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TanyLoe:
I only have one thing
And that's
Fix it

TanyLoe:
once had a guy who broke up with me
And come back pleading, I forgave
And he did it again
Is this called gaslighting

TanyLoe:
Your welcome
Was once in your shoes

dingbang:
no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.

dingbang:
really.. I would like to hear your story. Why not let's have a date sometime to talk about it

luminouz:
Nawa o..
Only u get all the bad relationship experience ni??
I don read like 29 issues from u Alone
Takw am easy na

TanyLoe:
That will happen when have gotten a good feedback from you
Concening this issue

luminouz:
Thank God u left. Now come to big daddy Darling!

luminouz:
Are u a prisoner??

Zanxx:
lol i dey come

Zanxx:
was blinded by love then

luminouz:
I dey wait u oooo

dingbang:
ashawo

luminouz:
U get ur own naaaa

dingbang:
all the girls wey u dey toast for nairaland dey tell me say u be ashawo

luminouz:
Lolz!!!!
U must admit dou DAT I have very fine taste in women.. I only toast fine babes here..not these frustrated and embittered ogres on NL!!! N that Zan Geh is darn fine...she is courteous and she doesn't sound frustrated too!!!

Don't know if she gat a big ass dou!!!

dingbang:
you may not know, she may be on my whatsapp list too...

luminouz:
Lolz!!!!
U must admit dou DAT I have very fine taste in women.. I only toast fine babes here..not these frustrated and embittered ogres on NL!!! N that Zanxx Geh is darn fine...she is courteous and she doesn't sound frustrated too!!!

Don't know if she gat a big ass dou!!!

Zanxx:
hahahhahahaha ass paaa

luminouz:
So u have yeah
Besides....u never do the needful na.....I sent u Xmas gift

Zanxx:
Did you get my reply?

dingbang:
11. They're Always Just Joking



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This is a manipulation in two parts. The first part is the one where they say hurtful things or criticize you, but it's you're fault for getting upset because they were totally just kidding. It doesn't matter how cruel they were, it only matters that you're too sensitive and can't take a joke. The second part involves making jokes about you in public and in front of others. If you respond negatively in front of others, you're making a scene or ruining the fun. This is a way to get their digs in and grind you down without having to take accountability.

What to do:

You don't have to worry about ruining the fun or being too sensitive. It can be a difficult thing to confront your partner when they hurt you, and to risk looking like the bad guy, but standing up for yourself is important. Even if the manipulator will likely try to shame you for it.

The more you recognize manipulative behaviors, the more you'll be able to shut them down. If you're dealing with a serious manipulator, though, adds are your best bet is to split.

Richdad50:
Dear Men,
A woman is fully capable of being faithful. Temptation is not her weakness, all she wants is love, attention, honesty and loyalty. Before she cheats, she will wine, cry, and complain about all the things that makes her unhappy. Pay attention to your woman and never make her feel single or she will act as such.

Dear Ladies,
Don’t marry that Man who singles you out from the world. Marry the one to whom you are the world. Such a person is hard to find but easy to love. Such a spouse will stand by your side when the whole world is against you. Why? Because you are their whole world.

#Richdad

rumenase:
my ex used to do this, when I get upset she will be like “person no dey follow you play”

dingbang:
women will always and when i mean always, i mean always be testing you to see grounds that you are soft on, and remember that anything you allow, becomes a norm. So if she becomes manipulative and you sense it, chastise her so that she doesn't try it again.

rumenase:
I did chastised her; anyway I’ve kicked the b!tch out!