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naughtylagosguy:
Same thing I'm currently facing.

i have mine too, gist me about urs

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PrettyMelly:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. The last 3months have been something else.
I travelled out of the state we live in for a 4 month course. The First month in my new location was okay, the communication was good n everything other thing was cool.
But I noticed from the 2nd month, he stopped calling like he used to, he will be online but won't chat with me. I brought this to his knowledge, n he kept saying he's sorry n gave flimsy excuses that he didn't have airtime n all. It got to a point that in a week he will call just once n for a few minutes.
I kept talking abt it, he made me feel like I'm nagging. He kept shouting at me that I'm bringing up issues wen there is none. I do 90% of the calling n it's not cool.
Presently, he doesn't chat with me except wen i upload any pix he finds interesting on my status....but wen I call him, he sounds all loving, saying I miss u n all.
At the moment, I feel hurt n I want to move on cos I think he's taking me for granted.. I don't ask for anything just talk to me that's all. Wat do u advice I do?

That is to tell you that you love him more than he loves you..., which isn't healthy for your wellbeing and sanity...date wisely... USE YOUR HEAD

DateMynd44:
seems you're a novice here.
mtchew

?novice abi?
R u trying out a new word u learnt on me or ur naturally talk off the point?

[quote author=DateMynd44 post=73576855]seems you're a novice here.
mtchew[/quote

hkidola00:
i have mine too, gist me about urs

Maybe you should take the lead. After you.

PrettyMelly:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. The last 3months have been something else.
I travelled out of the state we live in for a 4 month course. The First month in my new location was okay, the communication was good n everything other thing was cool.
But I noticed from the 2nd month, he stopped calling like he used to, he will be online but won't chat with me. I brought this to his knowledge, n he kept saying he's sorry n gave flimsy excuses that he didn't have airtime n all. It got to a point that in a week he will call just once n for a few minutes.
I kept talking abt it, he made me feel like I'm nagging. He kept shouting at me that I'm bringing up issues wen there is none. I do 90% of the calling n it's not cool.
Presently, he doesn't chat with me except wen i upload any pix he finds interesting on my status....but wen I call him, he sounds all loving, saying I miss u n all.
At the moment, I feel hurt n I want to move on cos I think he's taking me for granted.. I don't ask for anything just talk to me that's all. Wat do u advice I do?

I need woman like u in my life .

Ivye:
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shut up ugly old woman. take your miserable frustration outta my mentions. desperate biitch

it is either he is having trust issues with you or there is nothing at all.....if its a trust issue, then my dear its better u let it go because he will only trust u when you are around him(same house with him).....let me give you a scenerio, my bf found something about a year ago on my phone while i was asleep, he kept it to himself and didnt tell me about it, i travelled out of the state we were in together and i noticed he changed, doesnt call like before, so i decided to ask him and he sent me a copy of the chat he saw on my phone to me.....i didn't deny the chat but he felt there was more to it which i didn't do....i begged this guy for almost 6months(within the 6months, sometimes we r good and sometimes we r not but i kept on going and didn't mind the insults and every time i tell him i am not cool with him not calling, he tells me i am nagging)....when i got back, he came over and we settled it finally(i thought)....Almost a year later, he asked me to come visiting twice in his state, we were good throughout my stay there and the issue never came up.....i got back to my destination and days later he started behaving funny and didn't talk for like 10days on the go.....so i summoned courage to call him which i always do at the end of any misunderstanding, we got talking and 2days time he called and told me he couldn't forget what happened a year ago that we should end the relationship....................
so sis, try to find out what really happened...May the good God help u.

DateMynd44:
shut up ugly old woman.
take your miserable frustration outta my mentions.
desperate biitch

Pffft....ur really one of those mad Nigerians fg wz talking about,pls feel free to visit d mental ward...I heard it's now free

Ivye:
Pffft....ur really one of those mad Nigerians fg wz talking about,pls feel free to visit d mental ward...I heard it's now free

I know you're here on nairaland to look for a husband

kunleweb:
Assumptions is the foundation for so many issues in life. Take a trip pay him a visit, ttell.I'm.you not need.to.talk. look.in to his eye ball when doing the talking. Right there lies the answer you seek

sure bro assumptions has spoilt a lot of relationships marriages,organizations etc don't just feel about situations ask questions,communicate with your partner