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I am of the opinion that a man must try to be as honest as possible to his wife, but she does not need to know EVERYTHING. Right?

Thats if she cant keep secrets

It varies from couple to couple..... If they are best friend..... No qualms but if not be very careful

Yes, tell her everything


tell her how many times visited the toilet in a day, everything about where you work including private company matters...................tell her how your secretary kissed you


tell her everything!

Samson told Delilah everything and look what happened ...

Every marriage is unique, partners different, relationships different!

Some men can trust their wives with very sensitive information and nothing happens, probably because of the level of understanding they share with their wives, or because of the kind of women they married.

Some women will keep making reference to a mistake you made in the past and continually use it against you.

Some others are just not understanding
Tell them, WAR
Keep it from them, they find out, WAR

Its simple, know your partner, stick to what works for you

Please don't marry the person you are not comfortable telling everything

I can't tell my girlfriend she's technically my step-daughter now.

Nah. At least not while I'll be present for the naming.

Shelumiel:
Samson told Delilah everything and look what happened ...

I know, right. I find it repulsing when some guys can't keep certain yarns locked up in their memory card.


Their wife or babe will just hit you in the face with information you thought was privy and you'll just be like.....

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A real man don't say everything

What's the point of marrying her if you cant tell her everything, two becomes one in everything.

Its not possible to tell anyone EVERYTHING. You may need to hide some information it could be your job, other family member issues, side chick, some chats, etc

Then there will be so many SAMSON on the street

Communication is one of the keys to a happy marriage, but you must always remember that quality matters more than quantity. It's the value of what you tell your wife that matters and not the volume. Also try to avoid telling her stuff that might lead to an argument...

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She doesn't need to know everything. A man safeguards his home by applying wisdom. Most people want to keep their marriage, family & friends. Telling all to your wife could be so detrimental. And, never believe she would always tell you everything about herself too. Put all into dire consideration before divulging it. I may sound too harsh, but I am sure,,,,,,

the wise would understand my point.

Depends on the kind of wife you have.

I for one believes in openness in marriage. However, telling your wife everything is not openness, it's stupidity.

As a man, it's your duty to protect your wife. This includes protecting her from potentially damaging information which could backfire.

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everything can be dangerous o

A husband tell his wife everything?,which kind crase be that one?.

If she can be as sincere as the current German Chancellor who described herself thus:

Near the end of her studies, Merkel sought an assistant professorship at an engineering school. As a condition for getting the job, Merkel was told she would need to agree to report on her colleagues to officers of the Ministry for State Security (Stasi). Merkel declined, using the excuse that she could not keep secrets well enough to be an effective spy.

It depends on d type of woman

Tell her everything at your own peril.
Women wey be say if dem vex, na wettin u tell dem as secret na e dem go use against u

Mumu go and tell her everything you are on your own

Oh well....if the communication game is strong, I don't see no reason why not.
He's gotta be diplomatic sometimes though...
Personally,If it ain't my business, don't tell me, if it doesn't affect us as a couple,don't tell me.
I can't be his diary dammit

That depends on your relationship. The first thing is not should you but can you tell your wife everything. Some relationships maintain a certain amount of privacy with the individuals, others do not. ... Share everything, leaving the things that hurt or doesn't help your wife at all.

So you expect me to tell her when I conclude on using her for money rituals

Yes if he wants to die early.