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| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
mrphysics:Your logic is correct in terms of 50k earner not having anything to do with Uber+Cinemas, but I honestly tell you that I know a lot of people in my workplace who earns wayyyy less but doing these things, that I don't even do or do with care. So you cannot tell. Well, at the end of the day our perspective of things are different, I can't marry & my pregnant wife will be jumping bus. Bro, I rather stay single, its not by force. On a serious note, how do even you make 50k in 3 days? I'm quite sure I don't do that. I earn in Naira not Dollars. Show your boy way abeg!!! |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by mrphysics(m): 10:38pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
cruchenutii:1. So you see, and some of those earning less than 100k are married. 2. A 50k earner has nothing to do with staying in those mentioned places. It's just like in Abuja, even a 250k earner won't be able to rent a place in Wuse or Maitama. Many people live outside the town, kubwa, Lugbe, Nyanya, Gladimawa, Gwarimpa, etc 3. |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by mrphysics(m): 11:09pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
cruchenutii:1. Lol, you are funny. Our wife and kids deserve the best, however we can't kill ourselves or waiting till eternity to start. we will start somewhere and build our world from there so we will have a story to tell. In winning the war, we overcome different layers of challenges. Secondly, when I didn't own a car, I thought (imagined) owing one is a big thing. Truth is, its a liability though it offers you the comfort and mobility you need. 2. Freelancing services, pay is in $$, so a work of about $150 would give you that amount. 3. Nah you be my boss sir. I am the secretary of broke boys association of nairaland. Still loyal to you boss. |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
mrphysics:Okay. Freelance or which website exactly, you don't need to give me the whole details. Just point me in the right directions. Thanks. But you're not broke oh abeg, with 450k income. please we are not mates LOL. Na you be boss. |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Adiwana: 2:50am On Sep 22, 2018 |
mrphysics:I have read your posts and it oozes of the average Nigerian mentality.Start small and HOPE everything will be ok which 85% of the time never happens.Thats why many people in this country are very poor.And dont even start with the our parents did it then line.Your parents didnt give birth to you for you to be more or less the same.We all struggle to give our children the best because they deserve it.They dont deserve the MANAGEMENT system we practice.They deserve good education and life in general and its all dependent on MONEY whether we want to look at it or not.Lets stop suffering children all in the name of Marriage and get our acts together. Realistically,100k a month does little for a man alone not to talk about a family with a couple of kids.What happened to the good old days of man having a couple of farmlands and barns before getting married?? |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by mrphysics(m): 5:34am On Sep 22, 2018 |
Adiwana:Get in touch with reality out there then we discuss. It seems like you are not in Nigeria. How much does MTN pay their entry level workers? 80k. So these people must wait until they start earning 900k/month before thinking of marriage? Bro, I am a street guy, I am a hustler, I know what is out there. I have been broke several times, and I have had cash many times. Like I said, I earn what you'd call a good income, I also pay people, however, I know that it's never going to be enough any day. Even with what I earn, I am still broke but I know that if I have little, I will manage, if I have much I will still manage. Check around you, you'd be surprised that most homes You See around are filled up with people earning less than you think. You can wait all your life because you want to earn 900k/month before getting married. Be a friend with reality, which I am sure you do. I have read several books on money, I mean several books on money and I am telling you most certainly that your worth is same as your challenges. The urge to hit 1m/month is what is causing people to go to Europe through the Mediterranean sea by boat or foot. |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by mrphysics(m): 5:41am On Sep 22, 2018 |
cruchenutii:That's side hustle that pays more than salary. Salary is just to cover up before neighbours would mistake you to be a yahoo boy. I pay one of my team member about 100k/month, while the other two depends on the task I assign to them. Lol, Fiverr bro. You can check the business section of nairaland and you will get further info. |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by soviete(m): 8:50am On Sep 22, 2018 |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Raalsalghul: 9:08am On Sep 22, 2018 |
thegentleman:Bro, 50k is too small unless you and your girl plan not to have kids like 3-4 years after marriage meaning you must resist all pressure from family members to start breeding immediately. Because once junior pop out, bye bye to your dreams and aspirations. |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Raalsalghul: 9:12am On Sep 22, 2018 |
mrphysics:Bro, even if person no make 900k/month, at least have a second source of income, max no of kids should be two and if possible move far away fro lagos oh. Don't bring kids into the world u can't take care of. I believe in being financially stable to an extent before getting married. |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by mrphysics(m): 10:00am On Sep 22, 2018 |
Raalsalghul:Sure. However, After all said and done, more is said than done |
| Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by poweredcom(m): 5:27pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
cruchenutii:Hahaha oga you funny o Na first born de suffer am pass but for now for naija everybody on his own o even first born. No de send anybody again dat much 200k is good to start bro |
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