Bunch of hypocrites. U can't marry a poor man if u are rich as a lady but u espect rich men to marry u in ur poverty. Ashiri gbagbuokwa unu ebe ahu

@OP, it is doable. But you have to hide your worth while dating- this is avoid gold diggers who would take advantage of you .

If you see that he has good prospects and he is making an effort to succeed, it is only a matter of time. Support but don't spoonfeed him. You may help him start a business when married. BUT listen to your head and PRAY before accepting the proposal.

ibkayee:
If his future prospects realistically and practically had the potential to be fruitful

Is alright.

Lalas247:

Funny how those cheap boyz are missing from this thread

Which cheap boys?

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Nofav0rs:
But when a rich dude marries a poor girl, such probability doesn't exist huh? Smh

Thank you, women are something else. Owz thinking of money.

Elder001:
I hope Nigerian men learn something from this thread
If they have small cash they'll be running after broke ladies

If you're rich marry only a rich person to avoid stories that touch.

I've said it here before...if you are not gainfully employed, you and I cannot even start any serious relationship.

Any broke/poor man that agrees to marry a rich woman has set himself on a slavery path which he may not return as a free man till he dies.

If I am dating a rich girl, the best she could do for me is assist me stand on a path that would make me the breadwinner through her contacts or connection. Until such is done. I wouldn't tie a knot with her.

Marriage survives on mutual respect, love, responsibility and temperance

First of all every man is great in his own way except 4 few wit no dreams or expectations, wit dat there's absolutely nothing 2 invest in so u wont say a woman is faulty.secondly most african women have dis urge 4 already made men(dat doesn't stop a man 4rm hustling)it only makes d majority materialistic & more dependant on men rather than contributing 2 their lives.

And how do some Nigerian men act?
They don't flaunt their girlfriends to their wives? You people seek every opportunity to vilify women when in reality you're just worse.

egbarison:
Good question! Some ladies claim too superior if they've gathered enough change. And forgot the fact that they were created to be a worthy help for the man. SAY NO TO LAZINESS! But gentle ladies in the house, pls be humble despite ur worths.

Jay5mie:

They were asking rich people...how much de your account....na you shout No pass

Lol I no wan marry you nah by force
If nah if
See as e dey pain am

Even as a man Ur no 1 prayer point should be against Ur wife having funds than u.only a few hours women ruled the world we can see the outcome

MariaLavina:
A mentally rich guy can never be poor


BTW there is a difference between a Poor guy,and a broke guy. The latter i can manage

Exactly.

kimbraa:
Yes.

Then go ahead and examine your conscience.

Please guys wise up. If you are rich don't marry jobless & a poor girl....these are indeed eye opener

kimbraa:
Please, ladies! If you're rich, don't marry a poor man. Poor men are liabilities. This would have been what my nairaland brothers would have been saying if the question was reversed, so I'm just helping them say the bitter truth.

Seal33:


Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

Shaking mi head for u. Olodo!

Love is sweet o,but when money enter love is sweater (in davido's voice) my dear money makes love more interesting. I believe if you are good to him he ll reciprocate. But study him well first o

As for me, I'm looking for a working class lady to marry.i cannot come and kill ma self for all these chewing gum / parasite girls everywhere

ibkayee:
If his future prospects realistically and practically had the potential to be fruitful

lemme be your Mr right

mrAMG:
If you’re a rich girl, how in the world would you notice a poor man?

Doesn’t she network? Or does she happen to network with poor men?

bros u are on point oo

Nofav0rs:
He talking some organic chemistry

No, he's talking about that thing wey go they make them f#ck 3 times daily - morning, afternoon ati ale.

Trexnemesis:


No, he's talking about that thing wey go they make them f#ck 3 times daily - morning, afternoon ati ale.

Lalas247:

Funny how those cheap boyz are missing from this thread

Kala and you are a Liverpool fan.. I am disliking you for this .. see how you making mockery of guys..

Rich Ladies marry poor men if you want to ooo, just make sure you don't relegate yourself to position of housemaid that will be cooking and cleaning and doing housework and STILL providing money at once.
Don't turn yourself to anybody Maga because men will use your head if you leave them.

ONCE YOU MARRY AND START CARING FOR A POOR MAN MAKE SURE HE DOES HOUSE WORK, all that rubbish authority and bossing you around will have to stop until he becomes breadwinner again.

dangoteinlaw:
Even as a man Ur no 1 prayer point should be against Ur wife having funds than u.only a few hours women ruled the world we can see the outcome

When have women ever ruled the world oga? Is it not men that have been in charge in Nigeria for ages that have turned the country upside down, Nigeria is now ahead of India in poverty rate, India that used to be number one for poverty, suicide rates are increasing and dollar rate is rising everyday because you people fvcked Nigeria up.

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

Seal33 my dear,

Do you smoke cannabis ? Where did this wonderful question come from ? And the fact that a lady is asking this question blows my mind.

My mind is not blown because I am fooled that this is a real question, it is the fact that you have been able to turn the tides of what Men do, as a requirement for ladies of nowadays.

Women expect to be married rich made men. They believe it is their right to be taken care of because of their 'body', before they 'go down' with a man, they want to be sure he is 'somebody' or will be something.

Can you spend money on men ?

Women expect a man to 'take care of them', the Small-Girls-with-Big-God mentality has pervaded the space, and I want to know if women can actually spend money on men. The Answer is Yes. You can spend money on men...

can you do this to make the man love you ? Why not. No be so we dey spend our money on women to love us ?

Women are insecure creatures. They want to eat from men, as their God-given right, but when it comes to them taking care of men, they think twice.

But my conclusion is that What a man can do, a woman can do it even better, So Yes. You can cos some women out there are taking care of their families.

Most of us were trained by our mothers and most families are fed by trading mothers.

There are wonderful women out there, not read about on the internet who carry their families so do not take what girls do online as a deterministic framework of a systemic paradigm.


The answers to all your questions is a resounding YES.

Will the man disappoint you ?

I will answer that question with a rhetorical answer:

When men spend for women, do some women disappoint those men ?

abike12:


Why is it so important for you to convince other people to marry a man of a certain economic status? Everybody knows that life happens, sickness, disease, financial problem, disaster, but that should not prevent a sane human being from knowing what they want for their life and going after it. Even people who prefer very beautiful partners know that acid can pour on them anytime but you don't see that stopping them from going for their choice. So madam poverty ambassador what is your own?

I thought you don't respond to questions that are not directed at you?
Are you rich?
And for referring to me as poverty ambassador, I simply don't know what to say. God bless you.
Enjoy!!!

egbarison:
Good question! Some ladies claim too superior if they've gathered enough change. And forgot the fact that they were created to be a worthy help for the man. SAY NO TO LAZINESS! But gentle ladies in the house, pls be humble despite ur worths.

keep quiet there ! Do you ask men to be humble ? It’s women that must be humble because you want to use them as doormat ! Rubbish talk like this can annoy me !

at late 30's they will get no option
nurtw guy self go better

Amberon11:
And how do some Nigerian men act?
They don't flaunt their girlfriends to their wives? You people seek every opportunity to vilify women when in reality you're just worse.

What am saying is simply no lady would be afraid of a very wealthy guy. Nowadays most men (altho well-to-do) are scared even to approach some (so-called) classic ladies due to their burstful attitudes with an inclined ideology of being socioeconomically equal or more than a man. It's not a good habit!