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airprinz:
fvck u

Amberon:
love is unconditional. That you end up breaking up due to genotype or other circumstances doesn't mean both parties would stop loving each other.

DonroxyII:
That ain't an Ordinary HND holder , that is HND with specs .... if u see such pls contact me

GrammarNazi1:
...generation when...

folake4u:
Hmm, care to explain?

airprinz:
My friend did I lament of not fvcking your sister's rotten pvssy?
I've gone through your quotes here and discovered that you are an upsetter, you act as if you are too wise here, yet you aren't, you can't correct/advise anyone here, yet you won't just mind your business.
you are unfit to exist where humans are. fvckoff, morron, diick head

millionboi2:
hmmmm
But she is currently pressuring me to take our relatnship seriously.


What do u tink?

bigocean:
chai! E pain am. Oya stop crying; come and take sweet OK.

pryme:
You don't need explanation, you know it. That's why people break up.

airprinz:
Animal lick your stone and die alone

EmpresFIDEL:
we are talking of being together here.. this thread is talking abt relationship. next time be specific.

MrWondah:
Professionalism: The reason I hardly date a girl for more than a week. There are hardly any programmers, or ladies who understood what it takes to be a programmer. You spent more than half of your day and night sitting and debugging code, person go dey give you headache say yo no dey give her attention

dairykidd:
Maybe u should

dairykidd:
Maybe u should

millionboi2:
nothing to fear right?

dairykidd:
Fear?
Bleep fear & drink a beer
But seriously if u don't try u will never know... No big deal

flexyrule:
So it will be okay for an ordinary PhD holder to go after an extraordinary HND holder shey!!!!!

DonroxyII:
There is nothing like Ordinary PhD holder ... Your senselessness is what I am trying to avoid in a woman. You spoke your level of education.
A PhD (a thorough bred not oluwole) can relate with anybody even President of all developed nations in the world talk less of a woman , a woman with HND working in Shell ..... Mtchewww !!
The fact that u get money no mean say u go get sense o .... But your myopic mentality mean now that she is in Shell, she has it all !!

How does HND even become Secretary of Shell without further education, u Berra check LinkedIn and see qualifications that can cut mind.

DonroxyII:
That ain't an Ordinary HND holder , that is HND with specs .... if u see such pls contact me

Joseid:
Nice thread, Ladywriter. Your style of writing has really improved. I envy your writing skills.

Please, I've sent you an email. Kindly reply.

ladywriter:
That’s it. No calls. No text. No visit.

Another day is over without his usual calls to check up on you.

You raised the issue with him, but he gave you a load of excuses on why he has not been calling as usual.

In fact, you have been the one calling lately.

And you can’t help thinking...

Is he losing interest or just busy?

Hmmm! Sister, it is time to wake up.  

There are telltale signs of a man losing interest in a relationship and in this article, I will deal with 5 of such signs.

Are you ready?

Let’s get started.

1. He is an "apartment renter" and not a "home buyer"


There are people who rent houses and those who buy them. Some men are like people who are looking for houses to rent. They are just looking for “ladies to rent”. They are not looking for a long-term relationship. They only want a lady who will be there to satisfy their needs for the meantime.

Some people who are financial buoyant can buy a house. Such people are not looking for houses to rent. Likewise, there are men who are looking for women to marry and not ‘rent’.  

If your man falls into the first category i.e. the "apartment renter", he will lose interest in you very fast because he is just renting your “space”. When he is done with you, he will move on to other available “spaces”.
 
Are you dating an “apartment renter," or a “home buyer,"?


2. He cannot chase someone who is behind him


This one will sting, so get ready ladies!

Some men are achievers. They are gunning for the top of their profession. They are professionally certified or reading to get certified. They are running one course after the other either offline or online. Most men who are achievers always love their women to also tag along educational or otherwise.

And you are there sitting down with your Diploma, HND or Bachelor’s degree. You are satisfied with where you are. You have no plans to move forward in your professional career. You are done with education!.
 
Perhaps, he has even advised you on several occasions to up your game, but you are just comfortable with whom you are and where you are. 
Hmmm! This is a recipe for your man to lose interest in you very fast.

3. The dude has his eyes on a new “hottie”

Remember the apartment rental I mentioned above, most of them don’t stop renting. They will go to other fine places to look for newly built modern houses that are modern. 

Some guys are like that too. They are constantly searching for slaying ladies in their office, entertainment places, school, etc. Whenever they get a new lady, they lose interest in you very fast. 

The truth is, men are fired up with the thrill of a new chase. He will stay with you for as long as there is no other option in sight. But as soon as a new opportunity arrives, you become an old story.

4. You are not a “ride or die”
“
A ride or die” means you are a liability and not an asset to your man. Your man will evaluate your value based on what you bring to the table. He will consider the value you are adding to his life and goals. 

If instead of improving his life, you made it bitter; you are not adding value to his life. 

If he feels that you are not beneficial to his life and his dreams, he will pack his bags mentally and follow suit physically in no time. 

5. He has eaten the forbidden fruit


Call it old school or something else, I still believe in no sex till after marriage. 

When there is nothing to look forward to in a relationship, it is boring. 

When, instead of keeping yourself, you freely give yourself to your man for as many time and he wants, it will be boring. It is a matter of time, it will park up. 

6. You turn him to your ATM


This is common. In fact, most ladies go into relationships because they need someone to take care of their financial needs. 
Once a man comes into your life, you automatically become his responsibility. You want him to be responsible for your daily upkeep, your pocket money, your recharge cards, your school fees, etc.

This is the reason you see many young and upwardly mobile men running away from dating relationships. They can’t cope because of incessant demands from ladies who have turned them into an ATM.

It is time to wake up and start doing the right thing.

It's your turn GUYs, add yours.


Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/why-a-man-lose-interest-in-a-relationship/

izuch:
And you have nothing to offer other than sex

MrWondah:
Professionalism: The reason I hardly date a girl for more than a week. There are hardly any programmers, or ladies who understood what it takes to be a programmer. You spent more than half of your day and night sitting and debugging code, person go dey give you headache say yo no dey give her attention

ladywriter:
That’s it. No calls. No text. No visit.

Another day is over without his usual calls to check up on you.

You raised the issue with him, but he gave you a load of excuses on why he has not been calling as usual.

In fact, you have been the one calling lately.

And you can’t help thinking...

Is he losing interest or just busy?

Hmmm! Sister, it is time to wake up.  

There are telltale signs of a man losing interest in a relationship and in this article, I will deal with 5 of such signs.

Are you ready?

Let’s get started.

1. He is an "apartment renter" and not a "home buyer"


There are people who rent houses and those who buy them. Some men are like people who are looking for houses to rent. They are just looking for “ladies to rent”. They are not looking for a long-term relationship. They only want a lady who will be there to satisfy their needs for the meantime.

Some people who are financial buoyant can buy a house. Such people are not looking for houses to rent. Likewise, there are men who are looking for women to marry and not ‘rent’.  

If your man falls into the first category i.e. the "apartment renter", he will lose interest in you very fast because he is just renting your “space”. When he is done with you, he will move on to other available “spaces”.
 
Are you dating an “apartment renter," or a “home buyer,"?


2. He cannot chase someone who is behind him


This one will sting, so get ready ladies!

Some men are achievers. They are gunning for the top of their profession. They are professionally certified or reading to get certified. They are running one course after the other either offline or online. Most men who are achievers always love their women to also tag along educational or otherwise.

And you are there sitting down with your Diploma, HND or Bachelor’s degree. You are satisfied with where you are. You have no plans to move forward in your professional career. You are done with education!.
 
Perhaps, he has even advised you on several occasions to up your game, but you are just comfortable with whom you are and where you are. 
Hmmm! This is a recipe for your man to lose interest in you very fast.

3. The dude has his eyes on a new “hottie”

Remember the apartment rental I mentioned above, most of them don’t stop renting. They will go to other fine places to look for newly built modern houses that are modern. 

Some guys are like that too. They are constantly searching for slaying ladies in their office, entertainment places, school, etc. Whenever they get a new lady, they lose interest in you very fast. 

The truth is, men are fired up with the thrill of a new chase. He will stay with you for as long as there is no other option in sight. But as soon as a new opportunity arrives, you become an old story.

4. You are not a “ride or die”
“
A ride or die” means you are a liability and not an asset to your man. Your man will evaluate your value based on what you bring to the table. He will consider the value you are adding to his life and goals. 

If instead of improving his life, you made it bitter; you are not adding value to his life. 

If he feels that you are not beneficial to his life and his dreams, he will pack his bags mentally and follow suit physically in no time. 

5. He has eaten the forbidden fruit


Call it old school or something else, I still believe in no sex till after marriage. 

When there is nothing to look forward to in a relationship, it is boring. 

When, instead of keeping yourself, you freely give yourself to your man for as many time and he wants, it will be boring. It is a matter of time, it will park up. 

6. You turn him to your ATM


This is common. In fact, most ladies go into relationships because they need someone to take care of their financial needs. 
Once a man comes into your life, you automatically become his responsibility. You want him to be responsible for your daily upkeep, your pocket money, your recharge cards, your school fees, etc.

This is the reason you see many young and upwardly mobile men running away from dating relationships. They can’t cope because of incessant demands from ladies who have turned them into an ATM.

It is time to wake up and start doing the right thing.

It's your turn GUYs, add yours.


Culled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/why-a-man-lose-interest-in-a-relationship/