OldBeer:
A good man like you abi?
What next, your mother will test your fiance with chewing gum?
Come to canada and see how food goes to waste.
Anyway keep testing in your shîthole.
There are girls desperate enough to marry your type.

so many men in Nigeria are trash, the few good ones you find are those who have some level of foreign exposure, the rest of them are misogynistic children who are looking for someone to mummy them.


It is better to be single than encounter these lot that will have you looking as old and haggard as their mothers after two years of marriage, then they start cheating with single girls and blame you for it.

And some useless people are supporting the mother.

AZeD1:
Why would you ask someone you just met to peel cassava?

What kind of attitude is that?

Mumu. Backward mentality of Nigerians.

Hedonini:
Any girl that is active on Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, and Nairaland Romance Section (tongue out) is not a wife material, test or no test.

Who wants to marry these over-entitled, garrulous, narcissistic, vainglorious, and psychologically DAMAGED social media brats of nowadays? As a man, do so to your eternal detriment.

nkemjacob2:
I'm a guy is high time our Nigeria parent begin to upgrade. Is an insult to the family in question to them for asking her to peal cassava for the first time. Their are so many ways to text her.

True!

Some family can be so backward!

In 2018 and beyond, you don't use nonsense things like this to test a marriageable lady, that's so primitive and degrading

Top qualities men are looking for in a lady in 2018 and beyond are:

1.) Humility/respect and loyalty to the guy first!

2.) Good looks; she has to be appealing to the guy!

3.) Financial productivity; she needs to be financially relevant and productive by knowing how to make/earn money legally not just knowing how to spend/lavish money

4.) She must not be a feminist!

Guys don't marry any lady who is so obsessed with feminism and gender equality bandwagon, you won't enjoy it, even though it may sound modern and civilised, run from any lady that's a feminist, its a demonic cause designed by devil to destroy family bond.

You can date them for fun but never you dare marry a black woman feminist if you want to have a lovely, long-lasting marriage and happy home.

lawman88:
I don't normally give a fok, but take this guy and marry him (second pishure)

Hei God

8always pray for wife material not whorre material, ability to cook doesnt make a woman wife material, thats the first skill hoes and run girls learn to get the men they want.

any mother who uses this test to choose a wife for her son will regret it.

ednut1:
She called u and u still looked her in the eyes Twitter lies

I wonder too oooo

Slikbae:
Like your mother, right?

Yes, like my mother. would you like to have sex with my mother?? All you have to do is just ask.

God bless your mother.

safarigirl:
so many men in Nigeria are trash, the few good ones you find are those who have some level of foreign exposure, the rest of them are misogynistic children who are looking for someone to mummy them.


It is better to be single than encounter these lot that will have you looking as old and haggard as their mothers after two years of marriage, then they start cheating with single girls and blame you for it.

The funny thing is that they think they are God-sent to women.
I only pity girls who think their only purpose in life is to marry, born pikin and die.

Nope! Who wants a borehole?

gypsey:
Yes, like my mother. would you like to have sex with my mother?? All you have to do is just ask.

God bless your mother.

One bottle of shawarma for you.

safarigirl:
Team Foreign Guys forever.


When men go to their prospective in-laws, does the girl's father ask him to accompany them to the farm or fixa generator to know if he is husband material? But women should be involved in menial labour to prove they are wife material.


Marry into families that have sense, so that nobody's mother will abuse you in the name of test. This sort of thing can only be done by people that are mentally impoverished.


This is 2018, people should stop living in 1970.


The sad thing is that the dense folks supporting this trash are not willing to be in celibate relationships, if you want to follow the model that the older generation followed, follow in full.

jaxxy:
She probably never loved her bf then unless if her bf Showed any signs of being unsure of her based on what his family said. If not 2 adult should know how to handle such family issues.

who love help?

The boyfriend obviously has no respect or regard for her, else he should have stood up to his mother and told her his girl will not be treated like a $1 slave in a quest for some aluminium ring.


Women, never go for weak men that cower at their mothers. Go for a strong man who respects you and demands that you are respected by everyone around him. Do not go for a man that sits by and allows his mother drag you all over the floor in the name of test.

safarigirl:
Team Foreign Guys forever.


When men go to their prospective in-laws, does the girl's father ask him to accompany them to the farm or fixa generator to know if he is husband material? But women should be involved in menial labour to prove they are wife material.


Marry into families that have sense, so that nobody's mother will abuse you in the name of test. This sort of thing can only be done by people that are mentally impoverished.


This is 2018, people should stop living in 1970.


The sad thing is that the dense folks supporting this trash are not willing to be in celibate relationships, if you want to follow the model that the older generation followed, follow in full.

I condemn such mundane test, it is so backward and mundane and it exposes the level of the family doing such primitive test and if I were a lady, I won't go ahead to marry a guy from such a primitive background because it will surely affect the success of the marriage.

Now to your foreign guys banta, I wonder if most of u ladies screaming team foreign guys have ever dated or been close to any foreign guy cos I am sure if u do, u will never think of marrying one unless frustration of watching yourself end up single forever pushes you to, which is what push most Nigerian ladies into marrying foreign men most times, though not always.

For example, American guys; the black American guys are horrible men! They only have dick to give nothing else!

They are gold diggers who target ladies in high paying jobs or fields to date and maybe impregnate and marry so she can be the one footing their bills while they lazy about cheating, if u doubt ask any close friend or family member u know living there.

White guys are erratic and hardly cope with black women unless the black woman is very rich or very docile to ignore their too many erratic actions.

I have worked with white men from various countries, so I know better, they are the biggest cheats, in fact they taught Nigerian guys how to cheat. They are the biggest pay magas to runs girls all over the world, hope u are ready

They are usually lazy and expect their woman to be the one spending on them. If they buy you a car worth 1million for instance, they expect u to buy them a private jet, and if they buy u a house, they expect u to buy them an island, hope u are ready for that

It is beyond what u watch on TV and read online, those that know know, wake up sis

Slikbae:
Nope! Who wants a borehole?

so move on then, unless you have anymore insults for my mother.

OldBeer:
The funny thing is that they think they are God-sent to women.
I only pity girls who think their only purpose in life is to marry, born pikin and die.

they should go and read Joys of Motherhood.


You will marry and born children that will bear your husband's name and die off and the world will never know you existed because even the kids are not yours. Time wey you go use dey establish yourself, you will use it to be training a man's children while he is going out there to rule the world and the best you will get is being known as "the wife of..... "


May God not allow us live unfulfilled lives in the hands of slavedrivers that parade as husbands and plantation owners that parade themselves as MILs

OldBeer:

The funny thing is that they think they are God-sent to women.
I only pity girls who think their only purpose in life is to marry, born pikin and die.

Then what is the live purpose of a forward thinking girl?

Is yours carrer, make money for your boss, get replaced and kicked out when you grow old and then die?

franchasng:
I condemn such mundane test, it is so backward and mundane and it exposes the level of the family doing such primitive test and if I were a lady, I won't go ahead to marry a guy from such a primitive background because it will surely affect the success of the marriage.

Now to your foreign guys banta, I wonder if most of u ladies screaming team foreign guys have ever dated or been close to any foreign guy cos I am sure if u do, u will never think of marrying one unless frustration of watching yourself end up single forever pushes you to, which is what push most Nigerian ladies into marrying foreign men most times, though not always.

For example, American guys; the black American guys are horrible men! They only have dick to give nothing else!

They are gold diggers who target ladies in high paying jobs or fields to date and maybe impregnate and marry so she can be the one footing their bills while they lazy about, if u doubt as any close friend or family member u know living there.

They are usually lazy and expect their woman to be the one spending on them. If they buy you a car worth 1million for instance, they expect u to buy them a private jet, and if they buy u a house, they expect u to buy them an island, hope u are ready for that

It is beyond what u watch on TV and read online, those that know know, wake up sis

Black American men are at the bottom of every ladder there is..... They have no ambition, they have no zeal, they have no education and even basic sense is alien to them. They are careless and incredibly disrespectful and abusive, even when they don't even have money or knowledge.


Please, when I say foreign guys I mean guys that were raised in cultured societies. It can even be a Nigerian man who was raised abroad

yannis:

Then what is the live purpose of a forward thinking girl?

Is yours carrer, make money for your boss, get replaced and kicked out when you grow old and then live forever?

Not everybody's career has a 'boss', sometines, you are your own boss.

Go and ask the likes of Genevieve Nnaji what it means for a woman tonne focused on her career. She is doing things on her own terms, there is no boss controlling her.

babra19:
Well as for me I will eat it my mom taught me how to be comfortable and humble anywhere I go to so I can eat without any animal inside my food

Without any ANIMAL yes. But without any MEAT?!

yannis:

Then what is the live purpose of a forward thinking girl?

Is yours carrer, make money for your boss, get replaced and kicked out when you grow old and then die?

Go have convo with your ilk.
I am not interested.
Toodles.

10mobile:
Without any ANIMAL yes. But without any MEAT?!

Don't get?

safarigirl:
Black American men are at the bottom of every ladder there is..... They have no ambition, they have no zeal, they have no education and even basic sense is alien to them. They are careless and incredibly disrespectful and abusive, even when they don't even have money or knowledge.


Please, when I say foreign guys I mean guys that were raised in cultured societies. It can even be a Nigerian man who was raised abroad

Now I believe you to a great extent. You know black American guys very well, kudos.

White guys are the worst.

Granted Nigerian guys have issues, but they remain the best men to marry all over the world.

Have u ever wondered why all women of all races are rushing after !Nigerian men

It is no magic, its because Nigerian men are so hardworking, success-driven focused. Most Nigerian men, especially the Igbo and some good number of Yoruba ones, I can't speak for the Hausa-Fulani ones, don't joke with their family. Their first priority is for their family to be well taken care of. Yes they may cheat, a habit all men are born with which modernization and civilisation and westernization has helped to bastardize and make more prevalent in our time but still, Nigerian guys remain the best.

All you need as a single lady to find a deserving Nigerian guy that will make u thank God everyday u wake up is to be cool headed, forget all these feminism nonsense, zero your mind from thinking all Nigerian guys are suspect or after your peanut income if u have one because majority of Nigerian guys don't care about a lady's income or money, they love to be in charge financially so they don't care about their woman's money.

Take care of your physical looks but don't turn yourself to a slay queen always looking for attention through dressing provocatively and stupidly in the name of slaying.

Chase after your career or business or trade or whatever u do to earn a living, and even if u de do, don't over do it, and always exercise caution and don't let your image get so dented around wherever u live, and u are good to go.

Lastly, be friendly to mature, reasonable guys who approach u for friendship even if u are in a relationship, learn to responsibly turn down guys who approach u responsibly, and u will never have a reason to regret later.

Slikbae:
One bottle of shawarma for you.

my mother is still waiting for you to come and fuvk her. you obviously thinks she is an Olosho, she will be happy to accept your offer.



Remember, you are the one who thinks it's Appropriate mentioning my mother first.

in your moronic attempt to defend one female you are insulting another female..

Sweetcollins:
Test-tos-ter-one


Where re the metabolites

Acetyl-CoA

safarigirl:
Not everybody's career has a 'boss', sometines, you are your own boss.

Go and ask the likes of Genevieve Nnaji what it means for a woman tonne focused on her career. She is doing things on her own terms, there is no boss controlling her.

Every one has a boss even dangote, Genevieve has a boss, Make a little research on Nollywood and Hollywood you will realise that their are 'hidden' entities controlling things who she most bow to.

Ignoring this for now, what percentage of people in Nigeria could qualify as being thier 'boss'?

I bet it cannot be more than 15%. And it's certain that the 85% or more can never be thier 'boss'.

franchasng:
Now I believe you to a great extent. You know black American guys very well, kudos.

White guys are the worst.

Granted Nigerian guys have issues, but they remain the best men to marry all over the world.

Have u ever wondered why all women of all races are rushing after !Nigerian men

It is no magic, its because Nigerian men are so hardworking, success-driven focused. Most Nigerian men, especially the Igbo and some good number of Yoruba ones, I can't speak for the Hausa-Fulani ones, don't joke with their family. Their first priority is for their family to be well taken care of. Yes they may cheat, a habit all men are born with which modernization and civilisation and westernization has helped to bastardize and make more prevalent in our time but still, Nigerian guys remain the best.

All you need as a single lady to find a deserving Nigerian guy that will make u thank God everyday u wake up is to be cool headed, forget all these feminism nonsense, zero your mind from thinking all Nigerian guys are suspect or after your peanut income if u have one because majority of Nigerian guys don't care about a lady's income or money, they love to be in charge financially so they don't care about their woman's money.

Take care of your physical looks but don't turn yourself to a slay queen always looking for attention through dressing provocatively and stupidly in the name of slaying.

Chase after your career or business or trade or whatever u do to earn a living, and even if u de do, don't over do it, and always exercise caution and don't let your image get so dented around wherever u live, and u are good to go.

Lastly, be friendly to mature, reasonable guys who approach u for friendship even if u are in a relationship, learn to responsibly turn down guys who approach u responsibly, and u will never have a reason to regret later.

Nigerian men are always nicer and friendlier to foreign ladies and their mothers dare not turn into Patience Ozokwor with those ones.


Nigerian men have higher regard for foreign ladies more than Nigerian ladies and it all comes down to this see finish thing. The rubbish Nigerian men try with Nigerian women, they can NEVER do same to a foreign woman, especially a white one. The day I knew Nigerian men are putty in the hands of foreign women was when Mikel's baby mama said Mikel eats noodles with cold water for dinner sometimes. He would never eat such from a Nigerian woman.


Let foreign women chase Nigerian guys and let Nigerian women go for foreign guys since we prefer outsiders to each other

babra19:

Well as for me I will eat it
my mom taught me how to be comfortable and humble anywhere I go to
so I can eat without any animal inside my food

Barbs, I think this is easier said.

safarigirl:
Team Foreign Guys forever.


When men go to their prospective in-laws, does the girl's father ask him to accompany them to the farm or fixa generator to know if he is husband material? But women should be involved in menial labour to prove they are wife material.


Marry into families that have sense, so that nobody's mother will abuse you in the name of test. This sort of thing can only be done by people that are mentally impoverished.


This is 2018, people should stop living in 1970.


The sad thing is that the dense folks supporting this trash are not willing to be in celibate relationships, if you want to follow the model that the older generation followed, follow in full.

Omo you nailed it...

safarigirl:
Nigerian men are always nicer and friendlier to foreign ladies and their mothers dare not turn into Patience Ozokwor with those ones.


Nigerian men have higher regard for foreign ladies more than Nigerian ladies and it all comes down to this see finish thing. The rubbish Nigerian men try with Nigerian women, they can NEVER do same to a foreign woman, especially a white one. The day I knew Nigerian men are putty in the hands of foreign women was when Mikel's baby mama said Mikel eats noodles with cold water for dinner sometimes. He would never eat such from a Nigerian woman.


Let foreign women chase Nigerian guys and let Nigerian women go for foreign guys since we prefer outsiders to each other

based on Mikel matter... em dey China na wetin you expect

safarigirl:
Nigerian men are always nicer and friendlier to foreign ladies and their mothers dare not turn into Patience Ozokwor with those ones.


Nigerian men have higher regard for foreign ladies more than Nigerian ladies and it all comes down to this see finish thing. The rubbish Nigerian men try with Nigerian women, they can NEVER do same to a foreign woman, especially a white one. The day I knew Nigerian men are putty in the hands of foreign women was when Mikel's baby mama said Mikel eats noodles with cold water for dinner sometimes. He would never eat such from a Nigerian woman.


Let foreign women chase Nigerian guys and let Nigerian women go for foreign guys since we prefer outsiders to each other

I am very close to all my elder brothers' wives, and guess what They are all super happy ladies so happy they married my brothers and I pray I won't be an exception sha

Forget about internet banta and talks here, Naija guys love Naija ladies to pieces oh, we don't joke with them oh, in fact no play reach there for real life forget about internet wars here for fun most times, we don't take most of all these talks serious, it ends here, so don't let it affect your decision, go out there and have fun. We have amazing guys looking to hook up with amazing ladies too, just that sometimes una shakara de too much, na our anger be that

This is why I do not pity them when they are deceived into marriage by slayqueens. The average Naija guy is very predictable and foolish in all his wisdom.

Dress a certain way, talk a certain way, be dumb...pound akpu and you are wife material.

I spoke to a foreign based Nigerian guy and first set of questions he asked me were, what are your career goals, why are you in the sector you are in, your views on family...

Talk with a typical Naija guy and you will hear trash, nonsense!! "Submissive, cook, are you a virgin? when are you coming to my house"...

Any lady that is smart should build herself and associate with only the best of them here.