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Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by 93Miles: 1:44am On Sep 15, 2018
JamaicanLove:




Good for your useless self.
Bad for yo useful sef
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Nobody: 1:48am On Sep 15, 2018
93Miles:


Bad for yo useful sef




Still better pass you., vulture.
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by 93Miles: 1:50am On Sep 15, 2018
JamaicanLove:




Still better pass you., vulture.
Uben ifot
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Nobody: 1:55am On Sep 15, 2018
93Miles:


Uben ifot



Awan mfo adi uben.



Mkpo ifot
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by 93Miles: 1:57am On Sep 15, 2018
JamaicanLove:



Awan mfo adi uben.


Mkpo ifot
Afo edi awan mi
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by 93Miles: 1:57am On Sep 15, 2018
JamaicanLove:



Awan mfo adi uben.


Mkpo ifot
Afo edi awan mi
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Nobody: 1:59am On Sep 15, 2018
93Miles:


Afo edi awan mi



Abasi akan



Nkemeke ndi di awan mfo
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Nobody: 2:00am On Sep 15, 2018
English please
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by 93Miles: 2:01am On Sep 15, 2018
JamaicanLove:



Abasi akan


Nkemeke ndi di awan mfo
Ntak mukemeke?
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Donpenny(m): 5:19am On Sep 15, 2018
With time u will get heal. When I was in 200L I have a gf in 100L we dated throughout my undergraduate days even after my graduation we still continue our relationship. I went to service I was so faithful to her becux I believed in her and want to marry her. Despite that my parent kicked against me marry another tribe I insisted and made them believed my reasons. I can remember that very evening my parent called me and asked do you love yetunde and I answered in affirmative because they don't want to hurt my feeling they compromise and accepted her . all these sacrifices I made cux I loved her and am willing to make the relationship work. I called often like four to thrice daily even when I was in service my parent called her often too but one day just two before rounding off my service year she called me on Skype I saw her crying profusely i asked her what happened she now told me her parent was against our marriage base on tribal difference ground I try and calm her down so I told her to try and explain things to them and if they truly love her they won't hurt her feeling not knowing to me that she has made up her mind to go back to her ex bf just within an interval of one year when I even came to check her at home despite the far northeast state i was posted to with frequent call. She broke up with me , when she left me for her ex I was depressed for two weeks after then started see other girls that I don't even find attractive b4 we one of them became my very close friend so she help me get over her within two week. She even more beautiful and mature than her I became happy again. Just two month ago she started calling asking if I have gotten another gf I said yes even immediately she left she started crying and I asked why d cry she said her ex told her she is too cheap for her liking and he broke up with her now she is sorry she missed me, my call and bla bla bla. I diplomatically turn down her request and she felt even more hurt later I called her back and encouraged her but we can't date again cux I can't love her again never I can't even have her for a night stand . up till now she still call often sometime at odd hours when am even with my heart rub . so bros shake it off look for someone more beautiful and talented than her and give your heart a chance to love again. Cheer

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Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by HeWrites(m): 7:47am On Sep 15, 2018
Amakababe:
it's funny. I know. But I've cried hard in the past for someone who doesn't care bout me.

He even went ahead to tell his best friend who prolly despises me now also.

You can see a previous thread I opened "he looked at me with so much hate in his eyes".

He's the one I'm talking bout. My crush abi ex-crush

Ayobami is his name, he did me something I'll never recover from 100%.

But he's really handsome. Stunner indeed, I give him that.

Lmao... Ayobami my namesake
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by princfred(m): 9:21am On Sep 15, 2018
Time heals by exposing one to others more compactible or valuable. A failed relationship is an opportunity for a better one if you learn as much as possible from it.
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by TOMSY(f): 1:34pm On Sep 19, 2018
Donpenny:
With time u will get heal. When I was in 200L I have a gf in 100L we dated throughout my undergraduate days even after my graduation we still continue our relationship. I went to service I was so faithful to her becux I believed in her and want to marry her. Despite that my parent kicked against me marry another tribe I insisted and made them believed my reasons. I can remember that very evening my parent called me and asked do you love yetunde and I answered in affirmative because they don't want to hurt my feeling they compromise and accepted her . all these sacrifices I made cux I loved her and am willing to make the relationship work. I called often like four to thrice daily even when I was in service my parent called her often too but one day just two before rounding off my service year she called me on Skype I saw her crying profusely i asked her what happened she now told me her parent was against our marriage base on tribal difference ground I try and calm her down so I told her to try and explain things to them and if they truly love her they won't hurt her feeling not knowing to me that she has made up her mind to go back to her ex bf just within an interval of one year when I even came to check her at home despite the far northeast state i was posted to with frequent call. She broke up with me , when she left me for her ex I was depressed for two weeks after then started see other girls that I don't even find attractive b4 we one of them became my very close friend so she help me get over her within two week. She even more beautiful and mature than her I became happy again. Just two month ago she started calling asking if I have gotten another gf I said yes even immediately she left she started crying and I asked why d cry she said her ex told her she is too cheap for her liking and he broke up with her now she is sorry she missed me, my call and bla bla bla. I diplomatically turn down her request and she felt even more hurt later I called her back and encouraged her but we can't date again cux I can't love her again never I can't even have her for a night stand . up till now she still call often sometime at odd hours when am even with my heart rub . so bros shake it off look for someone more beautiful and talented than her and give your heart a chance to love again. Cheer
Of course, her ex is very right. She is too cheap, for her to leave a promising relationship for one that didn't work out in the first place. She now wants to give you the leftover. All that crying na deceit. Bros abeg if you see girl wey dey cry before explaining something to you, just know she's trying to manipulate you. Na their way. Enjoy your new relationship.

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Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by misspearlz: 3:59pm On Sep 19, 2018
Bros Viccur cheesy
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Viccur(m): 5:05pm On Sep 19, 2018
misspearlz:
Bros Viccur cheesy
ma'am
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by misspearlz: 5:09pm On Sep 19, 2018
Viccur:
ma'am
I just dey greet you ni
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Viccur(m): 5:14pm On Sep 19, 2018
misspearlz:
I just dey greet you ni
OK thankyou oo. thought a dude broke ur heart make I summon the gods of d land
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Sep 19, 2018
CastingCrowns:
I always feel ashamed when I read such stories.. some "ladies" have lost their dignity.. am fiercely independent and feel joy when I see a lady working her ass off.... just move on and thank God u caught on before it became too late.
Hold tight buddy
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by misspearlz: 5:31pm On Sep 19, 2018
Viccur:
OK thankyou oo. thought a dude broke ur heart make I summon the gods of d land
Lol not at all, my heart is still intact grin cheesy share yours na lipsrsealed
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by CAPSLOCKED: 5:43pm On Sep 19, 2018
tayooluwole:
It has been hell for me for the past like a week ago... My girl friend broke my @ in a smart way... Me and her have been together for close to 2 years...I tried as much as possible to take care of her because of the love I have for her... Now she has declared to me that we are no more together... She has gone to her ex and I learnt this her ex is married already... A lot of my friends have called her to persuade her but all to no avail. Even my mother called her but she declared she has made up her mind already... I am finding it difficult to erase her from my memory... Each time I remember the games she played with me, I am always sad. She was collecting money from me up to the point when I catch her red-handed... She was still acting like my original gf but it was when I catch her red-handed that she declared that she is no more interested in me, that I should take heart. Each and every day, the past memory of me and her do appear in my thinking. It is really disturbing. It hurts alot. I hardly sleep these days. The funniest thing is that, she said she dont wish to see me again since we are no more together. I went to her house, she did not open door for me, probably she is thinking i came to harm her. My only sin is loving and trusting her. Since we started dating i never thought it once to have alternative girlfriend because of the love i have for her.

Pls I wish to forget her and move on... Pls what are the practical ways to delete her from my memory ?

NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO, MAN, JUST DON'T THINK OF SUICIDE. IT'S NOT WORTH IT. I PROMISE YOU'LL REMEMBER THIS EXPERIENCE A FEW MONTHS FROM NOW AND LAUGH ABOUT THE THINGS THAT ONCE MADE YOU SAD.
ALL THE BEST TRYING TO HEAL AND MOVE ON.

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Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Viccur(m): 5:52pm On Sep 19, 2018
misspearlz:
Lol not at all, my heart is still intact grin cheesy share yours na lipsrsealed
My heart is made of vibranium which makes it unbreakable. But a near experience which is not actually a heartbreak was when I was in SS3. Was crushing on a classmate, we were very good friends but I never knew one of my close mates already wooed her and started dating. towards our last days in skl we planned a sent forth party which was memorable. after the party that was in d night I saw this girl and my classmate in a romantic position (plus this guy was shy and gentle like myself, d way he did it I can't fathom till now) it made me restless and sober that I was slow to take steps. that night of merriment changed to a downcast one. I just left where I was and went to my hostel to sleep. Later on around 2015 I got her contact on bbm and one talk led to another and she told me she had a crush on me while in skl and I was like damn I missed big time. well all is good sha. I dnt think it's a heartbreak though or was it?
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by misspearlz: 6:32pm On Sep 19, 2018
Viccur:
My heart is made of vibranium which makes it unbreakable. But a near experience which is not actually a heartbreak was when I was in SS3. Was crushing on a classmate, we were very good friends but I never knew one of my close mates already wooed her and started dating. towards our last days in skl we planned a sent forth party which was memorable. after the party that was in d night I saw this girl and my classmate in a romantic position (plus this guy was shy and gentle like myself, d way he did it I can't fathom till now) it made me restless and sober that I was slow to take steps. that night of merriment changed to a downcast one. I just left where I was and went to my hostel to sleep. Later on around 2015 I got her contact on bbm and one talk led to another and she told me she had a crush on me while in skl and I was like damn I missed big time. well all is good sha. I dnt think it's a heartbreak though or was it?
Not really, you really missed big time sha cheesy me self don crush on a guy before but shy shy introvert like me always dey carry last.
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by misspearlz: 6:36pm On Sep 19, 2018
tayooluwole:
It has been hell for me for the past like a week ago... My girl friend broke my @ in a smart way... Me and her have been together for close to 2 years...I tried as much as possible to take care of her because of the love I have for her... Now she has declared to me that we are no more together... She has gone to her ex and I learnt this her ex is married already... A lot of my friends have called her to persuade her but all to no avail. Even my mother called her but she declared she has made up her mind already... I am finding it difficult to erase her from my memory... Each time I remember the games she played with me, I am always sad. She was collecting money from me up to the point when I catch her red-handed... She was still acting like my original gf but it was when I catch her red-handed that she declared that she is no more interested in me, that I should take heart. Each and every day, the past memory of me and her do appear in my thinking. It is really disturbing. It hurts alot. I hardly sleep these days. The funniest thing is that, she said she dont wish to see me again since we are no more together. I went to her house, she did not open door for me, probably she is thinking i came to harm her. My only sin is loving and trusting her. Since we started dating i never thought it once to have alternative girlfriend because of the love i have for her.

Pls I wish to forget her and move on... Pls what are the practical ways to delete her from my memory ?
I really feel for you

*sad*
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by rosieluv(f): 6:52pm On Sep 19, 2018
I hate heartbreaks, the only thing you can do is accept and move on, concentrate on the things you love doing. Put your energy into work, make friends and hangouts, you will be okay with time

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Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by Viccur(m): 6:55pm On Sep 19, 2018
misspearlz:
Not really, you really missed big time sha cheesy me self don crush on a guy before but shy shy introvert like me always dey carry last.
lol shy shy na bad thing
Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by misspearlz: 7:02pm On Sep 19, 2018
Viccur:
lol shy shy na bad thing
Sshhhhh cheesy

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