That's risky...

OyinO:

No Christ is coming anywhere. And even if he is coming, he will not come for Nigerians and the Black Race because they don't look like him - a colonial Lord and God of dumb Black people.

If you read my post with a discerning mind, unbiased and sentient spirit, and a modicum of sensibility, you wouldn't have need of quoting me or quoting me out of context.

No

If she's a good woman, yes, you have to tell her everything.




But if she's a snake and you don't trust her it's better to keep your cards to your chest

There is a time for everything, so also there is a time to tell a woman (and eveeyone) something, a time to tell a few, a time for more and a time for EVERYTHING... it is about trust...a woman who has no future with you has no business beyond the sweet nothings ( cause that is what they are) that prelude coitus... however, a woman who has been through hell and high water, lied for you, took a fall for you, aborted for you, had kids for you, lived with you from youth till grey hairs... now you re old and cannot tell her EVERYTHING? Well, when you pass on, and those greedy brothers waiting for you to die, come, they will take EVERYTHING YOU DID NOT TELL HER!

Earthbound:
I am of the opinion that a man must try to be as honest as possible to his wife, but she does not need to know EVERYTHING. Right?

It depends on your definition of "Everything".

Of course, there are those perky stuffs - and all of your stubborn stunts you dare not talk about. If you know you know

Earthbound:
I am of the opinion that a man must try to be as honest as possible to his wife, but she does not need to know EVERYTHING. Right?

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Define "everything".


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Alirem:
Actually, a man should know what to say and what not to. Be honest but at the same time, use your head



WTH?! You mean you've been fvcking around with her mom?

SarcasticGenius:


Communication is one of the keys to a happy marriage, but you must always remember that quality matters more than quantity. It's the value of what you tell your wife that matters and not the volume. Also try to avoid telling her stuff that might lead to an argument...

Benekruku:
So you expect me to tell her when I conclude on using her for money rituals

no straight forward answer to this
But what I do know is that you should tell her what she NEEDS to know
Others should be at your discretion

Earthbound:
I am of the opinion that a man must try to be as honest as possible to his wife, but she does not need to know EVERYTHING. Right?

What about his girlfriends, should he also tell her ?

Fiducia:
Every marriage is unique, partners different, relationships different!

Some men can trust their wives with very sensitive information and nothing happens, probably because of the level of understanding they share with their wives, or because of the kind of women they married.

Some women will keep making reference to a mistake you made in the past and continually use it against you.

Some others are just not understanding
Tell them, WAR
Keep it from them, they find out, WAR

Its simple, know your partner, stick to what works for you

Nice contributions.

Earthbound:
I am of the opinion that a man must try to be as honest as possible to his wife, but she does not need to know EVERYTHING. Right?

Yes you are right,it's only a foolish man who is been lead n control by sexual list that would reveal everything to his wife,one needs caution, deep reflections n analysis before divulging certain information not just to a wife but anybody at all.

Earthbound:
I am of the opinion that a man must try to be as honest as possible to his wife, but she does not need to know EVERYTHING. Right?

She only needs to know what's necessary, Man must have his secrets, don't make the mistake of showing ur hand completely due to flimsy excuses like Love or sex climax

Define everything. Does it include that am eyeing a girl down the street?

Biglittlelois:
What's the point of marrying her if you cant tell her everything, two becomes one in everything.

Some of ladies can't handle certain information. It is best to keep some secret until she is ready. Some women are still girls.

I hear you

sinaj:
Thats if she cant keep secrets

Can u keep a secret
Cos I'm ready to tell u everything

I wouldn't.

so I don't advise it.

Tonymario58:
If she can be as sincere as the current German Chancellor who described herself thus:

Near the end of her studies, Merkel sought an assistant professorship at an engineering school. As a condition for getting the job, Merkel was told she would need to agree to report on her colleagues to officers of the Ministry for State Security (Stasi). Merkel declined, using the excuse that she could not keep secrets well enough to be an effective spy.

And she is now the German Chancellor

cooldipo:
It varies from couple to couple..... If they are best friend..... No qualms but if not be very careful

It does not vary at all. Thou shall not tell everything to your partner. Release little and keep the rest to yourself else she will use it against you later.

Even God will never tell a woman everything, that was why he first created man before a woman.

Mhyketh:

delilah wasn't samson's wife.
your wife becomes your confidant...

Adam told Eve everything ...and what happened ? A woman cannot be trusted.

SocialJustice:
This is pathetic, how can you think of your wife this way?

Oga, there is nothing wrong in thinking this way . Except you are the who would enjoys thinking with his manhood .

MostSoughtAfte:


Were they husband and wife??

I should look for a husband and wife scenario? Okay , how about Adam and Eve...what happened? Mtchww

thatigboman:
thats a fable. Talk reality

My Bible is my reality. What is yours ? Is it atheism ?

Ues, its supposed to be so but some eives are in short....

Reasons not to tell your wife everything are as follow: Judicial separation, Divorce, and alimony.

Recent case study- Tiger Wood.

Imagine Abraham telling Sarah how God asked him to go kill her only son.