dingbang:
can you even imagine.. Nigga you are the one who is over doing things

babe dey siddon all day for sittingroom dey watch homevideo and dey over eat without no exercise...wetin u expect but for her to look like a hippo after a month. Op don enter.

lefulefu:
no wonder u have fallen out of attraction for her.so she has grown fat. U don enter one chance sha.

Bros one chance no be here oh

Hehehehe! bro u don enter marriage so, we call this type Abuja marriage in our village. Pls if u are not ready to marry her in the future, gather the moral and end things with her in order not delay her in getting a future husband. As for the working things forget it cos even if u opened a salon for her she no go fit still hustle na liability some gals carry for head like gele.

Jasen1:




You're not wrong bro, if I've your contact I would've send you some things

I mean chats the is not even encouraging but I overlooked all these trying hard to change her

But I think I'm done

my contact is on my profile bro.. Let's throw that girl outta ya house before she cooks up another bullsheet story for u

You be mumu ...thats what you are

Jasen1:




Well, I don't have issues she staying with me, but her not doing anything is just my problem sir

She's a lady bro, I know many things I've overlooked OK its not everything I will put down here, since she don't want to do anything she should leave

lefulefu:
babe dey siddon all day for sittingroom dey watch homevideo and dey over eat without no exercise...wetin u expect but for her to look like a hippo after a month. Op don enter.

The watch zee world

lefulefu:
babe dey siddon all day for sittingroom dey watch homevideo and dey over eat without no exercise...wetin u expect but for her to look like a hippo after a month. Op don enter.

I dey tell you. Ashy don find opportunity..she no fit lose am

sylvez:
You be mumu ...thats what you are

I know sir

Any advice?

Jasen1:


I know sir

Any advice?

One day somehow you both will go your separate ways....

Jasen1:
Y'all talking about sex, we barely had sex here sir, it's not all about sex

Am a busy someone and I don't even have time for such

If I hear,forget talk bro,we are all niggaz

sylvez:


Keep fucking her.... One day somehow you both will go your separate ways....

I was once in something like diz....you don't know the value of what you have until you loose it... There's no feeling greater than that feeling that you can Bleep any time you want....

you'd get tired bro.. Sex cannot keep a man.

sylvez:


Keep fucking her.... One day somehow you both will go your separate ways....

I was once in something like diz....you don't know the value of what you have until you loose it... There's no feeling greater than that feeling that you can Bleep any time you want....

Lol..... Thank you sir


She should go and work

Jasen1:




You're not wrong bro, if I've your contact I would've send you some things

I mean chats the is not even encouraging but I overlooked all these trying hard to change her

But I think I'm done

Shine your eyes next time. Na homeless ashy.... There are many of them like that with no house all they do is register on sites then keep roaming from one mugu to another.

dingbang:
you'd get tired bro.. Sex cannot keep a man.

Sex can keep a man until that man decides to quit.....

My brother you need to experience 3times a day sex.. Doctors prescription....she's always available and can never say no... Do you know what it is

sylvez:


Sex can keep a man until that man decides to quit.....

My brother you need to experience 3times a day sex.. Doctors prescription....she's always available and can never say no... Do you know what it is

perv

Jasen1:




Lol..... Thank you sir


She should go and work and help her family


I know how many times I've sent money to her mom

You didn't tell us you have inlaws too

Jasen1:



We had serious issues about it last month I asked her to leave since she don't want to work, she started crying and begging even her parents(mum) and her sister called me too, I pardoned her but she still not working yet, bro I'm soft hearted am not really complaining about the expenses but the fact that she becomes more lazy everyday is worrisome

Her parents know she is staying with u and you don't know you are married?

[/quote] Well, I'm in a similar situation , she started by spending the weekend with me, whenever she bids her family goodbye on Saturday , she would spend Sunday in my place then off to work on monday morning, she was working as a teacher in a private school. She would leave her place of work on Friday, spends only the Friday night with her family then off to my place on Saturday morning where she ll prepare for the next week..
I started seeing the whole thing as a problem when she decided to stop working, she spent the next two months with me without going home while lying to her family that she's stuck at her working place cos she wasn't paid! Then I introduced the detachment strategies!
You see, once a leech is attached to your body, its inadvisable to forcefully detach! There will be consequences and it may become tragic for both of u if care isn't taken( Hell has no fury than woman scorn). I got her another job where she'll be going from her parent home then I started what they call emotional detachment, I stopped the sex, limit the convo and made sure there's zero visits.
Fast forward to now, shes doing pretty well without me and we're best of friends.

OP said they are in their early 20's. All this Abuja marriage matter everywhere. The OP is still young to be thinking of marriage. Why must he think of having his girlfriend live in his house? It is totally wrong.
The lady is highly manipulative. She will soon use pregnancy to finalize her mission.
I doubt if she is got hair making skills. She is just using it to lie cos no person good at making hair will stop counting the good money it brings daily. OP u better listen to elderly advice and don't think u have seen it all. Concentrate in this your young age, leave women matter, pursue money and secure a great future for your unborn children ahead.

bola4dprec:

Failure to have enough sex with your woman is a domestic violence, tell us the truth as regarding intimacy between both of you

You are a big fool....

Who asked you how many times you've sent money

Onye nzuzu....

Stay there let pant be wearing you...

I suspect you've not been fucking that girl sef...

E be like she dey use your head... aridin....

Jasen1:




Lol..... Thank you sir


She should go and work and help her family


I know how many times I've sent money to her mom

Ezkid:
Well, I'm in a similar situation , she started by spending the weekend with me, whenever she bids her family goodbye on Saturday , she would spend Sunday in my place then off to work on monday morning, she was working as a teacher in a private school. She would leave her place of work on Friday, spends only the Friday night with her family then off to my place on Saturday morning where she ll prepare for the next week..
I started seeing the whole thing as a problem when she decided to stop working, she spent the next two months with me without going home while lying to her family that she's stuck at her working place cos she wasn't paid! Then I introduced the detachment strategies!
You see, once a leech is attached to your body, its inadvisable to forcefully detach! There will be consequences and it may become tragic for both of u if care isn't taken( Hell has no fury than woman scorn). I got her another job where she'll be going from her parent home then I started what they call emotional detachment, I stopped the sex, limit the convo and made sure there's zero visits.
Fast forward to now, shes doing pretty well without me and we're best of friends.

nice one bro..these kind of ladies need to be handled with iron fist else they will turn into leeches

sylvez:
You are a big fool....

Who asked you how many times you've sent money

Onye nzuzu....

Stay there let pant be wearing you...

I suspect you've not been fucking that girl sef...

E be like she dey use your head... aridin....

bro easy na

Nna gi

dingbang:
perv

sylvez:
Nna gi

pained

Nne gi dia

Onye nzuzu

dingbang:
pained

OP

You said her friend is a well know runs girl lol



Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are

A word is enough for the........

Hmmmm I'm currently in similar situation with OP

I'm reading advice sha

Happy married life brah

neoG:
OP said they are in their early 20's. All this Abuja marriage matter everywhere. The OP is still young to be thinking of marriage. Why must he think of having his girlfriend live in his house? It is totally wrong.
The lady is highly manipulative. She will soon use pregnancy to finalize her mission.
I doubt if she is got hair making skills. She is just using it to lie cos no person good at making hair will stop counting the good money it brings daily. OP u better listen to elderly advice and don't think u have seen it all. Concentrate in this your young age, leave women matter, pursue money and secure a great future for your unborn children ahead.

He started what he cannot finished.
Wine and women will mislead an intelligent person, and the one who has sex with prostitutes will become more reckless.

Kingwizzy16:
OP

You said her friend is a well know runs girl lol



Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are

A word is enough for the........

Help me tell him, Wine and women will mislead an intelligent person, and the one who has sex with prostitutes will become more reckless.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

You lie ma guy. After eating her for 3 months you want to run abi.

You get food nah