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Amberon:
You made some good points but missed the most important one which is:

He does not love you.

delivryboy:
my dear love fades away easily with these few points, no matter the love a man has for a lady, it begins to wither the moment bae starts to line up bills for the up coming guy. As if the guy does not have his own problems to attend to.

Amberon:
It means you don't know what love is.

abc115:

We are living in a generation where people “in love” are free to touch each others’ private parts but cannot touch each others’ phones because they’re “private”.

pryme:
Wrong, just as love grows, love can die. Some women can kill the love that existed in the first place.

Nackzy:
I easily loose interest in a girl that's not neat
A girl who can't give me head
A Girl whose p***sy always have repugnant smell
A girl who is to demanding
A girl that lies more than lie Mohammed
A Girl who is never satisfied or contented no matter what u do
A girl Who talks too much
A Girl who doesn't speak English better than me
A girl who complians everytime My dick is too big
A Girl who doesn't appreciate me for who i am
The list is unending

DonroxyII:
This is a spot on especially that Professionalism aspects .... I would want my woman to tag along , if you can't speak, reason or understand my world , I can never come down to yours ..... How can a PhD holder devolve to the level of School Cert aka SSCE .... it will be a slave-master relationship ..... It's either you up your intelligence or nothing ...

Also, the number 4, if a woman ain't gonna add value to one's life even by mere conversation, she ain't motivating nor spirited , there is no reason to tag along with such woman but for shagging purpose .....

Eating the forbidden fruit before or after marriage doesn't mean a thing as far as I am concerned, It's even better (Let's adjust for religion) to have a taste of one another before marriage (God forgive me ooo ) so as to understand whether both parties are fit for one another or not .....

It's like you want to wait after marriage till you decipher whether your wife is a good cook or not , your man is a good husband/father or not. One should have hints across board before marriage proper ;Dc

MrWondah:
You may never know, You might be using one of my software directly or indirectly. The World of programming is not politics where your competitor is your enemy. We believe in the world of open source and freebies.
I may not be on Forbes right now, but i'm happy my contribution in the programming world is making people happy.
We dont complicate life, we choose solitude to make others happy, that's the sacrifice

jaxxy:
Good attitude and a right personality goes along way

dairykidd:
You made the first mistake by yielding to her demands.. I am not saying u should not support your girl when ever u can but putting her financial burdens on u before knowing u simply means u mean nothing but a money bag to her. I met a girl like 3weeks back & on her first visit she insisted she would take a cab down, no problem, she came we had fun but no sex. Same girl said she doesn't want to be in a relationship yet till she graduates... I even thought that meant she just wanted a no string attached sex but she still opened her vampire mouth to tell me this is just our first date she cant follow me home.. U don't want a relationship but we are dating & u won't gimme the pûsśy Okay she went home i called to make sure she was home safe & that was it.. Ignored her for almost a week. I saw her friend & thought of her so i texted her & she called me later like all was normal. When i called her yesterday she was claiming broke & indirectly asking me to do something... My guy i just boone her.. Later she updated her status saying stuff related to that shît.. I know she's trying to weight my pockets.. We hv met only once oo na she dey try all these. Bro what am saying is the moment u gave in she will begin to demand higher. Its the normal rule to every con game. Thank God u still bounce her.
As for this my new girl.. I was looking for something else trying to be good for once but girls no like am as usual.. I will fûck this girl only once & forget she ever existed.. Smally for that matter... Lolzz

millionboi2:
lol

U and this ur programming tinz,hope u making money big as dat of dangote?

delivryboy:
Tell me about love.

airprinz:
Pls Niggas and Nigresses help me out. how can i
get this gal back that came visiting me on a 1st day
and i refused touching her cos i was damn sick. since
then, anytime our path cross on the street, her
counternounce change. she even hardly pick my calls. i like
this gal, mods help me out. give me tricks/techniques i
could use in geting her back

excomarow:
Na that ATM own they vex me I swear

Owned:



My Girl Told Me That If I No Pay Money, No Pussy For Me

What Should I Do ?

ladywriter:
That’s it. No calls. No text. No visit.

Another day is over without his usual calls to check up on you.

You raised the issue with him, but he gave you a load of excuses on why he has not been calling as usual.

In fact, you have been the one calling lately.

And you can’t help thinking...

Is he losing interest or just busy?

Hmmm! Sister, it is time to wake up.  

There are telltale signs of a man losing interest in a relationship and in this article, I will deal with 5 of such signs.

Are you ready?

Let’s get started.

1. He is an "apartment renter" and not a "home buyer"


There are people who rent houses and those who buy them. Some men are like people who are looking for houses to rent. They are just looking for “ladies to rent”. They are not looking for a long-term relationship. They only want a lady who will be there to satisfy their needs for the meantime.

Some people who are financial buoyant can buy a house. Such people are not looking for houses to rent. Likewise, there are men who are looking for women to marry and not ‘rent’.  

If your man falls into the first category i.e. the "apartment renter", he will lose interest in you very fast because he is just renting your “space”. When he is done with you, he will move on to other available “spaces”.
 
Are you dating an “apartment renter," or a “home buyer,"?


2. He cannot chase someone who is behind him


This one will sting, so get ready ladies!

Some men are achievers. They are gunning for the top of their profession. They are professionally certified or reading to get certified. They are running one course after the other either offline or online. Most men who are achievers always love their women to also tag along educational or otherwise.

And you are there sitting down with your Diploma, HND or Bachelor’s degree. You are satisfied with where you are. You have no plans to move forward in your professional career. You are done with education!.
 
Perhaps, he has even advised you on several occasions to up your game, but you are just comfortable with whom you are and where you are. 
Hmmm! This is a recipe for your man to lose interest in you very fast.

3. The dude has his eyes on a new “hottie”

Remember the apartment rental I mentioned above, most of them don’t stop renting. They will go to other fine places to look for newly built modern houses that are modern. 

Some guys are like that too. They are constantly searching for slaying ladies in their office, entertainment places, school, etc. Whenever they get a new lady, they lose interest in you very fast. 

The truth is, men are fired up with the thrill of a new chase. He will stay with you for as long as there is no other option in sight. But as soon as a new opportunity arrives, you become an old story.

4. You are not a “ride or die”
“
A ride or die” means you are a liability and not an asset to your man. Your man will evaluate your value based on what you bring to the table. He will consider the value you are adding to his life and goals. 

If instead of improving his life, you made it bitter; you are not adding value to his life. 

If he feels that you are not beneficial to his life and his dreams, he will pack his bags mentally and follow suit physically in no time. 

5. He has eaten the forbidden fruit


Call it old school or something else, I still believe in no sex till after marriage. 

When there is nothing to look forward to in a relationship, it is boring. 

When, instead of keeping yourself, you freely give yourself to your man for as many time and he wants, it will be boring. It is a matter of time, it will park up. 

6. You turn him to your ATM


This is common. In fact, most ladies go into relationships because they need someone to take care of their financial needs. 
Once a man comes into your life, you automatically become his responsibility. You want him to be responsible for your daily upkeep, your pocket money, your recharge cards, your school fees, etc.

This is the reason you see many young and upwardly mobile men running away from dating relationships. They can’t cope because of incessant demands from ladies who have turned them into an ATM.

It is time to wake up and start doing the right thing.

It's your turn GUYs, add yours.


Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/why-a-man-lose-interest-in-a-relationship/

millionboi2:
abeg ........when a woman tells u DAT u are a pin in her axe,what does it mean?

dairykidd:
She's not comfortable with u bro.. She's just plain sick & tired of ur frustrating her daily....

Sorry

bigocean:
Oh god! Is this the only problem you have in this life?

Amberon:
Love is unconditional, and endless.

Amberon:
Love is unconditional, and endless.

airprinz:
Dude will u disembark 4rm here since u cant help

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Keep deceiving yourself. There's always a price for love.

ladywriter:
That’s it. No calls. No text. No visit.

Another day is over without his usual calls to check up on you.

You raised the issue with him, but he gave you a load of excuses on why he has not been calling as usual.

In fact, you have been the one calling lately.

And you can’t help thinking...

Is he losing interest or just busy?

Hmmm! Sister, it is time to wake up.  

There are telltale signs of a man losing interest in a relationship and in this article, I will deal with 5 of such signs.

Are you ready?

Let’s get started.

1. He is an "apartment renter" and not a "home buyer"


There are people who rent houses and those who buy them. Some men are like people who are looking for houses to rent. They are just looking for “ladies to rent”. They are not looking for a long-term relationship. They only want a lady who will be there to satisfy their needs for the meantime.

Some people who are financial buoyant can buy a house. Such people are not looking for houses to rent. Likewise, there are men who are looking for women to marry and not ‘rent’.  

If your man falls into the first category i.e. the "apartment renter", he will lose interest in you very fast because he is just renting your “space”. When he is done with you, he will move on to other available “spaces”.
 
Are you dating an “apartment renter," or a “home buyer,"?


2. He cannot chase someone who is behind him


This one will sting, so get ready ladies!

Some men are achievers. They are gunning for the top of their profession. They are professionally certified or reading to get certified. They are running one course after the other either offline or online. Most men who are achievers always love their women to also tag along educational or otherwise.

And you are there sitting down with your Diploma, HND or Bachelor’s degree. You are satisfied with where you are. You have no plans to move forward in your professional career. You are done with education!.
 
Perhaps, he has even advised you on several occasions to up your game, but you are just comfortable with whom you are and where you are. 
Hmmm! This is a recipe for your man to lose interest in you very fast.

3. The dude has his eyes on a new “hottie”

Remember the apartment rental I mentioned above, most of them don’t stop renting. They will go to other fine places to look for newly built modern houses that are modern. 

Some guys are like that too. They are constantly searching for slaying ladies in their office, entertainment places, school, etc. Whenever they get a new lady, they lose interest in you very fast. 

The truth is, men are fired up with the thrill of a new chase. He will stay with you for as long as there is no other option in sight. But as soon as a new opportunity arrives, you become an old story.

4. You are not a “ride or die”
“
A ride or die” means you are a liability and not an asset to your man. Your man will evaluate your value based on what you bring to the table. He will consider the value you are adding to his life and goals. 

If instead of improving his life, you made it bitter; you are not adding value to his life. 

If he feels that you are not beneficial to his life and his dreams, he will pack his bags mentally and follow suit physically in no time. 

5. He has eaten the forbidden fruit


Call it old school or something else, I still believe in no sex till after marriage. 

When there is nothing to look forward to in a relationship, it is boring. 

When, instead of keeping yourself, you freely give yourself to your man for as many time and he wants, it will be boring. It is a matter of time, it will park up. 

6. You turn him to your ATM


This is common. In fact, most ladies go into relationships because they need someone to take care of their financial needs. 
Once a man comes into your life, you automatically become his responsibility. You want him to be responsible for your daily upkeep, your pocket money, your recharge cards, your school fees, etc.

This is the reason you see many young and upwardly mobile men running away from dating relationships. They can’t cope because of incessant demands from ladies who have turned them into an ATM.

It is time to wake up and start doing the right thing.

It's your turn GUYs, add yours.


Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/why-a-man-lose-interest-in-a-relationship/

EmpresFIDEL:
my dear love is conditional when genotypes comes in.

bigocean:
DIE ETCH!