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Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 10:33am On Jul 28, 2018
Good morning my fellow romance landers, please I want you all to pardon my grammatical errors because am not too good in writing.

I work as a project coordinator east covering the entire south east and south south in one of the leading advertising, promotion and marketing agency Nigeria.

So I deal mostly with women, beautiful ones because of the nature of my work and every woman wants to identify with the boss for favour.

4 years ago I met a girl in one of the south east state and she was even the person that gave me green light and one thing led to the other we started dating but my mum never likes this girl but she can't tell me her reasons not until I gave my younger graduate sister a work to work as a supervisor and no one knows that she is my sister, so when she sat with other girls numbering more than 200 because the project is big and a beverage activation in one of leading breweries. Girls started their normal gossip that was when my sister found out that my so called sweetheart is a heavy runs girl, but am not always around because of work and her school is a bit far from town and she leaves in the school hostel.

When my sister told my mum, she told her that her spirit never accepted the girl and am very stubborn so mum is just being careful not to offend me. I later confronted her but she started crying but since all this while I never suspected her due to the love I have for her.

After Six months, my office had Issues, because of that she broke up with me, although the issue never affected me that much because I have some investments which she doesn't know that sustained me throughout the trying times. Not more than 4 months, we bounced back and we got more contracts from multinational companies, when she heard that we are back she wanted to come back which after pleading, even from her mum I accepted her back, Because am like the bread of her family, I gave her brother work as a supervisor and her sister and the brothers wife is one of my brand ambassadors.

Something happened again last year I broke up with her, although we're still friends and have sex on some occasions and am still close to her family. She wanted us to come back which am still considering and she still works for me in a double project, one she earns #75,000 per month even as she doesn't have her results ready because she is yet to do her NYSC and I lied to my office because all my workers documents in my region is with me. The second work she works as a supervisor which I always cover her up even when am not around my city rep always covers her up because of me and she earns around #81,000 minus allowance. I can't say everything I have done for this girl.

Last month, one of my distance guy called me and said that his girlfriend works for me I said wow which of them she mentioned my girlfriend, I was surprised and I kept my cool. Then told me that they said that am her oga and am very good to her and the family, I said ok, he now asked me if the girl is good him that no one is bad or good that it all depends on what he wants.

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by oshinadekunle(m): 10:39am On Jul 28, 2018
continue to manage her, till she put sand on u on the last day. grin

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by teewhydope(m): 10:53am On Jul 28, 2018
manage
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:56am On Jul 28, 2018
Continue to manage am till she put.. salt in your garri.. cheesy cheesy

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by donbachi(m): 11:07am On Jul 28, 2018
as u dey ask me,na who i go ask?

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Oblongata: 11:25am On Jul 28, 2018
someone will sit down and just form stupid story, do you think we are all kids on nairaland?

how can you be a project manager of south east and yet still reason with your anus?

so a supposed project manager of South East needs us to tell him to leave his serial cheating girlfriend alone...

it's either the company you are working for are all idiots there for them to retain a ret@rd or...

you're just another delusional big bufoon seeking attention on nairaland. ..

either way...

you lack my moniker

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Hector09(m): 11:28am On Jul 28, 2018
Wonderful liers u are the bread winner for her family and she broke up with u after ur office ve issue and she came begging after everything was rattified, who does that. I have told u that nollywood is not for men

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Lalas247(f): 11:35am On Jul 28, 2018
Lol guys always big themselves up...just look at first two lines biko..

Who cares grin who ask u grin smy

Bloody Actor .... angry


Bet he doesn’t even have a full beard nonsense ......


Manage her undecided

People drinking Garri will just wake up to hype themselves up and create thread .., ....


If you quote me op ! It would be bad for u ... don’t try it grin

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 12:00pm On Jul 28, 2018
please the story is not complete yet. am still writing.
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 12:15pm On Jul 28, 2018
After the guys call I confronted her and she told me that the got her number from one of her sisters friend and she doesn't know how he looks like. After two weeks he called me that he is in Town that I should meet him up which I told him that is past 9:30pm that I can't make it again and besides my neighbours have blocked me which he understands with me. When I dropped the call, I called the girl and ask were she was at that but she told me that she went out with a male friend I immediately hanged up. The next day I went to her outlet to do my normal monitoring, after an hour I left her outlet the guy called me that he wants to see me, I told him were I will be in the next 30mins.After 30mins I drove to agreed meeting point as I was parking my car, to my greatest surprise I saw my guy and the girl coming down from a cab, we exchanged greetings and sat down together. I ordered for bod wiser and the guy requested Heineken while the girl too snap. The guy started telling me how the girl has been telling her how I used to help her and the family while the girl placed her head on the guys shoulder after that the guy started telling me all sorts of lies that he now deals with crude oil and he have more than 100,000 litres of diesel and kerosene that he now works with an oil company and this the guy that always give work anytime I have project in his city because he lost work he was doing before. I kept on listening to the lies and the same lies the girl tells him. After all the lies he requested that I should give the girl 3days off to come and visit him in his base. I told him that is not possible and he keeps on insisting because he knows I can make it happen, I now asked him do u people want to plan ur weeding, he said no that is just for them to know each other well, I told him that I will think about it and during the time of the discussion I found out that this 2peole have known each other since November last year.
I later left the place after some hours and paid for the drinks. Immediately I got home I sent her a sack latter and subsequently sack her from one of the project she doesn't have much attention on and also remove her from all the group chats and after that she called me to enquire why she was sacked I hanged up on her. In the afternoon the next day the guy called to plead to me to bring her back, I warned him to interfer in my work that the girl can only do one work at a time. And since then I have made the work a living hell for her because now I made sure she does all her work and any time she comes to work 5mins late I subcharge a huge amount from her salary. I want to sack her this month because her performance is bad. Please my dear romance landers advice me. Insult is allowed

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 12:16pm On Jul 28, 2018
Hector09:
Wonderful liers u are the bread winner for her family and she broke up with u after ur office ve issue and she came begging after everything was rattified, who does that. I have told u that nollywood is not for men
bros please is not nollywood

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 12:17pm On Jul 28, 2018
Lalas247:
Lol guys always big themselves up...just look at first two lines biko..

Who cares grin who ask u grin smy

Bloody Actor .... angry


Bet he doesn’t even have a full beard nonsense ......


Manage her undecided

People drinking Garri will just wake up to hype themselves up and create thread .., ....


If you quote me op ! It would be bad for u ... don’t try it grin
the story is complete now
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Lalas247(f): 12:20pm On Jul 28, 2018
Mcpadosky:

the story is complete now
shocked
U no dey fear... u mean the script is complete grin

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 12:23pm On Jul 28, 2018
Lalas247:
shocked U no dey fear... u mean the script is complete grin
please my true life story
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jul 28, 2018
Why d Sentiments?

You were just a maga though
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Gmart22: 12:28pm On Jul 28, 2018
From your story ... i don't mean to be rude in analysing events after events. Both of you are opportunist..just that she is way more upgarded in her men-emotional twisting game while you are after her body, the sex and maybe her beauty. So you have got a lot of growing to catch up with before you become a man- sorry you are not yet one. Having Money is just 20% and Choice Control have a bigger contribution if you dont wanna plunge into emotional and financial bankruptcy.
Mcpadosky:
Good morning my fellow romance landers, please I want you all to pardon my grammatical errors because am not too good in writing.
I work as a project coordinator east covering the entire south east and south south in one of the leading advertising, promotion and marketing agency Nigeria. So I deal mostly with women beautiful once because of the nature of my work and every woman wants to identify with the boss for favour. 4years ago I met a girl in on of the south east state and she was even the person that gave me green light and one thing led to the other we started dating but my mum never likes this girl but she can't tell me her reasons not until I gave my younger graduate sister a work to work as a supervisor and no one knows that she is my sister, so when she sat with other girls numbering more than 200 because the project is big and a beverage activation in one of leading breweries. Girls started their normal gossip that was when my sister found out that my so called sweetheart is a heavy runs girl, but am not always around because of work and her school is a bit far from town and she leaves in the school hostel. when my sister told my mum, she told her that her spirit never accepted the girl and am very stubborn so mum is just being careful not to offend me. I later confronted her but she started crying but since all this while I never suspected her due to the love I have for her. After Six months my office had Issues because of that she broke up with me although the issue never affected me that much because I have some investment which she doesn't know that sustained me throughout the trying times. Not more than 4months we bounced back and we got more contracts from multinational companies, when she had that were back she wanted to come back which after s pleading even from her mum I accepted her back, Because am like the bread of her family, I gave her brother work as a supervisor and her sister and the brothers wife is one of my brand ambassadors. something happened again last year I broke up with her, although we're still friends and have sex on some occasions and am still close to her family. she wanted us to come back which am still considering and she still work for me in a double project one she earns #75,000 per month even as she doesn't have her results ready because she is yet to do her NYSC and I lied to my office because all my workers documents in my region is with me. the second work sh works as a supervisor which I always cover her up even when am not around my city rep always cover her up because of me and she earns around #81,000 minus allowance. I can't say everything I have done for this girl. Last month one of my distance guy called me and said that his girlfriend works for me I said wow which of them she mentioned my girlfriend, I was surprised and I kept my cool. Then told me that the said that am her oga and am very good to her and the family, I said ok he now ask me ifthe girl is good him that no one is bad or good that it all depends on what he wants.

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Michelle55: 12:29pm On Jul 28, 2018
Op are you sure this your story isn't made up?
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Homeboiy: 12:32pm On Jul 28, 2018
I like that kind of girls

They too dey get sense
Greet her for me

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Donjazzy12(m): 12:40pm On Jul 28, 2018
Mcpadosky:
After the guys call I confronted her and she told me that the got her number from one of her sisters friend and she doesn't know how he looks like. After two weeks he called me that he is in Town that I should meet him up which I told him that is past 9:30pm that I can't make it again and besides my neighbours have blocked me which he understands with me. When I dropped the call, I called the girl and ask were she was at that but she told me that she went out with a male friend I immediately hanged up. The next day I went to her outlet to do my normal monitoring, after an hour I left her outlet the guy called me that he wants to see me, I told him were I will be in the next 30mins.After 30mins I drove to agreed meeting point as I was parking my car, to my greatest surprise I saw my guy and the girl coming down from a cab, we exchanged greetings and sat down together. I ordered for bod wiser and the guy requested Heineken while the girl too snap. The guy started telling me how the girl has been telling her how I used to help her and the family while the girl placed her head on the guys shoulder after that the guy started telling me all sorts of lies that he now deals with crude oil and he have more than 100,000 litres of diesel and kerosene that he now works with an oil company and this the guy that always give work anytime I have project in his city because he lost work he was doing before. I kept on listening to the lies and the same lies the girl tells him. After all the lies he requested that I should give the girl 3days off to come and visit him in his base. I told him that is not possible and he keeps on insisting because he knows I can make it happen, I now asked him do u people want to plan ur weeding, he said no that is just for them to know each other well, I told him that I will think about it and during the time of the discussion I found out that this 2peole have known each other since November last year.
I later left the place after some hours and paid for the drinks. Immediately I got home I sent her a sack latter and subsequently sack her from one of the project she doesn't have much attention on and also remove her from all the group chats and after that she called me to enquire why she was sacked I hanged up on her. In the afternoon the next day the guy called to plead to me to bring her back, I warned him to interfer in my work that the girl can only do one work at a time. And since then I have made the work a living hell for her because now I made sure she does all her work and any time she comes to work 5mins late I subcharge a huge amount from her salary. I want to sack her this month because her performance is bad. Please my dear romance landers advice me. Insult is allowed

I just don't know why young men of these days are so foolish! See small girl dey use you like big fool! Haba! Is she was in your position, she will never ever give you work self talk less of your family. You are such a very big fool!

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by fineboynl(m): 1:06pm On Jul 28, 2018
guy this your story sweet oh. you and I know its fake. but if true. I get somebody when need the job

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 1:11pm On Jul 28, 2018
Gmart22:
From your story ... i don't mean to be rude in analysing events after events. Both of you are opportunist..just that she is way more upgarded in her men-emotional twisting game while you are after her body, the sex and maybe her beauty. So you have got a lot of growing to catch up with before you become a man- sorry you are not yet one. Having Money is just 20% and Choice Control have a bigger contribution if you dont wanna plunge into emotional and financial bankruptcy.
Thanks for this bro. it was true love I seriously felt for this girl. am wiser now after this month I will drop her from this particular project. is just that I don't want it to look lik witch-hunt
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 1:12pm On Jul 28, 2018
fineboynl:
guy this your story sweet oh. you and I know its fake. but if true. I get somebody when need the job
Is not fake bro. but I have a lot of people ready to do the work
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 1:13pm On Jul 28, 2018
Mcpadosky:

Thanks for this bro. it was true love I seriously felt for this girl. am wiser now after this month I will drop her from this particular project. is just that I don't want it to look lik witch-hunt

your right am a very big one at that.
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by olac21(m): 1:14pm On Jul 28, 2018
I know what to tell you if not for the fear of been banned, but then I say you're far from wisdom in your dealings with that girl..bye
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jul 28, 2018
Mcpadosky:
Good morning my fellow romance landers, please I want you all to pardon my grammatical errors because am not too good in writing.
I work as a project coordinator east covering the entire south east and south south in one of the leading advertising, promotion and marketing agency Nigeria. So I deal mostly with women beautiful once because of the nature of my work and every woman wants to identify with the boss for favour. 4years ago I met a girl in on of the south east state and she was even the person that gave me green light and one thing led to the other we started dating but my mum never likes this girl but she can't tell me her reasons not until I gave my younger graduate sister a work to work as a supervisor and no one knows that she is my sister, so when she sat with other girls numbering more than 200 because the project is big and a beverage activation in one of leading breweries. Girls started their normal gossip that was when my sister found out that my so called sweetheart is a heavy runs girl, but am not always around because of work and her school is a bit far from town and she leaves in the school hostel. when my sister told my mum, she told her that her spirit never accepted the girl and am very stubborn so mum is just being careful not to offend me. I later confronted her but she started crying but since all this while I never suspected her due to the love I have for her. After Six months my office had Issues because of that she broke up with me although the issue never affected me that much because I have some investment which she doesn't know that sustained me throughout the trying times. Not more than 4months we bounced back and we got more contracts from multinational companies, when she had that were back she wanted to come back which after s pleading even from her mum I accepted her back, Because am like the bread of her family, I gave her brother work as a supervisor and her sister and the brothers wife is one of my brand ambassadors. something happened again last year I broke up with her, although we're still friends and have sex on some occasions and am still close to her family. she wanted us to come back which am still considering and she still work for me in a double project one she earns #75,000 per month even as she doesn't have her results ready because she is yet to do her NYSC and I lied to my office because all my workers documents in my region is with me. the second work sh works as a supervisor which I always cover her up even when am not around my city rep always cover her up because of me and she earns around #81,000 minus allowance. I can't say everything I have done for this girl. Last month one of my distance guy called me and said that his girlfriend works for me I said wow which of them she mentioned my girlfriend, I was surprised and I kept my cool. Then told me that the said that am her oga and am very good to her and the family, I said ok he now ask me ifthe girl is good him that no one is bad or good that it all depends on what he wants.

Now I know why some nairalanders throw abuse when certain questions are asked. It insults the intelligence of all humans on earth.

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Misscaring(f): 1:33pm On Jul 28, 2018
Mcpadosky:

Is not fake bro. but I have a lot of people ready to do the work




I honestly need a job Biko. Will so appreciate if you can help me out. Tired of staying at home.
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 1:39pm On Jul 28, 2018
Misscaring:





I honestly need a job Biko. Will so appreciate if you can help me out. Tired of staying at home.
we're do u reside?
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by JoyIsSweet: 2:06pm On Jul 28, 2018
Misscaring:





I honestly need a job Biko. Will so appreciate if you can help me out. Tired of staying at home.

U self wan get some knacking...Girls eh!

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Cornerstone2020(m): 2:12pm On Jul 28, 2018
My only advice is that you should remove southeast from the poorly scripted story

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Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by Mcpadosky(m): 2:26pm On Jul 28, 2018
Cornerstone2020:
My only advice is that you should remove southeast from the poorly scripted story
you right bro, not too good with writing but is no cooked up
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by iLegendd(m): 4:51pm On Jul 28, 2018
I will read this next week.
Re: Should I Sack Her Or Continue To Manage Her? by iLegendd(m): 4:51pm On Jul 28, 2018

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