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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by LesbianBoy(m): 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2018

Before you all start insulting her that's how most Nigerian girls reason. They don't respect poor or average guys only rich guys.

grin

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by chloride6: 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2018

Eh?

Wetin man no go hear..

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by addictiv(m): 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2018

Re u successful as Oprah winfery, or kendal jenner or Kim k. Imagine duck fowl looking for accolades meant for eagles.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by SAMBARRY: 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2018

Cynthia,that's your personal decision,your prerogative and your husbands, please keep it to yourself. Every adult has the right to choose the way he or she wants to live his life.

I'm a woman but please women,ladies,make this world easier ,less complicated and better by learning to keep however you want to live your life to yourself, that's why we're from different families, educational backgrounds,religion and ethnic groups.many of your opinions are always subjective, biased and sometimes not pragmatic.

I'm also a fan of women having the right to choose the name they want to bear after marriage but I won't shove it down another woman's throat. Learn to mind your business abeg

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Sushsu7: 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2018

Women conive with devil in exchange for carnal knowledge and destroy this world (garden of eden)more baby mama loading

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by lexy2014: 8:04pm On Dec 29, 2018

Oluromantic:
But the unsuccessful man is buoyant enough to pay your full bride price. Madam you're covetous!

Marriage is not by force, you don't have to condition your love with unnecessary ill-points.

Just leave her. She's one new wannabe feminist. She go soon tire. Remember, she's d one that said men should stop urinating in public

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by FearlessDapsin(m): 8:04pm On Dec 29, 2018

Inasmuch as his children will bear his name, you're inconsequential. Next post.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Vado(m): 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2018

No single female input on this thread. Guess she's echoing their thoughts.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Newboss(m): 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2018

No lady with an iota of dignity should change her name to any man's angry

That's the first thing I'd expose my daughters to angry

A world where women are free indeed angry

You can't change your name to my name, no even reason am angry

Keep your identity, and I keep mine angry

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Daeylar(f): 8:06pm On Dec 29, 2018

She is damn right about this

I think it's unnecessary to force a lady to change her name after marrige just to please her man

As for this, Her prerogative.... "I will not take the surname of my partner except i'm guaranteed that using his name opens doors that my name wont."

Opera winfery Kendell Jenner or Kardashians changing to a nobody just because of marriage

Changing name to a nobody? shocked

so because the name isn't famous she will refer to a name of someone she choose to marry as a nobody?
That "nobody" is vey harsh, too harsh.

Opera Winfrey no dey find husband first of all, so no need to use her as an example.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 29, 2018

Her opinion.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by SAMBARRY: 8:06pm On Dec 29, 2018

Ranchhoddas:
Even if his name would open doors yours can't it is still not necessary to take it. Just say you are his wife abi?

Attention seekers everywhere.

exactly. So if for example she married adenuga,she wants to tell me she won't be ranting everywhere both to those who care to listen and those who dont that she's Mrs adenuga.Cynthia,biko shut up,you don't have a valid point and its not every issue that is relevant

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Omoluabi16(m): 8:08pm On Dec 29, 2018

1minute of fame achieved. She knows she'll never do that. All these idiots on Twitter trying to outdo themselves with stupid opinions just to trend.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by SAMBARRY: 8:08pm On Dec 29, 2018

Vado:
No single female input on this thread. Guess she's echoing their thoughts.

I'm female,read my post/opinion.She's chasing irrelevancies as far as I'm concerned

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by frankmoney(m): 8:09pm On Dec 29, 2018

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by madridsta007(m): 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2018

Amakavula:
Twitter user Cynthia Lolo has sparked an important debate about marriage abouy ladies taking their husband's name after marrige, especially those of less successful spouses.

Tweeting Cynthia states that:

"I will not take the surname of my partner except i'm guaranteed that using his name opens doors that my name wont" pic.twitter.com/E2bp2Qu8ot
— Lolo Cynthia (@Lolo_cy) December 29, 2018

I think it's unnecessary to force a lady to change her name after marrige just to please her man especially it is a famous one; imagine Opera winfery or Kendell Jenner or Kardashians changing to a nobody just because of marriage

LOL.

Hopefully she does not get married so that she will not be faced with the arduous task of determining if a name can open doors or not. Very difficult task she needs to be saved from.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2018

Another feminist on the loose

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by victrick105: 8:12pm On Dec 29, 2018

Marie currie kept her husbands name and still continued making scientific breakthroughs even after her husbands death, Hillary Clinton still bears her husbands name and is a force to reckon with in the world of politics...so many great women never raised such silly points, but this days the internet has given every irrelevant individual the voice to spew trash, it's troubling to see that the feminist of this days are more of anti men than fighters of women's rights

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Damfostopper(m): 8:12pm On Dec 29, 2018

with her face like quava.... most girls are not naturally meant to have sense

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by rame18(f): 8:13pm On Dec 29, 2018

She is not a feminist, I repeat again. She is not a feminist..... She is one bitter retard looking for whom to bear her frustration.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:13pm On Dec 29, 2018

There will be yet another Shiloh in ten years time for people like her. So she can attend with her right senses then.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by frozen70(f): 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2018

Like you said partner

Partner is different from husband
If you won't change your surname because you are not sure if your husband surname will open doors,
that means your own surname wasn't even enough to open windows.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by ajayiopy: 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2018

AS A MAN IF YOU WASTE YOUR ENERGY ON IMPRESSING A WOMAN,YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME AND ENERGY.
GUY BE WISE,POVERTY DEPRIVE MAN FROM EVERY RIGHTS AND PRIVILEGES.DO ANYTHING POSITIVE TO BE RICH AS A MAN

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2018

rame18:
She is not a feminist, I repeat again. She is not a feminist..... She is one bitter retard looking for whom to bear her frustration.

I agree with you very seriously.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Ogaga87(m): 8:15pm On Dec 29, 2018

Jobless ugly pikin

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by bossrillboss: 8:15pm On Dec 29, 2018

d gurl mumu sha...make she cum receive na.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Onyi22(f): 8:15pm On Dec 29, 2018

Y did I even open the post?

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:16pm On Dec 29, 2018

frozen70:
Like you said partner

Partner is different from husband
If you won't change your surname because you are not sure if your husband surname will open doors,
that means your own surname wasn't even enough to open windows.

I had to borrow pen to write down your wisdom.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Ketaokeipheoma: 8:17pm On Dec 29, 2018

Auxtin85:
You won’t even have a husband in future

she is already a baby mama to one uncle,she prefered babymama to been a wife,so no need of attacking her again

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Awesomefred32(m): 8:17pm On Dec 29, 2018

get sense

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:18pm On Dec 29, 2018

Lordofthewest:
With useless girls like this one our generation is so fvcked, if you're too big/proud to take your husbands name because he ain't rich why not just stay in your father's house and continue washing plate. Guys in this country go through a lot first we have to deal with buhari/bad economy and now we have to add useless b#tches to the list of our worries.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by toprealman: 8:18pm On Dec 29, 2018

Dating or marrying a spouse with poverty mentality can be some else.

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