Icon79:
BS upon BS. A girl in a committed relationship should NOT give another guy her phone number, unless it's for a specific reason like workingon a school project and stuff.


O pari

that's part of what I mean by help

Lol, actually its no big deal, just because she is in a relationship does not mean she has to stop giving people her number and that does not mean you need to be the only one she talks to, its still a boyfriend girlfriend stage not husband and wife stage, u don't need to make her feel caged

OK, I prolly misunderstood where you were coming from. What bothers me is a girl going around sharing phone number with every dude who looks her way. I think most girls in relationships do that as a form of a backup plan.

Listen to me ladies, guys must surely ask for phone numbers but a responsible lady (married or in a stable relationship) ought to have the decency to say "No, thanks" and keep walking.


O pari

Cr7sBabe:



that's part of what I mean by help

enuk80:


There is nothing like being insecure. It's not proper for a girl to give her number out. She knows the intention of the guy yet she went ahead giving her number out. She is expected to tell the guy blank no or sorry I'm not interested cuz I have a boyfriend.

How will you feel when you are having a quality time with your girlfriend and her phone keeps ringing because of the numerous guys she gave her number to?

both guy& girl are guilty of dis.
I found out DAT we Africa believe much on future hope**"
some will say, who knows tomorrow.
it's wrong, it's road of distraction.

lefulefu:
gbam! Gbam!! Gbam!!! Correct ororo oil dey ur head jor. Some guys don turn to monitoring spirit.dey monitor woman upandan. Wen person carry woman matter for head he wont live long. I cant imagine myself stalking a girl and asking her who she has talked to or what is she doing.be focused in whatever u are doing and stop monitoring gehls upandan.some guys no go listen.

I tire o brother.

zinnyzee:
There's nothing wrong with that.


So because i have a boyfriend, i'm not allowed to have friends
Everyone has different things that work out for them, there's no reason to deny a guy my number cus i have a boyfriend.
[/b]Numerous assistance and opportunities most times come from strangers whom you barely know[b], so should we now forfeit these prospects because there's someone in our life who may or may not even be faithful to us

lmao you lame bitches keep saying this shii like they ever gotten real help from guys if not dick

Simplep:
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Modified
I dnt even kn wat to say gan sef

say your number abeg. U fine

enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

Marry her now instead of forming Umbrella.
If you no wan marry am yet, allow people wey ready connect with her naw.

Icon79:
OK, I prolly misunderstood where you were coming from. What bothers me is a girl going around sharing phone number with every dude who looks her way. I think most girls in relationships do that as a form of a backup plan.

Listen to me ladies, guys must surely ask for phone numbers but a responsible lady (married or in a stable relationship) ought to have the decency to say "No, thanks" and keep walking.


O pari

i recall a thread here sometime ago where the op said he met a lady at some ATM queue and they started discussing and becoming friendly. He now requested for her phone contact and she refused giving it to him ...according wat the op said. Now d op was now angry in the thread he created saying nigerian girls are arrogant and hide their contacts like gold.so if girl give number some go complain..if she refuse giving number..na some of una go still complain.its her sole right to give her contact whoever she wants to give her contacts to. Its the sole right of d guy to call off d relationship if he aint comfortable with it.

MissJoy29:

This right here @bolded is the reason why you have problems with her & probably will continue to have even with other people that may come after her. You know why? I will tell you cos I got a lot of insight from that statement @bolded. Let me tell you this:
1) Not every guy who comes into a girl's life is out for sex or even for dating. I for one have had(still have) friends who aren't like that. Same way not every lady who comes into a guy's life is out for money.
2) Maturity is very important. You, your partner, your friends and her friends should only be mature people. It saves a lot of headache.
3) You forgot about existing friends. The ones she had before she met you. What does she do about those ones?
4) Trust is very important in relationships/marriage. That comes from a level of openness and honesty you both have built together. If you don't trust your partner, trust me, you will be miserable.
5) This is the most important. I'm always very sceptical of people who are very controlling & possessive. Chances are that they are doing something much worse. I don't usually take such people serious. You shouldn't expect what you can't give out in relationships. That'd be hypocrisy and deception.

i trusted my girl allowed her to have contacts thinking I was doing the right tang and boom saw her kissing one of the said contacts and I forgave her I built anoda trust this time she seemed committed and boom a friend saw her going into one of her admirers house at night so you see non of your post makes sense I won't advice my brothers to allow their gfs keep give out numbers bcz u girls always turn out to slide at one point of d oda. the dumbest post of the century.

ike007:
if you are in a serious relationship , you can still give your number to whoever you damn well please. relationship no be jail sentence na. if the person you gave the number to after telling him/her that you are in a serious relationship persist with asking you out and you don't like it, then cut the person out simple.

as simple as ABC

MissJoy29:

The guy that ever monitored/policed me the most turned out to be the one that cheated in unbelievable ways. Lol. I fear monitoring "demons" like mad! I run without looking back.

They know the bad things they are doing so they are policing to make sure you aren't doing same. The height of hypocrisy!!!

nothing new. Na mostly partners wey dey cheat to stupor dey monitor their other half like kilode. It goes with both gender.

Seriously, any lady who gives her phone number to a random "friendly dude" isn't being responsible. What would you say if your guy is out there picking up on ladies and collecting their numbers?


O pari

lefulefu:
i recall a thread here sometime ago where the op said he met a lady at some ATM queue and they started discussing and becoming friendly. He now requested for her phone contact and she refused giving it to him ...according wat the op said. Now d op was now angry in the thread he created saying nigerian girls are arrogant and hide their contacts like gold.so if girl give number some go complain..if she refuse giving number..na some of una go still complain.its her sole right to give her contact whoever she wants to give her contacts to. Its the sole right of d guy to call off d relationship if he aint comfortable with it.

Flickzvill:
i trusted my girl allowed her to have contacts thinking I was doing the right tang and boom saw her kissing one of the said contacts and I forgave her I built anoda trust this time she seemed committed and boom a friend saw her going into one of her admirers house at night so you see non of your post makes sense I won't advice my brothers to allow their gfs keep give out numbers bcz u girls always turn out to slide at one point of d oda. the dumbest post of the century.

but even if u tried to control this ur girlfriend she would still go behind ur back adding random male strangers on her phone.abi u go dey dere wen she dey add dhier numbers and dey codedly yarn with them behind ur back? Wise men wat they do if they notice their girlfriend is a chronic flirt with different men on phone or social media is to call off the relationship.politely tell d girl to pack her bag and leave ur house if she dey stay ur pad. Trying to instill control might lead to physical body harm wich go den lead to police matter.guys wey dey stab and pour acid on their girlfriend na from trying to control e dey graduate to physical harm.

lefulefu:
nothing new. Na mostly partners wey dey cheat to stupor dey monitor their other half like kilode. It goes with both gender.

Yeah. Of course it does.

Flickzvill:
lmao you lame bitches keep saying this shii like they ever gotten real help from guys if not dick

Is this how you normally talk to women?


Or you simply lost your home-training because of me?

The funny tang about this whole giving out number thing, 95% chance these bitches won't still get married to any of the contacts after breakup with the "insecure bf" as they call it.

They just lash and at the end call men trash and will be too embarrassed to even mention it to their "insecure ex bf" bcz they will look stupid and the circle continues.

women,ladies,girls if your bf isn't comfortable of you giving out numbers just save ursef stress except if it's for business but any oda tang just fashy and if you can't adhere to it just breakup and use zender to share the number don't be in a relationship and want to live like a single babe it won't work coz we men know who we will end up with a simple mistake uv lost him forever so do the needful and be happy.

Instead of crying about giving out contact bcz ur so desperate to get wifed which often leads to getting dicked for life. I have seen it and most times the reason y'all are still single is coz of ur feminist wanabe behavior and your hoeish actions just sit relax and reason.

Our mothers are pained by our generation our girls are carving a niche for themselves which will later hit the rock which is "divorce" and by the time you realise your already 45. Peace

Icon79:
Seriously, any lady who gives her phone number to a random "friendly dude" isn't being responsible. What would you say if your guy is out there picking up on ladies and collecting their numbers?


O pari

well the guy who created the thread made it an issue because the babe was friendly to him and at the end of d day after collecting his money frm ATM and requesting her number she refused.some funny threads on nairaland ehn. Haha guys wey dey collect phone numbers from random girls on social media and for street i dey tag such guys as human telephone directorys. Anybody here born b4 the year 2005 will know wats a telephone directory .

Flickzvill:
i trusted my girl allowed her to have contacts thinking I was doing the right tang and boom saw her kissing one of the said contacts and I forgave her I built anoda trust this time she seemed committed and boom a friend saw her going into one of her admirers house at night so you see non of your post makes sense. I won't advice my brothers to allow their gfs keep give out numbers bcz u girls always turn out to slide at one point of d oda. the dumbest post of the century.

Trust me, anyone that wants to cheat will cheat. Anyone that wants to misbehave will do so. You can advise all you want but nothing except God and self determination is enough to stop someone who wants to misbehave.

I will overlook your last sentence. That tells me of your maturity level. Your likes can't survive without insults in every post.

lefulefu:
but even if u tried to control this ur girlfriend she would still go behind ur back adding random male strangers on her phone.abi u go dey dere wen she dey add dhier numbers and dey codedly yarn with them behind ur back? Wise men wat they do if they notice their girlfriend is a chronic flirt with different men on phone or social media is to call off the relationship.politely tell d girl to pack her bag and leave ur house if she dey stay ur pad. Trying to instill control might lead to physical body harm wich go den lead to police matter.guys wey dey stab and pour acid on their girlfriend na from trying to control e dey graduate to physical harm.

jakpa nice these hoes ain't loyal anyway I let her Go mate I heard she still does what she's good at so...

zinnyzee:
Is this how you normally talk to women?


Or you simply lost your home-training because of me?

miss Home training got nothing to do with it or should I believe sharing contacts and getting dicked is a result of bad Home training?

Flickzvill:
miss Home training got nothing to do with it or should I believe sharing contacts and getting dicked is a result of bad Home training?

I don't know what happened to you that made you this bitter... I hope you find someone to treat you better than you could ever hope for, baby.



Everyone deserves true love and not all girls are sluts.

Flickzvill:
The funny tang about this whole giving out number thing, 95% chance these bitches won't still get married to any of the contacts after breakup with the "insecure bf" as they call it. They just lash and at the end call men trash and will be too embarrassed to even mention it to their "insecure ex bf" bcz they will look stupid and the circles continues. women,ladies,girls if your bf isn't comfortable of you giving out numbers just save ursef stress except if it's for business but any oda tang just fashy and if you can't adhere to it just breakup and use zender to share the number don't be in a relationship and want to live like a single babe it won't work coz we men know who we will end up with a simple mistake uv lost him forever so do the needful and be happy. Instead of crying about giving out contact bcz ur so desperate to get wifed often leads to getting dicked for life the I have seen it and most times the reason y'all are still single is coz of ur feminist wanabe behavior and your hoeish actions just sit relax and reason. Our mothers are pained by our generation our girls are carving a niche for themselves which later hits the rock which is "divorce" and by the time you realise your already 45. Peace

Just read your thread on how you ended your last relationship. You have insecurity issues, always trying to control your woman. These things pushes your girl away from you. As it stands, you're obviously not matured enough to have a meaningful relationship so be satisfied with one where everything goes.

Flickzvill:
jakpa nice these hoes ain't loyal anyway I let her Go mate I heard she still does what she's good at so...

wise choice.much better than fighting with her. Na she go tire at d tin she's good at.

Not putting all her eggs in one basket. Cause all this so called Bfs aren't loyal.

eph12:

Just read your thread on how you ended your last relationship. You have insecurity issues, always trying to control your woman. These things pushes your girl away from you. As it stands, you're obviously not matured enough to have a meaningful relationship so be satisfied with one where everything goes.

lmao the matured one I hail.

eph12:
Girlfriends, wives should be allowed to have their lives and be friends with whoever they want to be. But if you can't trust your woman not to cross the line, why are you still with her? Guys need to learn how to save themselves from headache and pain by either trusting their woman or not care about some of their actions. What's the point in monitoring and policing your girl up and down? You will only end up pushing her further away and if that's what you want, go ahead then. But just know that you can't control them and you're only asking them to get smarter if you're always in their business.

one chilled bottle of origin for u Bro,.... me I have Made it a point of duty not to care Oooooh, Dats d safest mode....I was with my GF in a shop trying to get groceries, I was checking something up when a guy approached my GF after Dey finished talking Dey exchanged contacts and d guy left, honestly I was shocked DAT she could do DAT in my presence how much more when am not around,, nna Men me just take am as I see am Oooooh, until I put a ring to it she isn't mine, even when I do Sef, who cares life is too shot for me to add who calls my GF or Wife to the already plenty ish bugging my head Abegii

Lol,very funny

Naija2mumu:
say your number abeg. U fine

Dat ur girl own strong o,in ur presence!bros sorry o

Loonyy:
one chilled bottle of origin for u Bro,.... me I have Made it a point of duty not to care Oooooh, Dats d safest mode....I was with my GF in a shop trying to get groceries, I was checking something up when a guy approached my GF after Dey finished talking Dey exchanged contacts and d guy left, honestly I was shocked DAT she could do DAT in my presence how much more when am not around,, nna Men me just take am as I see am Oooooh, until I put a ring to it she isn't mine, even when I do Sef, who cares life is too shot for me to add who calls my GF or Wife to the already plenty ish bugging my head Abegii

Chiefpriest1:
Lol. Boyfriend, not husband yet. Do you know the percentage of breakups between girls/boys every minute.

I do not support that a lady should cage herself because she has a boyfriend. However, its cool to be selective.

Don't just drop your phone number for every Tom, Dick and Harry.


Lol. See this Op...

Guy: please can I have your number

Babe: Sorry, I have a boyfriend

Funny!

Abi. Not even I am married with my husband.

Simplep:
Lol,very funny

How is very funny you number now.
I no funny, I de serious