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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Livefreeordieha(m): 11:16am On Nov 16, 2018
chukxie:
Dear Op:
I must say I totally enjoyed your accounts of your cross continental journeys. And I must say I unequivocally agree with all you said concerning sub saharan African countries especially Nigeria. You see until I left Nigeria I never really knew how bad, I mean rotten things were. In Nigeria people are so used to suffering that they have come to accept it as a way of life, like that is how things are meant to be. We lack even the most basic of amenities. We suffer miserably without any respite in the horizon. So often times I get infuriated by gullible Nigerians who continually sing praise for the same politicians who have stolen our collective wealth. These same gullible individuals would heap praises on politicians for commissioning pedestrian bridges. Good luck in all you do, bro.
bro you said virtually all i wanted to say...I have always knew that we were backwards ever since i was a kid. But it became bad how i felt when i moved out in early 2000s and returned i couldn't stand 2weeks,and that has made me to despise every government since...The worse of it is the people that I'm fighting for have internalized the suffering and frustrates my efforts...

Even when i visit it takes weeks before i can even drive myself,nothing works well..Nothing functions..From the airport u have to switch personalities and countenance because depression starts from there.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Blankstare(m): 11:17am On Nov 16, 2018
O..p.. what's wrong with showing your face? That's for me is part of negroid defeatist mentality.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by porthouse7(f): 11:17am On Nov 16, 2018
chineji:

Nigeria has never been great and will never be.
Nigeria was great better d civil war, it will be great again IJN

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 16, 2018
Mouth Gig:
U LOOK SAD AND UGLY.. grin grin grin..UR PIC, WITH UR GRINDING STONE HEAD... grin..UGLY RAM, QUOTE ME AGAIN.... grin grin..UGLY HOEEE..
Oh please! Is it possible for a man to yab a woman without including "hoe"? Quite boring I must say.

Your political stance ki you there.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 16, 2018
I got this many years ago...and I relocated my family immediately. I sold all my landed properties to achieve it. People thought I was crazy. I can't raise my kids here...mba!!! I live in naija though. In Copenhagen, you will see a 70year old woman jugging down the road, not a new thing! I was telling one the Toyota gangs on cartalk section that you don't see Toyota in Europe he kept arguing with me, quoting stats from America. Someone that has never left naija o..
Please leave naija if you have the means, white is superior to black!! The former is light and the latter is darkness...

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by SoNature(m): 11:18am On Nov 16, 2018
Gerrard59:


Actually, you are correct. I've thought of writing an article on it, but no time. The African man is the problem because all over the world, it's the men who developed their countries or played a significant role in the development. What do black men do? Drink, sleep with lots of women and inseminate them to procreate lots of children who they cannot take care of adequately.

In a thread last year, someone mocked Asian men for their small pen!s, but he forgot that these Asian men developed their communities and are a force to be reckoned with today.

One will ask, what I'm doing to solve the problem? Well, I was born to see them this way and I have come to realise that NOTHING will change for the better. So I save my energy. The previous generations should have solved the problem not mine.

This comment reminds of Mr Sigh (I hope I got the spelling correctly!), an Indian production manager in a company I worked in eastern Nigeria.

Mr Sigh would always say that the day God shared d!cks, hips, and bress, Africans were everywhere asking for His blessing. But the day He shared brains, Africans were nowhere to be found. grin

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Xisnin(m): 11:18am On Nov 16, 2018
chineji:
Did I talk about Italian women? I have never met such beautiful women in my life. Beautiful and very interesting. I used to think it was impossible for women to be interesting and funny but white women proved me so wrong. My Co workers were always so fun to have conversations with. They knew absolutely everything about everything cause they read a whole lot. In Italy, the women are always smiling all the time ( it's a total different ball game in most African countries where most women are always ugly and angry all the time) and the greetings omg. It's not weird to hug a woman and give her a peck on both cheeks and say bounjourno or bounesera depending on what time of the day it is. La spezia had a lot of beautiful women but then we took a road trip to Milan and it was like a total different ball game. It was just like a real life miss world beauty pageant.

Italian women are the most beautiful I have ever seen in my life. I just pray I can marry a Nigerian because ever since I got back all the girls are just ugly to my eyes cheesy
Your experience was colored by poverty and inferiority complex.
It is a shame when a supposed graduate throws away his self-worth because of cultural shock.
SMH.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by okoroemeka(m): 11:19am On Nov 16, 2018
Gerrard59:


Actually, you are correct. I've thought of writing an article on it, but no time. The African man is the problem because all over the world, it's the men who developed their countries or played a significant role in the development. What do black men do? Drink, sleep with lots of women and inseminate them to procreate lots of children who they cannot take care of adequately.

In a thread last year, someone mocked Asian men for their small pen!s, but he forgot that these Asian men developed their communities and are a force to be reckoned with today.

One will ask, what I'm doing to solve the problem? Well, I was born to see them this way and I have come to realise that NOTHING will change for the better. So I save my energy. The previous generations should have solved the problem not mine.
yes I quite agree with u there,as 2 PAC said the problem of the black man is the black man itself,the black man is so backwards that I think sometimes will it not be better for us to swallow our pride and let the oyibo people manage our economy.. we are so blessed in Africa with good weather, fertile soil,natural resources but we are doomed to live in hell.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by IbrahimDamola: 11:19am On Nov 16, 2018
chukxie:
Dear Op:
I must say I totally enjoyed your accounts of your cross continental journeys. And I must say I unequivocally agree with all you said concerning sub saharan African countries especially Nigeria. You see until I left Nigeria I never really knew how bad, I mean rotten things were. In Nigeria people are so used to suffering that they have come to accept it as a way of life, like that is how things are meant to be. We lack even the most basic of amenities. We suffer miserably without any respite in the horizon. So often times I get infuriated by gullible Nigerians who continually sing praise for the same politicians who have stolen our collective wealth. These same gullible individuals would heap praises on politicians for commissioning pedestrian bridges. Good luck in all you do, bro.

Ww yoruba muslims want this nigeria to remain as it for the benefit of the caliphate. We love the sufferings in Oshogbo and Ibadan.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Raalsalghul: 11:20am On Nov 16, 2018
zubino:
@ op are welcome bck to naija.
Earlier this year I travelled out for a training, I cursed Nigeria from my day 1 till the final day I came bck. At some point I questioned God for allowing me be a Nigerian.

When I came bck, I told some of my friends that anyone that dies in Nigeria without travelling out missed a huge part of life everyone should experience. Nigeria is almost a curse considering our level of hardship & uncoordinaion.
No wonder some Africans would rather die in Israeli prisons than return to Africa.
Hmmmm. I must move.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by seyigiggle: 11:20am On Nov 16, 2018
revolution.
we need those who have been out of the country to come and lead it.
chukxie:


We've prayed. We've fasted. Yet no real changes. What else is left to be done?

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by vislabraye(m): 11:20am On Nov 16, 2018
chineji:
I am many things an engineer, an auto enthusiast but most importantly I am an average Nigerian youth hustling to get a better life.


A brief introduction.
A year ago I left the university bagging a degree in one of the most uninteresting engineering fields you can think about. I found it boring throughout my time at the university but I made sure to put in my best but came out with a miserable 2 2 cry. I left school like everyone else and started applying for jobs and got nothing. I got tired of the whole process and decided to start a business while learning the basics of what I have always loved (automobiles). Running my business while learning and working on automobiles was quite difficult. I gained a lot of traction but tried to raise money and was so unsuccessful at it and then when it seemed nothing was forthcoming an important email came through.

The opportunity
When i left school, i applied to more than 500 jobs. Most people think I exaggerate this figure but you could do the math. I started in January 2017 and was sending out at least 5 CVs a day. I did this till June but never got a reply at least not until after a year.

I got an email from an NGO I applied to a year ago asking me to come work for them. This totally blew me out of the water. I was gonna go to Gabon and the work will take me through Liberia and the canary Islands before I finally disembark in Italy. They covered my flights and were gonna give me a tiny stipend I felt I could use to get something to use for my business. We did the interviews over Skype and they were so impressed with my exploits over the year and told me they couldn't wait to have me. They asked me if I had any problem with vegan diet (I had no idea what this meant as of then) but I answered no and felt I could cope with it after all I am from Nigeria (we are rugged people afterall)


Nigeria is 200 years behind. My pain is not being able to obtain scholarship to study abroad

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 16, 2018
Passovile:

Was it great before?

Yes it was. Prior to and around independence.
Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by IbrahimDamola: 11:22am On Nov 16, 2018
Gerrard59:


For emphasis sake.

I've been saying these words (the bold) for a long time but brainless people (anyone who supports a Nigerian politician) keep arguing that things will get better. Newsflash!!! Nothing will get better.

You see brainless people supporting useless people who call themselves politicians, you've them everywhere saying this and that. It's why whenever anything happens these days, I've a numb felling towards the incident. Nigerians deserve whatever they face.

And anyone who says praying will solve the problem is a cretinous fvcktard!

I wish you the best in your endeavours.

Anybody supporting Nigeria as a whole is as dumb as a rotten goat. The disintegration of nigeria is the only hope.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Notatribalist(m): 11:22am On Nov 16, 2018
chineji:

Nigeria has never been great and will never be.
keep quiet.. Just say you're biafran..in one of ur post u even said Nigeria is the worst African country. How they hell did u arrived at such conclusion? How many Africa countries have u visited? Continue with ur journey, but please kindly stop the poo you're writing about Nigeria..

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by vislabraye(m): 11:24am On Nov 16, 2018
chineji:
I am many things an engineer, an auto enthusiast but most importantly I am an average Nigerian youth hustling to get a better life.


A brief introduction.
A year ago I left the university bagging a degree in one of the most uninteresting engineering fields you can think about. I found it boring throughout my time at the university but I made sure to put in my best but came out with a miserable 2 2 cry. I left school like everyone else and started applying for jobs and got nothing. I got tired of the whole process and decided to start a business while learning the basics of what I have always loved (automobiles). Running my business while learning and working on automobiles was quite difficult. I gained a lot of traction but tried to raise money and was so unsuccessful at it and then when it seemed nothing was forthcoming an important email came through.

The opportunity
When i left school, i applied to more than 500 jobs. Most people think I exaggerate this figure but you could do the math. I started in January 2017 and was sending out at least 5 CVs a day. I did this till June but never got a reply at least not until after a year.

I got an email from an NGO I applied to a year ago asking me to come work for them. This totally blew me out of the water. I was gonna go to Gabon and the work will take me through Liberia and the canary Islands before I finally disembark in Italy. They covered my flights and were gonna give me a tiny stipend I felt I could use to get something to use for my business. We did the interviews over Skype and they were so impressed with my exploits over the year and told me they couldn't wait to have me. They asked me if I had any problem with vegan diet (I had no idea what this meant as of then) but I answered no and felt I could cope with it after all I am from Nigeria (we are rugged people afterall)


Nigeria is 200 years behind. My pain is not being able to obtain scholarship to study abroad . May God help us here.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by kunletoks(m): 11:24am On Nov 16, 2018
Nice account. The way you described everything makes it lovely.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Lucifer66(m): 11:25am On Nov 16, 2018
GavelSlam:
When I read writeups like this here, I can't help but laugh.

You travelled across Europe and began to curse your land.

Yet you are hesitant to look into why things work over there.

The difference is logic and its application.

In Italy, creativity/manufacturing/production is a family tradition and heirloom.

Check it. It's either the family is known for wine making, Pasta production, engines, leather works, ceramic works etc.

In Nigeria, you get a degree in chemistry but would never synthesize anything after graduation.

You would rather work in a bank, join the Yahoo club or even remain without work.


The excuse is the worn-out excuse of lack of government support.

These days you get 30k through Npower. Fvcking save and buy bunsen burners. You and your classmates can decide to form a co-operative or club and purchase 2nd hand centrifuges. If you are sharp, you can get donors from around the world to support your cause.

Enough of the excuses.

Get to work.
How much have you made?

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Raalsalghul: 11:25am On Nov 16, 2018
franchasng:
Any of the countries u mentioned is far far better than Nigeria, so if you see opportunity to migrate, please do asap and don't look back!

Unless you are making at least 500,000naira monthly in Nigeria, please don't ever think of staying back in Nigeria, and even if you are making that amount, please plan with your hubby if u are single to send your kids out of Nigeria for their better future sad
Bro we dey plan am. I've made a personal resolve not to procreate in this backwardness.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Nobody: 11:26am On Nov 16, 2018
mrphysics:

Tonye, I trust you have been to Abuja. Not saying things are better but from the pictures of the roads I saw here, I don't really see anything special to what is in Abuja.

Too much of leaving in Lagos can also give bad image to Nigeria too. I have been to Lagos several times and the roads are so bad and poor that the picture that the op posted would look like a heavenly picture to most people.

I just want to be fair and objective, we have same road in Abuja as was posted by Op. I can agree with other things.

I agree with you, Nigeria is not that totally hopeless.

Many of us in diaspora are home or on our way back home.

I like reading this accounts of first time travelers as I must have been this stary eyed 35 ago when I landed in Zurich.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by AHCB: 11:26am On Nov 16, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
Nigeria shall be great again
I honestly know you don't believe that.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by DeepSight(m): 11:26am On Nov 16, 2018
chineji:
I really wish I could show more pictures from my trip but the others had my face in it and I dont wanna show my face.

Well first and foremost many congratulations on your travels/ breakthroughs and experiences.
However the generality of your message is extremely shallow and disappointing.

It is also downright disgraceful.

This country and by extension much of sub Sahara Africa will never get better.

Who the hell are you to use the word "never" mere mortal that you are?

What do you know of the history of the countries you are celebrating now?
Do you think those countries will be worth celebrating if their citizens in ages past spent their time convincing their compatriots that things would never improve and as such they should all bail out and abandon their country?

The most painful aspect is that most African leaders travel to this countries regularly and see how things are done here and see how people live like human beings but cannot replicate same in their home nations.

The most painful aspect is that shallow persons like you cannot understand that Rome was not built in a day.
Nation building takes time - and by that I mean generations.

And mind you - generations of brave people willing to make sacrifices and not cowardly and empty people looking for that which has already been perfected by the sweat of others.

Anyone that has an opportunity to leave Nigeria should waste no time. We are suffering in Nigeria. Life is not all about money quality of life matters too and quality of life in Nigeria is shit real shit.

And life is not all about comfort either. Some of the greatest lives involve the greatest suffering and sacrifice.

You ought to be ashamed of your message.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Notatribalist(m): 11:26am On Nov 16, 2018
Xisnin:

Your experience was colored by poverty and inferiority complex.
It is a shame when a supposed graduate lacks self-worth because of cultural shock.
SMH.
don't mind the idiot.. He's not a Nigerian.. He even called Nigeria the worst Africa country,as if he has lived in all African country..

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Raalsalghul: 11:27am On Nov 16, 2018
vislabraye:


Nigeria is 200 years behind. My pain is not being able to obtain scholarship to study abroad . May God help us here.
You don't need to go far. You can start from other african countries that are saner.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by IbrahimDamola: 11:27am On Nov 16, 2018
GavelSlam:
[s]When I read writeups like this here, I can't help but laugh.

You travelled across Europe and began to curse your land.

Yet you are hesitant to look into why things work over there.

The difference is logic and its application.

In Italy, creativity/manufacturing/production is a family tradition and heirloom.

Check it. It's either the family is known for wine making, Pasta production, engines, leather works, ceramic works etc.

In Nigeria, you get a degree in chemistry but would never synthesize anything after graduation.

You would rather work in a bank, join the Yahoo club or even remain without work.[/b]

[b]The excuse is the worn-out excuse of lack of government support.

These days you get 30k through Npower. Fvcking save and buy bunsen burners. You and your classmates can decide to form a co-operative or club and purchase 2nd hand centrifuges. If you are sharp, you can get donors from around the world to support your cause.

Enough of the excuses.

Get to work.[/s]

Noise from a noisy dumboharist who enjoy mediocrity and believes a lifeless brain dead certificateless illiterate buffoon will develop nigeria because they are both muslims.

grin grin

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by GavelSlam: 11:27am On Nov 16, 2018
Lucifer66:

How much have you made?

A lot.

I don't speak of what I haven't done myself.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by wonlasewonimi: 11:28am On Nov 16, 2018
stagger:


Are Buhari and Atiku the only candidates here? We have the likes of Kingsley Moghalu, a Ph.D holder and former central bank deputy governor who was the brains behind the 2009 rescue of the banking sector. But for him, many Nigerians would have lost their life savings to the likes of Ibru, Atuche and Akingbola and the other thieving bastards preying on bank customers' funds.

There are also other cerebral candidates here. Sound intellectual guys who have what it takes to drive the country to the next level.

It is like APC and PDP has cast a spell on many Nigerians.

You hit the nail on the head. Go and watch Pat Utomis interview on YouTube regarding the primaries. We are a messed up country.

@OP, this is a good write up but naija women will not forgive you for dissing them. grin

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Itzurboi(m): 11:28am On Nov 16, 2018
You really have got serious issh running in your head... Am pretty sure the phone you are using was bought by a good samaritan so you wouldn't understand when adults are talking[quote author=GavelSlam post=73019358]When I read writeups like this here, I can't help but laugh.

You travelled across Europe and began to curse your land.

Yet you are hesitant to look into why things work over there.

The difference is logic and its application.

In Italy, creativity/manufacturing/production is a family tradition and heirloom.

Check it. It's either the family is known for wine making, Pasta production, engines, leather works, ceramic works etc.

In Nigeria, you get a degree in chemistry but would never synthesize anything after graduation.

You would rather work in a bank, join the Yahoo club or even remain without work.


[b]The excuse is the worn-out excuse of lack of government support.

These days you get 30k through Npower. Fvcking save and buy bunsen burners.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by DeepSight(m): 11:28am On Nov 16, 2018
chukxie:


We've prayed. We've fasted. Yet no real changes. What else is left to be done?

Get involved.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Nobody: 11:29am On Nov 16, 2018
Xisnin:

Your experience was colored by poverty and inferiority complex.
It is a shame when a supposed graduate lacks self-worth because of cultural shock.
SMH.

I agree with you.

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Obierika(m): 11:29am On Nov 16, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
Continue praying for Nigeria

It's because of this useless prayer mentality that Nigeria and black African countries are still backwards.

Prayer does not solve a country's economic problems!!!

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Re: My Mini European Adventure And How It Has Changed My Perspective Towards Nigeria by Sibrah: 11:30am On Nov 16, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
Nigeria shall be great again
You know when you say "Nigeria shall be great again" but you know it was never great, it means one thing: You don't believe what you are saying but want to deceive others about such being possible.

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