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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Abelattah(m): 6:22pm On Nov 12, 2018

HeWrites:
Your family did a bad job.

I also blame your dad because ordinary Vaseline would have make you a waste!

am very sure say no guy man don das you 10k par night in ur life

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by xavierx: 6:24pm On Nov 12, 2018*

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by kelyonzy(m): 6:33pm On Nov 12, 2018

Unless She Use Juju Tie U.. Bros Take Off Immediately

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Sarang(f): 6:38pm On Nov 12, 2018

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

MODIFIED!!!
See dem broke ass niggas quoting me!!!
103 quotes in one post and still counting!!!
Its only the broke ones that wail coz of money!!
Real guys spend lavishly on their girl without crying online!!!

Just get a job and shut up. Man nah your poverty alleviation program ni angry

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by chieze07(m): 6:38pm On Nov 12, 2018

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

56 mentions in a day!!!
You people should stop quoting me oo, I only said my mind!![/quote]

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by blackmercyvelli(m): 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2018

JONSYN7154:
Why the insult?

don't blame her,she is same same like one in this story

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Simplecity(m): 6:48pm On Nov 12, 2018

ramselly:
My Relationship Is Tearing Me Apart

Hello Nairalanders!

Please i need mature advice only.

I and my girlfriend have been dating since 2015, she has always been supportive in everything and every business i do, thou we dont stay in same part of the country.

I have always told her i cannot settle for less and i cannot get married to a lady who cannot manage her resources and make do with what was available as i want the best for us. In 2016 we talked about setting up something for her to do so as to keep her busy and so i had to enrol her to catering school where she learnt baking n so many more. Fast farward to 2017 january, we planned in opening a shop for her, in july 2017 she got the quotation of roughly 700k for the shop opening the shop and buying Goods for the shop, In september 2017 i sent her 500k for her to commense with the opening of the shop but to my greatest suprise she never used the money for the purpose rather she used it in settling family issues. Its been a year now and i intend quitting the relationship because its not what i planned 4. Please i need matured advice. Sorry if my points re not clear enough.

Bro the first mistake you made was the high level of monetary support which you offered her...allowing her to work for her money would have been a good option ..maybe supporting her with little but carrying half a million and dashing it to someone your not even married to seems like an action taken out of 'love without sence'....like she proved to you her family comes first so she can do away with you anytime (that's how women are) you let your guard down seriously...anyho what has happened has happened...maybe all you need to do is seek reasons to why she didn't use the cash for the purpose it was given...and abeg as a naija broda check her family wella oo in case you don jamb coded gold digger...just saying o

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Cloud007: 7:02pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

you are just simply unintelligent! cheesy

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 7:07pm On Nov 12, 2018

Les:
rain is keeping back from going to work, so I have to pass a little time na but it's alright, let's move on.

Just leave them. I see you are a God fearing Christian and one thing about people like you is seeing issues from a perspective evil satanic children won't see it. Every issue for them is seen with a simplistic, material worldy eye. May God help us young budding men find Women with wisdom to make decisions in life and not the Demons littering this thread with the works of their father the devil.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Geoffreymgk: 7:12pm On Nov 12, 2018

livecamp:
Oloriburuku, how much is your papa’s salary in a decade?... All these one pants with one bra girl with cheap bleaching cream forming posh.. no people like u their papa dey write okada wey you as a daughter dey sell your smelling hole.. hoe-losho

Hello Sir

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Olafisoyem: 7:13pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

You’re a fool

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Snow87(m): 7:20pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

If I say thunder fire u now dem go say I get mouth. U and ur entire family can u afford such amount to waste on a useless fellow in this kind economy? This rubbish entitlement mentality u gals have is dey reason why I no dey pity any of u wey g boys dem use for rituals, nonsense and buhari.

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Mikeanegbe: 7:24pm On Nov 12, 2018

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

MODIFIED!!!
See dem broke ass niggas quoting me!!!
103 quotes in one post and still counting!!!
Its only the broke ones that wail coz of money!!
Real guys spend lavishly on their girl without crying online!!!

Trust issue, lady ! Trust should be the foundation of love, not stupidity - on both sides. Scam. What d girl did is nothing but scamming the guy. The guy become a mugu if he accepts such abuse of privillege by d girl. My advice is, run, guy run; worst ll happen if you overlook !

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by blackmercyvelli(m): 7:32pm On Nov 12, 2018

Cloud007:
you are just simply unintelligent!

you are right

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 7:33pm On Nov 12, 2018

What the lady did was right,let me finish before you quote my mention with your frustration.

The poor girl suffer through thick and thin with you before you became what you are today.
She using the money meant for her business for family issues shows that you the op is a stingy and miserly being.

She has observed that you won't give her that money if she tells you otherwise and if i am the lady i will dump you for a generous and good man.

Op work on your conscience and believe those misleding you to dump her at your own peril,if this story is true sha.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Obason22(m): 7:36pm On Nov 12, 2018

let listen to ur further story

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 7:39pm On Nov 12, 2018

I'll take back my money from her nd kick her ass out!!!..
This kind of babe ehhh, when u marry. She'll bring all her family people to your house , soon you won't be invite your own mum to the house.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by sandra50(f): 7:39pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

Hia..what is this one saying?

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by frozen70(f): 7:42pm On Nov 12, 2018

ramselly:
My Relationship Is Tearing Me Apart

Hello Nairalanders!

Please i need mature advice only.

I and my girlfriend have been dating since 2015, she has always been supportive in everything and every business i do, thou we dont stay in same part of the country.

I have always told her i cannot settle for less and i cannot get married to a lady who cannot manage her resources and make do with what was available as i want the best for us. In 2016 we talked about setting up something for her to do so as to keep her busy and so i had to enrol her to catering school where she learnt baking n so many more. Fast farward to 2017 january, we planned in opening a shop for her, in july 2017 she got the quotation of roughly 700k for the shop opening the shop and buying Goods for the shop, In september 2017 i sent her 500k for her to commense with the opening of the shop but to my greatest suprise she never used the money for the purpose rather she used it in settling family issues. Its been a year now and i intend quitting the relationship because its not what i planned 4. Please i need matured advice. Sorry if my points re not clear enough.

The only advice I can give you is that she has prove to you that she is not prudent

If you can tolerate her with this go ahead

And if you know very well that she is a bad market forget her

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by brightalo17: 7:44pm On Nov 12, 2018

ogasharpsharp:
OP you know why I like you? Because your spirit man is strong, and it is this spirit man in you that is urging you to quit the relationship and run while you still can.

No matter how much I love a girl I can never drop up to 100k (even 50k, I don't give cash I rather spend) at once on her but you dropped a whopping 500k. Now, take a look at how the ladies on this thread are trying to trivialise that large sum of money, that's half a mil right there!

Trust me when I say most of them have never seen that amount of money in one go. Their account balance will testify. But they will tell you that "How much is even 500k sef?" Never encourage stùpidity in a woman because that is their default settings and it is your job as a man to correct that otherwise you bounce.

Investing money on a girl is like pouring water in a basket, it will never be enough. And these girls never have to make such sacrifices so they don't know what it takes and how it hurts when an agreement between two parties is reneged upon. Abi you no get family wey need half a mil? Abi you dey crase ni?

End the relationship as your spirit being is telling you, she will still do more as the relationship progresses, especially if she gets away with this criminal act of hers without any consequences. Yes, what she did is criminal but being a woman (synonym for stùpidity) she will try to shame and blame you for it (Baby you are not understanding, you don't really love me, etc).

A REAL man must always train his babe to know that for every transgression against him there will always be dire consequences otherwise see-finish will occur. Shalom!

PS - Never spend such money again on a woman unless she is your wife. They don't have sense!

Bros I challenge you that you never wrote this piece with your normal human thinking form, Some external spirit inspired you to be able to put this out here. Gosh . Any man that doesn't learn one or two things from this advice will surely regret it. Thank U. I said Thank you.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Adeyeancah(m): 7:52pm On Nov 12, 2018

Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

56 mentions in a day!!!
You people should stop quoting me oo, I only said my mind!!

My kinda lady... Bravo!

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by brightalo17: 7:55pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

In all honesty your own boyfriend has never given you such bloc amount before. I used to think you have sense but today I can see how poverty and clouded your judgment.

Even Linda Ikeji's sister received such amount as a gift and she made it go viral and a nobody like you is here spewing trash.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by boomssey(f): 7:56pm On Nov 12, 2018

Well what can I say? We all think diff but am talking for myself here not for any girl.the truth is d girl is being unreasonable yes castigate me all u want.am so very surprised with what most of d ladies here r saying, y don't u put yourself in d guy's shoe.uv got brothers, uncles,most of d girls here won't even allow their brothers spend such on their girlfriends. Pls let's all think before we talk.I would never ever do such.thank u!

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Richardffx: 7:57pm On Nov 12, 2018

ogasharpsharp:
OP you know why I like you? Because your spirit man is strong, and it is this spirit man in you that is urging you to quit the relationship and run while you still can.

No matter how much I love a girl I can never drop up to 100k (even 50k, I don't give cash I rather spend) at once on her but you dropped a whopping 500k. Now, take a look at how the ladies on this thread are trying to trivialise that large sum of money, that's half a mil right there!

Trust me when I say most of them have never seen that amount of money in one go. Their account balance will testify. But they will tell you that "How much is even 500k sef?" Never encourage stùpidity in a woman because that is their default settings and it is your job as a man to correct that otherwise you bounce.

Investing money on a girl is like pouring water in a basket, it will never be enough. And these girls never have to make such sacrifices so they don't know what it takes and how it hurts when an agreement between two parties is reneged upon. Abi you no get family wey need half a mil? Abi you dey crase ni?

End the relationship as your spirit being is telling you, she will still do more as the relationship progresses, especially if she gets away with this criminal act of hers without any consequences. Yes, what she did is criminal but being a woman (synonym for stùpidity) she will try to shame and blame you for it (Baby you are not understanding, you don't really love me, etc).

A REAL man must always train his babe to know that for every transgression against him there will always be dire consequences otherwise see-finish will occur. Shalom!

PS - Never spend such money again on a woman unless she is your wife. They don't have sense!

@bolded, you’ve spoken wisely bro.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 8:07pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

A dumb head prostitute's opinion.

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by carter009(m): 8:09pm On Nov 12, 2018

Ugly broke dirty B***H, continue disgracing yourself.

MhizzAJ:
Na thier loss.
I day gidigba for here day laugh.
Nairaland is filled with so many useless and jobless guys....see the way d jobless ones have been mentioning me upandan......Make una go find work ooo.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by AgbariOjukwu1: 8:27pm On Nov 12, 2018

XCLUX:
sense far from u

Lol

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by sunnyt1(m): 8:34pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

one client, a potential devourer, identified

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by lebete3000: 8:35pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

Alakoba spotted.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Timtim007(f): 8:36pm On Nov 12, 2018

Biko nu..I need only 50k..for business.. Any brother in the house should hep me ooo...na borrow oo..

I hope the guy in question has received enough sense by now
A whole 500k ...chai..
My life will change with 500k ...anyways... Its is well

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Muzikluva(m): 8:37pm On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by kearls: 8:37pm On Nov 12, 2018

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[quote

author=IamD18 post=72807796]Another lover-boy scammed.

On no account should you invest on any woman aside your female siblings[Mum, sisters, wife and daughters].

Girfriend are hoes and epitome of problems, they don't worth the stress and investment.

The only thing you should invest on a girlfriend is nothing but your sperm, because that's the only thing that will yield something good. Anything other than that will be a big WASTE.

I'll to advice you flee from that lady if you want to be successful and live long.[/quote]

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