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Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by adaksbullet: 7:00am On Nov 24, 2018
Allaboutkatiee:


Bruvvv
This your English na die grin grin grin
whot his do mine eglish?
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by R0ckefeller: 8:20am On Nov 24, 2018
Charlescobi:

Confuse how?
i think you she already gave you the chance you needed to break up with no trouble.
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by frostylook: 8:40am On Nov 24, 2018
gfullmoon:
Most girls/ladys become toxic usually from series of guys sweet talk that ended up in disappointment or chop n clean mouth. Hence, they develop a psychological problem known as associationism. Let most toxic lady's tell you their stories you will know that some men are evil, wicked and crazy. It might be only like 10% of toxic girls that are natural or genetically acquired, the other 90% is man/boy made or ex- made.

The best thing to do is first hear her past stories to determine whether you can heal the broken heart or add more fuel. Idle talks says a lot about us all if you are observant enough.

Na man you be!
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by Homeboiy: 9:10am On Nov 24, 2018
placeofallure:

How was yesterday night? grin

Babe ee, I never ft close my mouth since oo
My tongue just de outside
But she bowed for me, I didn't act like a novice
I got coaching from my guy before I proceeded

It was a sweet and funny experience
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by kullozone(m): 9:35am On Nov 24, 2018
Charlescobi:
grin grin
In wyclef Jean's voice " am in trouble, am really in trouble somebody please call 911"

You dey take am laugh abi

e go jus be like one of those jet li film trick for your eyes one daysmiley

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Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 24, 2018
HER MEMORABLE MOMENTS


- Tossed a knife at me and it hit the wall. She missed.

- Called up all the females on my phone asking how they got to know me. Next claiming she was having my baby

- Sprayed paint on my apartment door entrance after a breakup

- walked into the female toilet following my new gf (back then) to beat her up (with her cousin)

- stormed into the doctor's office during a medical consultation (something she herself had asked me to attend) she feared the doctor was doing something with me. And apparently her excuse was that i had been in there too long. The female british doc washed her down.

- slapped me in public in front of her friends (male and female), i returned 2 hot-served ones and the people around couldn't believe it, they had to hold me back. Had to flee before the cops would arrive

- headbutt me and brought blood outta my lips. Tons of it. All because i was out with the homies. Gave her a beating she never forgot till dis day.

And a whole lot more. The craziest relationship i ever had in my life and to think we did 7-8 yrs on and off. I must have been one hell of a crazy dude

Today she still hates the hell outta me cos i married a Naija woman way more beautiful, homely, God-fearing and super all round. Plus she can assemble a rifle. Lol. I like dem hard, i guess.

Never date a latin chick that's super pretty and looks puerto-rican. You'd get lost. I know what IK Ogbonna must have gone through.

Colombian women are the most violent. Google Griselda Blanco aka La Madrina.

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Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by hismerhill(m): 10:55am On Nov 24, 2018
WUdec:
HER MEMORABLE MOMENTS


- Tossed a knife at me and it hit the wall. She missed.

- Called up all the females on my phone asking how they got to know me. Next claiming she was having my baby

- Sprayed paint on my apartment door entrance after a breakup

- walked into the female toilet following my new gf (back then) to beat her up (with her cousin)

- stormed into the doctor's office during a medical consultation (something she herself had asked me to attend) she feared the doctor was doing something with me. And apparently her excuse was that i had been in there too long. The female british doc washed her down.

- slapped me in public in front of her friends (male and female), i returned 2 hot-served ones and the people around couldn't believe it, they had to hold me back. Had to flee before the cops would arrive

- headbutt me and brought blood outta my lips. Tons of it. All because i was out with the homies. Gave her a beating she never forgot till dis day.

And a whole lot more. The craziest relationship i ever had in my life and to think we did 7-8 yrs on and off. I must have been one hell of a crazy dude

Today she still hates the hell outta me cos i married a Naija woman way more beautiful, homely, God-fearing and super all round. Plus she can assemble a rifle. Lol. I like dem hard, i guess.

Never date a latin chick that's super pretty and looks puerto-rican. You'd get lost. I know what IK Ogbonna must have gone through.

Colombian women are the most violent. Google Griselda Blanco aka La Madrina.

Walking into d lions den, might be more easy a course dan going try dis.
Once again I salute ur courage and I say happy liberation to u .

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Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by LEVITE150: 11:47am On Nov 24, 2018
pocohantas:
I don't say what is on my mind, I simply execute them... smiley

So, I don't know why these girls just open their mouth and talk nonsense.
hismerhill:


Walking into d lions den, might be more easy a course dan going try dis.
Once again I salute ur courage and I say happy liberation to u .
pocohantas:
I don't say what is on my mind, I simply execute them... smiley

So, I don't know why these girls just open their mouth and talk nonsense.

Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by Bluezy13(m): 1:03pm On Nov 24, 2018
MannieA:




the decisions you make now...will either break you or make...and this your decision is a very bad one...
don't u want to give ur children the privilege of being with both parents and having an actual home....
sometimes when u make decisions think of ur children and ur future....
ur hatred for women wouldn't take you anywhere...
I made a decision not to be anyone's baby mama....if he wants a child... marry me...bcoz I want my children to come from one man and I want them to have the privilege of having a real home, a family and love around them...DAT way they will grow up like responsible pple .......so choose and think wisely now...so u won't regret later

I'll not regret later.

Thanks for the advice.
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by Bluezy13(m): 1:04pm On Nov 24, 2018
faithfull18:
Funny, you want to eat your cake and have it...how's that possible
Very possible.
Only time will tell.
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by ManIzHot: 4:38pm On Nov 24, 2018
placeofallure:


How was yesterday night? grin
grin
placeofallure:


How was yesterday night? grin

Chisos smh association of aproko Nigeria Ltd

I knew someone will ask this question.........person wei fear don grip him no fit...

Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by ManIzHot: 4:42pm On Nov 24, 2018
Homeboiy:



Babe ee, I never ft close my mouth since oo

My tongue just de outside

But she bowed for me, I didn't act like a novice

I got coaching from my guy before I proceeded


It was a sweet and funny experience


isssh lie Mohammed

Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by placeofallure(f): 10:24pm On Nov 24, 2018
Homeboiy:



Babe ee, I never ft close my mouth since oo

My tongue just de outside

But she bowed for me, I didn't act like a novice

I got coaching from my guy before I proceeded


It was a sweet and funny experience

Kudos! Now that you've been baptised, go and sin no more!
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by Homeboiy: 9:02am On Nov 25, 2018
placeofallure:

Kudos! Now that you've been baptised, go and sin no more!


hahhahahah
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by mablie(m): 10:12am On Nov 25, 2018
WUdec:
HER MEMORABLE MOMENTS


- Tossed a knife at me and it hit the wall. She missed.

- Called up all the females on my phone asking how they got to know me. Next claiming she was having my baby

- Sprayed paint on my apartment door entrance after a breakup

- walked into the female toilet following my new gf (back then) to beat her up (with her cousin)

- stormed into the doctor's office during a medical consultation (something she herself had asked me to attend) she feared the doctor was doing something with me. And apparently her excuse was that i had been in there too long. The female british doc washed her down.

- slapped me in public in front of her friends (male and female), i returned 2 hot-served ones and the people around couldn't believe it, they had to hold me back. Had to flee before the cops would arrive

- headbutt me and brought blood outta my lips. Tons of it. All because i was out with the homies. Gave her a beating she never forgot till dis day.

And a whole lot more. The craziest relationship i ever had in my life and to think we did 7-8 yrs on and off. I must have been one hell of a crazy dude

Today she still hates the hell outta me cos i married a Naija woman way more beautiful, homely, God-fearing and super all round. Plus she can assemble a rifle. Lol. I like dem hard, i guess.

Never date a latin chick that's super pretty and looks puerto-rican. You'd get lost. I know what IK Ogbonna must have gone through.

Colombian women are the most violent. Google Griselda Blanco aka La Madrina.
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by pomide(m): 10:25am On Nov 25, 2018
kimbraa:
What exactly do you guys want? Seems guys are the real definition of 'Fish brain'. If a lady says something negative as regards to what she would do if you cheat, she's toxic, but one who says something as not being bothered by your attitude seems toxic too since the definition of the word 'Toxic' I'm reading on this thread isn't what it should be. Confused set of people! SMH.

Jeezzzz.... Why so much anger in one paragraph?

Her reply wasn't cool with me because i expected her to say something more different, like divorce, sadness & depression, assault, etc.
I personally feel a sane person must react to a cheating partner.
For me, the outspoken reactions are the best especially when its direct and concise and not too violent or life threatening.
The people who claim not to do anything will actually do something far worse and mostly irreversible, like kill you in your sleep, poison you, rip off your dick cheesy.
Anyways, that's how i identified a potentially toxic partner for me, there are over 6 billion ways other people will.

Finally, channel your feminist anger to something more productive like girl child education, anti- trafficking not online hating out at men.

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Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by latexxbro(m): 10:35am On Nov 25, 2018
One of my gf recently said if I leave her, she would curse me though, it really touched me and I'm still confused about especially when I hardly see a future between us.
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by Abita(m): 11:48am On Nov 25, 2018
Radicalface:


I'm not in anyway close to been violent and she knows that. she knows I can't stand the sight of blood.though I look tough. she knows all that and she loves me for that. in the case of being hot tempered person I admit but I always put my anger in check. thanks to an emotional intelligence course I took online one certain time.. she seriously needs the sober reflection you talked about so she could forgo her past r/s CU's she has really been hurt in the past badly CU's of her naivety..I will talk to her about it..
she also has trust issue!..
And I am the jealous type.
any help

I can relate.
Re: What I Did When I Met A Toxic Lady. by Beautifulrosen1: 2:36pm On Apr 21, 2022
Toxic people are usually caring and loving. You will think there is no person on earth until they show you pepper. The safest way is to avoid them and not relate with them. You can find helpful ways to leave toxic relationship here www.beautifulrosesnigeria.org/toxic-relationship

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