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Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

thorpido:
You will hurt yourself more if you decide to carry distrust in your heart for men generally,except you don't plan to marry one.
You can't use one guy's experience to judge all.The guy you dated was a scum but not all men are.
You need to take your time to know a guy well before you take a plunge.Try and close your legs too.Opening your legs too quickly messes up the rational thinking.

You're young too and need some growing up.

patricknz:
Hehehe. Notin we no go see for this Naija...Olosho alert! she even changed her mind and asked FRIEND 2 to come to her base if he'z serious...���chop knuckle abeg��. Stupid girls like u are d reason guys see girls as hoes.

GODPUNISHUNA:
Lies from the pits of hell.

You will not make heaven

CSTR1005:
It could very well be my way of releasing stress.

You think shell operation managera are special beings?
You don't know life, obviously.


Those of you ladies on nairaland with your pictures on, displaying all kinds of foolishness and rudeness, because some guys were dumb enough to put you ladies on an undeserved pedestal, may reap your rewards in places you don't expect.

A word is enough for the wise.

bluefilm:
If you know how much of your personal and sexual life that your 'most beloved' girlfriend have shared with her friends and colleagues, you will just delete this your statement and then delete your nairaland account.

Women share men's information, they think it's okay.

A man shares a woman's information, the whole nairaland must shake.

Nonsense people everywhere.

Hedonini:
Look at this useless bitch. Common gerrout from here and go suck a dick for a buck. If you're not broke, you wouldn't be hunting for a mugu to rescue you and your family from poverty. A lineage of miserable paupers.

sokera:
can scam a scammer

GrabHisBalls:
That's Colourich na. What an irony!

Preshy561:
babez,don't mind them.

how can they be comparing their gullible and stinking comment with that of witty Twitter guys.
I will still say it again,most NL guys have nothing to offer,especially the ones on this section.
check the threads on romance section,from morning till night and see how they create threads upon threads just to bash ladies and to tell us the kinda smelly pussi they have smelt.
they are very shameless.

Hedonini:
Look at this useless bitch. Common gerrout from here and go suck a dick for a buck. If you're not broke, you wouldn't be hunting for a mugu to rescue you and your family from poverty. A lineage of miserable paupers.

Amberon1:
I bet your bitch mother tried to remove your family from poverty through prostitution but failed and ended up with your gay father. Must suck to be you.

Drink lots of water and enjoy your poverty striken life which you will not be living soon.

Babyforever:
Mention me there let's spicy up things

Babyforever:
Chief

Amberon1:
I bet your bitch mother tried to remove your family from poverty through prostitution but failed and ended up with your faggott father. Must suck to be you.

Drink lots of water and enjoy your poverty striken life which you will not be leaving soon.

Preshy561:
Lol.NL ladies got no chill.

Hedonini:
Bla bla bla. Mumu.

Hedonini:
Bla bla bla. Mumu.

Babyforever:
They are just doing what I taught them how to do

kaycee125:
I always find your posts funny

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

CorGier:
True, very true. We all are ever too quick to play victim, put it all on him. . . or her. It's easier to live with ourselves that way. We claim to not be like "that guy," that guy... that guy must be a kid! Us? we're more "emotionally mature" we sure as hell don't kiss and tell, we're not insecure like the others, we're the quintessential lover - the shinning example of what a "real man" embodies.

But it's all just a façade. In our quiet moments, we come to terms with who we really are. We are all dirt bags. We are the living breathing scum of the earth, every single one of us. Con-man, con-woman alike forever shíting on everything. From the guys crying out for a good girl but yet sabotage healthy relationships cos they perceive them as boring and lacking drama to bítches having their heads too far up their arse to be emotionally available to their man but would be dishing out Relationship Goals on every social media platform; We deserve each other.

But for the sake of keeping the thread alive, let's all pretend like Loveisascam wouldn't have comfortably banged Friend No2 at "her base" had she not known what she knows.

kaycee125:
I always find your posts funny

Preshy561:
abi naa. ladies on this thread have swept guys under the carpet. no chill atall. thanks to you and some ladies here.

Babyforever:
Career ladies winning

Colourich:
Using an alternative moniker will not stop me from knowing that it is you, so kimbraa do me a favour and by all means if you want to mention me, mention me with your original moniker.

lalas247, see how your friend is mentioning my moniker on nairaland and making side remarks again even as I no longer care about her existence.

Lalas247:
Happy Sunday