jauntty:
Port Harcourt is the center of Co-habitation.

Most of these slay mama can't afford any accommodation.

Just be a Bachelor with a small room, food and TV

Then Bam!! PH girls will start hassling to come visit you.

To comot na wahala

From there Co-habitation have started by force

I cover my house with the blood!

explain more abeg

Jackipapa:


In the beginning it was not so in Oyedepo's voice!

I totally read it in Bishop Oyedepo's voice! That powerful cracked voice when he's in the spirit!

story for the gods. whats the diff between a girl visiting and fvcking u and having her in ur home . all na same so shut the fvck up

Quality20:
its of course very very wrong and a satanic inspiration. The manual for righteous and good conduct is d holy and divinely revealed scriptures for d guidance of mankind. But who ever decides to follow his/her whims and caprices might only enjoy for a short time but at d end of d day would be filled with nothing but regrets

chiommy123:
I also think it's wrong and it affects the girl more negatively. The guy can easily move on even in the same environment

How? @bold
What will hold the girl back from moving on easily?

Brightgem:
NO. Very wrong. What is happening to our moral compass! Small thing a lady is called Hoe, yet some dumb ass ladies are saying yes. So how many guys will u sleep with in the name of cohabiting before u marry lass lass. I can't comman be preaching. Morally, wrong. Religiously, wrong.

Where is your anger and sermon towards the men? Aren't they hoes too?
Aren't the men dumb asses too for sleeping with the ladies too?
How many girls will these dumb ass men sleep with in the name of cohabiting before they marry lass lass?
And Why the hell are you interested in how many people someone (who isn't your partner) has slept with in the first place?

It's capital NO for me, because the maker of man and the originator of marriage forbade its,its against the rules.its called FORNICATION.the scriptures says anyone practice immortality will be an enemy of GOD

Olaolud:
It's capital NO for me, because the maker of man and the originator of marriage forbade its,its against the rules.its called FORNICATION.the scriptures says anyone practice immortality will be an enemy of GOD

uncle please how is God the originator of marriage?

sanctity454:
it doesn't affect the male much, in this part of the world due to culture, but females... I once asked a female pal, that was cohabiting these, if your brother is getting married to a girl, that you know, once cohabited with some other guy, and by curiosity asks of your opinion, what is the answer gonna be ....
For me, cohabiting like two months before marriage is great, but cohabiting without a clear cut out destination is demeaning.

yeah,, to me u both should be engaged, probably saving up for ur wedding

lastempero:
U mean hire purchase?

Rolls on the floor

jauntty:
Port Harcourt is the center of Co-habitation.

Most of these slay mama can't afford any accommodation.

Just be a Bachelor with a small room, food and TV

Then Bam!! PH girls will start hassling to come visit you.

To comot na wahala

From there Co-habitation have started by force

I cover my house with the blood!

See as you just expose my people to public forum. I feel embarrassed when I see our girls living with every idiots, and end up giving birth to so many cultists. Most of my people are into hire purchase marriage. They live with the woman for years and have children. when their children grow up, They will go and do proper marriage rites.

Simplep:
Meaning?..do u kn me?

Who doesn't know you ?

Mtchew,run along if u dnt hv somthing sensible to say biko,i dnt hv time for this back and forth replies

crunchyg:

Who doesn't know you ?

Daeylar:


Where is your anger and sermon towards the men? Aren't they hoes too?
Aren't the men dumb asses too for sleeping with the ladies too?
How many girls will these dumb ass men sleep with in the name of cohabiting before they marry lass lass?
And Why the hell are you interested in how many people someone (who isn't your partner) has slept with in the first place?

what you have said I have addressed countless times all over NL even under this thread, I can't begin repeating myself. I am sure u also address things as they arise and give a particular angle in that moment. So I may not talk about men here but I always do, in the end they are the real problems but fact is they get away with these acts, while ladies get tagged hoes, or get pregnant or have to abort, so who carries the bigger burden? Hope u get the point. As for ur last question, I dnt understand what ur asking. However personally I dnt want to end up with someone with a ridiculous body count, like has slept with all his female friends, neighbors, married friends etc. Abeg, I can't be trying to be upright and end up with that kind of male hoe! So it matters to me, I dnt mean u have to begin telling how and where u did what but that kind of history of excess can't be hidden. If I know I will rather shift.

Are u minding dat dumby?,babe was jst fuming at me as if I'm d cause of her frustration

Daeylar:


Where is your anger and sermon towards the men? Aren't they hoes too?
Aren't the men dumb asses too for sleeping with the ladies too?
How many girls will these dumb ass men sleep with in the name of cohabiting before they marry lass lass?
And Why the hell are you interested in how many people someone (who isn't your partner) has slept with in the first place?

Simplep:
Compete?..who is competing with u?...all dis holier dan thou girls,u people do worst tins behind closed doors,i have neva lived with a man bt i dnt see anything wrong it as long as they as they both are grown ups....its a harmless post,drop ur opinion and get out,nt attacking people

Just the way men like to use Feminist to shame ladies for having an opinion or a voice, people like you like to use holier than thou to cower people. Now Open ur ears, I am not forming holier than thou. I am saying what I think and believe in, I don't do anything funny behind closed doors or outside. I am not also trying to prove myself to u either, but understand that there are people who mean what they say and practice what they preach. Please, by all means, feel free to cohabit when the opportunity comes, cuz believe me experiencing a thing is always berra. In school, u are taught a lesson then given a test, in real life you are given a test that teaches u a lesson.

Simplep:
Are u minding dat dumby?,babe was jst fuming at me as if I'm d cause of her frustration

Searching for supporters. I can actually sense ur own frustrated vibes cuz that's what is pushing you to plan cohabiting! Desperation and frustration! Cuz I dnt knw how a woman meant to think highly of herself and see herself as a queen will stoop that low, even after men here quoted you telling you what cohabiting means for them. I dn't knw why u can't also explain why many people, celebrities cohabit for years, yet can't stay married for a year. Since ur theory is for u to know each other and see if u can live together. You can't even validate what u are saying with facts, just emotions. Lass lass na you be dumby.

Simplep:
Mtchew,run along if u dnt hv somthing sensible to say biko,i dnt hv time for this back and forth replies

You know what I am talking about sha

Premiumwriter:
hanty,

The question is, is it wrong or right

Hunku! I was buying land na! Point expanded now.

Brightgem:
Just the way men like to use Feminist to shame ladies for having an opinion or a voice, people like you like to use holier than thou to cower people. Now Open ur ears, I am not forming holier than thou. I am saying what I think and believe in, I don't do anything funny behind closed doors or outside. I am not also trying to prove myself to u either, but understand that there are people who mean what they say and practice what they preach. Please, by all means, feel free to cohabit when the opportunity comes, cuz believe me experiencing a thing is always berra. In school, u are taught a lesson then given a test, in real life you are given a test that teaches u a lesson.

u know nothing about life!!! Shiiiiiiiii

EfeJay:
As for me. I'm not doing wifey shet for any body I'm not married to. Cohabit kor. Cohabit ni . You've not heard of 'due process'

Epp us ask them o! U know ur value jare!

Shugavee:
u know nothing about life!!! Shiiiiiiiii

Thank you, and you that has the perfect formula for life, let it work for u. You need not tell me what to know about life, our narratives could never be the same. Bye!

ChiefAzubuikeh:
Many did it in higher institutions during my school days in the 90s The downside of it is that there's a very big risk of getting pregnant. But all the same, its fun.

Had a partner at that time too who we spend weekends together. We walk about naked like Adam and eve.

You brought some memories honestly
It's fun thou.

folake4u:



Rolls on the floor

But it's true

Very wrong, what if the lady die in the process, that will be the worse day of the man's life, because he will surely marry the dead and will pay double the bride price and dowry, it's better for one to know the truth and avoid ignorance.

Brightgem:
Thank you, and you that has the perfect formula for life, let it work for u. You need not tell me what to know about life, our narratives could never be the same. Bye!

trying to be savage? Well u r a novice, no one here told u how to live ur life sis

lastempero:

But it's true

You be lawyer no?

Brightgem:
NO. Very wrong. What is happening to our moral compass! Small thing a lady is called Hoe, yet some dumb ass ladies are saying yes. So how many guys will u sleep with in the name of cohabiting before u marry lass lass. I can't comman be preaching. Morally, wrong. Religiously, wrong.

so it's wrong to cohabit cos it might lead to sex, but it's not wrong to live apart and have sex regularly abi? what's the difference btw the two? knack and stay or knack and go and come back.

folake4u:



You be lawyer no?

I want be ur lawyer

DaddyNimo:

so it's wrong to cohabit cos it might lead to sex, but it's not wrong to live apart and have sex regularly abi? what's the difference btw the two? knack and stay or knack and go and come back.

All wrong DaddyNimo! There is a lot that could be said about cohabiting beyond sex, I can't be typing long thing. Relationships do exist without knacking, and people need to stop thinking abt only sex morning and night abeg. Later same people will come and insult Nigeria and Africa, when they always channel energy and though into the wrong things. I digress, none is right morally speaking. Shebi it's cohabiting we were asked about not premarital sex.

Brightgem:
what you have said I have addressed countless times all over NL even under this thread, I can't begin repeating myself. I am sure u also address things as they arise and give a particular angle in that moment. So I may not talk about men here but I always do,

OK then.

in the end they are the real problems but fact is they get away with these acts,

How do they get away with these acts though? Isn't it when people refuse to call them the same names they call ladies and instead give these men passes for no other reason than their gender? Just like you tried to do tbh.

While Ladies Get Tagged Hoes,

Once again, Tagged hoes by who? It's human beings that give them these tags, Won't it stop if people just stop tagging them ONLY as hoes and instead give the tag to all genders or to none at all?

or get pregnant or have to abort, so who carries the bigger burden?

But I don't think all these girls came to you to complain about their pregnancy or abortion, or put their "burden" of pregnancy or abortion on you, though, sooo.... Why are you bothered?

Hope u get the point.

I got your point but I have issues with it

As for ur last question, I dnt understand what ur asking.

Was just wondering why you cared about how many people a lady has slept with, it would only make sense if you are gay or bi, or pan and have a specific lady as a partner and you are interested in that specific lady's history, then it would make sense

However personally I dnt want to end up with someone with a ridiculous body count, like has slept with all his female friends, neighbors, married friends etc. Abeg, I can't be trying to be upright and end up with that kind of male hoe! So it matters to me,

This is cool,

I dnt mean u have to begin telling how and where u did what but that kind of history of excess can't be hidden. If I know I will rather shift.

Cool also

Brightgem:
haaahaha! Cohabiting doesn't mean sex! Standing ovation for you! I can see your wisdom. Even from the way you type, your maturity is way up there, I can't even begin to compete.

The lady is not wise, the problem with the set of women in this generation is their thinking is too dull, which is why men easilu use them as sex objects

Brightgem:
haaahaha! Cohabiting doesn't mean sex! Standing ovation for you! I can see your wisdom. Even from the way you type, your maturity is way up there, I can't even begin to compete.

The lady is not wise, the problem with the set of women in this generation is their thinking is too dull, which is why men easily use them as sex objects