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SweetBuns:
you actually look like the meme you used.

Hisduchess:
u nah savage ooo.tuale!

tobechi74:
love is about sacrifice,, apart from what us in between their legs,what can she sacrifice

kiddoiLL:
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general

funmisticqueen:
LIES!!THE DAY MN START LOVING SMART WOMEN IS THE DAY WOMEN START LOVING EFFEMINATE MEN.
Men do not love smart women but the idea of having a smart woman,they love women who are below them. Many men are emasculated smart women and can't stand their guts,

SweetBuns:
The average nigerian male has been stereotyped and programmed by society to have some bad assumptions about the female gender.

1. Any female that tries to be unique and different i.e Focusing on her career and goals rather than staying at home is quickly termed a bitter woman aka Feminist
This is very true and it is also very evident on this site. Any woman who holds an opinion contrary to that of the males is quickly tagged a bitter woman and shame to society. Try to rear you head up as a woman and they will quickly try to pull you down. That is why some men in this country will never like to see their wives prosper more than them. They will always try to pull her down and bind her with wild societal beliefs like...
"YOU SHOULDNT BE WORKING ANYMORE FOR NOW. YOU HAVE CHILDREN TO TAKE CARE OF. STAY AT HOME WOMAN!"
Some men even take it too far in banning their wives from working at all. Especially if she is richer that him. No work at hand, she will be needy of money and the same men will turn round and call us parasites. Its sickening.



2. Most guys think like this, "IF YOU HAVE MONEY AND BIG DICK, GIRLS WILL FLOCK YOU

This is also very evident on this site as most guys tend to think that if you have money and a big phallus, girls Will follow you around like flies. This is as funny as it is untrue. I don't know about other girls but I myself despise big dicks. Its very painful. My ex had one and I never liked to perform coitus with him. Average is okay and good for girls like me.
And about the money part, most things actually needed and very important for a woman can't be bought with money. We women are creatures of many needs and many layers, and these layers need different needs. Most of which money cannot buy. So not all girls can be freaked out with bundles of cash. Only the loose ones behave like that.


3. ONCE A WOMAN CLOCKS 25 AND ABOVE, SHE HAS BECOME " EVENING NEWSPAPER"
I personally hate this one like shit and only the ignorant use this phrase and thinks they're right.
It has been scientifically proven that woman ovulate I.e produce eggs well into their late twenties and thirties and even fourties for the lucky ones (its somehow rare). So I wonder why some men would open their mouths and say a woman that's 15-20 years away from menopause is "evening newspaper".


P.S :- I dont expect my own opinions to work with every woman or man and I don't expect everyone to agree with me. Kindly observe constructive criticism as you reply. Female bashers are not allowed to comment on this. Thank you.

sacajawea:
See Go and Make Money (i.e billions) and Stop all these Analysis on Nairaland

Possessedchild:
Like how ladies create some assumptive remarks about my lifestyle.

Some men even assume I am homosexual because I like to look sexy.

I detest assumptions please.

Back to the topic. I used to have some ingrained prejudice against women, because from roaming throughout the earth, going back and forth on it, I have not seen any lady who has something to bring to the table than breast and ass. They strongly believe it is a treasure the creator has endowed them with, to weather the financial storms of life. Use what you have to get what you want.

But recently I met a covenant university babe who is a Summer Analyst at Goldmansach, London. Mehn, my raised shoulders came down. Since I met her, she never look at my sexy body, my big preek(which I sent to her out of desperation ) and my sweet mouth. All she cared for was her career. Then I changed my stance and believed there are superior female animals.

kiddoiLL:
Sorry ma that that's how you really think, I'm sorry I can't help you. So according to your logic, all men prefer dumb or weak women right? Personally I can't even date a lady who's not not smart or innovative and matured, it's a buzzkill for me and this fact makes me selective, ma'm no way I'm considering going out on a date with you if you're one dumb person..This your comment us part of why guys will still tell you that you have nothing to offer them except sex, might hurt but it's the truth.. Having a smart, innovative, strong and loving woman is a blessing every man wants, who wants to end up with a woman that's below average for the rest of his life?? Lol I can't explain shît to you though.. I'm sorry you've encountered all the men who want you to be less smarter than they are. I'm really sorry ooo, the day you find out that a guy doesn't want you to grow into a better, smart and innovative woman, you should know you have to run for your life..but well since every man wants a weak and not so smart woman, feel free to be that woman

Possessedchild:
Like how ladies create some assumptive remarks about my lifestyle.

Some men even assume I am homosexual because I like to look sexy.

I detest assumptions please.

Back to the topic. I used to have some ingrained prejudice against women, because from roaming throughout the earth, going back and forth on it, I have not seen any lady who has something to bring to the table than breast and ass. They strongly believe it is a treasure the creator has endowed them with, to weather the financial storms of life. Use what you have to get what you want.

But recently I met a covenant university babe who is a Summer Analyst at Goldmansach, London. Mehn, my raised shoulders came down. Since I met her, she never look at my sexy body, my big preek(which I sent to her out of desperation ) and my sweet mouth. All she cared for was her career. Then I changed my stance and believed there are superior female animals.

funmisticqueen:
have you heard of feminine energy and how it heals and complements masculine energy? Ask any man who provides for his woman in a healthy relationship. They won't use my terms but they will agree.

Ask any reasonable man who was unfaithful and his partner left him or showed immense displeasure by withdrawal. There is that thing that je ne sais quoi, that a woman brings to the table that makes men a better version of themselves

funmisticqueen:
Sweetie you don't have to be smart to be able to hold meaningful conversation. Let me rephrase my statement.Men hardly date women who are smarter than them. Smart women have noticed this and have adapted by dumbing down to their level. It is not a matter of what I think but what I have experienced

Eagba:
You never mention anything about you that shows good or strong character. That's why after seeing a girl that might be slightly strong, you became gelatinous

SweetBuns:
The average nigerian male has been stereotyped and programmed by society to have some bad assumptions about the female gender.

1. Any female that tries to be unique and different i.e Focusing on her career and goals rather than staying at home is quickly termed a bitter woman aka Feminist
This is very true and it is also very evident on this site. Any woman who holds an opinion contrary to that of the males is quickly tagged a bitter woman and shame to society. Try to rear you head up as a woman and they will quickly try to pull you down. That is why some men in this country will never like to see their wives prosper more than them. They will always try to pull her down and bind her with wild societal beliefs like...
"YOU SHOULDNT BE WORKING ANYMORE FOR NOW. YOU HAVE CHILDREN TO TAKE CARE OF. STAY AT HOME WOMAN!"
Some men even take it too far in banning their wives from working at all. Especially if she is richer that him. No work at hand, she will be needy of money and the same men will turn round and call us parasites. Its sickening.



2. Most guys think like this, "IF YOU HAVE MONEY AND BIG DICK, GIRLS WILL FLOCK YOU

This is also very evident on this site as most guys tend to think that if you have money and a big phallus, girls Will follow you around like flies. This is as funny as it is untrue. I don't know about other girls but I myself despise big dicks. Its very painful. My ex had one and I never liked to perform coitus with him. Average is okay and good for girls like me.
And about the money part, most things actually needed and very important for a woman can't be bought with money. We women are creatures of many needs and many layers, and these layers need different needs. Most of which money cannot buy. So not all girls can be freaked out with bundles of cash. Only the loose ones behave like that.


3. ONCE A WOMAN CLOCKS 25 AND ABOVE, SHE HAS BECOME " EVENING NEWSPAPER"
I personally hate this one like shit and only the ignorant use this phrase and thinks they're right.
It has been scientifically proven that woman ovulate I.e produce eggs well into their late twenties and thirties and even fourties for the lucky ones (its somehow rare). So I wonder why some men would open their mouths and say a woman that's 15-20 years away from menopause is "evening newspaper".


P.S :- I dont expect my own opinions to work with every woman or man and I don't expect everyone to agree with me. Kindly observe constructive criticism as you reply. Female bashers are not allowed to comment on this. Thank you.

Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

theapeman4:
one thing I know is that Nigeria women are very stvpid!

your assumptions you are claiming is wrong are all true base on the fact that this assumptions are base on Naija Women!

our contemporary Naija women are useless piece of shiit who can open their smelly leg just for a piece of paper!

Naija women are fish minded creature with no future ambitions

funmisticqueen:
have you heard of feminine energy and how it heals and complements masculine energy? Ask any man who provides for his woman in a healthy relationship. They won't use my terms but they will agree.

Ask any reasonable man who was unfaithful and his partner left him or showed immense displeasure by withdrawal. There is that thing that je ne sais quoi, that a woman brings to the table that makes men a better version of themselves

funmisticqueen:
Sweetie you don't have to be smart to be able to hold meaningful conversation. Let me rephrase my statement. Men hardly date women who are smarter than them. Smart women have noticed this and have adapted by dumbing down to their level. It is not a matter of what I think but what I have experienced

mrphysics:
This is a highlevel statement that you can't prove. First, there is no absolute definition of being smart. Most people define smartness as being intelligent. To women/ladies, smartness is the ability to manipulate people and go away unhurt.

So your source of the conclusion above stems from your personal experience which is negligible.

So lets start this conversation by working with the dictionary definition of smartness.
Smartness is defined a[b]s having or showing a quick-witted intelligence[/b]

The above definition isn't still absolute seeing there is no absolute intelligence. So how did you come up with your statement that men hardly date women who are smarter than them. How do you know one is smarter?

theapeman4:
hello!

I have been reading your comments so far and I have deduce that you lack common sense. take this as a good news for someone to simply lack common sense for this is the beginning of your downfall together with those who lack common sense around you!

kiddoiLL:
Olufunmi I understand you but you're still wrong to say it's all men. And I'm not talking bout holding conversations alone, like I said in my first comment on this thread, I've seen women, smart, strong and all the good who are married and are in beautiful homes and happy homes. The key is balancing it, don't end up disrespecting your family or husband just because you're smart and all that.. plus any guy scared of being with a woman that's smart and all that has inferiority complex. I mean as partners aren't we supposed to help each other become the best versions of ourselves? Not all men treat and see women the way you first stated please

adahgold:
I respect women alot infact all types irrespective of what you do but i have a problem with some which is character, disrespect and foolish mentality. When i say mentality imagine giving a girl 30k and before you know it she will tag you a maga and all sort of things. I love women! Respect to those that have there esteem intact.

Possessedchild:
My dear, I used to be A student before addiction soiled my dreams . I am rising on the low now after rehabilitation in Kenya. The lady in question is a first class student with several accomplishments added to her profile. But Covenant babes sabi book no be small. I have another one at Chase bank as well. I opine Covenant University remains the number 1 college in Nigeria. I see the school's academic structure rising to meet international standards.

Nothing can 'shake' there decent parade. It seems you have never met a strong woman before. You will melt like ice VII transitioning into VI. Goldman Sachs no be akamu. I even applied to the Goldman Sachs Africa recruiting initiative for Nigeria and Ghana students few years ago but my application was rejected .

Folake is the babe's middle name. I have got babes in Accenture Nigeria, KPMG Nigeria and recently one joined NLNG Nigeria but I no dey feel them. But Folake too dey make my brain go tinrintinrin.

I am not strong though however the spectrum of beings I belong to, is not the lower humans'.

Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

Earthbound:
My babyyy!

Saffi:
Hey

Earthbound:
I thought the mod might be lenient with you and reduce your ban. I wasn't sure if this was really you