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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Fiducia: 4:11pm On Sep 23, 2018
It was the "sex" that started everything
It encouraged her.
Now call her, sit her down and talk to her politely about this.
Tell her you are no longer comfortable with the arrangement. Its against your values and its making you uneasy.
Be polite but FIRM!
If she begs you to allow her to stay till she gets a job, say NO. Tell her to go stay with her friends.
Give her Two weeks to make the necessary arrangements and leave.
And op if you are still having sex with her, better stop o, you can't be eating your cake and expect to have it back. Goodluck.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Timagex(m): 4:15pm On Sep 23, 2018
emeijeh:
Just declare the union INCONCLUSIVE grin


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u need cane grin

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by mrjaydee(m): 4:21pm On Sep 23, 2018
Her kitten don tire u my guy

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 4:21pm On Sep 23, 2018
chiommy123:
you can help her get a job and start preparing for your marriage cos I don't know who you want to leave her for

They might have stayed together for three months but the lady is not three months old. Who is going to account for the time they didn't spent living together?

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Ayoemrys(m): 4:23pm On Sep 23, 2018

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by waleyp(m): 4:25pm On Sep 23, 2018
Do You Want To MarrY This Girl? If You DonT Have Plans For Her Let Her Go, SheY You No Get Plans For Your Future Too? She Can Tie You Down With PregNaNCY If You No Know, But If She Looks Like You Want To A Future With Her Then Make Her HusTLe And Work, PreTend To Be FinancialLY Broke And Find A Way To Tell Her To Cater For U Guys For A Week, Lets See If She Go Work Or Not, OGa JA PA, JA RA EH

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by LUGBE: 4:27pm On Sep 23, 2018
You told her to move in because you need her to satisfy you sexually, now you have gotten it to the fullest.

You chased all her friends away because you are selfish, you wanted her all alone, now you are telling us that you don't want again, that she can go back to them.

After satisfying yourself, you are coming to us for advice. Is men like you that brings shame to us.

What was on your mind when you asked her to move in? Have you gotten a job for her and she said she said she isn't interested.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by royalair(m): 4:35pm On Sep 23, 2018
You just got married without knowing

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Aykush(m): 4:39pm On Sep 23, 2018

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by dingbang(m): 4:39pm On Sep 23, 2018
ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash sad

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...
chill, the person who needs the punch more is the girl.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by dingbang(m): 4:44pm On Sep 23, 2018
Jasen1, I was in your shoes before.

This is what you should do. Don't provide light and water for one week... Be hostile to her always, and tell her you are broke, dont give her any money for stuff.


Thank me later. I feel your pains bro.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by virago(f): 4:47pm On Sep 23, 2018
Just ask for her own monthly contribution for rent , food and utilities when the month ends

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nightmareo07: 4:48pm On Sep 23, 2018
dingbang:
chill, the person who needs the punch more is the girl.

I think both, obviously the gal Love and trusted him,
If any gal loves u deeply forget it bro.
She can do anything to please u.
he brought the gal in and took advantage of her situation and chased her friends away.
Only God knows how he uses the gal sexually.
Because of her nativity for 3good months.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by dingbang(m): 4:52pm On Sep 23, 2018
Nightmareo07:


I think both, obviously the gal Love and trusted him,
If any gal loves u deeply forget it bro.
She can do anything to please u.
he brought the gal in and took advantage of her situation and chased her friends away.
Only God knows how he uses the gal sexually.
Because of her nativity.

she wasn't naive. She formunlated all those things about her sister in law maltreating her because she wanted to live with him. Trust me.. Girls are good at being manipulative .

Think.. Why would it be that it was after the sex that she knew that she didn't want to stay in the house she was staying before? Before the dude met the girl, she has been staying in that house and not complaining.. So why is it that after the mind blowing sex he gave to her, she started coming up with flimsy excuses..


Well the guy too made a mistake of telling her to pack in with him. If only he had experienced such in the past , he wouldn't have even thought a second about letting her in.

No girl can come to me with such bullshittt because I will call her bluff.. I have been in that situation and trust me.. You will eventually get tired to fuckibg that girl

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by QuietHammer(m): 4:53pm On Sep 23, 2018
ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash sad

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...
Nonsense. He is tired of her because she is now a liability. Is she handicapped? Three months is enough for any serious person to get something doing no matter how little the pay is.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Jasen1(m): 4:54pm On Sep 23, 2018
Nightmareo07:


I think both, obviously the gal Love and trusted him,
If any gal loves u deeply forget it bro.
She can do anything to please u.
he brought the gal in and took advantage of her situation and chased her friends away.
Only God knows how he uses the gal sexually.
Because of her nativity for 3good months.



Not so sir, I didn't chase all her friends away she have a friend that is a known runs girl in the area, I asked her to stop going out with her, because she keep giving her bad advise she even introduce guys to her

I've prove here
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Jasen1(m): 4:55pm On Sep 23, 2018
Y'all talking about sex, we barely had sex here sir, it's not all about sex

Am a busy someone and I don't even have time for such

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nightmareo07: 4:57pm On Sep 23, 2018
dingbang:
she wasn't naive. She formunlated all those things about her sister in law maltreating her because she wanted to live with him. Trust me.. Girls are good at being manipulative .

Think.. Why would it be that it was after the sex that she knew that she didn't want to stay in the house she was staying before? Before the dude met the girl, she has been staying in that house and not complaining.. So why is it that after the mind blowing sex he gave to her, she started coming up with flimsy excuses..


Well the guy too made a mistake of telling her to pack in with him. If only he had experienced such in the past , he wouldn't have even thought a second about letting her in.

No girl can come to me with such bullshittt because I will call her bluff.. I have been in that situation and trust me.. You will eventually get tired to fuckibg that girl

U might be right but u haven't heard her own side.
Of course staying with a particular gal day in day out for that long u will eventually get tired of her .because u will find anything interesting about her anymore even is she is Beyonce. :- undecided
He bleeped up letting her pack in.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by QuietHammer(m): 4:58pm On Sep 23, 2018
Nightmareo07:


I think both, obviously the gal Love and trusted him,
If any gal loves u deeply forget it bro.
She can do anything to please u.
he brought the gal in and took advantage of her situation and chased her friends away.
Only God knows how he uses the gal sexually.
Because of her nativity for 3good months.

"how he uses the gal sexually. Because of her nativity for 3good months" ? What sort of stupid reasoning is this? It doesn't even make sense

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nightmareo07: 5:00pm On Sep 23, 2018
QuietHammer:

"[s]how he uses the gal sexually. Because of her nativity for 3good months" ? What sort of stupid reasoning is this? It doesn't even make sense[/s]

U are even more stupid, condemning my own comment and yet didnt correct it.
I was expecting u to say something in contrary to mine. undecided

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nightmareo07: 5:03pm On Sep 23, 2018
Jasen1:



Not so sir, I didn't chase all her friends away she have a friend that is a known runs girl in the area,
I asked her to stop going out with her, because she keep giving her bad advise she even introduce guys to her
I've prove here

Ok now this makes more sense..
So according to u, her parents and siblings knew u stay together undecided?

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Oreofepeters: 5:03pm On Sep 23, 2018
telling her to leave after kpanshing her for six months will be wickedness on your part, if she leave your not going to like your life.

do the needful get her a job and wife her.




#sheisgoingnowhere

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by dingbang(m): 5:04pm On Sep 23, 2018
Nightmareo07:


U might be right but u haven't heard her own side.
Of course staying with a particular gal day in day out for that long u will eventually get tired of her .because u will find anything interesting about her anymore even is she is Beyonce. :- undecided
He bleeped up letting her pack in.

well I guess he wouldn't have gotten tired if she was bringing something to the table. What even made me let her go was Cuz I got broke temporarily and couldn't support her as well and she wasn't bringing anything. So you see, every girl gotta be up and doing and not dependent on any man so it won't bring friction.

As for me I dont mind housing a girl as long as she is doing something

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by chloride6: 5:06pm On Sep 23, 2018
Guy when is your rent expiring?

Tell her that you cant afford the place and you will be squatting with a friend.

Also give her TF to her aunty place let her go and stay with her.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nightmareo07: 5:09pm On Sep 23, 2018
dingbang:
well I guess he wouldn't have gotten tired if she was bringing something to the table. What even made me let her go was Cuz I got broke temporarily and couldn't support her as well and she wasn't bringing anything. So you see, every girl gotta be up and doing and not dependent on any man so it won't bring friction.

As for me I dont mind housing a girl as long as she is doing something

Bringing her in is wrong bro.
U dont bring a gal in ur house u ain't married to
Or engaged to.
He didnt even specify clearly if they were dating,
They mate and had sex and became aquinted to each other. So thats not good enuff to bring her in.

After reading this story, can't even say if they dating or not.
So why bring her in and having sex.
Thats the question undecided
I'm not condemning having sex with her if they dont live 2geda , they might see from time to time and hav sex, depending on what their motives are.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by ritylove(f): 5:10pm On Sep 23, 2018
Jasen1:
Y'all talking about sex, we barely had sex here sir, it's not all about sex

Am a busy someone and I don't even have time for such
story for the God's

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by dingbang(m): 5:11pm On Sep 23, 2018
Nightmareo07:


Bringing her is the wrong bro.
U dont bring a gal in ur house u ain't married to
Or engaged to.
He didnt even specify clearly if they were dating,
They mate and had sex and became aquinted to each other. So thats not good enuff to bring her in.

After reading this story, can't even say if they dating or not.
So why bring her in and having sex.
Thats the question undecided
I'm not condemning having sex with her if they dont live 2geda , they might see from time to time and hav sex, depending on what their motives are.
okay

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Jasen1(m): 5:17pm On Sep 23, 2018
Nightmareo07:


Ok now this makes more sense..
So according to u, her parents and siblings knew u stay together undecided?

She didn't them from beginning which I wasn't aware they got to know last month when we had issues about her not working when I asked her to leave she started calling them

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Sep 23, 2018
If you were husband and wife, are you going to tell her to leave your house because you're tired and need space?

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Jasen1(m): 5:26pm On Sep 23, 2018
chloride6:
Guy when is your rent expiring?

Tell her that you cant afford the place and you will be squatting with a friend.

Also give her TF to her aunty place let her go and stay with her.

Am to renew my rent new year February and it's 130k annually, like am hustling trying hard to get the money before then, here is someone iny house everyday just eating, and doing nothing




Well y'all can accused me of getting tired after having sex with her, but the truth we both are having the sex together I've not for one day force her she even ask for it, if she starts working today I will be happy

I've sent her this link already maybe she will read

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nonstoprain: 5:29pm On Sep 23, 2018
my brother you don enter am, na free hole de your front so just de dig am de go.

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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by bola4dprec(m): 5:31pm On Sep 23, 2018
Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem
Failure to have enough sex with your woman is a domestic violence, tell us the truth as regarding intimacy between both of you

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