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Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by okwabayi(m): 8:36am On Jul 14, 2018
I'm here looking at the story and wondering where the problem is. OP said he likes the girl, lost his job and she's supportive yet he's afraid to lose her. How can you lose something you already own? Abi I no go school?
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 9:04am On Jul 14, 2018
mgtow:
I know you were really prepared to balance on this thread lol. I guess we were too harsh but what he really needs is tough love, especially at his age. A man should use his 20s to date and understand women. 30s are for consolidation, not 'she's everything to me'.

That's embarrassing.
mah niggah
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 9:07am On Jul 14, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Spot on. At his age, he's still frail and all fugazy. If ever that girl dumps his ass, with his weak attitude, he's bound to commit suicide. What would he live for? His job gone. His girl gone. I always advise my friends (Male and Female) to develop a thick skin. Disaster looms, we know not when.
your confusion is beyond measure. you call him frail and fugazy (whatever that means) but minutes ago you supported him:
UyaiIncomparabl:
He loves her. Leave him alone.
atlest this my point made you see the light:

MISEDUCATIONS:
shut up your mouth. you're a woman and your insecurity can only subside when a guy is obsessed with you because you never loved yourself.
when your obsessed BF stabs you after cheating on him you call men jealous! be careful what you wish for. encouraging men to obsess on you has its price.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mimimile93: 9:26am On Jul 14, 2018
I met this Love of my life early this year, she's everything to me I can't begin to mince words. the same month we met, my job started dwindling and the next month that followed I was out of job, this was a job I got middle of last year.. Well, she's been supportive and I've been trying to get a new Job but all to no avail but I can see that she's becoming very worried about it, even though I'm trying to calm her down that very soon things will turn out right but she seems to be thinking otherwise. I loved her with the whole of my heart, I have never had any gf like her and I planned to seal my relationship with her on the altar as I'm not getting younger and I'm in my early 30s, but the situation that befell me unknowingly is ruining the whole thing.
In all the woes that curse our race, there is a lady in the case.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 9:45am On Jul 14, 2018
mimimile93:
In all the woes that curse our race, there is a lady in the case.
from Eve to Grace Mugabe. always a woman fvcking things up.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by naijacentric(m): 10:24am On Jul 14, 2018
mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

Deuces!
God bless u sir i av noticed women take men for granted wen dey know ur only dating dem i dint believe it till i became a victim now i see dat variety is a spice of life if women have many toasters men should also have plenty babes too am not justfying cheating tho
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by holocron: 10:29am On Jul 14, 2018
mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

Deuces!
Thumb up! Man, Are you one slick Machiavelli!

Your advice would probably not be taken by most. Until it is far too late.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:52am On Jul 14, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
your confusion is beyond measure. you call him frail and fugazy (whatever that means) but minutes ago you supported him:


atlest this my point made you see the light:
Leave me na!
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mgtow: 11:02am On Jul 14, 2018
holocron:
Thumb up! Man, Are you one slick Machiavelli!

Your advice would probably not be taken by most. Until it is far too late.
I won't call myself slick but everything I wrote comes from experience dealing with women, and I've dated a lot of them.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mgtow: 11:06am On Jul 14, 2018
naijacentric:
God bless u sir i av noticed women take men for granted wen dey know ur only dating dem i dint believe it till i became a victim now i see dat variety is a spice of life if women have many toasters men should also have plenty babes too am not justfying cheating tho
There is a reason why they say all is fair in the game of love or war. You owe it to yourself to protect yourself from any eventuality cos believe me the lady is doing the same and constantly weighing you against other guys so you gotta let her know that you are also wanted by other ladies as well. You know women love competition so when she knows other women want her toy she would be less willing to let go.

This whole thing is a game, so men should as a matter of urgency, learn to play as well.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:28am On Jul 14, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Leave me na!
just admit you went off the rails
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:36am On Jul 14, 2018
mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

Deuces!
you have learnt a lot since you wrote this:
mgtow:
Sister I've always known, and please don't chew my head off cos of my moniker. I'm still a rational guy. But this Ubunja is not okay upstairs I swear. He thinks he's being cool and sleek but I see right through him. Half the time it's like he doesn't even know what he's arguing about. Nna what I do is that I take him as a comic relief. The resident clown in romance section but dude hasn't gotten the memo.
hard to believe you used to be a big asslicker.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mgtow: 11:49am On Jul 14, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
you have learnt a lot since you wrote this:


hard to believe you used to be a big asslicker.
Oga so you remember our little encounter? cheesy

It's called being civil. Being nice to someone doesn't mean you're licking arse. Your wahala is too much abeg let's not start again lol.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:04pm On Jul 14, 2018
mgtow:
Oga so you remember our little encounter? cheesy

It's called being civil. Being nice to someone doesn't mean you're licking arse. Your wahala is too much abeg let's not start again lol.
you call that being civil? you went full asslicker on Safiaaa's ass.
you killed me when you called her sister and begged her not to chew your head off.
see how you even disowned your mgtow name:

mgtow:
Sister I've always known, and please don't chew my head off cos of my moniker . I'm still a rational guy. But this Ubunja is not okay upstairs I swear. He thinks he's being cool and sleek but I see right through him. Half the time it's like he doesn't even know what he's arguing about. Nna what I do is that I take him as a comic relief. The resident clown in romance section but dude hasn't gotten the memo.
hilarious.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mgtow: 12:10pm On Jul 14, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
you call that being civil? you went full asslicker on Safiaaa's ass.
you killed me when you called her sister and begged her not to chew your head off.
see how you even disowned your mgtow name:



hilarious.
Hahaha okay I agree jeez. I hope you are practising Law in Zimbabwe sha, you too like argument. And how do you keep records of everything anyone ever said to you?

How biko?
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:24pm On Jul 14, 2018
mgtow:
Hahaha okay I agree jeez. I hope you are practising Law in Zimbabwe sha, you too like argument. And how do you keep records of everything anyone ever said to you?

How biko?
its always fun to remind a person of his emotional words some time down the line when he's sober.

look at Highpriestss. it irritates her that i have her words on my siggy. even though she said those words.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by ubunja(m): 12:27pm On Jul 14, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
its always fun to remind a person of his emotional words some time down the line when he's sober.

look at Highpriestss. it irritates her that i have her words on my siggy. even though she said those words.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mgtow: 12:30pm On Jul 14, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
its always fun to remind a person of his emotional words some time down the line when he's sober.

look at Highpriestss. it irritates her that i have her words on my siggy. even though she said those words.
Most of these girls just talk a big game online. Most of them are either underage, struggling for admission, still in the university slaying, not to mention BROKE, na him me and them go dey drag online? Mba!

You're validating her existence by having her words on your siggy.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:36pm On Jul 14, 2018
mgtow:
Most of these girls just talk a big game online. Most of them are either underage, struggling for admission, still in the university slaying, not to mention BROKE, na him me and them go dey drag online? Mba!

You're validating her existence by having her words on your siggy.
she needs that validation to get a life. let her have it. maybe she's gona be a better individual after this.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:57pm On Jul 14, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
just admit you went off the rails
I didn't!
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:00am On Jul 15, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
I didn't!
Aids is not the only incurable condition. i see
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by okplusie(m): 12:13am On Jul 15, 2018
I met this Love of my life early this year, she's everything to me I can't begin to mince words. the same month we met, my job started dwindling and the next month that followed I was out of job, this was a job I got middle of last year.. Well, she's been supportive and I've been trying to get a new Job but all to no avail but I can see that she's becoming very worried about it, even though I'm trying to calm her down that very soon things will turn out right but she seems to be thinking otherwise. I loved her with the whole of my heart, I have never had any gf like her and I planned to seal my relationship with her on the altar as I'm not getting younger and I'm in my early 30s, but the situation that befell me unknowingly is ruining the whole thing.
Was it not unconditional love that she promised you when you met each other? if not, then she will surely leave you. she is a kinda Chioma looking for Davido��
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by khiaa(f): 6:18am On Jul 15, 2018
mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

Deuces!
Is this what MGTOW taught you? I really wish that you would stay away from their teaching. They seem so spiteful and mean. sad

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY is not a good idea.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by emmyid(m): 6:33am On Jul 15, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
He loves her. Leave him alone.
Imagine he was your brother, would you leave him to rot in emotional mess, rather than get his life fixed?
Op needs to face his life and stop thinking about love for now.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mgtow: 8:00am On Jul 15, 2018
khiaa:
Is this what MGTOW taught you? I really wish that you would stay away from their teaching. They seem so spiteful and mean. sad

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY is not a good idea.
Women using men is not a good idea either.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:13am On Jul 15, 2018
emmyid:
Imagine he was your brother, would you leave him to rot in emotional mess, rather than get his life fixed?
Op needs to face his life and stop thinking about love for now.
OP had long deactivated. Don't waste your time and strength advising. Total futility.
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by Alwaysking: 10:32am On Jul 15, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
The weak and silly OP has deactivated.
huh
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:49am On Jul 15, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
Aids is not the only incurable condition. i see
Lol. You no serious!
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:50am On Jul 15, 2018
Alwaysking:
huh
Wetin happen?
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by Alwaysking: 11:28am On Jul 15, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Wetin happen?
Are you freehuh
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by Ishilove: 9:31pm On Jul 16, 2018
mgtow:
2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.
Tufia!! What an evil man you are! You are evil. EVIL!!! Tweh! angry
Re: I Don't Want To Loose Her, She's Everything To Me! by mgtow: 9:52pm On Jul 16, 2018
Ishilove:
Tufia!! What an evil man you are! You are evil. EVIL!!! Tweh! angry
Looooooool cheesy
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