balorx:
let them dress conservative first, then we can blame the men

grow up. There is no humor in issues as this. It depicts un intelligence.

balorx:
if women dress conservative, the rate of rape will reduce drastically

I will like to take your mother and sister to somewhere in India. They will be "conservative" in their dressing, let's hear their experience when they return.

Any man that hears a story of rape and blames a woman is a rapist.
Yes,I said it!
You are
You are justifying to us why you rape and to you i say


Shut up!!
I say shut it tight
You rapists on the prowl hiding under monikers ,you won't escape judgment here on earth
You imbeciles rape mad women on the streets
You rape mentally handicapped females
You break into homes supposedly one''s safe haven and rape
You rape little babies crawling by
Innocent elementary school kids
Grandmothers
Girls in coma
Even copses have been raped
No be una dey rape horse and sheep for bush?
Please take your decency lesson and shove it
Rape is a crime
A woman has no hand in that crime
100% of the blame goes to the lunatic criminal who should have never been conceived
Get it?

All you talking about a dress in a picture,your hare
brains told you that's even what she wore during the attack? And if it was,is that a reason to assault and violate a woman?
Bunch of lunatics
No wonder you readily accuse women of theft only to strip them naked and grope them
Eediots

OneCorner:
Nice boobs.

my guy

The way a woman dresses should never be a reason for rape,we are not animal.

majekdom2:
you want to blame a woman for your perversion or mental disorder now. How cool? So a woman dresses indecent.. next is to rape her. How about you call her and tell her to wear something appropriate. You will have daughters and I hope they don't experience such.

AMEN OO

2special:
in as much you can control your sexual emotion if you see a naked mad woman.... you should also be able to that if you see a lady dressing in a provocative way..

I love the charge..
But there's a big difference between the two.
Though some still rape mad women, especially for ritual purposes others would only do that under a spell.
Many,maybe not all, who dress provocatively do so to get attention. God help you if the person is a depraved person.
Simply put,some would eat or taste the same food if served on different platters.
Let's be careful, God won't follow you where He didn't send you.

OneCorner:
Nice boobs.

Damn is that all you can say.

No problem... straight to hell!

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Dami12345:


Lol, no one is.

If rape is so serious with the comments I see on nairaland like cut off the guys preek and kill all rapist.

I wonder how exactly is rape serious.
Is it not the same sex that girls always have?
Is it not the same cheating on their husbands with gatemen and someone sha that they regularly do?

So why should anyone die for it? undecided
Don't make sense. There are more serious matters.

You’re such an asshole. God

I don’t even care if I’m banned for two years for this comment (as I probably will be by your fellow rapist MODs).
I hope you get raped brutally. It won’t matter because it’s not that serious. Ekwensu

She might have triggered the rape?

What’s wrong with you monkeys? Fvcking retard

PurplePatch:
I guess this happened in SA. My points are:

1. Rape leaves victims With emotional and psychological trauma.

2. With a high HIV rate in that country, she might have run a test and tested positive.

3. She might have triggered this sad circle of events with her DRESSING. The pics up there suggests so. When you dangle a "banana" before a "monkey" and refuse to give it to eat, it devices a method to quench it's hunger(Curiosity).

4. Every rapist is psychologically imbalanced. How does it feel like eating your food forcefully?

5. Conclusively, Suicide should never be an option.
#SayNoToSuicide

There’s no way it was her fault

tiwiex:

The scenario was not clear. A lot of gang rape and rape goes on in SA by strangers. You sound like you think her rapist was a friend. Rape is traumatic. I had a female friend raped in Abuja by someone she barely knew. It was her fault in some ways but she has never behaved normally since then. 4 years and counting. That someone she knew sort of in a one on one. What if this was a gang rape? Or was the scenario spelt out?

Keep your advice to yourself and your fellow men

Rape is the one crime that should never be excused. Yet it is the one all of you fight tooth and nail to excuse.

People might steal to feed themselves and their families or kill in self defense but no one excuses these crimes.

Rape serves absolutely no purpose to the rapist except to exert power and trauma on the victim. yet it is always excused by you men sometimes masked in faux concern. what’s wrong with you people?

franchasng:
In as much as I condemn the useless rapist and all rapists, ladies should learn to dress well when u observe your environment harbors a lot of useless men, they call it caution!

I observed my area, noticed how most guys kept hailing me unnecessarily and some staring enviously, I had to sell off my 2nd car and be using one average normal car before somebody comes knocking on my door at night for what doesn't belong to him.

We call it caution.

Always observe your environment and act accordingly to avoid ending up in a tight situation in life.

RIP poor lady, its sad

This forum is a breeding ground for many types of criminals, they come here, read paint by their fellow nut jobs and become emboldened to act further

Daeylar:
The rape comments are being deleted. But I wish seun would allow us see who likes such comments, let me know those to avoid on nairaland.

Before that comment was deleted it had 32 likes. I wonder who those people were.


I seen comments attacking and insulting women here get up to 900 likes. Rapist comments. Misogynistic comments, comments supporting abuse. Such kind of comments.

Now I know that up to 900 posters here liked such a comment, (the one in particular I'm talking about) but I don't know who actually liked it.
I just know that a lot of people are crazy, I don't actually know who is crazy.
How is knowing but not actually knowing, really beneficial to women on this website?

Abiiiike:


Don't keep your phones in your hand while walking on the street coz it attracts phone snatchers.
Don't make too much money coz it attracts robbers/kidnappers.
Avoid driving cars coz you could get hit by a drunk driver.

NONSENSE!!

If your phone was snatched from you or your property got stolen, would you blame the criminal or would you blame yourself for 'tempting' the criminal??

Isn't it time we realised how horrible it is to shame victims of rape coz of the way they chose to dress?.. last time I checked, only animals are incapable of controlling theirselves, and those dogs should be punished severely!

So women should dress provocatively since whatever happens the criminals are to be held responsible?

[quote author=Abiiiike post=70019407]
Someone insisted??.. insisted??.. helloooo??
Do you even xstand what it means to be raped? /quote]sharap dia...

dress a way u want to be addressed


...use ur head not ur foot bro

Delivar:

So women should dress provocatively since whatever happens the criminals are to be held responsible?

Yes. The crime is rape not "provocative dressing". The rapist committed the crime,rape and has full responsibility. The consequence of rape is borne mostly by the victim.

Up till this very moment, I find it hard to believe when people blame victims when they are raped. And those who think so, unfortunately, are becoming more vocal than those who don't.

A rapist is a rapist. Whether someone is dressed modestly or not, a person who is one will still rape you. You are not an animal, control yourself. That a lady is dressed scantily is never an invitation to force yourself on her.

This society is messed up. Several levels of our society failed in their duties. If as a guy you think it normal to force yourself on someone who is screaming and struggling just to satisfy your depravity, then your parents failed. Your mom and dad are failures.

And sooner rather than later, you will meet your end.

Abiiiike:


Don't keep your phones in your hand while walking on the street coz it attracts phone snatchers.
Don't make too much money coz it attracts robbers/kidnappers.
Avoid driving cars coz you could get hit by a drunk driver.

NONSENSE!!

If your phone was snatched from you or your property got stolen, would you blame the criminal or would you blame yourself for 'tempting' the criminal??

Isn't it time we realised how horrible it is to shame victims of rape coz of the way they chose to dress?.. last time I checked, only animals are incapable of controlling theirselves, and those dogs should be punished severely!

FACE-THEM IS HERE, What is the problem

Abiiiike:


Why??... how are u different from the next man, is it because you can actually control your thoughts and actions but he cannot??

if i can actually control my thoughts and actions and the next man cant, its still not safe for her. that is my point. But it is possible for her to be safe completely, by dressing well. once a person is raped, the damage is done. the injuries are inflicted. the downward spiral begins. but it can be prevented to a very reasonable extent.

TimiRume:
Yes. The crime is rape not "provocative dressing". The rapist committed the crime,rape and has full responsibility. The consequence of rape is borne mostly by the victim.

I am not saying rapists shouldn't be held responsible for their crime. But do you feel it is okay for women to dress provocatively and become a source of temptation to rapists? Look at how the victim dressed in her photos. If she had dressed properly don't you think MAYBE she wouldn't have drawn the attention of rapists? I wouldn't feel sorry for any lady who gets raped after she has been showing of so much skin.

OneCorner:
Nice boobs.

Lol, baba... your own get as e b o

balorx:
if women dress conservative, the rate of rape will reduce drastically

of course it’s the women’s fault

The rapists are innocent victims lured to commit the act by the dressing if women.
Imbeciile

Delivar:

I am not saying rapists shouldn't be held responsible for their crime. But do you feel it is okay for women to dress provocatively and become a source of temptation rapists? Look at how the victim dressed in her photos. If she had dressed properly don't you think MAYBE she wouldn't have drawn the aattention of rapists? I wouldn't feel sorry for any lady who gets raped after she has been showing of so much skin.

They victim can only be accused of tempting the rapist if she threw herself at the rapist. Otherwise she was only dressing "provocatively". Why would mr x rape a scantily dressed female and mr y wouldn't? cos mr x is a...

Thank you brother>>> but don't you think the guy who made that statement should also be arrested for such comment, i fear he's trying to justify his crime (probably).. maybe he's guilty

Abiiiike:


Don't keep your phones in your hand while walking on the street coz it attracts phone snatchers.
Don't make too much money coz it attracts robbers/kidnappers.
Avoid driving cars coz you could get hit by a drunk driver.

NONSENSE!!

If your phone was snatched from you or your property got stolen, would you blame the criminal or would you blame yourself for 'tempting' the criminal??

Isn't it time we realised how horrible it is to shame victims of rape coz of the way they chose to dress?.. last time I checked, only animals are incapable of controlling theirselves, and those dogs should be punished severely!

No woman deserves to be raped, but most women actually instigates sexual harassment.

The deceased inclusive.

So much wailing on this thread...

IS it because a woman is involved...?

TimiRume:
They victim can only be accused of tempting the rapist if she threw herself at the rapist. Otherwise she was only dressing "provocatively". Why would mr x rape a scantily dressed female and mr y wouldn't? cos mr x is a...

Madam, every human isn't the same. You can't use the same approach on everyone and expect the same outcome. Don't say because you were scantily dressed around Mr A and nothing happened so you should therefore feel free to dress scantily around Mr B and C. Mr B or C can react differently. Before you preach against rape first advice ladies to dress responsibly.

poik:



if i can actually control my thoughts and actions and the next man cant, its still not safe for her. that is my point. But it is possible for her to be safe completely, by dressing well. once a person is raped, the damage is done. the injuries are inflicted. the downward spiral begins. but it can be prevented to a very reasonable extent.

Nobody is completely safe from a rapist, do you not know that there are a lot of fully clothed women, children and even old women who end up being raped? What about the men that are also raped either by ladies/guys, are they provocatively dressed as well??

All I'm saying is that a rapist doesn't have any point at all to justify his actions

Abiiiike:


Someone insisted??.. insisted??.. helloooo??

Do you even xstand what it means to be raped??

Are you suggesting every woman that got raped should kill themselves?