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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Flows001(m): 3:02pm On Nov 23, 2018
resurgent4oodua:


Money, money and more money, that's all we ever talk about in relationships. Our society is the poster child for the destructive effects of corruption and placing material considerations above all else.

We shall all be here to witness the complete destruction of Nigeria.
That's it oo...Well I used to think its all about money until I met my God sent sweetie ...Such "Go and make money" mentality usually pushes some young boys into crime..it iz well sha

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by 9jaown(m): 4:19pm On Nov 23, 2018
resurgent4oodua:


Money, money and more money, that's all we ever talk about in relationships. Our society is the poster child for the destructive effects of corruption and placing material considerations above all else.

We shall all be here to witness the complete destruction of Nigeria.

In oBo voice
If you no get money “YOU go suffer”
Money matters in life, if no be money buhari won’t be talking of a second term
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Nov 23, 2018
9jaown:

In oBo voice
If you no get money “YOU go suffer”
Money matters in life, if no be money buhari won’t be talking of a second term

I go get money and I no go suffer. What I am saying is that we should not encourage our women to base their dating choices on pecuniary reasons. It is a very bad thing which ought to be deprecated by all and sundry.

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Nov 23, 2018
JESUSBOIY:
When you approach a lady the first time don't go about telling her you like her and that she is beautiful and don't sound too needy. Thats a no no nosince it will make things harder for you.

Instead strike a convo about school,work etc, ask her name , don't smile too much, don't make silly jokes and don't be in a rush to collect her no. or see her next time. Just flow. Stay friendly, yet serious... Keep talking to her, get to know before you ask her out.

As for me I wait for the green light, you don't wanna bug a girl who doesn't give a Bleep about you.
op, here's ur ansa
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by 9jaown(m): 4:32pm On Nov 23, 2018
resurgent4oodua:


I go get money and I no go suffer. What I am saying is that we should not encourage our women to base their dating choices on pecuniary reasons. It is a very bad thing which ought to be deprecated by all and sundry.

No body is encouraging “our women” it’s there mind set. Engage any of ya female friend in a relationship discussion, you will be surprise that she will start with money..
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by tosyne2much(m): 5:00pm On Nov 23, 2018
Admin401:


On average, 12 ladies date one rich guy. He cycles them perfectly and makes sure they never meet each other.

If you can recall, there was a recent statistics that showed that twice the number of our women had HIV compared to the men. That's a ratio of 2:1, that's a huge gap, scientifically speaking. It should be 1.01:1 at least, but becAuse of what I stated above, that's why we have such jarring difference.

This statistics is only for HIV ohh, which is hard to contact. So you get the point.
Your statistics is very funny �
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by tosyne2much(m): 5:01pm On Nov 23, 2018
Jayslicky:
There many girls who would date you but you being choosy, stop going for big ass and boobs. The right girl is there with you but you have refused to notice her BTW stop wooing stylish runz girls.
Very true

Sometimes, the right one for you might not be stunning
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 5:09pm On Nov 23, 2018
Biingoo:
I swear they're all in a relationship. Never have I met a girl that is single ....
I'm single...
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 5:17pm On Nov 23, 2018
9jaown:
base on girl matter!! I repeat, if you no get money hide ya face.
Who wan help sef.. lol
My dear,it's not always about money.how about encouraging me to be the best I can be?how about challenging me to aim higher in my career?how about developing yourself and trying to make an impact in the society?
That's what I want from my man......stop with this mentality of money!!!!most of us are not swayed by a guy driving a car;for all I know he might just be a mechanic taking the car for a test run.

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Biingoo: 5:22pm On Nov 23, 2018
TessBiwom:
I'm single...
And ready to mingle??
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Biingoo: 5:39pm On Nov 23, 2018
TessBiwom:

My dear,it's not always about money.how about encouraging me to be the best I can be?how about challenging me to aim higher in my career?how about developing yourself and trying to make an impact in the society?
That's what I want from my man......stop with this mentality of money!!!!most of us are not swayed by a guy driving a car;for all I know he might just be a mechanic taking the car for a test run.
Wow! Am impressed
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Acidosis(m): 7:43pm On Nov 23, 2018
I hope you have not been reading books on 1000 ways to get a woman? You will not get the perfect woman for you if you continue to go by the books, dating tips, first date, second date magic and those nonsense write-ups.

The best relationships always come in informal ways; sometimes when you least expect. Stop going by the rules and books. Just be yourself and watch, at the right time, someone will appreciate you and love you genuinely.

If you're desperate, then you can deploy your money and make it work for you. However be informed that money can only get you sex, affection, and possibly someone to make your meal. It won't give you loyalty, genuine love and faithfulness.

These days where Taxify and Uber drivers are everywhere cruising with clean hire purchase and borrowed Toyota Corolla, to sleep with any slayqueen of choice has become easier. Don't make sex your priority, it is the cheapest and easiest thing to obtain in the market.

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by kollinzgee(m): 7:57pm On Nov 23, 2018
Acidosis:
I hope you have not been reading books on 1000 ways to get a woman? You will not get the perfect woman for you if you continue to go by the books, dating tips, first date, second date magic and those nonsense write-ups.

The best relationships always come in informal ways; sometimes when you least expect. Stop going by the rules and books. Just be yourself and watch, at the right time, someone will appreciate you and love you genuinely.

If you're desperate, then you can deploy your money and make it work for you. However be informed that money can only get you sex, affection, and possibly someone to make your meal. It won't give you loyalty, genuine love and faithfulness.

These days where Taxify and Uber drivers are everywhere cruising with clean hire purchase and borrowed Toyota Corolla, to sleep with any slayqueen of choice has become easier. Don't make sex your priority, it is the cheapest and easiest thing to obtain in the market.

I like this comment its true to some extent but if a guy decides to wait for luck or chance to bring him a woman he may waste years and years of his life or his lifetime coz you dont know when he will die without getting a life partner .so as s guy you must up you game dating coach helps.

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Acidosis(m): 8:48pm On Nov 23, 2018
kollinzgee:


I like this comment its true to some extent but if a guy decides to wait for luck or chance to bring him a woman he may waste years and years of his life or his lifetime coz you dont know when he will die without getting a life partner .so as s guy you must up you game dating coach helps.

^ ^ Games are meant for players bro. Besides being real and true to oneself pays on the long run, it may not seem like the easiest way to get a woman to bed, but it sure works better for long term and purposeful relationship.

Me ehn I like to do my thing effortlessly, some coach shouldn't be telling me to take you to a five star hotel to make you fall when I know so well that I'm an Opka and akpu person grin I can't keep up with a fake or rehearsed life for long.
Format go cast las las

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by 9jaown(m): 8:51pm On Nov 23, 2018
TessBiwom:

My dear,it's not always about money.how about encouraging me to be the best I can be?how about challenging me to aim higher in my career?how about developing yourself and trying to make an impact in the society?
That's what I want from my man......stop with this mentality of money!!!!most of us are not swayed by a guy driving a car;for all I know he might just be a mechanic taking the car for a test run.
After Looking at your dp, love ❤️ no allow say what’s in ma mind.. lol..
na money make tiwa fall for wizkid oh grin let me just say money and success..
If you are frequent on nairaland, er day there must be a case of a yahoo boi and a girl.. why do you think girls are attracted to them..”money”
Kizz Daniel ft Davido one ticket, the first line of the of song they said “ Er time wire me money” its all about the money.. you maybe speaking for your self or maybe you are tired of hearing people said in a relationship money is involved. The truth is this, even we guys wan get things for our bae wan take them out..
Most of this girls if you collect there number 11am, 4pm that same day they will tell ya der phone screen gat issues..
this days no need to make ya intentions know to girls cus they MUST tax you..
This girls around are looking for HELPER grin

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 23, 2018
let me sitdown here and read comment
me too i am single o any single lady should come . let be greezing oursrlf oil
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by yetunsbay(m): 9:04pm On Nov 23, 2018
Am single need these comments
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Nov 23, 2018
Go hustle first bro they will flock you afterwards
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by mvik57: 9:47pm On Nov 23, 2018
It's not difficult you just don't have a right place to find a girl. It's better to use online dating sites. I've found many girls there, you can see their photos and make sure they're good looking before writing to them.
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 9:36am On Nov 24, 2018
Biingoo:
And ready to mingle??
No wink
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 9:38am On Nov 24, 2018
9jaown:

After Looking at your dp, love ❤️ no allow say what’s in ma mind.. lol..
na money make tiwa fall for wizkid oh grin let me just say money and success..
If you are frequent on nairaland, er day there must be a case of a yahoo boi and a girl.. why do you think girls are attracted to them..”money”
Kizz Daniel ft Davido one ticket, the first line of the of song they said “ Er time wire me money” its all about the money.. you maybe speaking for your self or maybe you are tired of hearing people said in a relationship money is involved. The truth is this, even we guys wan get things for our bae wan take them out..
Most of this girls if you collect there number 11am, 4pm that same day they will tell ya der phone screen gat issues..
this days no need to make ya intentions know to girls cus they MUST tax you..
This girls around are looking for HELPER grin
You're free to say what's on your mind dear.

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Biingoo: 9:41am On Nov 24, 2018
TessBiwom:
No wink
Why naw? You're old enough na....or don't you wanna get married??
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 9:45am On Nov 24, 2018
Biingoo:
Why naw? You're old enough na....or don't you wanna get married??
It's not my priority for now.
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Biingoo: 9:46am On Nov 24, 2018
TessBiwom:
It's not my priority for now.
That's okay.... So where you from??
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 10:17am On Nov 24, 2018
Biingoo:
That's okay.... So where you from??
I'm from crossriver.
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Physika(f): 10:25am On Nov 24, 2018
Acidosis:
I hope you have not been reading books on 1000 ways to get a woman? You will not get the perfect woman for you if you continue to go by the books, dating tips, first date, second date magic and those nonsense write-ups.

The best relationships always come in informal ways; sometimes when you least expect. Stop going by the rules and books. Just be yourself and watch, at the right time, someone will appreciate you and love you genuinely.

If you're desperate, then you can deploy your money and make it work for you. However be informed that money can only get you sex, affection, and possibly someone to make your meal. It won't give you loyalty, genuine love and faithfulness.

These days where Taxify and Uber drivers are everywhere cruising with clean hire purchase and borrowed Toyota Corolla, to sleep with any slayqueen of choice has become easier. Don't make sex your priority, it is the cheapest and easiest thing to obtain in the market.

Why this epistle fah?
You wan kari your money go heaven bah?

Oga if you nor get moni, hide your face.
Stingy scummander.

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 10:31am On Nov 24, 2018
Acidosis:
I hope you have not been reading books on 1000 ways to get a woman? You will not get the perfect woman for you if you continue to go by the books, dating tips, first date, second date magic and those nonsense write-ups.

The best relationships always come in informal ways; sometimes when you least expect. Stop going by the rules and books. Just be yourself and watch, at the right time, someone will appreciate you and love you genuinely.

If you're desperate, then you can deploy your money and make it work for you. However be informed that money can only get you sex, affection, and possibly someone to make your meal. It won't give you loyalty, genuine love and faithfulness.

These days where Taxify and Uber drivers are everywhere cruising with clean hire purchase and borrowed Toyota Corolla, to sleep with any slayqueen of choice has become easier. Don't make sex your priority, it is the cheapest and easiest thing to obtain in the market.



Too much sense wii not kill you!!you're so on point.

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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 10:35am On Nov 24, 2018
TessBiwom:

It's not my priority for now.
it's not your priority but you definitely engage in sex. lol Although it is not a crime I am in the same condition.
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by TessBiwom(f): 11:16am On Nov 24, 2018
[quote author=vingeophysicist post=73257853] it's not your priority but you definitely engage in sex. lol Although it is not a crime I am in the same condition.
Wow!!!!I didn't see that one coming.well,it's different stroke for different folk.
Give me one reason why I should be in a relationship?
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 24, 2018
[quote author=TessBiwom post=73259069][/quote] I am not condemning you of having sex outside a relationship. I have the same mindset as you. I see relationships as hindrances to career development. For someone like me that prioritize career, I get sex once in while and I know it same for you because our sex hormone crave for it.
I will only engage in a relationship when I am ready to marry.
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Acidosis(m): 11:48am On Nov 24, 2018
Physika:

Why this epistle fah? You wan kari your money go heaven bah?
Oga if you nor get moni, hide your face. Stingy scummander.
ahahaha grin tenk you sir
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend? by Acidosis(m): 11:51am On Nov 24, 2018
TessBiwom:



Too much sense wii not kill you!!you're so on point.
hey thanks

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