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Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by TaLLeRBaLLeR(m): 9:07pm On Jul 15, 2018
nikkypearl:
so have you ever given 200k out of your hard earned 250k before huh angry
yes I have, even if its not up to that amount. you know why, because I expect her to do same when I am needy and not let the whole world know of it!
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by XhosaNostra(f): 9:43pm On Jul 15, 2018
My question is, is her sister OK with the fact that she's disclosing how much she earns on social media? Thought money matters were supposed to be confidential. Sounds to me like big mouths run in that family. One is sharing the news with her boyfriend even before telling her parents, like he's her financial advisor or the taxman. Another one is blabbering on about it on the internet for the whole world to know.

I don't know what to think of the story. It kinda sounds far-fetched. But if it's true, the choice is all hers. It's her money after all. She can do what she wants with it, including giving it all to him if she likes.
Personally, I wouldn't give almost all my salary to a guy no matter what. If it's a test, then I'd gladly & deliberately flunk it.

Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jul 15, 2018
I'm interested in why she thinks it's a test... does she think he'd give her 2m after she offers the money?

We can't judge this without knowing the back story. What if he has looked after her financially before she got this job... what if he spent more than 200k on her in the course of their relationship?

To many unknowns to conclude that he is a gold digger.
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jul 15, 2018
Highbrow:
You just described your father, asshōle. I'm not your irresponsible father. Foolish boy.
grin

Beggar
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by victorian(f): 10:55pm On Jul 15, 2018
Just give him everything, shebi you love him.

Ode!

your parents who laboured and trained u from birth till u graduated and got this job, haven't heard a word from u. Na bf u quickly confide in.

Please give him all, to prove u can stand by him thru thick and thin.
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by fancy4eve(f): 11:24pm On Jul 15, 2018
awon enemy of progress....better don't Gv him any money, he should go out dey nd work lyk oda guys. Nonsense
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by MissRaine69(f): 3:30am On Jul 16, 2018
Just a thought....what did he do for this lady before she landed on her feet?
Now he should be dumped because we only have one point of view?
I don’t trust my fellow women sorry, it’s all about them!
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by ednut1(m): 6:36am On Jul 16, 2018
Twitter lies
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by rex444(m): 7:38am On Jul 16, 2018
Possibly during their course of dating,he could have spent close to that amount and he wnts it so he can scoot
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by babyfaceafrica: 7:38am On Jul 16, 2018
StylesX:
Yea know the next thing for you is to insult my family, I'll mannered, foul mouthed ugly thing.
that is how she behaves.. you can't have a simple discourse without insult. my bro..learn to ignore some people on nairaland... God bless
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Nobody: 7:45am On Jul 16, 2018
Highbrow:
I'm not a beggar like your father is. Moreover, I'm not cheap like that woman you call a mother. Animal! Send me your account number, mad animal.
Online beggar grin
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by don4real18(m): 7:47am On Jul 16, 2018
It could be for a worthwhile project... Who knows how much he has been giving her before his request because 95% of women (my experience) will rather save their money and spend yours but the moment they are in a situation where they are supposed to spend on you, it becomes a big problem
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Sierusvirus(m): 9:31am On Jul 16, 2018
StylesX:
No one is playing the victim here, You don't now me to just assume i won't do the same for a loved one, not when i have confirmed what the money would be used for? 95℅ of guys would do that for a girlfriend as long as they have the money, but its not the same with Nigerian gold digging girls, its a matter of statistics.
Brother you are so right, is the guy not the boyfriend?
If she gives the BF N200k, will she die?
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Sierusvirus(m): 9:37am On Jul 16, 2018
LivingFree:
I'm interested in why she thinks it's a test... does she think he'd give her 2m after she offers the money?

We can't judge this without knowing the back story. What if he has looked after her financially before she got this job... what if he spent more than 200k on her in the course of their relationship?

To many unknowns to conclude that he is a gold digger.
This is a perfect analysis and many are so myopic.
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by PENIEL2018(m): 10:15am On Jul 16, 2018
Firstly,is her boyfriend working? If yes,which nature of job? If no,I will advise her not to yield to his request. she may give him if he trusts him.
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Ziggylady(f): 10:18am On Jul 16, 2018
StylesX:
If the roles are reversed now, would she be seeking people's opinion? Hypocritical beings
Common mechionu!...will you as guy guve your girlfriend or even wife 200k out of your 250k first salary??....

You guys think you are wise...Hypcrocritical ko critical condition ni undecided
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Ziggylady(f): 10:20am On Jul 16, 2018
Sierusvirus:
Brother you are so right, is the guy not the boyfriend?
If she gives the BF N200k, will she die?
Lol!!..comedians cheesy
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by StylesX: 11:03am On Jul 16, 2018
Ziggylady:
Common mechionu!...will you as guy guve your girlfriend or even wife 200k out of your 250k first salary??....

You guys think you are wise...Hypcrocritical ko critical condition ni undecided
He even went as far as saying wife, smh yes i can do it for my brother, my sister, my mum, my girlfriend, most of all my wife as long as she's going to use it for something productive and i have no urgent need for it, you foolish sha.
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by Ziggylady(f): 11:06am On Jul 16, 2018
StylesX:
He even went as far as saying wife, smh yes i can do it for my brother, my sister, my mum, my girlfriend, most of all my wife as long as she's going to use it for something productive and i have no urgent need for it, you foolish sha.
Yeah suddenly y-all are ready to spend on Nigerian women whom most of you term as 'leeches'..Story for the press undecided
Re: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by StylesX: 2:13pm On Jul 16, 2018
Ziggylady:
Yeah suddenly y-all are ready to spend on Nigerian women whom most of you term as 'leeches'..Story for the press undecided
Shut up, you don't know whats happening in the real world
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