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pocohantas:
Maybe they trust the man, not his preek.The man is different from his preek (entity concept).

That said, man was doing fine till he realized he was nakèd and has preek. Ever since then, the world has not rested. Even in your Bible, great men got into trouble because of it. Any man that can control his own, is usually a threat to some kind ladies, because that is the first place they try to use bring him down. Are there men that can control their third legs? yes there are.

Every smart business man would always make provision for bad debt, so I also leave this tiny space. We are humans after all, male and female alike.

demelza:
I hope you know married women have taken over the cheating game.

Pray not to raise another man's child.

Because it always happens to men like you who think cheating is your exclusive reserve.

Michelle55:
Never told you I went to school (didn't finish sec sch sef) .. So Mr intelligent, kindly speak for yourself. If your woman can't trust you with another Hanty.. Then it shouldn't be a general problem(that's your personal issue) there's no need using it as a yardstick to measure others.
Happy New Year!

demelza:
I am not surprised with this thread.

Toks2008 is divorced.

I only pity those who will take advice from him.

By the time you discover on your deathbed that none of your children are biologically yours, na that time you go know say women have upgraded the cheating game.

But it will be too late by then.

walebs147:
This is very true. For example, I'm a man of God and I believe it takes being filled with the Holy Spirit and praying always that provide a solution to this. Naturally men were created to be sexually attracted to women, especially when a woman is beautiful, well-dressed with nice vital-statistics. The appearance of a beautiful woman draws the attention of a any man regardless of whether he is a man of God or not. But it takes self-control, self-determination and most importantly being filled with the Holy Spirit to overcome it cos being sexually attracted to women is a force that requires a greater force to subdue. Paul says in Romans 8 vs11 "But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you."

pocohantas:
Maybe they trust the man, not his preek.The man is different from his preek (entity concept).

That said, man was doing fine till he realized he was nakèd and has preek. Ever since then, the world has not rested. Even in your Bible, great men got into trouble because of it. Any man that can control his own, is usually a threat to some kind ladies, because that is the first place they try to use bring him down. Are there men that can control their third legs? yes there are.

Every smart business man would always make provision for bad debt, so I also leave this tiny space. We are humans after all, male and female alike.

FreeTHINKER98:
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since I registered on Nairaland here, this would be my first comment. I must be sincere, you're of wider mind and deeper thought...... I give it to you

theapeman4:
I may be fvcking your future wife as we speak

Sparro:
The day women will realize or admit that the ways of men with a young woman is mysterious and their sex urge is not in anyway connected to love or emotions, then, they will learn not to EVER trust any female with their partner.

The post, which is the subject of this exchange between you and I is aimed at raising awareness (to women) about an existing phenomenon which some have denied or refuted, but it is true. Men's sexual urge cry louder than love and emotions. It sometimes overwhelms relationship ties. Some men have little control, others have firm control while some are totally loose over this urge.

Whatever category your man falls under, one thing should be clear to you. When the opportunity presents itself, even though his love for you is as thick as Zuma rock and as high as mount kilimanjaro, he will surely want to press out his pent up desires.

Michelle55:
My bf doesn't cheat We still have real men with morals and values out there. So I suggest you speak for yourself @Op. Not all men are cheats.. Period!!

Toks2008:
A woman may be married to a faithful guy but that does not mean she will trust him to be immune to succumbing to his innate passion for the opposite sex.

So if u say a man is faithful, y would d guy now then "succumb 2 his innate passion 4d opposite sex"? If that is d case, then d guy wasn't faithful in d first place cos faithfulness is not "succumbing to his innate passion for the opposite sex." Or do u have another definition of faithfulness?



Many ladies get so carried away by a guy who have been so faithful to them for years and they carelessly allow another lady to come so close to their men...

What do u expect d lady 2do? If someone is faithful in keeping ur money 4u, would u b afraid 2 entrust more money 2 him or her? U can't use faithfulness & cheating in d same situation. Its a contradiction.



Some ladies think their husbands are too porsh to look at a "dirty" maid or a common apprentice, or even a female family member until the deed is done.


Don't some men also think that their wives are too holy 2 cheat? Haven't u heard of women who cheat on their husbands with their students? Cheating isn't limited 2 men. It is a human thing


Then you start to hear the regular questions from the lady..."how could you stoop so low"....this is my point...it is a crazy mystery...any man regardless of his position can stoop below the ground level to sleep with a lady he finds attractive regardless of her status.

Then what's d way forward?

Etfash:
Trust me, the Op is right!
I'm married. I never slept with anyone before my wife and I don't intend to do so with any other woman now or in the future.

But, it takes discretion to stay committed to your spouse. Avoid unnecessary connections; don't try to be too gentlemanly: you are not the all-problems-solver; show care with wisdom and be God fearing.

In my opinion, everyone of us has tendency to cheat; but your commitment to your spouse and your God or whoever/whatever you hold sacred (God is advised) plus discretion is what will keep you away from infidelity.

lexy2014:
So what problem has this so called awareness solved?

sacramento1212:
For you to drive a car and i also drive doesn't mean the brand and condition of both cars are same.


Breast is not breast, yansh is not yansh all across, it's not the same hole and it's never the same satisfaction. If you know, you know. I'm no way encouraging people to explore but just for clarification sake.

Etfash:
Trust me, the Op is right!
I'm married. I never slept with anyone before my wife and I don't intend to do so with any other woman now or in the future.

But, it takes discretion to stay committed to your spouse. Avoid unnecessary connections; don't try to be too gentlemanly: you are not the all-problems-solver; show care with wisdom and be God fearing.

In my opinion, everyone of us has tendency to cheat; but your commitment to your spouse and your God or whoever/whatever you hold sacred (God is advised) plus discretion is what will keep you away from infidelity.

ianq:
This is the most accurate, honest, suitable and straightforward reply to an argument i have come across in a decade on this here great forum. Wow.
Well done, good sir and take good care of that brain of yours. ..well done.

Sparro:
So what problem has this so called awareness solved?
Knowledge.

You think people deliberately want to cheat on their partners to cause them pains?

selfmadeOLX:
You cheat because you WANT to. It's all in your head
Bresst is Bresst, yansh is yansh all across. It's same hole you'd dip it in whether it's fair or pinkish it's same satisfaction.
It's all in your head bruv

Only the wise will grasp

walebs147:
This is very true. For example, I'm a man of God and I believe it takes being filled with the Holy Spirit and praying always that provide a solution to this. Naturally men were created to be sexually attracted to women, especially when a woman is beautiful, well-dressed with nice vital-statistics. The appearance of a beautiful woman draws the attention of a any man regardless of whether he is a man of God or not. But it takes self-control, self-determination and most importantly being filled with the Holy Spirit to overcome it cos being sexually attracted to women is a force that requires a greater force to subdue. Paul says in Romans 8 vs11 "But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you."

mannycrown:
The phone and charger pics cracked me up big time.

Toks2008:
"When it comes to woman,i trust my man" is one of the most laughable statement that can ever come from a woman.

We read everyday of how men sleep with their maids, friends of their wives/partners...some even take it to another level by sleeping with their cousins,nieces and even their own daughters,step daughters...

The men of GOD are not left out as we read always of how pastors sleep with their members and wives of their members...we see viral intimacy videos of pastors and their girlfriends and we have seen several occasions where pastors are divorced by their WIVES as a result of adultery...and i can continue endlessly to write about the never ending tales of men crossing the line all because of their uncontrollable passion for women.

The wisest man that ever lived in this world King Solomon got so confused about this so much that he said in Proverbs 30:18-19 ►
"There are three things that are too amazing for me, the fourth I do not understand:1.the way of an eagle in the sky, 2.the way of a snake on a rock, 3.the way of a ship on the high seas, and 4.the way of a man with a young woman.

Even the fallen angels or sons of GOD as written in Genesis 6:1–4 who were not mortals could not be trusted with the daughters of men so much that they took them as wives and gave birth to giants.

So I have come to a viable conclusion that the reason no woman should trust her man with any lady is a mystery beyond human reasoning...it is an issue nobody can ever understand.

This write up is not about justifying or promoting sexual recklessness in men but as I always do...I KEEP IT REAL ...fornication and adultèry are hell bound acts.Indiscriminate sex with different women is a self destructive act every man must avoid.

But no matter how your man claims to love you, no matter the promise he makes to remain sexually faithful to you alone, no matter the level of spirituality of that man of GOD or general overseer, you can believe him and hope he stays true to his promise but NEVER AND I REPEAT...
NEVER EVER TRUST ANY MAN WITH ANY LADY...even the type of lady you can never in your wildest imagination think he could fall for.

It takes a special grace for a man to be very disciplined when it comes to his passion towards a woman. I urge every woman to always take precautions and also pray for her man. And to all the disciplined men out there i pray that GOD gives you more strength to remain strong and may GOD also help all men who are striving hard to be disciplined.

I hope this makes sense.

Toks2008:
"When it comes to woman,i trust my man" is one of the most laughable statement that can ever come from a woman.

We read everyday of how men sleep with their maids, friends of their wives/partners...some even take it to another level by sleeping with their cousins,nieces and even their own daughters,step daughters...

The men of GOD are not left out as we read always of how pastors sleep with their members and wives of their members...we see viral intimacy videos of pastors and their girlfriends and we have seen several occasions where pastors are divorced by their WIVES as a result of adultery...and i can continue endlessly to write about the never ending tales of men crossing the line all because of their uncontrollable passion for women.

The wisest man that ever lived in this world King Solomon got so confused about this so much that he said in Proverbs 30:18-19 ►
"There are three things that are too amazing for me, the fourth I do not understand:1.the way of an eagle in the sky, 2.the way of a snake on a rock, 3.the way of a ship on the high seas, and 4.the way of a man with a young woman.

Even the fallen angels or sons of GOD as written in Genesis 6:1–4 who were not mortals could not be trusted with the daughters of men so much that they took them as wives and gave birth to giants.

So I have come to a viable conclusion that the reason no woman should trust her man with any lady is a mystery beyond human reasoning...it is an issue nobody can ever understand.

This write up is not about justifying or promoting sexual recklessness in men but as I always do...I KEEP IT REAL ...fornication and adultèry are hell bound acts.Indiscriminate sex with different women is a self destructive act every man must avoid.

But no matter how your man claims to love you, no matter the promise he makes to remain sexually faithful to you alone, no matter the level of spirituality of that man of GOD or general overseer, you can believe him and hope he stays true to his promise but NEVER AND I REPEAT...
NEVER EVER TRUST ANY MAN WITH ANY LADY...even the type of lady you can never in your wildest imagination think he could fall for.

It takes a special grace for a man to be very disciplined when it comes to his passion towards a woman. I urge every woman to always take precautions and also pray for her man. And to all the disciplined men out there i pray that GOD gives you more strength to remain strong and may GOD also help all men who are striving hard to be disciplined.

I hope this makes sense.

lexy2014:
D post hasn't solved any problem. D post identifies men as cheats but puts d burden of preventing cheating on women. How's that knowledge? What type of knowledge is that? Its d same way Adam blamed God& Eve 4 his indiscretion.

D author of d thread quoted from proverbs 30 which talked about a mans weakness 4 women but didn't balance that with scripture of how Joseph overcame his own temptation. D Bible is a book that expects us 2 take responsibility 4 our actions not 2 blame or put d responsibility of our indiscretion on women.

As men, we should b ready 2do d right thing. If we say we are d head, then we should b in deed. Being an example in dignity, self control& uprightness. That is d challenge d thread ought 2 throw to men not 2b telling women to prevent men from cheating. D thread didn't address any issue