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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by DELTACHAINSMOKER: 1:19pm On Sep 05, 2018
freecocoa:
This is bullshit tho but then only feck boys behave this way.
Slay queens. Always out to defend one another no matter how stupid they sound.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Adesolomon2014(m): 1:23pm On Sep 05, 2018
chukxie:
That's just not fair. Hmmm! Not fair! The guy that did ran off without paying his bills is a spineless, ball-less scoundrel !

Iffa hear!

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by dochenaj: 1:23pm On Sep 05, 2018
flyca:
I cannot, have never and will never go on a date without having my own money in my pocket. My mum will not even allow me leave the house empty handed. For first dates, I love to be the one to pay.

Besides the only thing I eat out is yogurt, few other times moi-moi grin Every other thing I can invite you and cook it in my house. I even cook better than all those curry-one-side rice they serve at most Nigerian eateries. So we cannot be spending more than 1k on first date, for what nah undecided

Anyway, it's all these guys abandoning their dates in restaurants are broke cowards! And I can smell from them 50km radius.
No wonder your husband is growing fatter by the day.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by spencekat(m): 1:24pm On Sep 05, 2018
Beehshorp:









It's like them never request for something wey worth your two years salary..



Well.. After buying Suya for one girl for this buhari regime we were walking home jejely and she demanded for Sharwama.. So I told her to join the queue and order.. Na for that line she stand I leave am escape
grin. Girls and their undiluted love for sharwama.
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by DateMynd44(m): 1:24pm On Sep 05, 2018
axcer:
Good
na so one do me, she know say I be student yet she still carry me go costly eateries go empty my pockets. I been wan leave the bills run but I remembered God and kept my peace.
cc Martinez19

Bryan88:
sharrap dia...y she go demand what she cant afford 2 pay incase yawa gas lyk dis? na greed go kill una wey be girls. she dey feel say she see mugu go mess her self up...if i am to b d guy, will repeat same actions again and again and again...hungry cows....mstchew!
Lakside1955:
Honestly, am beginning not to understand what always goes through ladies mind when they go out on a date.

Thats how I met a girl on Saturday noon at a bustop in my area, on normal level, I asked her; can I drop u to your destination cos am with my ride, she said yes and we exchanged numbers after dropping her, like 2hrs later she beep me up that she's bored at home that can we just hang out? On a weekend level now nothing to do but catch fun, I told her yes and asked where can I picked her up, she told me the bus top.
By getting there I met her with other two friends making three, OMG, I asked her why three? She said baby they are my friend and all of us where bored at home that's why they came along with her, ( I don turn baby sharp sharp) grin I said fine no problem, on our way going she asked where are we heading to, I replied dinners hotel, a popular hotel bar around d area, she said no they want to go KJ as in Kingstonjo grin haaaaaa, alakoba leleyi o.
Well on getting there, all of them ordered for plate of rice with chicken and big chivita juice each grin grin grin grin grin, i don die shocked, i called the waiter and asked for each, she said 4500 so all of them now is 13500, I jejely asked her, sandra are u paying for this? She said no now baby, I said if you are not paying for this then return the food cos am not paying.
Me dat want to carry them go dinners bar jeje then buy one big magic moment make all of us they alright go home grin
I just left them there and go without paying a dime, luckily for them no one don taste the food sef if not dem for hear am grin
Beehshorp:









It's like them never request for something wey worth your two years salary..



Well.. After buying Suya for one girl for this buhari regime we were walking home jejely and she demanded for Sharwama.. So I told her to join the queue and order.. Na for that line she stand I leave am escape
Darkseid:
Guys are finally starting to have sense, kudos to that nigga. If she order too much, no complain, just jejely leave her to pay her own bills.
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Ihatelove(f): 1:25pm On Sep 05, 2018
You invite a girl on a date, of course you will spend, after all she was jejely on her own. Ladies first rule always go on dates with cash or atm card. Be prepared for the worst, guys of this generation are something else. Always order for what you can pay for. Simple

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Adesolomon2014(m): 1:25pm On Sep 05, 2018
Ehiscotch:
This is so not right. Making fun of such a situation is so wrong, it is never right to treat a girl this way - whether not she is a slaymama.
This behavior should never be condoned. We all have friends or sisters who slay or go on dates and we wouldn't want them to be treated this way.

So not right.

What happened to sisters/Ladies paying for a night out? Truth is bitter and she definitely learned the hard way.

So xo right...
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by DELTACHAINSMOKER: 1:25pm On Sep 05, 2018
Funkybabee:
What a nonsense!! See his mate here with will be saying serve her right whereas their broke life May have sent blessed women away from them, they will now married a serpent lady who will not show them nothing before marriage but pepper them after..


Sorry for that lady!!
Don't be stupid please. You are NOT a fool.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by spencekat(m): 1:26pm On Sep 05, 2018
jy2kbeyond:
The next guy to take her out on a date will really benefit from this.

If she order pass bottle water for her next date make water carry me go

grin grin grin grin grin grin
grin

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Adesolomon2014(m): 1:28pm On Sep 05, 2018
freecocoa:
This is bullshit tho but then only feck boys behave this way.

And only feck girls buy what they cant pay for as well as have the fecking mentality that a guy must pay for a night out. Am sure you are one of the fecking girls.

Peace out!

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Funkybabee(f): 1:28pm On Sep 05, 2018
correctguy0900:


And is a crime if the girl pay for her damage? What a silly culture is this. And u guys will order dog meat down to rat meat untop person Bill that u can't afford. Eating more than the owner. Shameless


It's not a sin my brother, why run away.he should have sit her down there and talk about it nah, don't u think it didn't show about been a responsible man..

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Airforce1(m): 1:29pm On Sep 05, 2018
Ihatelove:
You invite a girl on a date, of course you will spend, after all she was jejely on her own. Ladies first rule always go on dates with cash or atm card. Be prepared for the worst, guys of this generation are something else. Always order for what you can pay for. Simple

I like the bolded.

But the hungry and greedy ones will order for what even their father can't pay for ..

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Adesolomon2014(m): 1:30pm On Sep 05, 2018
Lakside1955:
Honestly, am beginning not to understand what always goes through ladies mind when they go out on a date.

Thats how I met a girl on Saturday noon at a bustop in my area, on normal level, I asked her; can I drop u to your destination cos am with my ride, she said yes and we exchanged numbers after dropping her, like 2hrs later she beep me up that she's bored at home that can we just hang out? On a weekend level now nothing to do but catch fun, I told her yes and asked where can I picked her up, she told me the bus top.
By getting there I met her with other two friends making three, OMG, I asked her why three? She said baby they are my friend and all of us where bored at home that's why they came along with her, ( I don turn baby sharp sharp) grin I said fine no problem, on our way going she asked where are we heading to, I replied dinners hotel, a popular hotel bar around d area, she said no they want to go KJ as in Kingstonjo grin haaaaaa, alakoba leleyi o.
Well on getting there, all of them ordered for plate of rice with chicken and big chivita juice each grin grin grin grin grin, i don die shocked, i called the waiter and asked for each, she said 4500 so all of them now is 13500, I jejely asked her, sandra are u paying for this? She said no now baby, I said if you are not paying for this then return the food cos am not paying.
Me dat want to carry them go dinners bar jeje then buy one big magic moment make all of us they alright go home grin
I just left them there and go without paying a dime, luckily for them no one don taste the food sef if not dem for hear am grin

Definitely the way to treat all this hungry ladies fuckup.
Thumbs up bro

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Bryan88(m): 1:31pm On Sep 05, 2018
pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.
sharrap dia...y she go demand what she cant afford 2 pay incase yawa gas lyk dis? na greed go kill una wey be girls. she dey feel say she see mugu go mess her self up...if i am to b d guy, will repeat same actions again and again and again...hungry cows....mstchew!

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Idrismusty97(m): 1:31pm On Sep 05, 2018
In situation like this i just can't understand what runs through the thought of ladies, I am trying to phantom it. Even if he is rich where do you often get that effrontery from to order what you can't even order from any of your male relatives including your father. Even if a close friend or relative tells me to order what i like i wouldn't just be taking things exceedingly, Much more a stranger. Have some decency please. Relationship isn't a feeding programme or a poverty alleviation scheme. It isn't Npower, it's dating.

Men really need to be careful, even if you are rich this is a sign the lady will milk you for all you are worth.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Assassin101: 1:36pm On Sep 05, 2018
this is exactly the perfect treatment for her type

next date, she will either order prudently or have cash to pay for whatever she orders


pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Sep 05, 2018
Funkybabee:



It's not a sin my brother, why run away.he should have sit her down there and talk about it nah, don't u think it didn't show about been a responsible man..

Talk about what exactly. Will that suddenly make cash appear in the girl's bag? Rule is, don't order more than what u know u can't afford since u too broke to buy a meal for yourself. The guy na person pikin like u too. Is Simple

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by luizpippo(m): 1:41pm On Sep 05, 2018
Lakside1955:
Honestly, am beginning not to understand what always goes through ladies mind when they go out on a date.

Thats how I met a girl on Saturday noon at a bustop in my area, on normal level, I asked her; can I drop u to your destination cos am with my ride, she said yes and we exchanged numbers after dropping her, like 2hrs later she beep me up that she's bored at home that can we just hang out? On a weekend level now nothing to do but catch fun, I told her yes and asked where can I picked her up, she told me the bus top.
By getting there I met her with other two friends making three, OMG, I asked her why three? She said baby they are my friend and all of us where bored at home that's why they came along with her, ( I don turn baby sharp sharp) grin I said fine no problem, on our way going she asked where are we heading to, I replied dinners hotel, a popular hotel bar around d area, she said no they want to go KJ as in Kingstonjo grin haaaaaa, alakoba leleyi o.
Well on getting there, all of them ordered for plate of rice with chicken and big chivita juice each grin grin grin grin grin, i don die shocked, i called the waiter and asked for each, she said 4500 so all of them now is 13500, I jejely asked her, sandra are u paying for this? She said no now baby, I said if you are not paying for this then return the food cos am not paying.
Me dat want to carry them go dinners bar jeje then buy one big magic moment make all of us they alright go home grin
I just left them there and go without paying a dime, luckily for them no one don taste the food sef if not dem for hear am grin

if i were I your shoes, I will tell her categorically that I am paying for her meal alone.

if she wish, she can share it witb her friend

em go use spoon scoop for em palm���

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Mekanus(m): 1:43pm On Sep 05, 2018
Idrismusty97:
In situation like this i just can't understand what runs through the thought of ladies, I am trying to phantom it. Even if he is rich where do you often get that effrontery from to order what you can't even order from any of your male relatives including your father. Even if a close friend or relative tells me to order what i like i wouldn't just be taking things exceedingly, Much more a stranger. Have some decency please. Relationship isn't a feeding programme or a poverty alleviation scheme. It isn't Npower, it's dating.

Men really need to be careful, even if you are rich this is a sign the lady will milk you for all you are worth.
Well said bro. The bolded is funny though.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Idrismusty97(m): 1:45pm On Sep 05, 2018
Ihatelove:
You invite a girl on a date, of course you will spend, after all she was jejely on her own. Ladies first rule always go on dates with cash or atm card. Be prepared for the worst, guys of this generation are something else. Always order for what you can pay for. Simple
Are you going to get married "jejely" on your own? Why should it be a poverty alleviation scheme and an opportunity to eat what you have never tasted before in your life just because it's the guy that initiated the relationship? Should the guy do same if the lady "miraculously" initiated the relationship?

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by demmydy(m): 1:46pm On Sep 05, 2018
Today na today.

Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by flyca: 1:47pm On Sep 05, 2018
Airforce1:


Good to know you still live with your mom and she allows you go on dates with men .
Well, when I was younger tongue
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by redarrr(m): 1:48pm On Sep 05, 2018
flyca:
I cannot, have never and will never go on a date without having my own money in my pocket. My mum will not even allow me leave the house empty handed. For first dates, I love to be the one to pay.

Besides the only thing I eat out is yogurt, few other times moi-moi grin Every other thing I can invite you and cook it in my house. I even cook better than all those curry-one-side rice they serve at most Nigerian eateries. So we cannot be spending more than 1k on first date, for what nah undecided

Anyway, it's all these guys abandoning their dates in restaurants are broke cowards! And I can smell from them 50km radius.
sori oo,I will like to know u better..
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Lakside1955(m): 1:49pm On Sep 05, 2018
luizpippo:

if i were I your shoes, I will tell her categorically that I am paying for her meal alone.

if she wish, she can share it witb her friend

em go use spoon scoop for em palm���

grin grin grin
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Adakintroy: 1:49pm On Sep 05, 2018
pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

You are right my broda.

But this girls sometimes deserve this kind of embarrasement. They are just too greedy sometimes wicked.

If you tell them this way. Them go tell their friends you are broke and stingy.

A wise lady make order with considerations. You don't just make order. Sometimes you systematically ask the guy..: "are you sure you can afford this"?

It's a sign that you care about his pocket. Some will just take the lead in ordering everything like them Don catch mugu. Thats why they get treatments like this. Don't feel sorry for them. The girl know what she did. Just like the guy knows what he did.


Aside. dates should be just a light outing to meet each other and make simple intruduction. Something that white do at coffee stand.

Our girls go go eateries Wan finish everything with eye.
lazy girls that never ever want to work.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Airforce1(m): 1:49pm On Sep 05, 2018
flyca:

Well, when I was younger tongue

Good to know still.

I hope you're working and making money now ??
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Technocrat1759(m): 1:52pm On Sep 05, 2018
this is the best news I ve' heard this mo nth.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Tinalex(f): 1:55pm On Sep 05, 2018
pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.
Guy forget ooo.. Any chic who goes on a date without her own money as back up in case things go south is an idiot. The first rule as a baller is to have your money on dates at all time!!!

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Kaycee7(m): 1:57pm On Sep 05, 2018
The guy is, if nothing else, a coward. Couldn't he have stood his ground and stopped the girl from ordering? Or sternly tell her that he'll not be paying for her excesses? What sort of lily-livered man-child goes out with a girl and then abandons her? And fellow touts on Nairaland are applauding him? Some dudes are just a disgrace to manhood.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by afonjabreed(m): 1:59pm On Sep 05, 2018
Darkseid:
Guys are finally starting to have sense, kudos to that nigga. If she order too much, no complain, just jejely leave her to pay her own bills.

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Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Sep 05, 2018
Serious dis one weak me. Una comments jst de hilarious. Bt over 90% na guys where d ladies? Abi de don de arrage another mugu?....hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Re: Slaymama Held After Her Date Left Her With Bills. by Tijay90(m): 2:01pm On Sep 05, 2018
A date is supposed to be for discussion...and then refreshment. Whatever refreshments you can't afford on your own, don't order... Even if you are out with Dangote.
But then, what do I know. This is very funny tho... Tragically funny.

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