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Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Hafeexla(m): 8:45am On Dec 18, 2018
Wuraola01:


No. New smiley smiley
So what is the definition of unneccesary PM ?
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Wuraola01(f): 9:14am On Dec 18, 2018
Hafeexla:
So what is the definition of unneccesary PM ?



Oh. That cheesy

I've been receiving PMs though I'm quite new on the platform. Some re necessary with good intentions while some aren't. smiley smiley
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by carter009(m): 9:31am On Dec 18, 2018
Your right.
DanDeeBoss:
Highest two days...

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Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 18, 2018
You mean no body here can wait for 12years?
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Biglittlelois(f): 11:25am On Dec 18, 2018
A guy in love will wait 12 years, we have cases in the Bible e.g. Jacob who waited 14 years for Rachel, Emulate Jacob guys, make him your mentor tongue
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 1:04pm On Dec 18, 2018
Biglittlelois:
A guy in love will wait 12 years, we have cases in the Bible e.g. Jacob who waited 14 years for Rachel, Emulate Jacob guys, make him your mentor tongue
That was then.... Except now the lady is very beautiful, intelligent, virgin, God-,fearing, decent... then a guy may wait more
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 18, 2018
I read on twitter that one guy waited 18 yrs b4 the girl the he was wooing finally said yescheesy. That he had be fasting and praying over it and d girl finally said yescheesy. Anyway to each its own.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 1:15pm On Dec 18, 2018
Biglittlelois:
A guy in love will wait 12 years, we have cases in the Bible e.g. Jacob who waited 14 years for Rachel, Emulate Jacob guys, make him your mentor tongue
that is isreal...this is nigeriacheesy
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 18, 2018
lefulefu:
that is isreal...this is nigeriacheesy
That was even in those days, not now.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 1:39pm On Dec 18, 2018
olsome:
That was even in those days, not now.
yes in those days when honesty was in vogue not now when deciet is d order of the daycheesy. U fit dey wait for the girl's answer when wooing her but she must just be keeping u as a sparekey cos she's with her main guy and she's hoping and praying when her main guy will ask her out. Na only when her main guy break her out she go come turn around and give u a yes to ur wooing. But when d main guy throw throw the word she will jump for joy and send a text message to u tellin u she aint interestedcheesy.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 1:58pm On Dec 18, 2018
lefulefu:
yes in those days when honesty was in vogue not now when deciet is d order of the daycheesy. U fit dey wait for the girl's answer when wooing her but she must just be keeping u as a sparekey cos she's with her main guy and she's hoping and praying when her main guy will ask her out. Na only when her main guy break her out she go come turn around and give u a yes to ur wooing. But when d main guy throw throw the word she will jump for joy and send a text message to u tellin u she aint interestedcheesy.
Maradona love!!!!
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Anfieldboss: 2:13pm On Dec 18, 2018
Responses are almost instant nowadays, but I can't wait more than a month.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 18, 2018
Anfieldboss:
Responses are almost instant nowadays, but I can't wait more than a month.
More than a month? A month is kinda long!!! Except maybe you are toasting dangotes daughter or omotolas daughter or etc; you may stay longer

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Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 18, 2018
Oma307:

u forgot to mention 24 years also, how can a reasonable man wait for a lady response for 12 years. op, take time
ABI 32 YEARS
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by ugybabe2020(f): 3:32pm On Dec 18, 2018
Kidaholic:

My Life, My Problem cheesy
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash. grin
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one! undecided
please, do u need a deputy girl friend?
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 5:34pm On Dec 18, 2018
Yah
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by luizpippo(m): 6:20pm On Dec 18, 2018
Back then in school, after being friends with the babe from January till April, I asked her out and she was like she will think about it, then I asked her how far in August, she ask me the most ridiculous question...... am I in haste? I shock.
Then reminded her in September and she made jokes about it, then early December, she turned out pregnant and I was the prime suspect because we are pratically together always.
Meanwhile there was one guy in Computer science Dept blowing the kuntus steady.
After I escaped that experience, I learnt my lessons, you dwell too much, I bounce.

That's how I used a full year to woo, wait and almost got into trouble

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Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 18, 2018
Twisted scenario, I used to be the one that waits longer before saying Yes grin but not anymore.

I am more into intellectual ladies who stimulate my thinking processes so I can wait for few days. If you do anyhow by gravitating towards wasting my time, I move onto the next.

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Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 7:56pm On Dec 18, 2018
Possessedchild:
Twisted scenario, I used to be the one that waits longer before saying Yes grin but not anymore.

I am more into intellectual ladies who stimulate my thinking processes so I can wait for few days. If you do anyhow by gravitating towards wasting my time, I move onto the next.

That's good...
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 7:57pm On Dec 18, 2018
Not exaggerating, but a guy has wooed me for 3years straight. Some people are very patient I swear.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Kidaholic(m): 9:09pm On Dec 18, 2018
ugybabe2020:
please, do u need a deputy girl friend?
Lmao! which one is deputy girlfriend again? cheesy
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by PrincessB1(f): 9:21pm On Dec 18, 2018
Oma307:

u forgot to mention 24 years also, how can a reasonable man wait for a lady response for 12 years. op, take time
This is hilarious cheesy grin
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 9:33pm On Dec 18, 2018
Time no dey oooh!!!
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Mace0lane: 9:54pm On Dec 18, 2018
LuciferGospel:
Right there when I ask you.

Reason is, I can't meet you right now & ask you out immediately (except its a hookup).
I will usually let you spend sometime with me before I make my move.

So if after all you've seen & know about me, you still "need time to think", then you're not what I'm looking for.

I don't check back for a response.
If I don't get my answer right there, I assume its a "No" & move on.

I don't even want "pity relationships".

Those that bugged me after waiting & waiting for me to check back either ended up severely fvcked & dumped or they deleted my number in anger at my 'shakara'.
. Na Man U be.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Mace0lane: 9:57pm On Dec 18, 2018
Kidaholic:

My Life, My Problem cheesy
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash. grin
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one! undecided
Sorry you meant to write your life your foolish, you are not weak just foolish n I do not mean that as an insult or abuse but it is what your action is.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Timagex(m): 9:58pm On Dec 18, 2018
LuciferGospel:
Right there when I ask you.



Reason is, I can't meet you right now & ask you out immediately (except its a hookup).
I will usually let you spend sometime with me before I make my move.

So if after all you've seen & know about me, you still "need time to think", then you're not what I'm looking for.

I don't check back for a response.
If I don't get my answer right there, I assume its a "No" & move on.

I don't even want "pity relationships".


Those that bugged me after waiting & waiting for me to check back either ended up severely fvcked & dumped or they deleted my number in anger at my 'shakara'.
. Severely fvcked.......

Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Kidaholic(m): 10:10pm On Dec 18, 2018
[s]
Mace0lane:

Sorry you meant to write your life your foolish, you are not weak just foolish n I do not mean that as an insult or abuse but it is what your action is.
[/s]

Gibberish lipsrsealed

Foolish? Because I express my love?! when you achieve/attain the perfect relationship, you can start writing couple goals but for now... Bros, get lost abeg!

Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Timagex(m): 10:13pm On Dec 18, 2018
Kidaholic:

My Life, My Problem cheesy
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash. grin
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one! undecided
. Hey bro! Me wan learn guitar cool abeg angry
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 10:24pm On Dec 18, 2018
Valerie47:
Not exaggerating, but a guy has wooed me for 3years straight. Some people are very patient I swear.
Ehn shocked Am Sure you didn't accept him Cos your comment have say it already
But the dude must be decent one fa cheesy wen one dey nack your kpetus as he like undecided guy dey woo you for three years grin

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Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 10:29pm On Dec 18, 2018
Iamtosignno:
Ehn shocked Am Sure you didn't accept him Cos your comment have say it already
But the dude must be decent one fa cheesy wen one dey nack your kpetus as he like undecided guy dey woo you for three years grin
Dude is not my spec, and I have told him countless times, yet he no dey hear word.
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 10:34pm On Dec 18, 2018
Valerie47:
Dude is not my spec, and I have told him countless times, yet he no dey hear word.
The guy no try!!!
Re: How Long Can You Wait For A Lady's Response To Your Wooing by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 18, 2018
Valerie47:
Dude is not my spec, and I have told him countless times, yet he no dey hear word.
Na Love Nwa tintin I guess he is poor that why

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