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Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Judybash93(m): 10:41am On Dec 03, 2018 |
IamD18: Man! Where on earth did you come up with this assumption? |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Judybash93(m): 10:42am On Dec 03, 2018 |
don4real18: Well, you can't sum up her entire life just from a single tweet. You don't know her 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Judybash93(m): 10:44am On Dec 03, 2018 |
lilmax: I don't think a single tweet can justify your point |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Judybash93(m): 10:45am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Warship: Good point though 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by streamsofjoy(f): 10:47am On Dec 03, 2018 |
IamD18: OMH! Women are suffering, to think that this comment has so many likes. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Toks2008(m): 10:48am On Dec 03, 2018 |
koyyes: I have come to realize that it is better not to respond to some lame comments on nairaland but at the same time i believe there are reasonable people who want to learn hence the reason why i respond sometimes. @ the embolden,you really got me cracking there cos i really dont see the correlation of that foolish comment to the topic at hand,,apparently you are not intellectually sound enough for me to have a healthy discussion with. I am fully productive at my age and i could help make your life productive too if you dont mind. Have a great day and only quote me if you are mature enough to discuss intellectually. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Toks2008(m): 10:54am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Saffi: Did you just make that embolden comment? poking nose on a thread that is up for discussion.. Are you for real? Anyways let me make this last comment for the purpose of people who want to learn a thing or two. We live in a wicked,uncaring and unjust world of men and the sexuality of a man can never be the same as the woman. The day any lady understands this is the day she gets liberated from perpetual self destruct as a result of subliminal feminism. Have a great day. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 03, 2018 |
I was talking in regards to the Aunty. Poking your nose in a situation not related to you, is very disrespectful. Toks truly wisdom is not associated with age. Respect and good character is not affliated to the female gender alone, it’s a basic human etiquette that both genders must have. Feminism has nothing to do with this. I agree, men and women are not the same, however you do not justify stupid behaviour from men, claiming they can get away with it because of their gender. I’m sorry but you need to grow up, no offence. Toks2008: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Nobody: 11:03am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Toks2008: When their weaknesses have been pointed out to their very faces, they result to insults and then, violence. Very typical of the negro male folks. I know your type. Males with egos so large but not able to produce just one tooth pick. Anyone can come to Nairaland and claim anything. I feel sorry for you. Toks2008: When their weaknesses have been pointed out to their very faces, they result to insults and then, violence. Very typical of the negro male folks. I know your type. Males with egos so large but not able to produce just one tooth pick. Anyone can come to Nairaland and claim anything. I feel sorry for you. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Nobody: 11:22am On Dec 03, 2018 |
FlyingTOMATOE:Hi, FlyingTOMATOE!!! |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by jaxxy(m): 11:33am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Saffi: Agreed bt it’s same thing for the quality of women. If Ure not getting the quality u want check urself or what Ure doing wrongly. There are always good people out there. |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Very true. Or sometimes you just have to be patient, good things are hard to find. jaxxy: |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Yeraa(f): 11:38am On Dec 03, 2018 |
The aunt got what she deserves to be honest. Who calls under the guise of well wishing to tell you to be serious and get married? Will she help fund the wedding? Will she stick up for her when she tables her marital issues before the family? And to think her own child is with a violent husband yet her nieces spinsterhood is what bothers her. On a different note, I don't buy into this respect your elders no matter what song. If you give garbage get ready to receive it. I won't swallow rubbish because you are older by a century. I believe in respecting everyone but these so called elders shouldn't be immune to consequences. Since I am an adult, I expect to be treated,respected and regarded as one. Older relatives cheat and ride on younger ones yet expect them to keep quiet or forget about it because of "respect" and "family". That's actually suppression and oppression,two pillars of our society. Protect your peace of mind first before elders. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by figment232(m): 11:39am On Dec 03, 2018 |
That is how one was pressuring another lady about Marriage meanwhile she has only 1 child for her husband for the past 13years of being married. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Nobody: 11:43am On Dec 03, 2018 |
her reply though...Savage |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by lookingfly: 11:50am On Dec 03, 2018 |
That gal na savage queen |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by jaxxy(m): 11:54am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Saffi: Bt don’t be patient without a plan. |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by delishpot: 12:11pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Women with loose tongues these days sha. |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by husbandsnatcha(f): 12:43pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Dat aunty is mad! N dos guys insulting her here ar also mad ,can u imagine We ladies have suffered ,no problm ...imagine a lady who is battling loneliness, lack of finance n so many horrible tins n her bastard aunty is using idea 2 mock her... Igbo aunties ar d most wicked,cunny n evil minded in nigeria...anyi ma ndi ha bu inukwa 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by husbandsnatcha(f): 12:45pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
delishpot:mind urself cos u dnt knw wat we pass through , Pray 2 God nt 2 make u a female in ur 2nd life |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by IMASTEX: 12:45pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
PharmaGirl:It takes a day to be married. But it takes a live time to remain married. |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by AnuliKay: 2:05pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Its sad that family members feel a need to pressure young girls even when they have people in marital bondage. South Africans are quite angry after the Global Citizen Festival: Yesterday, the Global Citizen Festival held at the FNB Stadium in Johanesburg, South Africa. It featured a ton of African and Global Superstars including Beyonce and her husband, Jay Z. Hosted by Bonang Matheba, and well attended by celebrities across the world, it was a great event. Global Citizen is a movement of engaged citizens who are using their collective voice to end extreme poverty by 2030. It is disheartening to note that after such an amazing event, disaster struck. According to reports, the South African police were busy safeguarding the bigwigs and exposed thousands of attendees to mayhem. Read more: https://kaynuli.com/south-africans-are-quite-angry-after-the-global-citizen-festival/
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Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Nobody: 2:08pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
That's a bad response and it says a lot why she's still single at such an old age. She must have passed the normal thresold age for her to be reminded of such. And it takes a caring family member to still have the time to remind her that "Time waits for no man" My instinct tells me that vast majority of female folks supporting her rude and disrespectful behaviour would be aged 30 and above. It's not because they re happy with their situations but because they feel they have found a new way of staying relevant. Ladies, take it or leave it, if you are 30 years and above and still single, you are not just outdated but also expired. There's no hope for you because you are worthless; no amount of 'waiting for the right time' would save your situation. We guys have found new life and bright future in young girls. Gone are those days when age matters in choosing partners, not anymore. Young girls understand, live and give it far better than the old cargoes. It just a pity how the tide has turned. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by mechanics(m): 2:27pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
hmmmm, she went too far, she must not say it to her face but rather pray for her aunt sister's husband to change. |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by davo4luv: 2:41pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
naxo dem go say her own too much |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by lepasharon(f): 3:03pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
don4real18: Gtfoh. Why is it seen as disrespectful when you hit a Nigerian elder with facts? 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by placeofallure(f): 3:30pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
IamD18: I wish I can like your post over and over The Twitter lady is stupid and many people like her saw nothing wrong in her response. As a matter of fact, the cousin might have taken her time and the man still turned out to be an abuser. Also, the aunty might be making efforts to help her daughter with her marriage. That you care about your child doesn't mean there's no more room for other children in the family. This is Africa, we even care for children that are not family, let alone family. For women, the biological clock does not wait! Let her be forming slay until there are no more wares in her shop. In my opinion, she said too much! She should just jejely go and apologise to that well meaning aunty. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by don4real18(m): 4:00pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
lepasharon:So, you cannot make your point without harsh words. I wouldn't be surprised if you also possess such character since you are defending her. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by PDPGuy: 4:05pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
figment232: Do you know whether they agreed to have only one child? |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by PDPGuy: 4:12pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
IFearGod: Sir, women and men should be left to decide for themselves when they choose to get married. If someone says he/she wants to marry at the age of 32 or 35, let them be. Moreover, women in their early 40s or late 30s are still fertile and can conceive a baby. However, he reply to her aunt was rude and a bit over the top. She could have replied in a firm but polite manner. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by figment232(m): 4:15pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
PDPGuy:no they did not agree. |
Re: Lady Gives It To An Aunty Pressuring Her To Get Married. See What Happened Next by Alezy(m): 4:53pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Reply made my day 1 Like |
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