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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Vado(m): 8:20pm On Dec 29, 2018

SAMBARRY:
I'm female,read my post/opinion.She's chasing irrelevancies as far as I'm concerned

Seen that now. You made some sense.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 29, 2018

Problem gbogbo yin niyen!

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Hotfreezer: 8:22pm On Dec 29, 2018

Feminists and dumb ladies are avoiding this thread like Ebola.

The few ladies who have contributed have sense.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by JJOF(m): 8:27pm On Dec 29, 2018

Newboss:
Why don't men take the lady's name?

Why dnt ladies pay GROOMprice?

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by oluwasegun007(m): 8:27pm On Dec 29, 2018

If you get one to give you name...yeye

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 29, 2018

Why you no kuku marry your Papa? Anyway this one na attention seeker. All thanks to social media and cheap internet data, anybody can post any weed inspired thought anyhow...........Mtcheeeeew!!!!

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by zicoraads: 8:37pm On Dec 29, 2018

People place so much value on financials to the detriment of any other thing these days. This explains why the world, especially ours is going to hell.

People should instead focus on things like what values does he/she have? Is he/she empathetic and goal driven?!

Money may not always be there, even for those who are very rich. What will always be are the strong qualities and good values that is the person's character.

I wish her all the best. She'll be needing it.

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Dayoara: 8:37pm On Dec 29, 2018

I think the key to your room in your father's house is still with you...hold it till old age....yeyeyeye

Oluromantic:
But the unsuccessful man is buoyant enough to pay your full bride price. Madam you're covetous!

Marriage is not by force, you don't have to condition your love with unnecessary ill-points.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Babinski: 8:43pm On Dec 29, 2018

If you consider your husband as a nobody and yo married him nonetheless, then you must be the biggest of fools!

Some ladies really have a terrible mindset. And more than often, this mindset is their undoing whether they realize it or not.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:44pm On Dec 29, 2018

Of course she's right. Men are use.less

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by juniorstar(m): 8:48pm On Dec 29, 2018

Which name is she even talking about sef , ibukun Awosika is a very successful woman yet she still acknowledges her husband wherever she finds herself. You are not yet a billionaire you are already showing urself. When u become one u might as well lock up ur husband so dat ppl would not know him. Radarada o$hi!!

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2018

Amakavula:
Twitter user Cynthia Lolo has sparked an important debate about marriage abouy ladies taking their husband's name after marrige, especially those of less successful spouses.

Tweeting Cynthia states that:

https://mobile.twitter.com/Lolo_cy/status/1078906291249168384

I think it's unnecessary to force a lady to change her name after marrige just to please her man especially it is a famous one; imagine Opera winfery or Kendell Jenner or Kardashians changing to a nobody just because of marriage

Just marry a pauper grin

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by barristerzinny(f): 8:53pm On Dec 29, 2018

frankfrancis871:

Was your father successful?

Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves to
your own husbands as you do to
the Lord.

Settled...

Husband love and respect your wife, as you love the church. Is not by force to take the last name of a man, why most women do it is because of legal issues.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by PStacks(m): 8:54pm On Dec 29, 2018

https://www.nairaland.com/4926456/growing-ugly-trend-amongst-married

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by realgideon(m): 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2018

This idiot just want to trend make una no bother una sef

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by bigtt76(f): 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2018

Don't mind them feminists! Always trying to guilty trip children of the well to do who took their husband's surname into thinking they err by doing so. What rocks your boat dear.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by FATBAYO(m): 8:56pm On Dec 29, 2018

By d tym she clock 35 she will realize what examiner mean by tym up.u go surrender urself to any man by age 40

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 29, 2018

An alpha male or a white guy will be well suited for this babe.

Typical negroes will throw tantrums because their lives revolves around women.

No woman= useless

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by frozen70(f): 9:04pm On Dec 29, 2018

princeking2:

I had to borrow pen to write down your wisdom.

Thanks, am blushing.
Laughing mode activated

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by PStacks(m): 9:05pm On Dec 29, 2018

Amakavula:
Twitter user Cynthia Lolo has sparked an important debate about marriage abouy ladies taking their husband's name after marrige, especially those of less successful spouses.

Tweeting Cynthia states that:

https://mobile.twitter.com/Lolo_cy/status/1078906291249168384

I think it's unnecessary to force a lady to change her name after marrige just to please her man especially it is a famous one; imagine Opera winfery or Kendell Jenner or Kardashians changing to a nobody just because of marriage

I even wrote about it sef on dis thread Here;

https://www.nairaland.com/4926456/growing-ugly-trend-amongst-married..

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Isokoboy(m): 9:07pm On Dec 29, 2018

we nor beg u...

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by nonjebose(m): 9:10pm On Dec 29, 2018

frozen70:
Like you said partner

Partner is different from husband
If you won't change your surname because you are not sure if your husband surname will open doors,
that means your own surname wasn't even enough to open windows.

Well said! Very wise observation.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:13pm On Dec 29, 2018

Newboss:
Why don't men take the lady's name?

The important question you should have asked is why does she even want to get married? It certainly ain't to "become ONE" aka a family. So why even waste time getting married, since she won't get any benefit from that act either?

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by mastermaestro(m): 9:21pm On Dec 29, 2018

zicoraads:
People place so much value on financials to the detriment of any other thing these days. This explains why the world, especially ours is going to hell.

People should instead focus on things like what values does he/she have? Is he/she empathetic and goal driven?!

Money may not always be there, even for those who are very rich. What will always be are the strong qualities and good values that is the person's character.

I wish her all the best. She'll be needing it.

You have written wisdom. The value placed on money the days is outrageously dangerous. The world is going down the abyss.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Oluromantic: 9:49pm On Dec 29, 2018

Dayoara:
I think the key to your room in your father's house is still with you...hold it till old age....yeyeyeye

I live in my apartment mustard brain!

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by junnyjake(m): 9:51pm On Dec 29, 2018

Ranchhoddas:
Even if his name would open doors yours can't it is still not necessary to take it. Just say you are his wife abi?

Attention seekers everywhere.

Modified: I am FTC.

Where is my gift?

@ your sig, wow, you read Osho too.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Ranchhoddas: 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2018

junnyjake:

@ your sig, wow, you read Osho too.

Yeah I do.
Very funny and insightful guru.

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by WaffenSS(m): 10:08pm On Dec 29, 2018

What's happening to women?

All these revelations...

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by kitone: 10:10pm On Dec 29, 2018

Baby ma

narrowpathy:
Well, if I buy you (brideprice) you must use my name. However if I marry you free of charge without payment to any in laws then you're free to answer your ancestors name if you so desire

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Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by Nobody: 10:12pm On Dec 29, 2018

frankfrancis871:

Was your father successful?

Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves to
your own husbands as you do to
the Lord.

Settled...

complete your statement with the nexy verse. mtcheeeeew

Re: I Won't Take My Future Husband's Name Unless He's More Successful-Cynthia Lolo by AmazonHippolyta(f): 10:18pm On Dec 29, 2018

victrick105:
Marie currie kept her husbands name and still continued making scientific breakthroughs even after her husbands death, Hillary Clinton still bears her husbands name and is a force to reckon with in the world of politics...so many great women never raised such silly points, but this days the internet has given every irrelevant individual the voice to spew trash, it's troubling to see that the feminist of this days are more of anti men than fighters of women's rights

Chimamanda and Co that did not change their own names after marriage.
Are they not still successful and breaking glass ceilings.It has nothing to do with your success story.
Change of name is a choice and not a must.

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