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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by willanderson: 5:16am On Jul 11, 2018 |
LivingFree: Birds of the same feather flocks together.... 60 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by CosmicJames(m): 5:32am On Jul 11, 2018 |
Raskasal:The only problem you have is that you are afraid of losing her. So you end up taking all sorts of rubbish from her! Imagine you apologizing for her own mistakes just to keep the relationship going. How long will you be doing that? May sense fall on you! Stop the fear of losing her to regain your real self and be fine. Stop thinking that you can't do without her. You want to know how to do it? Ok. Imagine that she travels to a far away country to stay permanently, where you will never have a chance to see her again. 14 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Olifiz(m): 5:55am On Jul 11, 2018 |
LivingFree: Pls forget the toilet part. Do you apologize wen wrong or u put up a nasty face n keep malice? Are you open to corrections or u feel to big to be corrected? Don’t get it wrong these are the major complains OP is tryin to make. I’m sure u won’t like a guy who won’t apologize to u wen he’s wrong or a guy who keep malice with u wen u correct him. 28 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by veraiyke(m): 5:56am On Jul 11, 2018 |
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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by ITbomb(m): 5:59am On Jul 11, 2018 |
Almost everyone including those who had been in the same shoes agree that you should leave her So. The Ayes have it 14 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by veraiyke(m): 6:00am On Jul 11, 2018 |
This is one thing I hate. A girl never seeing a reason to say sorry. Rather defence mechanism will be activated and next you will become bad cox you talked about what you perceive is going wrong. Never be afraid to lose a woman. I think some of them play on it 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 6:00am On Jul 11, 2018 |
walesalak: Correct |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 6:06am On Jul 11, 2018 |
pocohantas: Yea. I consider myself, because I'm ending this for good |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 6:06am On Jul 11, 2018 |
pocohantas: Yea. I consider myself, because I'm ending this for good. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by ojoj(m): 6:07am On Jul 11, 2018 |
My brother, it's natural. She needs a re assurance. Most of us are wired that way. Women are like kids. When you rebuked them, you need to bring them back to reassure them. Even we that have been married for a lot of years, our wives behave that way. Even mine, will pass by you in the house a d tried as much as possible not to let a little part of her body touch you. Please roll with her since she has scaled about 70% of the qualities you want in a lady. Please manage her. When you rebuked her, bring her back and tell her you love her. With time, she will do it less. It is well. 9 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Raskasal(m): 6:11am On Jul 11, 2018 |
donstan18: A good one here. Thanks bro 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by oniru4real: 6:45am On Jul 11, 2018 |
I have the same issue with my gf. I m still praying that she will change. I love her so much |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by carlos1(m): 6:46am On Jul 11, 2018 |
LivingFree: U and Buhari r one of the problems of this country, u no get sense at all. No common sense for ur head. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by pocohantas(f): 6:59am On Jul 11, 2018 |
boiz2men: I asked because I want to know if he is still available. In case his chick swallows her pride and comes begging 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by lereinter(m): 7:13am On Jul 11, 2018 |
the gal is comfortable or comes from comfortable family most gals in such category behave like that you are the one to call her and give her stern warning not threat, just like a husband will warn a wife |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by godfrey01(m): 7:15am On Jul 11, 2018 |
[quote author=delugajackson post=69262348][b]You are dating a woman with so much ego and such woman will never make a good wife. Truth is, you can never control a woman with so much ego. If she can't apologize for little things, then she has no business being in a relationship. Take my word, she has little or no respect for you. The only reason she is with you up till this moment is because she is gaining from you, once she fulfills her aim of running you down, she will leave your áss for good. I suggest you look for someone else with better attitude, character and finesse that will make life worth living for you, cause once you marry this particular girl, you will experience x2 of what you're suffering now. She will offer you a lifetime of misery! Who wants a stubborn, nagging, disrespectful woman with an over-bloated ego as a wife? You need to re-consider this cause it seems you're gradually becoming a victim of emotional deficit. And the hard truth is that you both are not meant for each other.[ ... you spoke well. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by wristbangle: 7:19am On Jul 11, 2018 |
It's obvious you are dating an immature & extremely spoilt lady. There are derogatory values that can be work on to change the perspective of a person positively. Envy, malice, over-pamper and overbloated ego are not part of it. These red signals points she will send you to early grave in future. This is why it's paramount to date a person and watch closely if the partner ticks the box of positive traits and un ticks dangerous negative traits. Also, I blame you for pleasing her too much hence apologise and begging when she is at fault. Don't you dare do that for any woman, you will be seen as a weakling. Be a man, be assertive! Look bro, She can't change and it's best you call off the relationship. It sounds blunt but it's for your good. Regards, Lalasticlala. I think this thread deserves wider view. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Nobody: 7:29am On Jul 11, 2018 |
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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by BestDude: 7:34am On Jul 11, 2018 |
delugajackson: Thank you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by kunleweb: 7:37am On Jul 11, 2018 |
LivingFree: You get bad mouth, i swear you invented trouble - " like you an eraser " |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by BestDude: 7:37am On Jul 11, 2018 |
donstan18: Thank you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by BestDude: 7:46am On Jul 11, 2018 |
oniru4real:that is no love. That is stupidity. Can you love a mad woman on the street? Look, you will not get her respect if you continue. Women don't respect men that tolerate their crap. They are drawn to masculinity... You got to assert your man power... Like a stern but loving father that scold his child when correcting them. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by ednut1(m): 7:52am On Jul 11, 2018 |
oniru4real:weak men everywhere. Smh 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by bigocean(m): 8:05am On Jul 11, 2018 |
@op, most of the comments before mine have said it all. Any relationship where one party has to always beg is not healthy. Marriage is a life long affair, now for how long will you continue to tolerate and beg. Trust me, you Will get tired someday and am sure you don't want to have a failed marriage. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 11, 2018 |
There is nothing to work on really. You are with an emotional unintelligent lady who is not mature too. The word "I'm sorry" saves loads and it takes emotional intelligence to tell when one is wrong and say this word. You will be unhappy with this lady if she feels she can't be scolded, can't realise her mistakes and say I'm sorry. This is because a man is wired to want respect. Forget all that cooking and stuffs you are seeing. It won't keep you happy. If it did, you won't be here. I tell you all these from experience. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by fashionale(m): 8:30am On Jul 11, 2018 |
My brother, she's not into the relationship as you are, I doubt if she truly loves you. She's in for your money. Solution: first, make up your mind to be the man in your relationship. Call her and communicate with her on this her attitude, how you feel about it and if she doesn't change, you will not be in the relationship. Because this her attitude is as a result of lack of respect for you. And there's no true without respect. Secondly, check how you correct her when she how's wrong. Do you do it with harsh voice or you usually latch out on her even in public. There are people who don't like been scolded with harsh voice or in public. In all, communicate calmly with her. But if she refuses let er go bro. A woman that loves you will do anything to make you happy. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by obi4eze(m): 8:35am On Jul 11, 2018 |
biafraisdead:100000 likes 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by MissJoy29(f): 8:49am On Jul 11, 2018 |
veraiyke:I have had friends who were like this. Always NEVER accepting their wrong. They will drag it o, defend, put up silly exuses, try to trade blames, beat about the bush and the worst of all, guilt-trip you and end up making you feel bad for saying anything in the first place. God! Those emotional manipulators! I had like 3 friends like that. One was a love interest. The good thing was that he was able to adjust. I started by explaining to him that doing all those rigmarole when its clear you are wrong and eventually saying "sorry" takes the value and weight out it. You have put me through emotional stress and I won't accept the sorry again. Tomorrow you will say the person is keeping malice with you. I did this with him for a while until bam! He adjusted. I watched him say, "I'm sorry" without lame excuses and I respected him the more. The other two friends didn't. And there's nothing I detest than someone who is too full of him/herself. You will be dropped like you are hot cos it's a very bad attitude 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by MissJoy29(f): 8:52am On Jul 11, 2018 |
fashionale:Nobody would actually. 6 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by donstan18: 8:53am On Jul 11, 2018 |
MissJoy29: You are always having friends to type about. Continue! 9 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by MissJoy29(f): 8:56am On Jul 11, 2018 |
donstan18:Lol....my wealth of experience runs deep honey. After insulting me the other day, you are the last person I wanna see on my mention. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by donstan18: 9:00am On Jul 11, 2018 |
MissJoy29: Reason why I gave such age-pediction that day Insult you? I don't insult ladies. I've never done that before? 1 Like |
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