MrHighSea:
HND/BSc is ok.
But guys don't joke with

Peaceful ladies with natural intelligence

MrWondah:
Professionalism: The reason I hardly date a girl for more than a week. There are hardly any programmers, or ladies who understood what it takes to be a programmer. You spent more than half of your day and night sitting and debugging code, person go dey give you headache say yo no dey give her attention

Amberon:
You made some good points but missed the most important one which is:

He does not love you.

millionboi2:
what abt age?

DonroxyII:

This is a spot on especially that Professionalism aspects .... I would want my woman to tag along , if you can't speak, reason or understand my world , I can never come down to yours ..... How can a PhD holder devolve to the level of HND .... it will be a slave-master relationship ..... It's either you up your intelligence or nothing ...

Also, the number 4, if a woman ain't gonna add value to one's life even by mere conversation, she ain't motivating nor spirited , there is no reason to tag along with such woman but for shagging purpose .....

Eating the forbidden fruit before or after marriage doesn't mean a thing as far as I am concerned, It's even better (Let's adjust for religion) to have a taste of one another before marriage (God forgive me ooo ) so as to understand whether both parties are fit for one another or not .....

It's like you want to wait after marriage till you decipher whether your wife is a good cook or not , your man is a good husband/father or not. One should have hints across board before marriage proper

MrHighSea:

Age is an individual stuff.
I've madeup my mind I'd marry sm1 older than me b4 I started dating. I like their brains.

GENOTYPE coupled with wen u don blow will make u marry a younger lady.

Remember this too:
Any lady above 30 is not necessarily afternoon newspaper, but science claims giving birth at that age may come with complications

Owned:



My Girl Told Me That If I No Pay Money, No Pussy For Me

What Should I Do ?

delugajackson:
Whether you believe it or not, "send me money" is where a man loses 80% interest in a lady.

fykes:
All I want in a woman is meekness and faith... Don't be rich, don't have a job, but don't have a poor mentality.
Just be Meek enough to be willing to learn and try always. Then have a strong faith in my future to give me peace of mind.

ceeroh:
Who girlfriend epp? You want make I add another wahala join the one wey Nigeria dey give me.

Kuku kill me

flexyrule:
Well, an HND holder working as a supervisor at Shell is better than the PhD holder lecturing on any of our mushroom federal universities.

MrWondah:
Professionalism: The reason I hardly date a girl for more than a week. There are hardly any programmers, or ladies who understood what it takes to be a programmer. You spent more than half of your day and night sitting and debugging code, person go dey give you headache say yo no dey give her attention

tgmservice:
Most girls are guilty of number 6

There was this chick i approached and felt we could start something slowly together

Immediately she started asking for money, i managed to support with the little i can

But the one that broke the camels back is when she asked for money to change her phone i asked the reason why and she said "she whats a phone with a better camera"

Brothers is that not greed i had to let her go

sommyboi:



Uhm, Mr Programmer, what have you really achieved so far? A software that's changing the world? Don't make it seem like you're debugging some codes used in ISS. Go get a life outside your laptop.

Kendumazy:
I just hate it when a lady doesn't have anything going for herself. Not working, not into a business, not learning a trade. Just useless for herself and her future husband.
Guys wise up, If you didn't meet her being useful to herself. Japa! Probably, she will be useful to herself when you guys get married is very slim.
A friend is regretting his marriage cos of this. Na so a very young girl turn herself to full housewife. Guy done set am up several times but the business never exist than a month, she go some chop business capital. Looked for work for her to work. She is always complaining about the work. Watch her very well before you propose, how does she handle money? Is she making progress in her business or even work or na collect salary and chop things for the past several years. Guys! Wise up! 2 in 1 family load na die.

folake4u:



Exactly!