That’s it. No calls. No text. No visit.

Another day is over without his usual calls to check up on you.

You raised the issue with him, but he gave you a load of excuses on why he has not been calling as usual.

In fact, you have been the one calling lately.

And you can’t help thinking...

Is he losing interest or just busy?

Hmmm! Sister, it is time to wake up.  

There are telltale signs of a man losing interest in a relationship and in this article, I will deal with 5 of such signs.

Are you ready?

Let’s get started.

1. He is an "apartment renter" and not a "home buyer"


There are people who rent houses and those who buy them. Some men are like people who are looking for houses to rent. They are just looking for “ladies to rent”. They are not looking for a long-term relationship. They only want a lady who will be there to satisfy their needs for the meantime.

Some people who are financial buoyant can buy a house. Such people are not looking for houses to rent. Likewise, there are men who are looking for women to marry and not ‘rent’.  

If your man falls into the first category i.e. the "apartment renter", he will lose interest in you very fast because he is just renting your “space”. When he is done with you, he will move on to other available “spaces”.
 
Are you dating an “apartment renter," or a “home buyer,"?


2. He cannot chase someone who is behind him


This one will sting, so get ready ladies!

Some men are achievers. They are gunning for the top of their profession. They are professionally certified or reading to get certified. They are running one course after the other either offline or online. Most men who are achievers always love their women to also tag along educational or otherwise.

And you are there sitting down with your Diploma, HND or Bachelor’s degree. You are satisfied with where you are. You have no plans to move forward in your professional career. You are done with education!.
 
Perhaps, he has even advised you on several occasions to up your game, but you are just comfortable with whom you are and where you are. 
Hmmm! This is a recipe for your man to lose interest in you very fast.

3. The dude has his eyes on a new “hottie”

Remember the apartment rental I mentioned above, most of them don’t stop renting. They will go to other fine places to look for newly built modern houses that are modern. 

Some guys are like that too. They are constantly searching for slaying ladies in their office, entertainment places, school, etc. Whenever they get a new lady, they lose interest in you very fast. 

The truth is, men are fired up with the thrill of a new chase. He will stay with you for as long as there is no other option in sight. But as soon as a new opportunity arrives, you become an old story.

4. You are not a “ride or die”
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A ride or die” means you are a liability and not an asset to your man. Your man will evaluate your value based on what you bring to the table. He will consider the value you are adding to his life and goals. 

If instead of improving his life, you made it bitter; you are not adding value to his life. 

If he feels that you are not beneficial to his life and his dreams, he will pack his bags mentally and follow suit physically in no time. 

5. He has eaten the forbidden fruit


Call it old school or something else, I still believe in no sex till after marriage. 

When there is nothing to look forward to in a relationship, it is boring. 

When, instead of keeping yourself, you freely give yourself to your man for as many time and he wants, it will be boring. It is a matter of time, it will park up. 

6. You turn him to your ATM


This is common. In fact, most ladies go into relationships because they need someone to take care of their financial needs. 
Once a man comes into your life, you automatically become his responsibility. You want him to be responsible for your daily upkeep, your pocket money, your recharge cards, your school fees, etc.

This is the reason you see many young and upwardly mobile men running away from dating relationships. They can’t cope because of incessant demands from ladies who have turned them into an ATM.

It is time to wake up and start doing the right thing.

It's your turn GUYs, add yours.


Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/why-a-man-lose-interest-in-a-relationship/

And you have nothing to offer other than sex

izuch:
And you have nothing to offer other than sex

Good point. That should be the point no. 7.

no.7 ?

ladywriter:
That’s it. No calls. No text. No visit.

Another day is over without his usual calls to check up on you.

You raised the issue with him, but he gave you a load of excuses on why he has not been calling as usual.

In fact, you have been the one calling lately.

And you can’t help thinking...

This is a spot on especially that Professionalism aspects .... I would want my woman to tag along , if you can't speak, reason or understand my world , I can never come down to yours ..... How can a PhD holder devolve to the level of School Cert aka SSCE .... it will be a slave-master relationship ..... It's either you up your intelligence or nothing ...

Also, the number 4, if a woman ain't gonna add value to one's life even by mere conversation, she ain't motivating nor spirited , there is no reason to tag along with such woman but for shagging purpose .....

Eating the forbidden fruit before or after marriage doesn't mean a thing as far as I am concerned, It's even better (Let's adjust for religion) to have a taste of one another before marriage (God forgive me ooo ) so as to understand whether both parties are fit for one another or not .....

It's like you want to wait after marriage till you decipher whether your wife is a good cook or not , your man is a good husband/father or not. One should have hints across board before marriage proper

All na wash

Most girls are guilty of number 6

There was this chick i approached and felt we could start something slowly together

Immediately she started asking for money, i managed to support with the little i can

But the one that broke the camels back is when she asked for money to change her phone i asked the reason why and she said "she whats a phone with a better camera"

Brothers is that not greed i had to let her go

Tell Them...

Even in The Early Stage. These Nigerian Girls Even Give You Attitudes and Pretend Like You're Nobody When They Are Dying For You on The Inside...

Ako Won Ti Po Ju

And at The End of The Day, They'll Condition You into Taking Care of Them Financially If You Really Want Them.

Nawa oh

Demanding too much

Na that ATM own they vex me I swear

abc115:

We are living in a generation where people “in love” are free to touch each others’ private parts but cannot touch each others’ phones because they’re “private”.

...generation when...

Too much shakara

lemme nor talk...

HND/BSc is ok.
But guys don't joke with

Peaceful ladies with natural intelligence

Professionalism: The reason I hardly date a girl for more than a week. There are hardly any programmers, or ladies who understood what it takes to be a programmer. You spent more than half of your day and night sitting and debugging code, person go dey give you headache say yo no dey give her attention

another thing is this... SOME automatically turn you to their dad, they b like.... "give me money for my school fee and Handouts"

Ok

So on point many of them just sit down and be like "I'm of age now waiting for Mr. Right" Mr Right will be happier when he meets you busy achieving

Owned:



My Girl Told Me That If I No Pay Money, No Pussy For Me

What Should I Do ?

Mr. Renter welldone oo

I just hate it when a lady doesn't have anything going for herself. Not working, not into a business, not learning a trade. Just useless for herself and her future husband.
Guys wise up, If you didn't meet her being useful to herself. Japa! Probably, she will be useful to herself when you guys get married is very slim.
A friend is regretting his marriage cos of this. Na so a very young girl turn herself to full housewife. Guy done set am up several times but the business never exist than a month, she go some chop business capital. Looked for work for her to work. She is always complaining about the work. Watch her very well before you propose, how does she handle money? Is she making progress in her business or even work or na collect salary and chop things for the past several years. Guys! Wise up! 2 in 1 family load na die.

Owned:



My Girl Told Me That If I No Pay Money, No Pussy For Me

What Should I Do ?

lol

My babe af turn me to ATM Please help!!!

You made some good points but missed the most important one which is:

He does not love you.

Who girlfriend epp? You want make I add another wahala join the one wey Nigeria dey give me.

Kuku kill me