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HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 14:

PLAYERS vs MEN....The Duel

Now that we hv outlined who a player is, lets check out the Qualities of men. Real men

While at it, Let's correct d notion; Age dont make no man. Neither do Beards.

It is the content of his chatacter, the clairvoyance of his mind n an astute eye to read, analyse n respond to external stimulus succinctly, that makes him worth his balls.


Sense Pill

He is man because he is himself always. Dont need to lie to impress nor frame to seduce.
It is not d lenght of his D1ck nor the depth of his wealth but the size of his balls and brains.

He is a man because he cares enuf to know n knows enough to care.

HARDDON:
It's no rocket science.
The term OGA is mostly used by cheap serves. And depending on the stress/tone applied, it could mean different things and used to elicit different effects.


Quality Ladies rarely use that.
Come to think of it : why that of all the sexy terms that can be used to draw ur attention?

You should explore the world more. Break out of your usual circles, it makes you parochial and lose touch with the wild world out there.

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
Hello Bosses in the house ... my roommate told me that a girl in his dept told him that she likes me ... and she told him to find out if i like her too .. he has given me her number ...

How do i go about her cos she is very cute ..

Harddon
DavidTheGeek
2dice01

mansnothot:
HARDON thanks for initiating a wonderful thread like this... I av really learnt alot and seen my mistakesi previous scenerios...
Want to share my experience today with a pretty lady..

Met this lady at zenith bank.. I was d only one in d waiting room and she walked in... I was on my phone and she spoke softly to me, I was momentarily touched by her voice our convo goes thus;
Me: cnt hear u
Her: she repeated saying where can I get my bvn
Me: well here is d waiting room, d are having a meeting, were told to wait.
Her: OK ( she takes a seat)
Me: was dt ur real voice or u were just trying to get my attention?
Her: lol, its my voice.
After some secs I asked
Me: this one u came for bvn are u openin an acct for the first time
Her: yes
Me: u jst got into schl?
Her: Yea
Me: why zenith, its usually not a student bank
Her: nothing really
Me: Abi u av too much money or is ur father a politician
Her: � � lol lol( she laughed really hard)
Thought this was d moment my ovation was loudest...
And I tought I had broken her defense here..
The convo continues thus
Her: no, nothing really
Me: hw much did u open d acct with
Her: 4k..
Me: thats huge for a saving acct, was it voluntery or prerequisite?
Her: voluntary
Me: ur a don in ur own lane
Her: she smiled
Me: wht schl did u get admitted to
Her: uni uyo
Me: course of study
Her: law
Me: u looked more like a med student
Her: smiled, well I aint even a sci student.
My interest died down after she revealed her schl to me and it was far from my state, really dnt want a long dist something.
After a while of pressing my phone to myself she left telling me she was coming bk, I told her OK. She came bk asking for my phone dt she wants to chk her bvn.. I was surprised.. Someone replied her telling her u cnt chk such with someones phn.
After that I stood up as I was an leaving she asked were I was going, then I replied her saying i would be bk, she said OK.
To cut the convo short, I want to ask, was my convo bad concerning the rules dished out? I didnt ask for her number though but I believe she wanted me to, I might be wrong though... ( as I was leaving d bank my mind was just disturbing me to go ask her for her contact but i didnt reasn as a student in another schl, I cnt build up d attraction with someone who's schooling in another schl that is far and considering how pretty she is, she would be a target to so many I believe she wasn't d fish to b caught.)

derrick015:
@Hardon.
I ve been following dis thread 4 while tho I'm just in page 11...
Pls I have a girl who I had a crush on while I was in skul then I didn't talk to her at all cos I was kinda shy
Fortunately we were posted to d same state for NYSC but then diff. local govt...
While I was in camp we chatted I.e talked alot I got her digits I.e number but I never shared my feelings with her... But den like 2 months ago I expressed my feelings to her via WhatsApp... She was like really since when dat she never new I had feelings for her oo. Then I said does she have same kinda feelings 2wards me she said she doesn't know that she hasn't known me enuf to ans dat question... then she called one night like dat n strted asking me some bio question I ans dem and all...
But den I thk I'm boring her cos most of what we chat on r just how are u, how r u doing hope u r fine have u eaten wat did u eat and all other sheets of questions like dat on WhatsApp... Tho for now it's almost a WK since I ve chatted with her...
I have some on ur strategies here of which I thk it's very impressive but then there's no idea coming my way on how to go about it for now
like teasing, been witty, taking charge on convo and all other strategies I read here.
Pls hardon or any other person should help on how best I can handle did situation, how I can approach her with d strategies discussed in here... Pls epp a brother

BossNation:
Good evening house I'll keep this short
There's this ex of mine I wanna win back like I have lot of feelings for her but the thing is we broke up in a crazy manner like she was ranting and abusing then on WhatsApp.
and we don't even talk since then it's close to a year now so last week I went to see someone in her hood and she actually greeted me wella so I told my hommie I still love this babe and unbelievably he sent me her contact
please house what's the next step now I won't mind if I get some page links if that will help
cc HARDDON and everyone help a bro

Rafoski:
Hello, I've been following this thread since last year tho and I finally opened a NL account. I just want to say; "Oga Harddon, these things work 100%". Plus
I'm a better version of my old self. This doesn't mean I don't have challenges as a baller but "to get a girl, you must be willing to lose her". I have lost 10's and 7's on the hot scale. But every time I talk to any girl, without mentioning my exploits ,she perceives I have seen better. Funny thing is the aura just spreads without you saying a word. They can scent it from the confidence, the suave, the words. They know you're not trying to impress-it's just you. And you is a good bad boy. But I still have a challenge; I don't seem to love any girl. This leaves me searching for my No. 1 and I have not found. The truths I have heard so far from these ways, has led me to be another hopeless romantic. Happy Sunday!

midehill:
I quess u r a gay

Rafoski:
I think what you mean is "I'm not a he-goat like yourself". I am scared that when you lower your guard, she'll hold your balls. Thereby making you another puppet.

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
Hello Bosses in the house ... my roommate told me that a girl in his dept told him that she likes me ... and she told him to find out if i like her too .. he has given me her number ...

How do i go about her cos she is very cute ..

Harddon
DavidTheGeek
2dice01

HARDDON:
To overcome this, practice is the best answer .

1) Write down 10 places u usually meet/interact with ladies

2) think up and write down 10 diff chat up lines that r witty , go over them n memorize d best five. Use them when u r wit dem ladies, receptionist, attendants, call agents. dese r all gud practice targets cos they r paid to attend to d public n treat u nice, so ride that tide n let d witty n fun u out!

Call Mtn , etisalat , radio station ( those gurls have nice voices ) lines n just throw ur lines....

Eg , u call, she picks with dis their accent n u say wow, ur voice is sleek, r u trying to impress me wit it? She wud be thrown off balance , don't wait for her response just say: well u got to try harder.... Or u say , oops, she quiet, yea I know, I have that effect on ladies! He he he

When u call customer care n a guy picks, drop n call back(lol)
If a lady picks, say; u just drain my credit while i was talking to my gf why? R u jelos, now I want to continue the call, oya borrow me some credit if u ain't jelos!



3) u can also write d general ones we have here down n practice them.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 1

Why Gurls like bad boys:

Bad boys don't ''send''..... they live their life no matter what. They don't kiss up to any lady, infact they get aggressive when she throws some controlling tantrums.
They don't mind embarrassing her in public just to get their point across.

In summary, they are manly( ''ball-full'') because they sure know that every relationship has a CONTROL NOB, and the party who SENDS less has it. and that same party dictate how the r/ship roll. the party basically has the MUMU SWITCH of the other party and therefore can control the other party without as much as saying a word.....just a luk or a sound, wud suffice.
Women are aware of this potent power by design, they also know that the power lies with the guy from creation and wud do everything possible to STEAL(they do this either to test if the guy is truly what they make of him or just plainly acting IT or they just luv been in control) it from the guys......subtly, guys not-in-the-know, aint.


Now I am not advocating you become this crude: here is Hiw u can tap the positives off bad boys n be one ur self:
BE yourself @ all times: what does this mean? It means don't live ur life to please any gurl. Learn the act of saying no to some of her demands even though she knows u are capable of same. A girls that u always yeild to, wud soon friend zone u. You ain't worth been her man.

Know this, gurls r looking for alpha male not some kiss a33.......learn to always be in charge. This can only happen when u lay ur bed right from d beginning.

Yea I know, this is a tall order but is is very easy when u bring ur emotions under check before u even think of dating.

MODIFIED

Another reason is the compassionate part of them that just wano FIX things. They assume that Bad boys need redemption n they are d very ones to do it. They just need to show him a lil care, a lil touch, a lil hug, a lil prod , a lil luv n all wud be well. Lil did they know......


Also, bad boys luv mad wild adventure! Gut splitting, nerve wrecking, heart pumping n head spinning crazy adventure. N ladies just luv to be blown away!


Bad boys are sporadic.....unpredictable, they dont mind spoiling her by tasting her honey in public places...making her adrenaline pump wild! Imagine her cUming in such tensed situation( torn inbtw getting caught n the pleasure sweeping tru her veins)! How can she not luv him to bits? Stolen waters tastes sweeter!

They are sure to give her wild fun memories unlike d serene nice guy that wudnt even wano pound her hard cos he doesnt wano hurt her while in her mind she is screaming for heavy pounding, he is on slow n steady kiss kiss ride.

Bad boys teach em how to defend em selves, street sense n so many other crazy reasons out there.



SENSE PILL 1: Never sell yourself short. U were born to lead, but first you must conquer yourself. never let Jrod rule your ways.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

1c. BE SLOW TO ANGER. SWIFT TO CORRECT WRONG IMPRESSION

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
Harddon

Is there any way to get the whole drills complete cos it’s very disorganized on this thread .. I mean I want to read it completely from drill one up till drill 22 ... and I’m looking for where you laid down the steps when it’s time to get down with the lady .. I mean you finally got her in your room or wherever.. how do you get down with her like a pro

welcome back Baba HARDDON

Remember that my neighbour girl i told u was feeling me and that i wanted to take things to physical level?

the girl is good, normally buys things for me when i tell her to.
so, i decided to s*x chat with her to put her in the mood over whatsapp, things were going on fine till i told her to come over to my room so i can make her feel like a woman(i guess this is where i guffed).
she said she can't do it with me.. Seriously i was shocked because i know for sure that she's into me..though, i laughed it off when she told me that and i didn't beg or pressurized her.
i guess it's because she's is not sure about my feelings for her that's why she refused.

Baba, i'm beginning to develop feelings for her...also how can i convince her to bleep me??

BABA HARDDON, kindly look into my case

HARDDON:
Why don't u guys listen? How do I drum it into ur thick ears that with women, to go forward swiftly, you must learn the act of going backwards?

That means : NEVER LET A WOMAN KNOW U WANT TO BLOW HER MINDS OFF! BEHAVE LIKE U DONT CARE!

Behave like she is d one trying to lay her filthy hands on u n u ain't interested in her! Let alone getting down with her! This is d best way to have her drool over u ! because every other guy wants nothing but fvck and ladies already know that. Dare to be different ! Let her be d one to chase u!

N when paradventure , u let her have it, she wud be very greatful! No jokes Ive had a calabar gurl thank me after every hawt session because I make her sweat b4 she can hv jrod....in fact, this is one of my bedding secrets: I fore play for long , make them so wet that they can't but want it in, some wud straddle u, wanting jrod in, but I trap it inbtw my legs that they can't access it, I make them plead, cajole , some even wud be close to tears( telling me "u gono make me cry, i want u so bad, please just a little taste, i promise, ok, I just want to use the cap on my clit,I promise I wudnt push it in)" n shaking b4 I let them, u need to hear d scream when jrod is half in .

STOP askING GURLS OUT!

STop ASKING FOR S3X LIKE PEACOCK ON HEAT!

STOP LETTING DAT IDIOT OF A D1CK CONTROL UR WHOLE LIFE!

STOP BEVAVING LIKE EVERY OTHER GUy OUT THERE!


DARE TO BE DIFFERENT!

I'm so peeved with u right now that I feel like slapping sense into ur head tru dis phone

Get this straight, no matter how hard a woman is into u, the species can control their emotions like demons!. N a thin line lies Btw liking u n ignoring u. just one wrong step, n u either become a maga , or she starts ignoring u or friend zone u

Gurls r not like guys: they have different psychological make up:

That a lady is showing u green light doesnt mean u just launch in head on!

They show u green light to test if u r worth it, or u r just like every other guy out there!
Ur duty is to let them know that she has to try harder to please u! But if u just fail that green light freaking trick, u have failed d test n goner u become!

She does not have to be sure of ur feelings!
If not, how do u explain meeting n mating within 30mins? A gurl i didn't even know her name!

U should know, yours truly has bed alota them he didn't even know their names cos he usually don't ask boring questions. They go asking after d deeds if he even know their names.
N he usually shot back @ them with:

How can I know ur name when the konji thAt was hooking u didn't even let me ask? She laughs.

She wud look @ him hoping he'd ask..... He wudnt

Rather he'd say: " oh , now that u have had ur fill, u want me to ask? Well, I wudnt, gud bye.

grateful236:
Good morning HARDDON, please I have a very important question. It's important because this situation comes up through out all phases of interaction with women whether you just met them or you guys are dating or you guys are married. My question is this, please what do you do when a girl does something you don't like especially when you guys are just getting to know each other. How do you tell her or let her know she should not try it again. What do you also do when she disrespects you maybe when she gets angry at you and starts insulting you and calling you names? Thank you very much for your reply

CC HARDDON Davidthegeek

PenGriffey:
feels good to be back here !!

Blaze888:
Papi I have this girl i feel she lies to get money from me, she can even lie with her health.

Now she up with another one saying she's going on a church camp will be needing 20k �,and am beginning to feel like she is extorting cash from me. Please what do i cos now I don't know if she's sticking around cause she can easily lie and get some cash.

What do you advice?

DavidTheGeek:
Papi, is your nickname ATM?

michaelandre:
no his nickname is central bank of girls

PenGriffey:
hows it going bro..?