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Goddyss:
You are an Id1ot.

Goddyss:
At least I'm legally employed. You slut yourself to touts and sell your smelly p*say for a living. Your moniker says it all

Goddyss:
I'm a young man in his twenties, a lawyer and Master degree holder kick starting his career.

You b1tch ain't loyal. Even your hubby put it directly to you that you ain't loyal. Not all men are hoodwinked to that hole between your legs.

Fck you..I give no shit abt the vag. It adds nothing to my future

milemimi93:
those of my friends that went to Malaysia to work have all built their houses, got other businesses running for them. Two of them have gotten married.


Sh!t happens and since I am the sh!t am who it happend to..

CAPSLOCKED:

"LOVE.. SOME OF US ARE JUST IN IT, EXPECTING THE WORST, HOPING FOR THE BEST."


LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING MATE.
IGNORE ALL THESE PEOPLE GIVING YOU IRRELEVANT ADVICE AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART ONCE MORE.
"EVERY WOMAN IS NOT THE SAME", THEY SAY. "YOU CAN'T HATE ALL WOMEN JUST BECAUSE OF A FEW BAD ONES. YOU SHOULD GIVE IT ANOTHER CHANCE", THEY SAY.
BUT I TELL YOU WHAT BRO, NOBODY KNOWS WHAT YOU'VE FELT MAN. NOBODY HERE WENT TO JAIL WITH YOU. NOBODY HERE LOST THEIR DAD BECAUSE OF THE ACT OF A WITCH BUT YOU. NOBODY HAS BEEN PUNISHED LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO LOVE AND BE LOVED BACK. SO HOW CAN THEY KNOW WHAT YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH OR WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH?
"GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY BECAUSE ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME " IS THE REASON YOU KEPT TRYING UNTIL YOU LOST YOUR FIRST CHANCE TO MAKE IT ABROAD WITH YOUR GUYS. IT'S THE REASON YOU LOST YOUR DAD. IT'S THE REASON YOU WENT TO JAIL. IT'S THE REASON YOU'VE DATED MORE THAN 250 WOMEN IN YOUR LIFETIME. IT'S THE REASON YOU'RE WORKING IN A BAR. IT'S THE REASON YOU'RE SUICIDAL. YOU MUST BE CRAZY IF YOU EVER FEEL YOU NEED TO GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY. IT DIDN'T GET BETTER AFTER YOUR FIRST HEARTBREAK AT 7. IT DIDN'T GET BETTER WITH THE GIRLS YOU WERE WITH BEFORE AND AFTER YOU LOST YOUR TRAVEL DOCUMENTS.. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK IT'LL GET BETTER NOW, OR TOMORROW?
YOU CAN GET THOSE PETS AND ADOPT AS MANY KIDS AS YOU WANT, JUST LIKE YOU SAY YOU WANT. SAVE UP THAT MONEY YOU EARNING, GET YOURSELF NICE THINGS. GET THE LATEST PLAYSTATION CONSOLE. WATCH SPORTS. LISTEN TO MUSIC AND WATCH MOVIES IF YOU WANT. SMOKE THE BEST WEED AND DRINK ALCOHOL LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW. YOU DON'T NEED A WOMAN TO BE HAPPY. YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE TO BE ACCOMPLISHED IN LIFE MAN, ALL YOU NEED IS YOURSELF, HEALTHY AND SANE AND SO FAR ALL YOU'VE GOTTEN IS THE WORST THINGS IN THE WORLD BECAUSE OF FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS. SO DON'T LET NOBODY WITH ZERO EXPERIENCE ABOUT ANYTHING ON THIS FORUM TELL YOU YOU'RE MAKING THE WRONG CHOICES IN YOUR OWN LIFE DESPITE ALL YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH. YOU DESERVE HAPPINESS AT LEAST, NO BLOODY SOUL SHOULD DEPRIVE YOU OF THAT.
YOU'VE SUFFERED TOO MUCH ALREADY. FEELING GUILTY FOR WHAT YOU DID MAKES NO SENSE BECAUSE SHE KIND OF DESERVED IT. I'LL ENCOURAGE YOU TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN AND AGAIN IF SHE'S EVER RESURRECTED.

LASTLY..
BASHING WOMEN EVERYWHERE YOU FIND THEM IS TRASHY. TO BE HONEST WITH YOU.
THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN EVER FIND PEACE AND JOY IS TO KILL THAT HATE YOU FEEL FOR THEM AND JUST FOCUS ON YOUR WAY. THE ONES THAT OFFENDED YOU ARE IN YOUR PAST. LEAVE THEM THERE.
DON'T KILL YOURSELF.
AFTER ALL YOU'VE FACED YOU OWE YOURSELF A WONDERFUL TIME, AND THE BEST OF YOU IS YET TO COME.

zynellsmum:
I almost in tears.im sorry for your dad.take heart bro..

milemimi93:
Thank u bro I really appreciate.

U said I should follow my heart?
Do u know what my heart says?
If I follow my hrt am afraid I might not see the end of this month.
I am feeling suicidal.
I just wish everything would just end. Am tired of life. Am mentally ill.

I've started drinking lately.
I don't smoke.

I just want to die that's the only way I can find peace.

The greatest mistake I made was to leave Nigeria.

If I was in Nigeria maybe I'd have gone out hang with friends.

But here who do I know?

Nobody just me and my God.

Am empty inside.

I wish to die.

Am told to start AM classes.

How do I even tell people here I am a murderer?

Man am confused am tired..

milemimi93:
Thank u bro I really appreciate.

U said I should follow my heart?
Do u know what my heart says?
If I follow my hrt am afraid I might not see the end of this month.
I am feeling suicidal.
I just wish everything would just end. Am tired of life. Am mentally ill.

I've started drinking lately.
I don't smoke.

I just want to die that's the only way I can find peace.

The greatest mistake I made was to leave Nigeria.

If I was in Nigeria maybe I'd have gone out hang with friends.

But here who do I know?

Nobody just me and my God.

Am empty inside.

I wish to die.

Am told to start AM classes.

How do I even tell people here I am a murderer?

Man am confused am tired..

BestDude:
you would break me if you commit suicide.

You would break my heart if you commit suicide.

I know what it feels like brother. I know just how you feel. I wish you were in Nigeria, people from here would have made attempts to find you and make you whole again.

But don't go near any woman... It appear you are not destined for such.

Please do not commit suicide, I beg you. You can be a source of inspiration to people if you turn your life around...

You are not handicapped, your hands and ears and eyes are working... Steve Hawking was condemned to wheel chair and the only thing that worked in his body was his eyes, every other part was dead due to an illness. He was proclaimed to have just a few years to live but he lived over 50 years more.

He didn't take his life.

Jigba:
Please don't kill yourself. You've been through a lot to end your life just like that.

Seek help wherever you are.

milemimi93:
Thank u bro I really appreciate.

U said I should follow my heart?
Do u know what my heart says?
If I follow my hrt am afraid I might not see the end of this month.
I am feeling suicidal.
I just wish everything would just end. Am tired of life. Am mentally ill.

I've started drinking lately.
I don't smoke.

I just want to die that's the only way I can find peace.

The greatest mistake I made was to leave Nigeria.

If I was in Nigeria maybe I'd have gone out hang with friends.

But here who do I know?

Nobody just me and my God.

Am empty inside.

I wish to die.

Am told to start AM classes.

How do I even tell people here I am a murderer?

Man am confused am tired..

milemimi93:
Thank u bro I really appreciate.

U said I should follow my heart?
Do u know what my heart says?
If I follow my hrt am afraid I might not see the end of this month.
I am feeling suicidal.
I just wish everything would just end. Am tired of life. Am mentally ill.

I've started drinking lately.
I don't smoke.

I just want to die that's the only way I can find peace.

The greatest mistake I made was to leave Nigeria.

If I was in Nigeria maybe I'd have gone out hang with friends.

But here who do I know?

Nobody just me and my God.

Am empty inside.

I wish to die.

Am told to start AM classes.

How do I even tell people here I am a murderer?

Man am confused am tired..

Oyindidi:
Let go of your past

Ishilove:
Being on this thread is very depressing.
Op, you need Jesus

milemimi93:
Thank u bro I really appreciate.

U said I should follow my heart?
Do u know what my heart says?
If I follow my hrt am afraid I might not see the end of this month.
I am feeling suicidal.
I just wish everything would just end. Am tired of life. Am mentally ill.

I've started drinking lately.
I don't smoke.

I just want to die that's the only way I can find peace.

The greatest mistake I made was to leave Nigeria.

If I was in Nigeria maybe I'd have gone out hang with friends.

But here who do I know?

Nobody just me and my God.

Am empty inside.

I wish to die.

Am told to start AM classes.

How do I even tell people here I am a murderer?

Man am confused am tired..

mimimile93:
I got so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

Tabh:
Pathetic story, yeah.
It is still not enough to hate and bash women at every opportunity.
Heck, if you know the story behind other girls, you'd pray devil wipes away all men from the surface of the earth.
You are not the only one with sick stories,there are people through worse and they don't go about hating on the opposite gender.

Free yourself from the bondage, life continues.

milemimi93:
Thank u bro I really appreciate.

U said I should follow my heart?
Do u know what my heart says?
If I follow my hrt am afraid I might not see the end of this month.
I am feeling suicidal.
I just wish everything would just end. Am tired of life. Am mentally ill.

I've started drinking lately.
I don't smoke.

I just want to die that's the only way I can find peace.

The greatest mistake I made was to leave Nigeria.

If I was in Nigeria maybe I'd have gone out hang with friends.

But here who do I know?

Nobody just me and my God.

Am empty inside.

I wish to die.

Am told to start AM classes.

How do I even tell people here I am a murderer?

Man am confused am tired..

mimimile93:
Find a great woman ki..
Bro am not marrying o.
Fvck ho.es.
I will adopt a child when I need one.

mimimile93:
I got so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

mimimile93:
I got so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

Dudeweedlmao:
One would think that you'd learn something from all the heart break you experienced from Primary school to your university days, but you didnt learn a single thing. That's not how life works, buddy. You should always do a little introspection after every heart break and allow yourself to heal, and not just jumping into a new relationship on a whim.

As for your GF, she had no right to abscond with your property and kill your Father - even though he was sick, I mean where's the love? I would have done the same in your shoes.

I can't tell you what to feel about Nigerian women/men but just know that; it's never their fault. Their parents failed them, this is why I have an eternal grudge with Boomer parents, they experienced a booming economy and were part of the industrial revolution but what did they leave us with? Nothing. But they are always the first to call us lazy and blame us for everything. Upbringing of a child really matters alot and I can assure you 100% your GF's upbringing wasnt right.

Lastly bro, never love with all your heart or trust with all your might.

Tallesty1:
Some of the comments on this thread are just annoying. Like seriously, when will women start taking responsibility for their actions? You blame the few of us that are dead to love, you blame folks like mimi that loved truly...... So what de fvck do you people want from us? To turn bats and bear the blames for your own actions and inactions?

Women have been destructive from the time of Adam and all the hardhearted guys you see today are those who trusted women in the past. Trusting a girlfriend is like playing Nairabet with your life savings, you will cry.

Isn't it funny that y'all are telling the op to still try one of you when what we read here daily is how life without men is bliss? Y'all should fvck off this thread and leave him alone. He no do again, na by force?

Isn't it clear from his experience that no woman apart from his family has added any meaningful value to is life? It is same with most men.

You are angels, I agree, life with you is heavenly, I agree to that too but nah everybody wan go heaven? I personally don't so free him.

If there are some good women as y'all claim then why all these efforts to convince him to try again? Let him be. If he needs what women offer, he will definitely come for it but if he doesn't then he doesn't.

I only blame the Op for one thing, not killing her slowly. She deserved slow and continuous painful death.

I have known since I was a little that anything that has engine, tyre or boobs will definitely give you troubles.

Becareful around them.

mimimile93:
Find a great woman ki..
Bro am not marrying o.
Fvck ho.es.
I will adopt a child when I need one.

Tallesty1:
Some of the comments on this thread are just annoying. Like seriously, when will women start taking responsibility for their actions? You blame the few of us that are dead to love, you blame folks like mimi that loved truly...... So what de fvck do you people want from us? To turn bats and bear the blames for your own actions and inactions?


Trusting a girlfriend is like playing Nairabet with your life savings, you will cry.


Isn't it funny that y'all are telling the op to still try one of you when what we read here daily is how life without men is bliss? Y'all should fvck off this thread and leave him alone. He no do again, na by force?

Isn't it clear from his experience that no woman apart from his family has added any meaningful value to is life? It is same with most men.

You are angels, I agree, life with you is heavenly, I agree to that too but nah everybody wan go heaven? I personally don't so free him.

If there are some good women as y'all claim then why all these efforts to convince him to try again? Let him be. If he needs what women offer, he will definitely come for it but if he doesn't then he doesn't.

I only blame the Op for one thing, not killing her slowly. She deserved slow and continuous painful death.