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There are many of us out there,

It is not our fault that u don't look our way, instead, u see us as boring, u just end up with a baller who is also a player.

Margfin:
you are right bro, recently I met a lady at about 28years old, I got to know her through her elder sister hubby because they felt this lady was good and most good guys don't come near her dueling, to be sincere this lady is beautiful black beauty but very proud. We went on a date on 24/06/2018. The first question she asked me was that ? How old am I (33yrs), am I a graduate(yes), how long have you started your career job (1&half year). am I working (yes), where and how much is my salary(around Mushin salary 40k) and am I living in a flat or face me and slap you(not flat)... Next thing she said was that I can't date you........ After that day I called her sister and the husband that..... The very first day you introduced me to this lady I told you this lady is not good lady bcox she's your sister and she always cry to you whenever she had a heartbroken doesn't mean that she's good girl........ She called me on 9/9/2018 that I should send her 600 recharge card which I declined however I gave her 15,000k and other gift just to consider me but she only collected those gift and down me down....

Sorry, I feel bad after reading this. Leave her, you will find your own

BestDude:
one called me desperate for same qualities and much more. Called my emotional because I showed too much care and concern.

Took her too serious and that was my undoing.
It got to point she capitalized on these to discard me and flaunted another guy to my face as the one she has chosen to date because, according to her I am too emotional, too sensitive..

What did I do? I kept silent and never spoke to her again for several months, only for her to start calling me.

Ladies and calling men too emotional/sensitive, that's why they end up with bears and lions

kunleweb:
Sorry, I feel bad after reading this. Leave her, you will find your own

thank you bro.

Are you a good lady? Because likes attract.

kunleweb:
Ladies and calling men too emotional/sensitive, that's why they end up with bears and lions

But why would you want to be some crotch-bleeder's bi+ch though?
They aren't asking for much. Just be a little into yourself, which you would be if you had a sense of self-worth.

2buffagain:
But why would you want to be some crotch-bleeder's bi+ch though?

I care less

Everybody is a player. It's just that some people ain't got good games.

stop looking for rich handsome husband and start looking for your husband

@op u might not see dem if u don't mingle, some guys are very nice and highly level headed. Sometimes ladies do take dem for granted may be bcs of their look, stature or eloquence. I have come across so many nice ladies in d past, i don't really show myself, some even tell me later 'guy u pretend alot, i don't even know u have this or dat '. U just need to make friends and go extra mile to know much about dem either tru friends or siblings. My challenge is my family don't want ibo lady as a wife and i reside in d east. I have not come across an educated yoruba lady here. Left for me im good to go with any tribe once we r compatible.

Queenrabella:
Just super curious, why is it nearly impossible? If it’s not yahoo-yahoo. It’s rituals, if it’s not that it’s love scams. All sorts have taken over the good old days of loving relationships. On another note could it be my looks? On several occasions all manner of people, usually men who are strangers refer to me as ‘China’ or sometimes ‘India’. Is there a street meaning to this or do they mistake me to be a Chinese person?! I’m tired, maybe I should just give up on love

Life it self is a misery. Good ladies end up with terrible bad guys and bad crazy girls end up with most girls dream men. Everyone has qualities ,tastes and class of what they want.you can't have all in a person because no one is perfect and most of us don't like going with the imperfections .

Olas00:
Na them dey cause ham nah,una no like Mr nice guy : :othat he y I want change from #Mr nice guy to #Good Bad Guy

Thanks, olas00, for the mention. You know what I mean. Please, and please, don't send any copy to anyone. It's against our copyright. If you do, it's wrong. I know you'll do the right thing. Ignore any PM sent to you to send a copy. Thank you.

Queenrabella:
Just super curious, why is it nearly impossible? If it’s not yahoo-yahoo. It’s rituals, if it’s not that it’s love scams. All sorts have taken over the good old days of loving relationships. On another note could it be my looks? On several occasions all manner of people, usually men who are strangers refer to me as ‘China’ or sometimes ‘India’. Is there a street meaning to this or do they mistake me to be a Chinese person?! I’m tired, maybe I should just give up on love

bcus ur a stupid woman. Simple.

ayomide28287:
Rabella, hope you won't mind if I link you up with my brother, I bet he's your perfect type of man, he's an engineer with a good heart and personality.... you can chat me up on 08101108891 if you won't mind giving it a shot. AYOMIDE.

Hi AYOMIDE pls check inbox ....

Millenniumlady:
I tell you girl same thing is happening to me right now.....you see a guy shoot his shot at me next thing in my mind will be maybe he's a yahoo guy I'll just let him pass

My dear, pls rub out the impression that all guys are yahoo plus, there are some among us that are still responsible, although there is no 100% perfect creature, but I assure you, you will still find the one that will be best for you.. I wish the best and a faithful companion..

The most funniest thing about all Nigerian ladies is that they want the best of man to be their man but my question is “are you the best on ur own side"... After so many years of Olosho business and see no reward, they will now repent and be looking for responsible man, Na so e dey easy..

lefulefu:
yesterday evening i was listening to a programme on the radio and the radio presenter was asking a lady on the phone if she's attracted to davido. The lady said yes !.. The radio presenter asked if it was because of davido's wealth and fame... The lady said she's not attracted to davido's wealth and fame but the reason she's attracted to davido is because he's so hardworking and caring that he was able to purchase a porsche for his girlfriend. Ok how many hardworking upcoming young naija men fit jus buy porsche or any automobile for their girlfriend . So u see where d wahala dey. A guy cant afford for d main time to buy a car for im girlfriend or take her shopping to dubai and she will be angry and break up with him and start looking for a rich caring man.u see how d wahala dey take start?.

Can your father purchase a Porsche for your mother? Most women are just too lazy and being dependent. Don't go and hustle.