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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by dannybomb(m): 10:52am On Jan 04, 2019
you can still get married and pursue your ambition, ask sarkodie how he did it. you get girl wey dey work for oando and dey send your mom airtime you dey complain. if I tear you slap eh
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by melanch(m): 10:52am On Jan 04, 2019
Stories like this won't even allow me to finish them.....bla...bla...bla
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by theapeman4: 10:52am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?
i would advise you to calm down and go with her, but I realize she is a Nigerian woman!

I hate naija women with passion because there are worthless piece of shiits undecided

so now my deduction is that during her youthful days she must have been collecting diiiiick for useless boys and now she want to secure her future by settling down!


my advice for you is to forget that biitch and concentrate on your future. no black women can make your dream come true except you and you alone.


let yansh be yansh and keep pressing towards your future
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by jagaban17: 10:52am On Jan 04, 2019
How Old are You? You sound like a Child. When that girl leaves you, you'll be the one to regret it.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Michealee: 10:52am On Jan 04, 2019
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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by SmartMen: 10:52am On Jan 04, 2019
robinso01:
In my own point of view, I see nothing bad in what she did at all, she did it on her own ,bro I'd advice you to stick with the girl, majority of the girls outside now can't do what she did, all they want is money everytime,pls pick her call.
leave the Mumu guy.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by havilla(f): 10:53am On Jan 04, 2019
I don’t get, what exactly did she do wrong? Or did you miss some parts of the story?
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by WIZDOM081(m): 10:53am On Jan 04, 2019
U must be stupid for playing with innocent slayqueen heart.

Is she disturbing you to get marry right now?

In fact, send her number here, u must be stupid
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Beremx(f):
You don't know the value of what you have till you lose it. So sending your mother airtime means she's tying you down? Not that she's pregnant for you.

Nonsense
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Ashmark(m): 10:53am On Jan 04, 2019
It’s immaturity that is worry you at OP.

I wonder how a Lady that works in Oando is dating you. So your intention is to waste her time and after you make that money and fck her finish you will not see any good in her again.

You are the definition of a FUCKBOY!!!
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by obainojazz(m):
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?
your mother likes her, Abi you want to leave her and follow one olodo person. Seems she deserves better than you sef undecided
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by babyfaceafrica: 10:54am On Jan 04, 2019
sammyj:
If she is the right woman for you then why not go ahead with the marriage which always comes with it's own blessing as well.
and its own troubles and curses?....that guy is not ready for marriage
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Damfostopper(m): 10:55am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?
how old are you
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by babyphaze07(m): 10:55am On Jan 04, 2019
You are callous ooooo. Two years...... it's enough for dating. Why don't you tell her you don't want her in your life for the next decades rather keeping her now.
If you don't want to settle down now, tell her to f**k off.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Nobody: 10:55am On Jan 04, 2019
Just Take Your Time & Make It Work.Not All Relationships End In Marriage.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by babyfaceafrica: 10:56am On Jan 04, 2019
Ashmark:
It’s immaturity that is worry you at OP.

I wonder how a Lady that works in Oando is dating you. So your intention is to waste her time and after you make that money and fck her finish you will not see any good in her again.

You are the definition of a FUCKBOY!!!
I don't blame the OP..at least he was honest and sincere enougj to let the lady know he is not ready for.marriage...why is the gal still staying with him?...if the lady wants something serious,she should have left
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Godsgal(f): 10:56am On Jan 04, 2019
And this happens to be the same person that bragged about his achievements earlier. what else do u wish to achieve before u finally settle mr banger
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by benratigan3(m): 10:56am On Jan 04, 2019
publicenemy:
you are a fool.
a terrible fool at that.... he is forming like he is gold
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Lexusgs430: 10:57am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?
Why have you tied her down for 2 years? What is the essence of a relationship?
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Otakom87(m): 10:57am On Jan 04, 2019
You have defined the relationship from the beginning. So anything she does now should not bother you. But wait oh you want chop but you no want commit abi? Amadioha is watching you.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by jeff1607(m): 10:57am On Jan 04, 2019
some guys are just plain dumb and stupid

the girl doesn't deserve you.

don't waste her time

flowers are meant to be on not kept to die

come back in 3years and you would understand
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Sholaco: 10:57am On Jan 04, 2019
Well, with what u posted here I see nothing wrong in her attitude towards your mother, she s just trying to be kind to ur own mother and that s because she love and respect U, a lot of slayer out there do not give a bleep about your relatives. So what are u now saying? Don't get a wrong impression of her please. I will advise you not to date your wife and then go ahead tomorrow and married your girlfriend! Wife material s far different from girlfriend material o undecided
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by toogbasky(m): 10:58am On Jan 04, 2019
I am still trying to find out what she did wrong, just tell us you don’t like her,,
I see no trapping there
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by chiefolododo(m): 10:59am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Viking007(m): 10:59am On Jan 04, 2019
ShenTeh:
These actions diminish with age.

Save this post. Come back to read it in 5 years time and advice yourself.
Brilliant! cheesy
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Christafarian(m):
"Give her another chance?" I don't get it, what has she done in the first place?

Oh! I guess her wrongs are;
1. Caring for you before & after being robbed despite her privileged status.
2. Loving & expressing same to your mum.
3. Not being conscious of her fortunate status as to dump you for another guy.
4. Thinking you are the only nice guy worthy of being loved in the whole world.
5. Thinking she can't find any other "marryable" guy in the whole world.

I see nothing in ur post other than some childish, happy-go-lucky, selfish and ego-massaging man seeking to validate a psychotic intention.

Nonsense.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 04, 2019
publicenemy:
you are a fool.
A big one
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 10:59am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?
your girlfriend is funny. Why would she still be with a man that is obviously wasting her time seeing that she is getting older especially with the fact that women do not age as well as men do? Bruh cut her lose so she can get ahead with life while you are still finding your bearings. It will only be nice of you to let her go. You sir are the one tying her down with an aimless relationship.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Buskete(m): 10:59am On Jan 04, 2019
ShenTeh:
These actions diminish with age.

Save this post. Come back to read it in 5 years time and advice yourself.
Very Good advice.... Small Pikin dey worry am
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Brugo(m): 11:00am On Jan 04, 2019
You are either very smart or very stupid.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by ephraim18(m): 11:00am On Jan 04, 2019
u are no mature at all and expect her to clock her menopause before she marry abi. wonder y some homely and gud girls fall into the wrong hands of some bloody assliking dude like u.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by BraniacX(m): 11:00am On Jan 04, 2019
Godsgal:
And this happens to be the same person that bragged about his achievements earlier. what else do u wish to achieve before u finally settle mr banger
Chai! shocked see fyngal! I be Godsboy too oh! Make we relate i wan tell you sumtin cheesy wink kiss
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