously decide to stop, i was also addicted to masturbation and porn too, its seems dey all worked together, anytime i masturbate, the urge to gamble, comes and anytime i gamble i lose, i masturbate to porn the whole 3 was all working hand in hand not only to ruin my life, but to put my soul on d path of hell!!

It took a big intervention from God, to set me free, God loves me so much and he also loves you too, I am a living testimony of his existence, if not for God it would have been practically impossible to break an addiction that have plagued me for 6 years just like that

God has indeed been faithfull, my brother God is ,100% real, repent from your life of sin and sincerely give your life to him and ask for his help, he will definitely help you

You urself must make this decision, it a mutual decison of God working hand in hand with you to help you out, also find a bible believing church to regularly attend, i would suggest winners chapel, its a wonderful place to be.

God bless you

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by david3510: 8:27am On Jul 08, 2018

Xtine22:

bro, don't give up! continue playing as you may chop 50m one day to recover ur losses.... always play sure game

u are wicked,somebody need good advise u are advicing him to continue.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by toye440: 8:28am On Jul 08, 2018

Gambling is just like masturbation it takes determination to stop. Truth is u r not d type that stands firm on ur words like saying i will and it stays. Bros if u r still in ur 20s e go hard because u get influenced easily by friends but u need to check d company u keep, make sure u join a group to keep ur mind far away from gambling.

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