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I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 6:21pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Twitter user Cynthia Lolo has sparked an important debate about marriage abouy ladies taking their husband's name after marrige, especially those of less successful spouses. Tweeting Cynthia states that:
https://mobile.twitter.com/Lolo_cy/status/1078906291249168384 I think it's unnecessary to force a lady to change her name after marrige just to please her man especially it is a famous one; imagine Opera winfery or Kendell Jenner or Kardashians changing to a nobody just because of marriage 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Ranchhoddas: 6:31pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Even if his name would open doors yours can't it is still not necessary to take it. Just say you are his wife abi? Attention seekers everywhere. Modified: I am FTC. Where is my gift? 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:31pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
why would she even get married, if she thinks in such a poor way? 185 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Larryfest(m): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Hmm..... I hear they call some ladies evening newspaper well let's just say they will even be better than you if you keep up with this mentality... 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:41pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Amakavula: The question is, IS YOUR OWN SURNAME OPENING DOORS FOR YOU ? 117 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 6:44pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
God. I don't know how you'll do it. But please let my Onyibo wife have sense. Amen. 66 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Oluromantic: 6:48pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
But the unsuccessful man is buoyant enough to pay your full bride price. Madam you're covetous! Marriage is not by force, you don't have to condition your love with unnecessary ill-points. 48 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Slazim: 7:40pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Well that should not be a problem if she would pay her own bride price, she can then add her surname to her surname. 48 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by achimsemrys(m): 7:57pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
why not remain single 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Auxtin85(m): 7:58pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
You won’t even have a husband in future 15 Likes |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by OyiboOyibo(m): 7:58pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Rubbish post |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Modupex(f): 7:58pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
This generation though. 16 Likes |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by babyfaceafrica: 7:58pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
noted!!...I don't know why a reasonable man will marry a lady like this sef..no beauty,no intelligence, no usefulness...nansense!!! 67 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by shachris02: 7:58pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
air head feminists are so irrigating. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by narrowpathy(m): 7:59pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Well, if I buy you (brideprice) you must use my name. However if I marry you free of charge without payment to any in laws then you're free to answer your ancestors name if you so desire 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by sapeleboi(m): 7:59pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
very soon this fool will go to show and be holding wizkid dick on stage 55 Likes
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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by martineverest(m): 7:59pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
bloggers are behind that Twitter handle 1 Like |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Newboss(m): 7:59pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:Why don't men take the lady's name? 3 Likes |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by lilmax(m): 7:59pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
the ugly ones always think they have opinion but the fact is its her choice of words, the only problem I'll have is the man marrying her, he'd be so low in life, and lack self esteem 6 Likes |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Jeromejnr(m): 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Modupex: One of the worst in history. Youths that are airheads. Deprived of wisdom. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Built2last: 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Take a closer look at her. She doesn't look okay. 5 Likes |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by franchasng: 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Lol, there is logic in what she is saying, so in a way, I support her partially if and only if her own father's name is worth it and opens doors for her, but if her father is a palm wine tapper, or quack doctor working at one general hospital, she must change it by force Nigerian ladies are evolving oh, Naija guys need to restrategize asap 4 Likes |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by kayc0(f): 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by ednut1(m): 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Why marry then. Social media sha |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by nairalandfreak(m): 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Evening Newspaper Loading... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
It's a wawu |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by frankfrancis871: 8:01pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Was your father successful? Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. Settled... 1 Like |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Newboss(m): 8:01pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Oluromantic: And the man doesn't have to either 1 Like |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by samcus(m): 8:01pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
I don't know who you are but I think sense is very far from you MISS 5 Likes |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Mofo! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Lordofthewest(m): 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
With useless girls like this one our generation is so fvcked, if you're too big/proud to take your husbands name because he ain't rich why not just stay in your father's house and continue washing plate. Guys in this country go through a lot first we have to deal with buhari/bad economy and now we have to add useless b#tches to the list of our worries. 51 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by AdemolaA2: 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Below , is just what you need ok .. 4 Likes
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