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|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by DonroxyII: 8:38pm On Jul 11|
Raskasal:Hope u learn one or two things ?
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by DonroxyII: 8:40pm On Jul 11|
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by DonroxyII: 8:40pm On Jul 11|
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by DonroxyII: 8:41pm On Jul 11|
profeazy:Na u sabi ooo ....
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Mcy56: 9:19pm On Jul 11|
Having read all the comments up to this point, I cant but strongly agree with advice of majority here that the op should start looking out for another lady that will give him respect and peace of mind.
Those two attitudes cannot be overlooked at all. They are very strong and will cause you psychological and emotional torture.
You are feeling reluctant to let her go going by your writeup maybe due to the fear of getting another good one but my dear, what is happening now is just a tip of the iceberg compared to what awaits you after marriage.
Somebody mentioned that you asked for same advice last year, here you are again this year with same thing. You seems to be an unserious fellow if that's true and it seems your village people havent back off.
Be man enough to take a decision that suits you and dont come back here next year again for same issue.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by infotainment(m): 9:53pm On Jul 11|
biafraisdead:U took best step by letting her go..... I just pity her dat she is learning d hard way.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by tunize(m): 10:10pm On Jul 11|
[quote author=biafraisdead post=69262362]
Months back I was in a similar relationship before I finally call it a quit(I also intend to keep her as a wife, I have even introduced her to my people). I always apologise to her even while she was at fault and she will never admit been at fault or even say sorry, though she would stupidly tell me at times that her bad side is her being too proud and that she was working on her self to correct it. the day I ended the relationship was a day she insulted me and I just told her I won't call her again but she thought I was joking and since that day(over 7 months now) I haven't called her neither has she called me(because of pride). But I know she is seriously dieing now her problem is for her to call me and say 'I am sorry' she keeps calling me with unknown numbers and each time I pick she would end the call without saying anything but I know she is behind those calls, also she keeps stalking me on LinkedIn, she doesn't know LinkedIn sends u profile of people viewing ur profile. so my brother if u try to change her and she is not changing I would advise u to let her go; imagine what u would go through when u finally marry her, we shouldn't allow love to block our senses at times. any man or woman that can't say sorry is not worthy to be a husband or a wife. By the way where is she from cos we may be talking about the same girl.
hehehhehehe ......u nvr can tell bro
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by tunize(m): 10:29pm On Jul 11|
If i tell u waitn u suppose do u nor go gree do am see all what u said so chairman na waitn i don experience like this so....(true story) same thing she dey do me she gets angry for no reason, stubborn, keeps malice infact th begging nor be here. One thing we must learn is this " is good to love ooooh but moderately". Something i seem to understand with females now is that wen u give dem this leg to take for granted bros dem go over use am....i swallowed my pride i was scared of losing her till one day bro..guess what we had dis issue that could have been sorted out peacefully, one month pass i beg she nor gree. 2Month,3month bros i stopped begging and do the needful everybody get pride...10months no words no chat i bone infact wen u're scared of losing something baba u go lose that thing. Only for her to chat me up for a meet i ballantly declined....so what am saying is this put maturity aside and act like a man if she nor follow u talk bros waka comot for house go dey with niggas nor send am, nor go dey beg her.....you go thank me later sometimes u have to go hard like a dick.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by 12345baba(m): 11:24pm On Jul 11|
aaronson:over look wetin? Which kind love be that? Op she go give u hypertension
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by lexton(f): 11:25pm On Jul 11|
ladys aint to be trusted same as guys https:///Q6zvzD
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by blackaxe78: 11:27pm On Jul 11|
Use her for money rituals
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by dcosmosboy(m): 11:30pm On Jul 11|
Thank God it made front page.
Don't hv any advice 4 u bro cause am still battling in my r/ship. She switches ON and ON like LED light
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by ChiefSweetus: 11:31pm On Jul 11|
I don't need to talk too much or overanalyse.
Bro, I swear to almighty, if you marry this aunty, you will WEEP and GNASH your teeth.
Play with your future blood pressure if you doubt me.
Perfect love casts out ALL fears.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by bixton(m): 11:35pm On Jul 11|
You say you love her?
Does she really love you also or she just loves your good and quiet nature?
You need to show her your bad side to know who she really is?
Playing so cool with a woman who you intend to marry will not do you any good in future.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by nayosman: 11:40pm On Jul 11|
Send your email to firstname.lastname@example.org for a confidential stuff. You are about to commence a journey of no return. Be careful..... now
Don't ever fall in love but what I'm seeing now is that you are already in love.
Run run run
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by TemitayoDaniel: 11:43pm On Jul 11|
Raskasal:... Believe you. Me this is sincerely what happened to me.. Been in a relationship for good 2 years. Always been begging just to ensure peace, many at times when I even correct her, she would tell me it's cos of my Nigerian mentality... I broke up with her. Now. Am. Happy like real happiness. The best thing you can do is to break up with her. Bet you she would come to. Her senses but mind you a cat will always be a cat
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by chris31(m): 11:46pm On Jul 11|
No be person ocean sees its leg e dey shop
Truth is that not every woman is meant for marriage & ur one of them
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by SheikhMuniru(m): 11:46pm On Jul 11|
IS LIKE NIGERIAN MEN DEY TOO MUCH LOVE WOMEN, WITH WHAT I SAW TODAY ON THIS PLATFORM MEN LOVE MORE THAN WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIP.... GUYS WISE UP, DON'T LET ONE LADY MUMU US
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by iamjustified(m): 11:46pm On Jul 11|
He who has ears let him ear what the spirit is saying.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by dovelike(f): 11:48pm On Jul 11|
I wont lie I'm like the lady the OP mentioned. I always try to justify my actions and emotionally trap you into apologizing by playing the ignoring game. God help me to be better, I'm working on it as well.
-Either the OP is too controlling and she is trying to act back so as to not completely lose herself in the relationship...I know I did
-Or she is trying to get out of the relationship but she is not courageous enough so she is using that medium to see if he can call it quits for her.
-Or she just plainly have that attitude of not apologizing. I know I do to an extent, mostly if I don't like you like that.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by rayobaba(m): 11:49pm On Jul 11|
Bro. It's pathetic. I would be straight to the point. You have a decision to make. The decision is either to continue or break up wt her as from your explanation she might change or never change. U can't be sure. She can change for good now and change back to ds bad attitude after marriage. You know women are real after marriage. So decide if u can live wt her attitude if she refuse to change for good. Attitude is difficult to change except woman is desperate not wanting to lose u. But it seems u love her more. That's risky to me. I prefer dating someone that love me more, at that she will listen to me.
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|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by MsGood(f): 11:51pm On Jul 11|
Why don't you just have a heart to heart talk with her? Some people don't know they're doing something wrong or hurting their loved ones. My boyfriend and I do it all the time. That aside, some ladies get cranky and temperamental during some delicate times in their cycle. Communication is the key, bro. Don't give up just yet.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Udoskybest(m): 11:51pm On Jul 11|
Bro, i seem to understand your plight but u see, thats what makes both of you worth staying 2geda. She's temperamental and you are not, she rarely accomadate blame even 4 her own errors and u can take blames. Thats uniqueness and u guys are really meant 4 each other
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by InvertedHammer: 11:53pm On Jul 11|
They say that women outnumber men. Therefore, you stand a better chance of getting someone better.
Everyone is expendable as has been proved by death.
Don't limit yourself. Is she the best you can do?
I guess you cannot wait to marry her and start writing Chronicles and Lamentations about your life.
Problems are easy to get into but very difficult to get out.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Pataricatering(f): 11:54pm On Jul 11|
Who made you her father that you will be “ correcting” her ? Is she your student ? How would she not have a bad attitude when your house is a “ correctional home “ for juvenile delinquents! You think you will be telling an adult what to do and she will like it ? Obviously your attitude to your relationship is wrong ! This is not your fathers generation where they used to “ correct “ their wives like 5 year olds ! Of course you can dump her but I seriously doubt you are going to find any girl nowadays that likes being “ corrected “ ! Otherwise you can work on your communication and learn to deal with her as an equal !
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Pataricatering(f): 11:57pm On Jul 11|
InvertedHammer:women do not outnumber men !i don’t think There is any natural population in the world where women outnumber men ! There worldwide ratio of boys to girls is 107 boy births to 100 girl births ! So there are 7 more boys than girls at birth worldwide ! You can do your own research!
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by sandra50(f): 11:58pm On Jul 11|
Raskasal:Your girl is still behaving like a child..I guess she is still in her early 20's?some people might tell you to talk to her but there is nothing to talk to her about.she is intentional doing what she is doing because she knows you love her and can't do without her.
One thing you will tell yourself is that you have loved someone in the past,and if you could separate from that person and survive,you can also do same to this one and find a better person.that your girl is going to be a disaster in your life and your family.she will so disrespect every member of your family including your mother because she knows you will always be on her her side and if you don't support her that would mean you begging for one month.if you don't take this decision and correct this now then you will never have the opportunity to.who gets angry just because they told her to close the door if the person is not sick in the head,what if something serious happens?better break up with her and tell her you can't continue with such character and any times she feels she is tired are will beg for forgiveness and change for good or you keep begging her like a woman.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by ndindiatu: 11:59pm On Jul 11|
biafraisdead:Lol@ where aRe u from. U got me there hahahahhaajah
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by MuKesh12: 12:00am On Jul 12|
In summary he is still in love with the so called ex!! Wats with all the epistles Guy is still keeping tabs on her and monitoring her life
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by InvertedHammer: 12:03am On Jul 12|
At birth it is 107 boys to 100 girls.
Then before 25, it evens out because men are more prone to death due to risks, war, etc.
Beyond 25 (marriage age), women are surplus. We are talking about ladies not girls. Of course cradle-snatchers up North will beg to differ.
|Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by doeeyed: 12:03am On Jul 12|
Now that's a matured reply...
Agree wt his premise...
If this is the only slur in her character, help work on it.. Get mentors, books, counseling tips..
No one's perfect
2 imperfect people trying for a perfect union.
If looking for the perfect person, the search never ends or you end up picking a fake who reveals their true colours once married!!!
Ask the bros who are perenially lamenting on social media.
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