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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Gerrard59(m): 10:35pm On Aug 25, 2018
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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by geraldo077: 10:35pm On Aug 25, 2018
You attract your kind
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by iLegendd: 10:38pm On Aug 25, 2018
Elder001:


Thought you said you don't read my posts and won't reply me?
Adults don't throw the word “kid ” around anyhow, that's how I knew you are a kid probably eating free food in his parents house.

Which people are buying them? continue looking for unsuspecting nairalanders to scam.
Go and make your life useful boy. I won't reply any further mentions from you.
You're going to be very happy for the attention I've given you today.
I engaged you because 99% of the benefit is mine. You're only going home with 1%.

Two years to come, you'll still be on Nairaland jumping around. Try to have a future, Son.

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Babyforever(f): 10:39pm On Aug 25, 2018
zicoraads:
Babyforever, your pictures are darn funny. cheesy grin
Hi smiley7
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by ikorodureporta: 10:41pm On Aug 25, 2018
They both 4kd u
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by SeniorZato(m): 10:42pm On Aug 25, 2018
You can imogine
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Obim555: 10:43pm On Aug 25, 2018
he is truly a scum. Am so sorry you are hurt. but not all men are. Just give it time. Time heals all wounds.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Daze12345(m): 10:46pm On Aug 25, 2018
Oblongata:
You got played

Your boyfriend messed up real bad, he destroyed the guy code ; never snitch on your guy

Both of them are stu.pid and immature

In a mature setting, you would get forked by both of them and still end up being friends with them. ..

Hope the guys learnt their lesson

Hope you learnt yours too?

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by TanyLoe(f): 10:49pm On Aug 25, 2018
Hmm my dear
One even when up to the extent of showing me a marriage certificate of him and I just for me to see that he has plans for me...next thing he demanded for money, to add to what he has to travel to Dubai....
No body told me to run... I ran for my life
.....
Not because I can pay my bills and never ask you for anything doesn't mean I don't need care or love.
Well my dear just be yourself
Love yourself
Have time for yourself
and the one worth your all will come along
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Mattmafen(m): 10:55pm On Aug 25, 2018
so so sorry dear, but please am a man not a scum. A guy messes up big time, is never d behaviour of all men. A car is involved in an accident, doesn't mean u won't ply travelling on road again. d two guys acted so foolishly... full stop
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by churchee: 10:57pm On Aug 25, 2018
Virgins like us, we don't have stories like this to tell.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by MrPresident1: 10:58pm On Aug 25, 2018
Reads like one of those stupid twitter stories
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Krisddon: 11:00pm On Aug 25, 2018
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Love is not a scam! You sound well lettered to just conclude. You were only unfortunate to have met an idiot, that shouldn't make you pistanthrophobic so you don't miss an awesome chance in future. Sorry about your situation, I can offer some counseling if you care.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Raylight2(m): 11:01pm On Aug 25, 2018
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
you said Men are scum. that simply means your father is a scum. talk with small sense abeg

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by chiziking(m): 11:03pm On Aug 25, 2018
Men are not scum and love is not scam, If you insist on that, does it means your dad is a scum and the love your dad has for your mum a scam. Just learn your lessons and move on because the way it is with some men that is how it is too with some girls.

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 11:17pm On Aug 25, 2018
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Good story until I read I WILL NEVER EVER...
You are just in pain... Calm down and move on.
That's life.
Lesson learned....
Start afresh.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by ejibaba(m): 11:20pm On Aug 25, 2018
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

Just don't take it out on yourself to reach at such conclusions. God delivered you from the devils nest so why make such decision s
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by bellong: 11:26pm On Aug 25, 2018
Loveisascam:


He planned to act like he was really serious in the relationship and wants us to marry. Then he would probably suggest I support him by giving him a certain amount of money so he can successfully relocate to Canada. Once he gets there, he marries a white woman for papers and then forgets about me and refunding my money. Not like I have money though. He assumed wrongly. I am just managing.

On what visa does he plan to relocate to Canada? If he is a working professional, I believe he will relocate via the skilled migration. If it is through that, he doesn't need to marry a white lady to become a citizen. Your ex-boyfriend has ignorance with his many problems.

When young girls are advised to keep their legs together, they believe the person offering the advice is stupid and not enlightened.
How can you be traveling to different state just to be laid by someone you are not married to and you don't really know his values?

Anyway, I can imagine how hard the experience was for you but it is not enough to label all men as scum. That to me is stupid and foolish on your part. A single experience is not enough data to arrive at a general conclusion.

Meanwhile, if you hold on to your new views about marriage, your future marriage will be a disaster waiting to happen. Either you remain single or change your mind set. The two shall become one. If one of the party has a different view to that, the marriage will definitely hit the rock. Wisdom is a principal thing and with all your getting, get understanding.

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Martinez19(m): 11:29pm On Aug 25, 2018
@Loveisascam

Your boyfriend and his second friend are not serious.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by mechanics(m): 11:45pm On Aug 25, 2018
All men are not the same
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Memyselfu2009(m): 11:49pm On Aug 25, 2018
U re right but not everyone is the same stop generalizing am a nan man and i have my sad experience with women.
Not all men are beast
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by joshuamoses101(m): 11:55pm On Aug 25, 2018
so you created an nl account just to tell us this?
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by olaxmatic07(m): 12:03am On Aug 26, 2018
Dunno we still got fools amongst adult, so painful you met such guys, play safe next time
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Culin(f): 12:03am On Aug 26, 2018
Please mention the momofunker. Just.so we won't fall into his trap.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by joyjonathan: 12:05am On Aug 26, 2018
You can't judge with the stupidity of ur so called bf.So never have the notion of behaving stupidly to ur future husband coz of a stranger error(s) of the past.
It will damage,ruin and destroy ur home.Hv it that all fingers are not equal so also men are not the same.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by sharpwriter(m): 12:06am On Aug 26, 2018
Daeylar:
Loveisascam

Were the guys nairalanders? Is nairaland the online you are talking about?
If yes, tell us their monikers, please embarassed

Please try and read all her story... it's all stated in there.... But wait o.. no tell me say you don dey fear already o grin
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 12:08am On Aug 26, 2018
Loveisascam:


He planned to act like he was really serious in the relationship and wants us to marry. Then he would probably suggest I support him by giving him a certain amount of money so he can successfully relocate to Canada. Once he gets there, he marries a white woman for papers and then forgets about me and refunding my money. Not like I have money though. He assumed wrongly. I am just managing.
Babe do you play betting? I have sure 2 odds for you
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by milemimi93(m): 12:39am On Aug 26, 2018
Babybunny did u read that thread I created on WHY I KILLED MY GIRLFRIEND? If yes, did you see that part I wrote that[b] some nlders forced me to create that thread [/b] because they wanted to know why I killed someone? If yes, then what do you mean by Mimi created a thread to seek pity?

Lastly, apart from that thread I created on why I killed my girl, can you point out other threads I've created to complain about women? If no, why do you say I created many threads to complain about women? If yes, points out those threads I created complaining about women.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by milemimi93(m): 12:51am On Aug 26, 2018
Babybunny did u read that thread I created on WHY I KILLED MY GIRLFRIEND? If yes, did you see that part I wrote that some nlders forced me to create that thread because they wanted to know why I killed someone? If yes, then what do you mean by Mimi created a thread to seek pity?

Lastly, apart from that thread I created on why I killed my girl, can you point out other threads I've created to complain about women?


If point it out fast I am waiting to see those threads you said I created..
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Phunmy25(f): 1:32am On Aug 26, 2018
The learning process grin grin grin next person please

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by sunbilor(m): 1:50am On Aug 26, 2018
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Another 'Men are scum' thread.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by akinyemi0103(m): 2:15am On Aug 26, 2018
Like see all this pple bashing dis dude, when u av not even hear his own side of story, Thank God, d guy is a N'lander according to our aunty, so until i see a counter thread from this so called guy, m not gonna say anytin and to our aunty, don't wallow in self pity, u probably smaw own ur own share of blame.when u a knacking urself, no one hear, so when it backfire now, you want our pity, who pity epp

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