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I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Uniquetani1(f): 7:52pm On Sep 03, 2018
I think I am stupid in love.
Why will a Lady love a guy so much?

Why do good ladies always fall victim of fake love?

Why is true love hard to find?

Why am I finding it difficult to believe that good guys exist?

Why I am always heart broken when I fall in love?

I know I am wrong but my curiosity made me to snoop in my boyfriend's phone. I found how his friend and him are labelling me bad. How he flirt with other ladies; he compliment their pictures, telling them that they are pretty, he want to marry them, using romantic words on them like sweetheart, I will kiss you and all. It hurt me because he don't compliment my pictures. We had a big disagreement three months ago and got back together. His friends and most especially females are saying bad words about me. In a nutshell, he came back to the relationship out of pity. I am just hurt, I don't know if I should cry or laugh. I love this guy so much that I can't imagine him leaving me. I am stuck in this love. If I think of leaving, it will make me sick.

Maybe I am not made for love. : embarassed

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by ednut1(m): 7:55pm On Sep 03, 2018
What shud we now do

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by chiommy123(f): 7:57pm On Sep 03, 2018
You're in love with the wrong person

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by gabinogem(m): 7:57pm On Sep 03, 2018
What exactly do u love about him
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by amaniro: 8:01pm On Sep 03, 2018
Why am i always heart broken when I fall in love?


Because you fall in love with the wrong guywink

and next time Don't FALL in love BE in love

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Homeboiy: 8:03pm On Sep 03, 2018
ntoorr
U will see good guys like homeboiy and you will ignore him for a Playa

Deal with it

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by youngberry001(m): 8:06pm On Sep 03, 2018
Come fall inlove wit me ah swear i gonna treated u like a real woman wink
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Nobody: 8:09pm On Sep 03, 2018
Abeg make una help me with that guy meme when dey drink with rotten teeth for mouth..

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Bluezy13(m): 8:18pm On Sep 03, 2018
Hehehe...


Very funny writeup.
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Timekeeper: 8:40pm On Sep 03, 2018
Uniquetani1:
I think I am stupid in love.
Why will a Lady love a guy so much?

Why do good ladies always fall victim of fake love?

Why is true love hard to find?

Why am I finding it difficult to believe that good guys exist?

Why I am always heart broken when I fall in love?

I know I am wrong but my curiosity made me to snoop in my boyfriend's phone. I found how his friend and him are labelling me bad. How he flirt with other ladies; he compliment their pictures, telling them that they are pretty, he want to marry them, using romantic words on them like sweetheart, I will kiss you and all. It hurt me because he don't compliment my pictures. We had a big disagreement three months ago and got back together. His friends and most especially females are saying bad words about me. In a nutshell, he came back to the relationship out of pity. I am just hurt, I don't know if I should cry or laugh. I love this guy so much that I can't imagine him leaving me. I am stuck in this love. If I think of leaving, it will make me sick.

Maybe I am not made for love. : embarassed



Maka y Tani again?? Good guys exist but u got the wrong one and probably rejected the good ones.... So retrace ur steps and find the right ones
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by LBK1: 12:07pm On Sep 04, 2018
Uniquetani1:
I think I am stupid in love.
Why will a Lady love a guy so much?

Why do good ladies always fall victim of fake love?

Why is true love hard to find?

Why am I finding it difficult to believe that good guys exist?

Why I am always heart broken when I fall in love?

I know I am wrong but my curiosity made me to snoop in my boyfriend's phone. I found how his friend and him are labelling me bad. How he flirt with other ladies; he compliment their pictures, telling them that they are pretty, he want to marry them, using romantic words on them like sweetheart, I will kiss you and all. It hurt me because he don't compliment my pictures. We had a big disagreement three months ago and got back together. His friends and most especially females are saying bad words about me. In a nutshell, he came back to the relationship out of pity. I am just hurt, I don't know if I should cry or laugh. I love this guy so much that I can't imagine him leaving me. I am stuck in this love. If I think of leaving, it will make me sick.

Maybe I am not made for love. : embarassed




I think you should walk away from the relationship. The guy is immature and doesn't deserve u

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by futuregovernor: 12:12pm On Sep 04, 2018
Start with a normal Freind, then grow with that. Don't jump into relationship again biko. U can send me a mail for a private discussion

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Rosay15(f): 12:48pm On Sep 04, 2018
futuregovernor:
Start with a normal Freind, then grow with that. Don't jump into relationship again biko. U can send me a mail for a private discussion
... Send u a pm
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by TheManofTomorrow(m): 1:14pm On Sep 04, 2018
I thoughthe was a good bad boy(nothing wrong in that) until when I read the part you said and I quote "He and his friends are labelling me bad". No matter how bad you are, a good bf wouldn't discuss your bad trait even with his closest friend. That ruled out the possibility that he loves you or even pity you to date you.

Trust me, maybe he is in the relationship cos he enjoys some benefits (financial) from you he can't forgo yet. Is he?
You said from you post that you can't do without him. Seriously?
Now let's start from here.
What good characteristics does he have that makes you so attached to him?
Or better still. What makes you fall in love with him so deep, uniquetani1?

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Wilfredpat22(f): 1:38pm On Sep 04, 2018
Dear it is a normal thing for a man to do that. Asides the fact he is commenting on ladies pictures that probably isn’t giving him attention l, what Is that one thing you have done for him (Asides opening your legs because he also zips down for you)

Have you bought or spoilt him before?
Have you sent him a Good night text before?
Have you had less than 34 body counts?

Well we all know ‘Closed legs does not pay bills’

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Nobody: 1:44pm On Sep 04, 2018
Uniquetani1:
...
I know the root of your problem and I would've loved to help, but time is precious.
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Gaspardd(m): 4:15pm On Sep 04, 2018
You probably have small boobs thats why
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Uniquetani1(f): 9:53pm On Sep 04, 2018
TheManofTomorrow:
I thoughthe was a good bad boy(nothing wrong in that) until when I read the part you said and I quote "He and his friends are labelling me bad". No matter how bad you are, a good bf wouldn't discuss your bad trait even with his closest friend. That ruled out the possibility that he loves you or even pity you to date you.

Trust me, maybe he is in the relationship cos he enjoys some benefits (financial) from you he can't forgo yet. Is he?
You said from you post that you can't do without him. Seriously?
Now let's start from here.
What good characteristics does he have that makes you so attached to him?
Or better still. What makes you fall in love with him so deep, uniquetani1?



He prove to be honest and understanding from start. He helped me in overcoming heart break from my previous relationship. That was how I feel in love with him
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by CastingCrowns(f): 10:19pm On Sep 04, 2018
op u need to be strong... for your self respect and pride leave him.. surprise him... if u stay with him u will lose your soul... he isn't worth it.. thank God u found out now before it became too late.

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by TheManofTomorrow(m): 10:39pm On Sep 04, 2018
Uniquetani1:




He prove to be honest and understanding from start. He helped me in overcoming heart break from my previous relationship. That was how I feel in love with him
Try and sit him down and explain how you feel for him from day one and how things are changing. Don't go into details.

I hope he will come to his senses
And I also hope you in ur path are not doing anything wrong?
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Uniquetani1(f): 10:56pm On Sep 04, 2018
TheManofTomorrow:

Try and sit him down and explain how you feel for him from day one and how things are changing. Don't go into details.

I hope he will come to his senses
And I also hope you in ur path are not doing anything wrong?


No I am not
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by TheManofTomorrow(m): 11:16pm On Sep 04, 2018
Uniquetani1:



No I am not
If you sit him down to talk to him and things still persists. Quit the relationship and you will be fine. At least earlier than if he keeps boring hole in ur heart.
Stay safe dear
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Uniquetani1(f): 7:35am On Sep 05, 2018
TheManofTomorrow:
If you sit him down to talk to him and things still persists. Quit the relationship and you will be fine. At least earlier than if he keeps boring hole in ur heart.
Stay safe dear


OK thanks
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Offpoint: 8:17am On Sep 05, 2018
That's how the universe works op, those you love don't give a shít about you, but does you don't do.

just know one thing is "Love don't live here, they don't even visit"

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Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Uniquetani1(f): 9:52am On Sep 05, 2018
CastingCrowns:
op u need to be strong... for your self respect and pride leave him.. surprise him... if u stay with him u will lose your soul... he isn't worth it.. thank God u found out now before it became too late.


Thanks I am happy I knew earlier
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Uniquetani1(f): 9:52am On Sep 05, 2018
Offpoint:
That's how the universe works op, those you love don't give a shít about you, but does you don't do.

just know one thing is "Love don't live here, they don't even visit"


Thank you
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Offpoint: 10:22am On Sep 05, 2018
Uniquetani1:


Thank you
You're welcome.
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 05, 2018
I just cant decipher how people develop this love of a thing.
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by rosieluv(f): 3:12pm On Sep 05, 2018
Uniquetani1:
I think I am stupid in love.
Why will a Lady love a guy so much?

Why do good ladies always fall victim of fake love?

Why is true love hard to find?

Why am I finding it difficult to believe that good guys exist?

Why I am always heart broken when I fall in love?

I know I am wrong but my curiosity made me to snoop in my boyfriend's phone. I found how his friend and him are labelling me bad. How he flirt with other ladies; he compliment their pictures, telling them that they are pretty, he want to marry them, using romantic words on them like sweetheart, I will kiss you and all. It hurt me because he don't compliment my pictures. We had a big disagreement three months ago and got back together. His friends and most especially females are saying bad words about me. In a nutshell, he came back to the relationship out of pity. I am just hurt, I don't know if I should cry or laugh. I love this guy so much that I can't imagine him leaving me. I am stuck in this love. If I think of leaving, it will make me sick.

Maybe I am not made for love. : embarassed
You made yourself stuck to it, love is not a do or die affair. This guy is just an ordinary guy, you won't die biko
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Uniquetani1(f): 8:44am On Sep 06, 2018
rosieluv:

You made yourself stuck to it, love is not a do or die affair. This guy is just an ordinary guy, you won't die biko




I don't know how I found myself so deep in it cry
Re: I Think I Am Stupid In Love by Peacewillwar(m): 9:24am On Sep 06, 2018
My sister is every everywhere
The girl am stuck in love with is doing almost d same thing dat z happening 2 you so is vise versa

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