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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by versashee: 6:12pm On Sep 07, 2018
Hello senior men. I have been following this thread and this is my first time commenting.

HardDon, anybody that says your water will not boil, they will not sell stove in his village. Amen. Good job sir.

However, i have a small case i would like u to handle for me. I just got a new ex and we broke up based on mutual understanding but i still want to be eating d cakes.

What do u suggest i do?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 2dice01: 6:40pm On Sep 07, 2018
drnoel:


No just Ur father's age.
and what happen to your father's age
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by lakesidepapa(m): 7:09pm On Sep 07, 2018
2dice01:
and what happen to your father's age

Don't mind the clown bro. wink just ignore his next post and move on.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 2dice01: 7:19pm On Sep 07, 2018
lakesidepapa:


Don't mind the clown bro. wink just ignore his next post and move on.
lmao he want to play the age game abi..


I don carry my Pad come.. grin
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Rilwayne001: 7:46pm On Sep 07, 2018
Getting to see this thread for the first time, and having read the introduction, I really love the introduction and the flow. Very well done Mr OP cheesy grin cool

*continues rea.. *
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by drnoel: 7:50pm On Sep 07, 2018
2dice01:
and what happen to your father's age

U can join him where he is and ask him
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Rilwayne001: 7:54pm On Sep 07, 2018
HARDDON:


Pul a seat son
Sing no song
Sign no Bill

Till I free ur will
Clean ur Sins
Stopping u from some slings

Mehnn.. You're a real G grin grin

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 2dice01: 8:07pm On Sep 07, 2018
drnoel:


U can join him where he is and ask him
no wonder you got no respect for other peoples dad


Postinor 2 would have done Justice to this cretin grin

You can cry me a river this is my last reply wink

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Rilwayne001: 8:35pm On Sep 07, 2018
HARDDON:
for a lil sniff of a lady's pants they can sell their soul!

You see them on fb thanking ladies for accepting their friends's request. they like every post of their crush and no matter how ugly, fat and fuggly she is, they wud wax lyrical how beautiful she is.

they try not to annoy them ladies, say the seemingly right words and hope they get noticed. they are the type that go flooding a gurl's inbox with messages thinking one day she wud respond embarassed
they go spending on gurls thinking that they can BUY them with gifts and gets frustrated when they have been friendzoned

you can overcome all these and turn the tables arround if this write up describes you. kindly note that behaving like this, turns ladies off emotional and wud only hang arround to milk you.

Next post, i would share with you the way out of this weak lane

grin this made my day.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 7:17am On Sep 08, 2018
versashee:
Hello senior men. I have been following this thread and this is my first time commenting.

HardDon, anybody that says your water will not boil, they will not sell stove in his village. Amen. Good job sir.

However, i have a small case i would like u to handle for me. I just got a new ex and we broke up based on mutual understanding but i still want to be eating d cakes.


Move On... There are beautiful girls out there. Find urself anew babe

What do u suggest i do?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by topedoski(m): 9:13am On Sep 08, 2018
Hey gees in Tha house
!
These drill really helped me,
I do have some of these traits
without knowing,
Now I've improved and am better
,
And I also notice why dem gals tend to magnet wink

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by coleB(m): 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2018
drnoel , thank you for ur fatherly input.. sadly, dis forum is not for grand popsies. allow we d children to enjoy our thread. . or would u rather kip derailing us?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by drnoel: 6:05pm On Sep 11, 2018
coleB:
drnoel , thank you for ur fatherly input.. sadly, dis forum is not for grand popsies. allow we d children to enjoy our thread. . or would u rather kip derailing us?

My son, U guys can have Ur fun but when young men waste their time discussing about how to be egocentric and mean to the opposite sex instead of trying to upgrade themselves so they can be fruitful in the future.
You ask urself what they teach young men these days? They obviously don't make them anymore like they made us.
Cheers all u kids and listen to Ur parents.

I will be back to check on what u guys are talking about cos my young cousin reads Ur comments and I am trying to teach him to be a strong level headed young man that's why I had to come in and correct those kids talking rubbish earlier on.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:17am On Sep 12, 2018
We have wandered off for far too long, back to track, we must trace

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by marvinsync(m): 4:15am On Sep 12, 2018
drnoel:


What an egocentric ignoramus. Lead d home,...in what context? Are u there to be the government, ruler, king or are u there to be the stronghold? Is she there to be ur slave, house girl or Ur support?
Ur comments screams of ignorance obviously cos u are unmarried. Let me tell u my son, marriage is no bed of roses but both have to work to make it work. Sometimes the man takes the initiative, sometimes the woman does. It's a 50:50 percent ratio and when one party gives more than that it makes the base shakey.

'The Pu77y a33 Sissy big baiby' I see here is u my child cos no matter how much u huff and puff if Ur marriage has no base it will crumble but ofcos u won't know that cos u are unmarried.

On the contrary to maintain peace one doesn't have to be battle ready, that's Trumps silly idea and I now understand how it is that u don't know anything since Trump is ur school of thought.

Let me re-educate u, to maintain peace one has to be prepared to do what it takes. Sometimes one gives ground, sometimes one may have to fight.

I repeat Hardon is a bad influence on small boys like u here. I repeat if u do the rubbish he sells here. Get ready to loose ur spouse. If it's just a relationship then it's irrelevant, u can do whatever u wish but once u put a ring on that finger, then best u look elsewhere for advice and not with this bitter celibate.


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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by marvinsync(m): 4:15am On Sep 12, 2018
drnoel:


What an egocentric ignoramus. Lead d home,...in what context? Are u there to be the government, ruler, king or are u there to be the stronghold? Is she there to be ur slave, house girl or Ur support?
Ur comments screams of ignorance obviously cos u are unmarried. Let me tell u my son, marriage is no bed of roses but both have to work to make it work. Sometimes the man takes the initiative, sometimes the woman does. It's a 50:50 percent ratio and when one party gives more than that it makes the base shakey.

'The Pu77y a33 Sissy big baiby' I see here is u my child cos no matter how much u huff and puff if Ur marriage has no base it will crumble but ofcos u won't know that cos u are unmarried.

On the contrary to maintain peace one doesn't have to be battle ready, that's Trumps silly idea and I now understand how it is that u don't know anything since Trump is ur school of thought.

Let me re-educate u, to maintain peace one has to be prepared to do what it takes. Sometimes one gives ground, sometimes one may have to fight.

I repeat Hardon is a bad influence on small boys like u here. I repeat if u do the rubbish he sells here. Get ready to loose ur spouse. If it's just a relationship then it's irrelevant, u can do whatever u wish but once u put a ring on that finger, then best u look elsewhere for advice and not with this bitter celibate.


I don't quite 100% agree that a marriage is 50-50
the truth about relationships is that there are dominant and submissive in the sense that one of the partners will be steering the relationship ,
in a lot of situations it's the woman cause a lot of guys act like women are gods and act like she's doing them a favour by dating them and therefore chase after them .

so I think that's what harddon is tryna change here , he is saying guys take the lead , be the one that the woman chases after, be dominant !


even in marriages there will be a strong and weak partner, a partner that tries to always please the other and one that acts like hot sh!t all the time and does like they always deserve to be pampered .


so if harddon helps guys be the dominant , the one being chased after then we'll gladly take it , and people are seeing results


ps I don't know when u got married but times have changed Nigerian women have become something else it's not like when u were young that ladies were all sweet and innocent.


also harddon never said anything about marriage
this are " dating " drills

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MetalJigsaw(m): 6:15pm On Sep 12, 2018
drnoel:


Did u just write all this rubbish?

OMG so there are still hollowmen like u, no sense, no respect for themselves, unsure of themselves with a high level of inferiority complex. God help you but I think ur case is already too late. Sorry but u are a lost cause.

Let me say this now so all married men reading this will note and remember. There is no how Ur woman will do all the rubbish the person above commented if u as a man holds ur own. U need to hold ur own, be urself, build ur respect and still be able to perform ur manly duties as well as show Ur wife she means the world to u without fear. Ofcos u need to be good or above average in the sack cos that one matters too. U need to be proud about what u have accomplished cos noone will do that for u.

One thing is also always need to remember is that no matter how u treat Ur woman (am talking of spouse now not girlfriend) be it good or bad, any woman that wants to stay will stay and one that wants to leave will go. U can't hold a woman down by force or by fear.

Another thing to remember is attitude and how u guys began. Cos I noticed most men start high and can't keep it up which tends to then become a problem in the long run. So it's always best to start at Ur pace and don't do what u can't keep it cos when Ur level falls less than what some women are accustomed to then some will see that as a problem but none the less.
Still u don't need to be an asshole like these inexperienced fools Hardon, weedsdom and their cohorts are trying to portray.
mr man stop decieving yourslf
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MetalJigsaw(m): 6:25pm On Sep 12, 2018
Meklex:
My new catch called just now (she gave up the cookie the first day we saw. Found her on Facebook).

After the normal small talks).

Her: so how many girls called you today?

Me: I wasn't counting. Maybe 15 or 20.

Her: who are they?

Me: Mostly girls interested in me.

Her: silence

Me: you are not romantic, this is the part where you laugh it off as a joke and ask me if I have eaten.

Her: have you eaten?



Lol. Girls are just followers. Tell them what you want and that's exactly what they're going to do
pls how do i control this girl that keeps foeming too busy to visit me
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Meklex(m): 6:58pm On Sep 12, 2018
MetalJigsaw:
pls how do i control this girl that keeps foeming too busy to visit me
you can't control a girl that doesn't think you're man enough to control her. What you have to do is to give her reasons to hand over her control key to you, and you can do that by forming busy yourself and doing amazing things for yourself. She probably doesn't want to come cos you must have given her the notion that once she steps foot inside your house you will knack and knack her(even if she really wants to kanck) or she thinks it doesn't worth it. The way you ask matters too; you create the opportunity, don't ask blatantly.

E.g:

Her: How are you doing?
You: come and find out by yourself.

You can even add psychological twists to it like; "if you care that much, you wouldn't be asking over the internet"

You guys will most probably start talking about visiting, who should visit, etc.

Disclaimer: this is just an example. I haven't even used this before. It was written on the spur of the moment as a sample.


PS: most importantly, you can't win every girl. Some can't just vibe with you, and there's nothing you can do to change it.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MetalJigsaw(m): 8:13pm On Sep 12, 2018
Meklex:
you can't control a girl that doesn't think you're man enough to control her. What you have to do is to give her reasons to hand over her control key to you, and you can do that by forming busy yourself and doing amazing things for yourself. She probably doesn't want to come cos you must have given her the notion that once she steps foot inside your house you will knack and knack her(even if she really wants to kanck) or she thinks it doesn't worth it. The way you ask matters too; you create the opportunity, don't ask blatantly.

E.g:

Her: How are you doing?
You: come and find out by yourself.

You can even add psychological twists to it like; "if you care that much, you wouldn't be asking over the internet"

You guys will most probably start talking about visiting, who should visit, etc.

Disclaimer: this is just an example. I haven't even used this before. It was written on the spur of the moment as a sample.


PS: most importantly, you can't win every girl. Some can't just vibe with you, and there's nothing you can do to change it.
youre really good at this bro.thogh im not a novice either..

and i didnt ask her blatantly.-thanks anyway
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Meklex(m): 8:30pm On Sep 12, 2018
MetalJigsaw:
youre really good at this bro.thogh im not a novice either..

and i didnt ask her blatantly.-thanks anyway
then she's obviously trying to know the limit you can go to get her down to your place or she maybe listening to her friends. Either way, don't give her any idea that she is taking fun from you by not granting your request, just don't bring it up again, till she asks for it. In the meantime, prepare her mind with what she could be missing... Some guys post pictures of their fun moments. Me, I simply ignore cos I don't even post pictures. Both works.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by irumole1975: 9:08pm On Sep 12, 2018
Hi Haddon, you're a too great, Infact you're maaaad self (sorry bro I've to say this).... I've read this drill and I'm just on page 14, but I need to comment .i started reading 4 days ago, but due to busy schedule, I've been unable to keep up
It should be noticed that your approaches are magnet. I used it and I'm getting instant result.
I'll screenshot some whatsapp chat here later( the one I've been having since there days ago)... Infact one girl just called me right now having told her on whatsapp some minutes ago( let me not reveal this here).....

Please I beg you to drop me your whatsapp number (email :ktalabi42@gmail.com)

Now let me go back and start reading from page 15

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MetalJigsaw(m): 9:26pm On Sep 12, 2018
Meklex:
then she's obviously trying to know the limit you can go to get her down to your place or she maybe listening to her friends. Either way, don't give her any idea that she is taking fun from you by not granting your request, just don't bring it up again, till she asks for it. In the meantime, prepare her mind with what she could be missing... Some guys post pictures of their fun moments. Me, I simply ignore cos I don't even post pictures. Both works.
i really aporeciate tje way you sharw your knowledge bro.

theres this girl i met a couple of weeks back. ive known her from my former workplace before we both eventually both resigned and lost contact. i realky liked her and so does she.

when we bumbed on eachother we she requested to give me her number but unfortunately that day my phone wasreally faulty so i left it at home. i had to give her a pen to write it on a sheet of paper for me.

i still failed to call her untill about 2 weeks time when i acquired another phone due to the issues with my phone and i didnt see it necessary to call her throgh another oersons line.

when i finally called her she expressed her anticipation all the while and was really opeased to hear from me at last.

the second time i called her was about three days time but wasnt picking. i called her up to three times. i was ecpecting a call back or a /flash/ but nothing happened.

what do you think bro, im so anxious and worried thanks in advance. this girl pretty die.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Meklex(m): 4:35am On Sep 13, 2018
MetalJigsaw:
i really aporeciate tje way you sharw your knowledge bro.

theres this girl i met a couple of weeks back. ive known her from my former workplace before we both eventually both resigned and lost contact. i realky liked her and so does she.

when we bumbed on eachother we she requested to give me her number but unfortunately that day my phone wasreally faulty so i left it at home. i had to give her a pen to write it on a sheet of paper for me.

i still failed to call her untill about 2 weeks time when i acquired another phone due to the issues with my phone and i didnt see it necessary to call her throgh another oersons line.

when i finally called her she expressed her anticipation all the while and was really opeased to hear from me at last.

the second time i called her was about three days time but wasnt picking. i called her up to three times. i was ecpecting a call back or a /flash/ but nothing happened.

what do you think bro, im so anxious and worried thanks in advance. this girl pretty die.




lol. This one pass me. Since you've called. Wait for some time (maybe, a week or 2) then call again. If she no pick or call back, move on.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MetalJigsaw(m): 8:18am On Sep 13, 2018
Meklex:
lol. This one pass me. Since you've called. Wait for some time (maybe, a week or 2) then call again. If she no pick or call back, move on.
noted
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Newbielearner(m): 8:19am On Sep 13, 2018
drnoel:


What an egocentric ignoramus. Lead d home,...in what context? Are u there to be the government, ruler, king or are u there to be the stronghold? Is she there to be ur slave, house girl or Ur support?
Ur comments screams of ignorance obviously cos u are unmarried. Let me tell u my son, marriage is no bed of roses but both have to work to make it work. Sometimes the man takes the initiative, sometimes the woman does. It's a 50:50 percent ratio and when one party gives more than that it makes the base shakey.

'The Pu77y a33 Sissy big baiby' I see here is u my child cos no matter how much u huff and puff if Ur marriage has no base it will crumble but ofcos u won't know that cos u are unmarried.

On the contrary to maintain peace one doesn't have to be battle ready, that's Trumps silly idea and I now understand how it is that u don't know anything since Trump is ur school of thought.

Let me re-educate u, to maintain peace one has to be prepared to do what it takes. Sometimes one gives ground, sometimes one may have to fight.

I repeat Hardon is a bad influence on small boys like u here. I repeat if u do the rubbish he sells here. Get ready to loose ur spouse. If it's just a relationship then it's irrelevant, u can do whatever u wish but once u put a ring on that finger, then best u look elsewhere for advice and not with this bitter celibate.

From your first paragraph (attacking personality and not idea), and using the word, " sells here ". I can conclude that you deserve to be ignored.

Live your life how you want. Create your own thread. Besides, teach your male child the same and enjoy the fruits (anyhow it turns out to be).
Leave us please. Respect yourself.

Thanks.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Newbielearner(m): 8:30am On Sep 13, 2018
drnoel:


A pity really, if only u had more sense it would have been a case but then when u combine no sense and no home training. It becomes an issue. I will leave u to Ur parents though they have done a bad job as it is.
Your ideas and writings thus far is painting a picture of you as a small girl or an adult male infant seeking attention.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 11:20am On Sep 13, 2018
HARDDON and other Goons i dey greet please I love the work you are doing .....You say much about Caring less and not putting your full love on a lady at first..what of If she con lose interest??.....

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 2dice01: 11:49pm On Sep 13, 2018
Chukason1:
HARDDON and other Goons i dey greet please I love the work you are doing .....You say much about Caring less and not putting your full love on a lady at first..what of If she con lose interest??.....
one leg forward
Two legs Backward wink

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 12:05am On Sep 14, 2018
2dice01:
one leg forward Two legs Backward wink

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