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It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Barayeks(op): 4:38am On Dec 31, 2018
There are a lot of females who cannot bring themselves to admit that their first sexual encounter was in fact consensual, and one of the reasons is the demonization of sex by the society that mostly concentrate on females and very little on males, there are two major effects of this demonization of sex that concentrates on females.
1) It gives them a certain level of control over their sexual urges so much more than guys who are let to run loose and turn out to be sex crazed men.
2) When they finally have sex (and they must, demonization or not) there's a strong guilt that comes with it for them seeing as they've been taught most of their lives to guard it preciously.
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Number 2 is the reason most females lie to themselves and ultimately to anyone who cares to know that she was drunk as Bleep when it happened....or she was high as Bleep when it happened, there are very few cases where you'd meet a Nigerian girl who tells you her first time was awesome and it was with this guy she really liked. There's always a story of victim-hood along with it. This isn't to take away from the fact that some could actually have been raped, but you see that thing some girls do? saying a sluggish no but lifting her waist so her pants can be easily taken of?
Don't Bleep with chicks like that, girls who are indecisive... you are about to become a lead character in one of her imaginary stories of being taken advantage of, cos that's how she deals with the guilt she feels every time she has sex.
Blame it on the alcohol, blame it on the smoke, blame everything and everyone else but herself.

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Re: It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Abbeysunday(m): 4:50am On Dec 31, 2018
Thank u OP....I was a victim of this,
Re: It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Barayeks(op): 6:02am On Dec 31, 2018
Abbeysunday:
Thank u OP....I was a victim of this,
You're welcome bro...many of us have.
Re: It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Nobody: 6:54am On Dec 31, 2018
Barayeks:
There are a lot of females who cannot bring themselves to admit that their first sexual encounter was in fact consensual, and one of the reasons is the demonization of sex by the society that mostly concentrate on females and very little on males, there are two major effects of this demonization of sex that concentrates on females.
1) It gives them a certain level of control over their sexual urges so much more than guys who are let to run loose and turn out to be sex crazed men.
2) When they finally have sex (and they must, demonization or not) there's a strong guilt that comes with it for them seeing as they've been taught most of their lives to guard it preciously.
.
Number 2 is the reason most females lie to themselves and ultimately to anyone who cares to know that she was drunk as Bleep when it happened....or she was high as Bleep when it happened, there are very few cases where you'd meet a Nigerian girl who tells you her first time was awesome and it was with this guy she really liked. There's always a story of victim-hood along with it. This isn't to take away from the fact that some could actually have been raped, but you see that thing some girls do? saying a sluggish no but lifting her waist so her pants can be easily taken of?
Don't Bleep with chicks like that, girls who are indecisive... you are about to become a lead character in one of her imaginary stories of being taken advantage of, cos that's how she deals with the guilt she feels every time she has sex.
Blame it on the alcohol, blame it on the smoke, blame everything and everyone else but herself.

by Bara Yekorogha
IG: @Bara.tone
Twitter: @IamBaratone
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#mgtownigeria #mgtow #woke #himtoo #mentoo #redpill #redpillnation #naija #news #lol #toxicfemininity #toxic #seasongreetings #parasitesandleeches #battleofthesexes #parasiticrelationships #afropop #monday #mondaymotivation #mcm #mce #crossover #newyear #newyearseve #dec31st
MGTOW. the male version of feminists, aren't your kind supposed to stay off sex so that you can find direction in life at your own pace? You guys should just call yourself monks and be done with it
Re: It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Barayeks(op): 10:10am On Dec 31, 2018
funmisticqueen:
MGTOW. the male version of feminists, aren't your kind supposed to stay off sex so that you can find direction in life at your own pace? You guys should just call yourself monks and be done with it
Well there are stages to it....and we actually call those who avoid any contact with females monks.
The regular mgtow still interact with females and even date them but with knowledge of feminine guile and manipulative ways....it's only possible if she's a redpill female.
Re: It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Nobody: 10:32am On Dec 31, 2018
Barayeks:
Well there are stages to it....and we actually call those who avoid any contact with females monks.
The regular mgtow still interact with females and even date them but with knowledge of feminine guile and manipulative ways....it's only possible if she's a redpill female.
for the female, it is the pink pill,it gives us all the benefits of the red pill without the side effect of compromising our femininity.

Besides most MGTOW are beta men or at most pseudo alphas.
Re: It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Barayeks(op): 1:25pm On Dec 31, 2018
funmisticqueen:
for the female, it is the pink pill,it gives us all the benefits of the red pill without the side effect of compromising our femininity.

Besides most MGTOW are beta men or at most pseudo alphas.
Hahaha, I'll be honest and agree that most MGTOW are beta males, mr nice guys who have been hurt and cheated on in the past also some are divorcees who had everything they've worked for stolen from them by biased court systems.
But there are also those of us lucky not to have gone through the worst before discovering the movement...I've always been mgtow oriented even before there was a name for it, I've never seen any sense in allowing yourself get finessed in the name of love....if that's truly love why isn't she allowing me finesse her for cash as well? Lol. It got terribly bad after I came across the book "the manipulated man" by Esther Vilar. Nobody could tell me nothing.
I think pseudo alpha is what best describes me....I just use the mgtow knowledge to stay several steps ahead since females these days want to make relationships a game.
Re: It Wasn't Rape And Nobody Took Advantage Of You. by Nobody: 1:26pm On Dec 31, 2018
Abbeysunday:
Thank u OP....I was a victim of this,
Me too!!!
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