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Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 5:02am On Aug 10, 2018
to women by brainwashing them into believing any marriage is better than being single. Is this true?
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Nobody: 5:04am On Aug 10, 2018
The nigerian society is backward cos of things lik this. Marriage us an ultimate achievement
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Nobody: 5:24am On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:
to women by brainwashing them into believing any marriage is better than being single. Is this true?
That is absolutely FALSE!
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by chiommy123(f): 5:40am On Aug 10, 2018
honestly any good marriage is better than being single.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 5:49am On Aug 10, 2018
chiommy123:
honestly any good marriage is better than being single.
Sigh undecided
The issue is not about a good marriage , the problem if you will is women staying in one when it is clearly not benefiting anyone because they don’t want to be single.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 5:49am On Aug 10, 2018
modelmike7:

That is absolutely FALSE!
Ok.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by eph12(m): 5:55am On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:
to women by brainwashing them into believing any marriage is better than being single. Is this true?
That's not even the main issue. The main issue is that ladies believe it's their right as a lady to be dependent on men or seek favors always.

I only hope the new moms and upcoming moms will do better in raising their girls and boys
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by chiommy123(f): 5:56am On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:

Sigh undecided
The issue is not about a good marriage , the problem if you will is women staying in one when it is clearly not benefiting anyone because they don’t want to be single.
it depends. if kids are involved it will somehow difficult but if they are not then you can easily switch after doing your best.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 5:59am On Aug 10, 2018
chiommy123:
it depends. if kids are involved it will somehow difficult but if they are not then you can easily switch after doing your best.
This post is for women who think like you do.
Women who will forgo how much psychological trauma the whole family is going through in the name of staying “married”
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by BluntBoy(m): 6:03am On Aug 10, 2018
chiommy123:
honestly any good marriage is better than being single.

That is a very short post and yet you failed to read it thoroughly.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by BluntBoy(m): 6:04am On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:
to women by brainwashing them into believing any marriage is better than being single. Is this true?

True and False.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by donbachi(m): 6:10am On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:
to women by brainwashing them into believing any marriage is better than being single. Is this true?
half bread is better than chinchin
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Deltayankeeboi: 6:40am On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:

Sigh undecided
The issue is not about a good marriage , the problem if you will is women staying in one when it is clearly not benefiting anyone because they don’t want to be single.
I don't think that is a societal problem. It is a problem of personality and confidence on the part of the woman. She thinks what the society or close friends would say if she decides to quit her marriage even when it is not beneficial.

The society does not really care. The problem is fear. We humans cage ourselves unknowingly because we think too much what others will say about us when for a fact, look deeply and no one cares.

What i am trying to say is that, the society did not create that problem, we individuals personally created the problem for ourselves due to fear of the unknown(the society). I believe that is just it. Fear is a big vice.

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 8:00am On Aug 10, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
I don't think that is a societal problem. It is a problem of personality and confidence on the part of the woman. She thinks what the society or close friends would say if she decides to quit her marriage even when it is not beneficial.

The society does not really care. The problem is fear. We humans cage ourselves unknowingly because we think too much what others will say about us when for a fact, look deeply and no one cares.

What i am trying to say is that, the society did not create that problem, we individuals personally created the problem for ourselves due to fear of the unknown(the society). I believe that is just it. Fear is a big vice.
Your family extended and immediate
Church they form part of that society and you cannot deny the influence they have on a relationship!
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 8:00am On Aug 10, 2018
donbachi:
half bread is better than chinchin
That’s if you are even getting the bread.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Nobody: 8:31am On Aug 10, 2018
All these victim mentality is disgusting. Nobody brain washed women into believing that marriage is better than being single





It's merely majority of women hopping into relationships and marriages for socioeconomic gains!

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by ToyinDipo(m): 10:16am On Aug 10, 2018
It's a lemma
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:45am On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:
to women by brainwashing them into believing any marriage is better than being single. Is this true?
.. Always playing the victim card.Nobody has ever jumped into any marriage and nobody is brainwashing anybody into it. You work out your marriage the way you want it to be.

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by lilmax(m): 10:52am On Aug 10, 2018
chai nairaland

always making women look like irrational beings because they can't think for themselves
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 3:41pm On Aug 10, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
.. Always playing the victim card.Nobody has ever jumped into any marriage and nobody is brainwashing anybody into it. You work out your marriage the way you want it to be.
It was a question posed and it is based on what is prevelent in Nigerian society now saying “nobody has ever jumped into any marriage” is mmmm perhaps a misnomer at best. You cannot deny that pressure exists for women to stay regardless of what is happpening in that marriage. The pressure is mostly external fundementally how one views self also applies but why is there still stigma attached to single mothers?

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by MissRaine69(f): 3:43pm On Aug 10, 2018
lilmax:
chai nairaland

always making women look like irrational beings because they can't think for themselves
No one accused women of being irrational not sure where you got that from. It’s a topic open for discussion simple as that.

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Pusyiter(m): 4:43pm On Aug 10, 2018
Every man needs a partner
Every woman needs a cover
Marriage is a beautiful thing
The problem is our ego.
When you are egocentric, being single is the best.

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Twoclans(f): 5:09pm On Aug 10, 2018
Pusyiter:
Every man needs a partner
Every woman needs a cover
Marriage is a beautiful thing
The problem is our ego.
When you are egocentric, being single is the best.

How are you so sure about the bolded lipsrsealed

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by LuvU2: 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2018
eph12:

That's not even the main issue. The main issue is that ladies believe it's their right as a lady to be dependent on men or seek favors always.

Ie op only hope the new moms and upcoming moms will do better in raising their girls and boys
Blaming the victims, denying the original post, dismissing her argument. Typical

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by victorian(f): 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2018
Pusyiter:
Every man needs a partner
Every woman needs a cover
Marriage is a beautiful thing
The problem is our ego.
When you are egocentric, being single is the best.








Paddy mi cheesy You are here!

Tell them as e dey hot! smiley

In between For me? Marriage is the next best thing I could ever wish to have in my life. Being single for life is not a great idea or path to choose. Companionship and family is a deal breaker, anytime, anyday. Simply marry the right person and like u rightly typed, people should just lower their egos and make it work.




How's work today? smiley

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Pusyiter(m): 5:50pm On Aug 10, 2018
My Dear thanks o.....e don tay small i hear from you.
We go chat later just that work is stiff-necking in view of 2019 lol
victorian:









Paddy mi cheesy You are here!

Tell them as e dey hot! smiley

In between For me? Marriage is the next best thing I could ever wish to have in my life. Being single for life is not a great idea or path to choose. Companionship and family is a deal breaker, anytime, anyday. Simply marry the right person and like u rightly typed, people should just lower their egos and make it work.




How's work today? smiley








Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Pusyiter(m): 5:54pm On Aug 10, 2018
Her Royal Cuteness,
We are the product of one and it would be a disservice to nature if we think otherwise.
Nothing is as beautiful as being in love with the right person and married to same.
Twoclans:


How are you so sure about the bolded lipsrsealed
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:59pm On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:

It was a question posed and it is based on what is prevelent in Nigerian society now saying “nobody has ever jumped into any marriage” is mmmm perhaps a misnomer at best. You cannot deny that pressure exists for women to stay regardless of what is happpening in that marriage. The pressure is mostly external fundementally how one views self also applies but why is there still stigma attached to single mothers?
...I do understand ur question. The truth is that most people get married to their partners willingly. The percentage of let me say girls forced into marriages are not too significant. But the truth still remains that most marriages you see crashing are due to the way both spouse handled their difficult and trying times.There can never be a perfect marriage but the way you handle urs can make others envy you and see urs as perfect. Coming to the issue of stigmatizing single mothers,I will say that yes society has made it so for some of them. If as a married lady you ve a good reason to leave your matrimonial home,people won't judge you wrongly but when she does that based on a flimsy excuse,then the society sees that person as wayward. It can also happen to single fathers. People still stigmatize and term them never do good( efuluefu) in Igbo. So its two ways. But its heartbreaking that things are falling apart these days because we ve all derailed from the original plan of God,we now believed our own wisdom thinking we re more intelligent than the almighty. Until we all come back to the original plan and abide by the stipulated rules laid down for us,we will keep hearing of how bad marriages are going.Remove pride and Ego and see how beautiful marriage is.
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Twoclans(f): 6:00pm On Aug 10, 2018
Pusyiter:
Her Royal Cuteness,
We are the product of one and it would be a disservice to nature if we think otherwise.
Nothing is as beautiful as being in love with the right person and married to same.

The great Prince charming,my question to you is beyond the words I typed wink

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by victorian(f): 6:08pm On Aug 10, 2018
Pusyiter:
My Dear thanks o.....e don tay small i hear from you.
We go chat later just that work is stiff-necking in view of 2019 lol










Eeyah grin
Truly it's been a while . Will expect your chat.
Take care smiley

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Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by CAPSLOCKED: 8:54pm On Aug 10, 2018
Igbokiller:
All these victim mentality is disgusting. Nobody brain washed women into believing that marriage is better than being single





It's merely majority of women hopping into relationships and marriages for socioeconomic gains.........

.....AND TAUNTING OTHER WOMEN WITH THE "ACHIEVEMENT".
Re: Society Did A Horrible Thing by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 10, 2018
Nigerian society has programmed women into believing that marriage is a huge achievement and even if they reach the peak of their career, it still will not matter until they marry.

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