Women who don't submit to their husbands can never have a lasting marriage by Tayo Demola

Do u guys agree with this? According to Nigerian writer/Activist & Relationship Coach, Tayo Demola, any woman who does not totally submit herself to her husband will never have a lasting marriage and her marriage will crash.

In a video he tweeted & shared on his Twitter handle & also on YouTube, he also said woman are not submissive to their husbands and that is what causes domestic violence in the home. Hmm

Do u agree?

Watch the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=coNnWSAMPiI


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What do u think? This question of submit, submit, submit to ur man always. Must everything be all about women submitting to their husbands, so the man will continue to lord it over the woman , no one advises the man, it's always women they advise every time.

Personally, I dislike use of the verb word "submit" (or its noun; submission) - both in word and action - in relation to a man and woman in a romantic affair. I prefer its euphemism like submissive (submissiveness). Submission in this regard always makes it look as if it's a master-servant thing.

So, if the word is submissiveness, I'll say yes, women who aren't submissive to their men - aristocratic men - can never have lasting (healthy) marriage. The difference between submissiveness and love is just in their names and applications - just as the difference between a man and a woman is simply in their genders, and roles by extension. Neither submissiveness nor love is a sign of weakness - just as difference in human genders don't mean inequality.

Both submissiveness and love are products - compound products - of goodness and diplomacy. Submissiveness begets selflessness, meekness and sweetness, etc. Love begets kindness, politeness, thoughtfulness, etc. Men love your wives and women be submissive to your husbands.

No submit no marry.

DukeofNZ:
No submit no marry.

You are 100℅ correct. If you can't submit, don't think of marriage. There can't be two captains in a ship.

DaniDani:



You are 100℅ correct. If you can't submit, don't think of marriage. There can't be two captains in a ship.

Na so broda.

Submission belongs to men who
pay all the bills, provide financially for everything needed without questions
Keep their penis inside their trousers..community penis deserves no loyalty or submission from me
Respect me enough to treat me right
Protect and the guide the household with integrity.



Can we start laying more emphasis on men, because most of them don’t know how to lead their homes.

But must it be totally? For God's sake d woman is not a slave na. Love is more important

Respect is reciprocal, not only from the side of the woman

If u don't treat me right, if u treat me like trash, forget that word submit in the house, except u treat me well like a queen & appreciate me wella

DukeofNZ:
No submit no marry.

You follow for promo. No submission no marriage.

Saffi:
Submission belongs to men who
pay all the bills, provide financially for everything needed without questions
Keep their penis inside their trousers..community penis deserves no loyalty or submission from me
Respect me enough to treat me right
Protect and the guide the household with integrity.



Can we start laying more emphasis on men, because most of them don’t know how to lead their homes.

alpha men like us is not for you. small man will marry you.

Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...

dacblogger:
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...

True talk, they want to hide under that word "submit" to enslave women

LordKO:
Personally, I dislike use of the verb word "submit" (or its noun; submission) - both in word and action - in relation to a man and woman in a romantic affair. I prefer its euphemism like submissive (submissiveness). Submission in this regard always makes it look as if it's a master-servant thing.

So, if the word is submissiveness, I'll say yes. Women who aren't submissive to their men - aristocratic men - can never last long in marriage. The difference between submissiveness and love is just is their names and applications - just as the difference between a man and a woman is simply in their genders. Neither submissiveness nor love is a sign of weakness - just as difference in human genders don't mean inequality.

Both submissiveness and love are products - compound products - of goodness. Submissiveness begets selflessness, meekness and sweetness, etc. Love begets kindness, politeness, thoughtfulness, etc. Men love your wives and women be submissive to your husbands.

This is good idea, even coming from a guy, love is more important, not all those that keep shouting submit as if a woman is now a slave to the man

dacblogger:
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...

that means most women also use men in marriage as their ATM machines

DaniDani:



You are 100℅ correct. If you can't submit, don't think of marriage. There can't be two captains in a ship.

If so, then if guys can't treat a woman well & show her love, don't think of marriage too. It applies to men too.

habsydiamond:
that means most women also use men in marriage as their ATM machines

Men use women too & take advantage of us in many ways.

And after taking advantage of u, they still expect u to submit sheepishly, how can that work?

Ok

Goodnewsbearer:


alpha men like us is not for you. small man will marry you.

This is an open secret


Most women who believe arrogance and being a loud mouth is a sign of high intelligence quota often end up marrying their arrogance and loud mouths.


Of course, showing respect doesn't mean one can't question certain decisions from time to time

Well, it depends on your definition of Submission.

The moment each person knows how to treat each other, there will be no question of arrogance. It's meeting the right partner that matters. Everything will fall in place when u meet the right person.

dacblogger:
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...

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I need a wife I will honour....who will also be submissive to me totally.

The same portion of the Bible that says"submit" also says men should love their wives but no one advises the men to love their wives...always the woman...submit submit submit!

Women just looking for excuse to be rival with their husbands. The word submission is not created by any man. God ordered it. Women have no option than to obey or face the consequence. Even those men who are pretending to be feminists, they cannot amend the word of God. If u cant submit as a woman remain in your father's house.