₦airaland Forum

donprincebigt:
o ni se alubarika bo ti hun ko kere mo.
alayebaje.

awon egbon re ati gbogbo awon agbo ile yin lo MA se oribu.... oni jere awon omo re, bi awon ebi re ose ni jere re

Awwwn.... So bad I feel ur pain dear... Chai women.... Just put ur hope on God... He will fight ur battles... Don't be depressed my dear... Just get on ur knees and pray... Believe me ur marriage will be restored...

goneinahrtbeat:
Happening presently in my life
Hubby cheated on me with someone I called my so called friend. Shes married too and always wanted to leave her marriage. She buys me stuffs, comes to my house to eat, we sleep together, go to places together, do almost everything together only for me to find out that they were having an affair for about a year.

Sent her a message threatening to ruin her reputations if she doesn't back down, she sent a reply saying "they dont fight for love and that the heart knows what it wants and if d HRT doesn't get it, it wont rest". On top my own husband o. The sad part is hubby loves her, said he doesn't love me anymore. I was good to him and he chose to blend my heart and use it to make stew for his new woman. There is God, I'll survive.

icogb:
Lolz. You don't knw pple. I am not doubting dis o (tis possible; VERY POSSIBLE) but there is this thing I want you young pple to knw, pple re "TOO MUCH". Someone said years back dat I did abortion nd so many other terrible stuffs.You don't want to know who dat person was? My only crime was cos I gained admission nd also most parents nd som young pple tend to see me as a role model. I mean, I was valued more dan her. And there was no other way to bring me down other than to do dos. Well, up till today, some pple stl thnk I am as guilty as charged bc tis coming from a family member nd Nigerians tend to have dis mindset dat a beautiful nd sociable girl cann't be chaste at least till certain points of their life. So while I had fans, I stl had doubters amng dem nd dos dat believed in me cldnt continue because it all came from a family member nd wif Nigerian mindset....

You are quite rite..... The thing is that my ex confronted this her friend and ask her how did I find out,, even telling her that no body will tell her to leave that guy and me also.... Can u just imagine.... Well all ladies are not like dis... BT most are

goneinahrtbeat:
Happening presently in my life
Hubby cheated on me with someone I called my so called friend. Shes married too and always wanted to leave her marriage. She buys me stuffs, comes to my house to eat, we sleep together, go to places together, do almost everything together only for me to find out that they were having an affair for about a year.

Sent her a message threatening to ruin her reputations if she doesn't back down, she sent a reply saying "they dont fight for love and that the heart knows what it wants and if d HRT doesn't get it, it wont rest". On top my own husband o. The sad part is hubby loves her, said he doesn't love me anymore. I was good to him and he chose to blend my heart and use it to make stew for his new woman. There is God, I'll survive.

very sorry about, i hope your friend has not use juju to tied him down, I pray he comes back to you.

goneinahrtbeat:
My dear, I've been doing that. Cause the drastic change no be here. Now, he sounds like he's been in a bad marriage all this while

pls sis don't give up continue praying.PRAY UNTILL something HAPPENS

Thank God for this thread. ladies please keep sharing the worst things guys have done to you..
I have to gain experience and do same to other girls. Na them dey teach us.

goneinahrtbeat:
Happening presently in my life
Hubby cheated on me with someone I called my so called friend. Shes married too and always wanted to leave her marriage. She buys me stuffs, comes to my house to eat, we sleep together, go to places together, do almost everything together only for me to find out that they were having an affair for about a year.

Sent her a message threatening to ruin her reputations if she doesn't back down, she sent a reply saying "they dont fight for love and that the heart knows what it wants and if d HRT doesn't get it, it wont rest". On top my own husband o. The sad part is hubby loves her, said he doesn't love me anymore. I was good to him and he chose to blend my heart and use it to make stew for his new woman. There is God, I'll survive.

So sorry dear. Send me a mail lets talk. Dnt despair, it's just a phase. henoskipauloski@gmail.com

goneinahrtbeat:
July will make it 4yrs

If you are not frustrating him at home, then that is the problem, ~ 4yrs no kids. Any previous abortion or medical conditions he is aware or not aware of? From the look of things seems your hubby is no longer interested. My candid advice divorce him. Thank God u have no baggage, another suitor will come in no time.
Another angle, u can also sleep with that your friend's husband to get even (your husband will definitely send u packing!) But u don't need it. Except, there is something he offers that you can't let go off (paying bills, u not working etc).

goneinahrtbeat:
My dear, I've been doing that. Cause the drastic change no be here. Now, he sounds like he's been in a bad marriage all this while

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Start shaping your mindset towards becoming single again, which is not a bad thing. Your husband is shameless and you also have a hand in your own problems, I don't understand how you made your snake of a friend become so comfortable around your shameless husband? Thank God you have no kids, start looking for money if you have none, the Nigerian justice system is not sympathetic to women in such situations. It's not gonna be easy but it's a necessary step in moving towards the right direction, you cannot change his mind, start hardening your heart towards him cos he's gonna take advantage of your emotions as he's already doing by making you feel you are the problem. No matter the offense you might have committed, his actions are despicable.

senetorjboss:
You are quite rite..... The thing is that my ex confronted this her friend and ask her how did I find out,, even telling her that no body will tell her to leave that guy and me also.... Can u just imagine.... Well all ladies are not like dis... BT most are

Ok, except dat. What m saying is jst dat NAIJA DON SOUR nd tis no longer safe to take decisions cos of hearsay but I get you have concrete evidence. Then abt most women being dat way, tis not true except Naija women nd dat is usually among d poor caused mostly by Nigerian men. If you think m lying, go close to a married woman nd see how d male folk wld be hitting on her esp if dey knw her husband is not well to do or she is a widow or her husband lives far away nd hardly comes home. Find out if possible, if she has given in nd how many times dey came b4 she gave in. And when I mean married women, go to d villages; interior. I mentioned villages because I knw dat's d place you'ld think you'ld find some decency. Go in there nd see dat som father's re never their father's sons. FACT.

Obainoneandonly:
awon egbon re ati gbogbo awon agbo ile yin lo MA se oribu.... oni jere awon omo re, bi awon ebi re ose ni jere re

ki gbogbo ebi re lati Iran tie titi de Iran keje, gbogbo yin o ni ku sibi to aso yin wa.
omo lasan ikeji Aja

icogb:
Ok, except dat. What m saying is jst dat NAIJA DON SOUR nd tis no longer safe to take decisions cos of hearsay but I get you have concrete evidence. Then abt most women being dat way, tis not true except Naija women nd dat is usually among d poor caused mostly by Nigerian women. If you think m lying, go close to a married woman nd see how d male folk wld be hitting on her esp if dey knw her husband is not well to do or she is a widow or her husband lives far away nd hardly comes home. Find out if possible, if she has given in nd how many times dey came b4 she gave in. And when I mean married women, go to d villages; interior. I mentioned villages because I knw dat's d place you'ld think you'ld find some decency. Go in there nd see dat som father's re never their father's sons. FACT.

U are very correct

senetorjboss:
U are very correct

Thank you. Noticed an error. I meant to write, "... caused by Nigerian men".

enemyofprogress:
Na wa o



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