Dayoara:
If I were to be the husband I will ask to take the girl to her real father then!

Abi now.. Since she can't trust me to bathe my own daughter. Before you know her paranoid ass will not even let me play with my daughter when she's out cos she will think I'll cheat on her with my daughter.

Make God save us from marrying mentally deficient women as wife.

monex:


ok.

The question was not for you however.

It was for the lady who asked why Nigerian men cant get into their thick skulls that the house belongs to both husband and wife. She said this in response to someone who wrote about "sending wife packing from the house"

so your answer negates her point and supports the point of the original guy who wrote about sending wife packing (of course on the assumption that he owns the house)

swiz123:
I trust my husband but won't allow him bathe my daughter.

Isn't her statement self-contradictory?

This is a big insult to the unfortunate man who wasted his money by paying her bride price.

No matter how hard I try to push the thought that her father molested her as a kid, it just won't go away.

pocohantas:


Which your house? When will you Nigerian men, get it into your thick skulls that the home belongs to husband and wife? When?

kense88:
Yes, since men from there family cannot be trusted with anything related to females.

monex:


can a woman send her cheating husband packing out of a house built/officially owned by her?

kense88:
She seized to be my wife, the moment she made that statement. Though, am likely not going to have anything to do with such person, let alone getting married to her.

naijaboiy:

Is her name in the C of O? See lose guarded talk.

kmcutez:
I support her statement o. Prevention they say is better than cure. According to most men conji is uncontrollable. All they see is the poosie. They don’t even care if it belongs to their mother.

Emaprince:
The husband is finished.. And she revealed this to the public.

How will a woman feel when the husband come out on a public show to tell the whole country that he trust his wife but he must get DNA result of all his kids due to the numerous cases of paternity frauds?

How will she feel?

Women are usually selfish and seriously act irrationally towards men and expect their actions to be treated lightly..but when a man does same, they start crying..

Xisnin:
At that age, she doesn't need you or the mother to bathe her.

pocohantas:


That is why a smart NIGERIAN woman should;

1, Never accept to be a jobless housewife.

2, own secret money and possessions.

3, Leave the man to labour alone for the family, put whatever he wants in his name and will to the kids. After all, you all die first most times and kids tend to favor their mums more

If you were fighting for equality you shouldn't go behind to have savings and build houses. What happened to being a strong woman? You're scared of letting your husband know you have your own savings and want to build a house?

I see your strength lies in fake love, cowardice and deceit? Tell me more..

EzegeNG:
TVC presenter, Morayo Akabashorun, this morning said she trusts her husband so much but will never take chances allowing him bath their daughter.

Morayo hinged her fear on the rapid increase of sexual assaults on little girls which in some cases is being carried out by their fathers.

Morayo and her other colleagues were having a discussion on rape viz-a-viz the relationship between father and daughter and if boundaries should be set in this kind of relationship.


See what Morayo said during the programme as tweeted by the TV station's official twitter handle

See more:
https://zenithnaija.com/i-trust-my-husband-but-i-wouldnt-have-him-bathe-my-daughter-tvc-presenter/

solasoulmusic:
I see what she was trying to say it came out wrongly though chai

EzegeNG:
TVC presenter, Morayo Akabashorun, this morning said she trusts her husband so much but will never take chances allowing him bath their daughter.

Morayo hinged her fear on the rapid increase of sexual assaults on little girls which in some cases is being carried out by their fathers.

Morayo and her other colleagues were having a discussion on rape viz-a-viz the relationship between father and daughter and if boundaries should be set in this kind of relationship.


See what Morayo said during the programme as tweeted by the TV station's official twitter handle

See more:
https://zenithnaija.com/i-trust-my-husband-but-i-wouldnt-have-him-bathe-my-daughter-tvc-presenter/

YouareaBITCH:
She's being a protective mother, that's all.


Alot of girls abused by their dads, their mothers didn't see it coming.. They all trusted their men too.

Prevention they say is better than cure.



I know of a lady, that has told her little daughter to keep her distance from her uncle's room
Is not like she doesn't trust her brother,she's just acting according to recent happenings

But in all, it shouldn't be the kind of thing to be made public.

Xisnin:

Don't change the topic. No one will disagree if she was talking about starngers.
But she specifically accused her husband, the father of her child that he can't be trusted with
small girls which makes him a paedophile.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Oh

Any way I still agree with her. That is if they both contribute to paying the house rent or building it.
I cannot stay in a house I do not contribute to pay rent or build.So no man born of a woman can tell me he owns the house alone.It is both ours.
But if the house belongs to one of them only that person has a right to claim sole ownership .

pocohantas:


Yes of course

ibkayee:
I feel bad for all the genuinely good, harmless, unproblematic guys who may have to be told something this hurtful and extreme all because Nigeria is a cesspool of pedopphiles and sexual predators in general

Mynd44:
If you want have your husband bathe your daughter, it means there is something she isn't telling us about her husband.

It means a part of her large enough to influence her decisions see certain actions in him that makes her think he is capable of such despicable action. It is not a factor of all men but her marriage is kinda weird.

She needs to address her husband which she has claimed has peadophilic tendencies.

monex:

then you don't agree with her.

the scenario depicted was a man sending his wife packing out of a house that belongs to him.

naijaboiy:

If you were fighting for equality you shouldn't go behind to have savings and build houses. What happened to being a strong woman? You're scared of letting your husband know you have your own savings and want to build a house?

I see your strength lies in fake love, cowardice and deceit? Tell me more..

YouareaBITCH:



Yeah. That should be the very first step if u ask me,but she probably wanted to take it past that level. It's all her choice.

I just feel she should have kept it private simple.

YouareaBITCH:



Mothers abuse their sons, but this is extremely rare
Unlike fathers, neighbor,uncles ,step dad. Etc

monex:


it really is a question of trust. She does not trust her husband. She shouldn't have added the "I trust my husband ..." part.

She has a right to trust whoever she wishes. I know it will hurt her husband but it is about her not him.

kazyhm:


What exactly is she trying to say ?

This has no other interpretation, the Husband might not be the father of her daughter..... Very probable. How could a reasonable mother protect her own daughter from the care of her father ?

Who will she trust now, her pastor, her counsellor or her neighbor ?

modath:



See me yia daddy...