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Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 8:11pm On Aug 03, 2018

Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Aug 03, 2018

There is a probability that the man will use you for sugar mummy things, then in turn spend the money on the woman he love.

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Aug 03, 2018

If you’re a rich girl, how in the world would you notice a poor man?

Doesn’t she network? Or does she happen to network with poor men?

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by MissRaine69(f): 8:34pm On Aug 03, 2018*

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?-

Can u do this to make the man love u?- i

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

1) If you are spending money with the delusional belief that he will love you then this is a whole different topic for discussion not what you asked.
2) What’s there to handle? It’s about the type of woman you are and his confidence if he has potential and is willing to explore it why not? But Nigerian women have a flawed way of thinking most don’t recognise potential they aim for the already made man.
3) What do you expect to happen? Are there no women who have sponsored their man’s visa, schooling and are now husband and wife?
What happens is based on mindset and emotional intelligence. ( many lack this)

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Aug 03, 2018

Good question! Some ladies claim too superior if they've gathered enough change. And forgot the fact that they were created to be a worthy help for the man. SAY NO TO LAZINESS! But gentle ladies in the house, pls be humble despite ur worths.

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by FRANNN: 9:43pm On Aug 03, 2018

If there's 'chemistry', Sure wink

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 11:53pm On Aug 03, 2018

FRANNN:
If there's 'chemistry', Sure

Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nofav0rs(m): 11:55pm On Aug 03, 2018

Colourich:
There is a probability that the man will use you for sugar mummy things, then in turn spend the money on the woman he love.

But when a rich dude marries a poor girl, such probability doesn't exist huh? Smh

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by pweshdodo(m): 12:00am On Aug 04, 2018

They wont

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nofav0rs(m): 12:02am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

He talking some organic chemistry grin

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by FRANNN: 12:12am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

A strong connection. Real love

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 12:20am On Aug 04, 2018

FRANNN:
A strong connection. Real love

Hmm

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 12:20am On Aug 04, 2018

I can marry a financially poor guy but not a mentally poor one. grin

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by ibkayee(f): 12:24am On Aug 04, 2018

If his future prospects realistically and practically had the potential to be fruitful

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 12:25am On Aug 04, 2018

MariaLavina:
I can marry a financially poor guy but not a mentally poor one.

And u will take care of his responsibilities? Take care of him?

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 12:37am On Aug 04, 2018*

Seal33:
And u will take care of his responsibilities? Take care of him?

A mentally rich guy can never be poor grin

BTW there is a difference between a Poor guy,and a broke guy. The latter i can manage

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 12:40am On Aug 04, 2018

MariaLavina:
A mentally rich guy can never be poor

BTW there is a different between a Poor guy,and a broke guy. The latter i can manage

So if he is financially poor and broke but talented will u marry him?

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 12:53am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
So if he is financially poor and broke but talented will u marry him?

Share your problem with me...
I'm willing to help.

What are your doubts about him?

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 12:56am On Aug 04, 2018*

OP, you shouldn't have directed that question to 'girls'. It's the women you need to ask.

P. S *in Patorankin's voice * Call me, I'm available. Call me, I'm capable. I am able to disable you on top of the table. cool

Seal33:
Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

Can I call you mummy? cool

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 1:03am On Aug 04, 2018

MissRaine69:
1) If you are spending money with the delusional belief that he will love you then this is whole different topic for discussion not what you asked.
2) What’s there to handle? It’s about the type of woman you are and his confidence if he has potential and is willing to explore it why not? But Nigerian women have a flawed way of thinking most don’t recognise potential they aim for the already made man.
3) What do you expect to happen? Are there no women who have sponsored their man’s visa, noschooling and are now husband and wife?
What happens is based on mindset and emotional intelligence. ( many lack this)

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 1:05am On Aug 04, 2018

mrAMG:
If you’re a rich girl, how in the world would you notice a poor man?

Doesn’t she network? Or does she happen to network with poor men?

Are u saying a rich lady cannot meet a poor man? Even if she networks among the elite she can still meet a guy that's not financially ok

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 1:06am On Aug 04, 2018

MariaLavina:
Share your problem with me...
I'm willing to help.

What are your doubts about him?

Hmm, lol

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 1:09am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
Hmm, lol

If the thread is about you, I'd advise you do not marry that poor boy yet. If you are that rich try set him up first, help his business grow then tie the knots if he asks.

Life is so simple. grin

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 1:18am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

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Hypergamy won't allow that

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 1:24am On Aug 04, 2018

pcguru1:
Hypergamy won't allow that

Hyper wetin? Meaning what?

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 1:34am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
Hyper wetin? Meaning what?

hypergamy
hʌɪˈpəːɡəmi/Submit
noun
the action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class.

Women (today's generation) marry up but not down, few women would (those madly in love or those desperate to marry anyone). Then again it could be that the guys pride could be considered too , some guys can't handle women out earning them, so its a multi faceted issue and not just a simple one

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Seal33(op): 1:36am On Aug 04, 2018

pcguru1:
hypergamy
hʌɪˈpəːɡəmi/Submit
noun
the action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class.

Women (today's generation) marry up but not down, few women would (those madly in love or those desperate to marry anyone). Then again it could be that the guys pride could be considered too , some guys can't handle women out earning them, so its a multi faceted issue and not just a simple one

I see. So is it in all situations that women must marry upward

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 1:44am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
I see. So is it in all situations that women must marry upward

If its a Nigerian lady I would most probably say Yes, its rare to find rich ladies marrying poor guys, however ladies marry guys they are way richer than but those guys won't be that poor.

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Nobody: 2:57am On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
Are u saying a rich lady cannot meet a poor man? Even if she networks among the elite she can still meet a guy that's not financially ok

I agree she can meet a poor man but then have a relationship with him? I don’t like the sound of that.

I’ve heard stories about this sort of thing and the only question in my head is how?

What were those girls thinking?

That’s why I admire the indimi girls, infact, you should have noticed how rich daughters of northern billionaires only marry sons of other billionaires/millionaires

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Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Sarang(f): 3:55am On Aug 04, 2018

No.

Re: Girls, Can You Marry A Poor Man If You're Rich? by Buhari2019: 3:00pm On Aug 04, 2018

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

Yes. Love is priceless.

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