Oyindidi:
Happy new month my beautiful people

I want to know your opinion concerning my question...

I met a young lady and her fiancé about to wed and they look up to me for advice.. More like their wedding planner .

The lady told me she changed her phone number cause her fiancé ask her to, I was mad! I asked why did she agree to it, she said she want to save her relationship...

Nairalanders, would you do same if your partner ask you to change your phone number?

milemimi93:


Happy new month dear.

A friend of mine, the day he got married, he and his wife changed their phone numbers. Then he banned his wife from using facebook.

Then, I didn't understand the game so I supported him. I even said when I get married my wife will change all her phone numbers, change her social network accounts and cut off most associates.

But now that I understand the game, I will say it's pointless changing phone numbers.

Women are very smart creatures.
They don't even need a phone to cheat.

I had a girlfriend some years ago.
Since I was having trust issues, I tracked her number unknown to her and I was monitoring every call and text messages that enters her phone.

For few months I didn't suspect anything.

I was paying someone 5k every month to spy on her

While I was paying her service provider monthly to keep tracks of her call records.

Nothing happened.

But do you know that this girl was cheating on me?

Gracious goodness! Fear women.

How did I know she was cheating? Luck ran out of her and she became pregnant for a guy.

Later everything was revealed. That was when I knew that women are to be scared of.


My advice:

Tell the groom that it's pointless to change numbers.
His wife still gon cheat if she wants to cheat.

GrabHisBalls:
Why were you mad? Both of them arrived at an agreement they felt would be to their best interest.

I see nothing wrong in her actions.

StrongandMighty:
Just phone number?
If I've my way I'll personally change my partner's phone and phone number.. Prevention is better than cure..

Oyindidi:
I was short of words.

milemimi93:


Tell him instead of him to change numbers he should just cut off the damn wedding.

lefulefu:
Its like the lady must be very beautiful and d guy dey fear. Biko telling a lady to change number cos she got married to u its insecurity ish. A woman wey wan cheat go cheat..weda number changed or not changed.

Oyindidi:
The lady is introverted to a fault. She struggle to talk but very beautiful and intelligent. He is handsome as well

They were at my place last week. He was complaining that she was online blablabla..

lefulefu:
even if the guy na handsome stud he will still feel threatened if the wife is attractive if d guy no get self confidence. The first thing na to know d type of women wey u marry. If she's not d flirting type then the guy should relax and let her with her old phone number.

izzou:
Oyindidi

Oyindidi:
What?

izzou:


No be she agree to change phone number?

Why you go dey advice am like that?

Oyindidi:
Show me my advice?

izzou:


Our reactions can be advises, you know

Husband and wife are best gossips. Them go table your reaction one day

Oyindidi:
Why are some men so insecure?

lamidebaby:
An insecure man is an insecure man. Changing phone number won't change nothing. Such men are children in adult bodies. Very soon he'll pick on what she wears out, either too short, too tight, too revealing..... not accepting the problem really is with him. It's only a matter of time the sh*t will hit the fan and she'll snap. Unfortunately they're likely to be married then.

lefulefu:
sometimes if the guy no clean himself he can be insecured or sometimes if he feels dat the girl he's married to or dating is way above his league.

Oyindidi:
Men! Una own dey una body

lefulefu:
not all of us oo.. But sometimes if a girl dey do wetin dey make d man suspicious then u cant blame d man nau. But just giving order for a babe to change her phone number or give u her password to her facebook that one dey childlish . Anyway if d this ur friend say im don agree to change her number due to her love for her husby then no yawa.

Oyindidi:
She dey tell me but I no believe. The guy is too controlling

lefulefu:
even if the guy na handsome stud he will still feel threatened if the wife is attractive if d guy no get self confidence. The first thing na to know d type of women wey u marry. If she's not d flirting type then the guy should relax and let her with her old phone number.